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  1. #1

    When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    I remember THE DAY. I was 12 and enjoying my new found joy of masturbating and cumming to porn. I definitely enjoyed doing so to pictures of women sucking some guy's cock, and this particular day while doing so to a Hustler pictorial I realized that I was aroused at the thought of being in that girl's position and sucking the cock. I remember it like yesterday. I felt weird.

    I spent years occasionally going "there" in my fantasies on rare, what I felt were "freaky" sessions, until another EXTREMELY horny masturbation Saturday (all day) some years ago and realized that I actually in fact wanted it to really happen in real life.

    It hasn't happened yet. It needs to. I need the right guy like me, new to it, exhilarated by the strange new approach to it, a little scared, etc.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    For me I was 14-15 not really sure of the age but i had been sucking a few cocks and enjoyed it.. but the first time I was fucked I knew I loved it.. I wanted more.. I got more.. a lot more.. for a while I rode every cock I could find.. I was cock crazy.. now being a sub bottom I still love cock.. I am just a lot more picky.. I have 5 married regulars and 2 single regular guys that keep me busy..

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    For me, it was when I was in my mid 40s (so about 15-16 years ago). I just suddenly had this weird thought of ‘what is it like to have sex with a guy?’ I mean, we had a couple of gay guys in the group I worked in, and they were were your stereotypical gays (lispy speech, weak wristed, funny walk, the whole enchilada so to speak) I used to imagine what they must do together. But I could only imagine because the internet hadn’t exploded at that point in time, and so in order to see any gay sex, or any sex for that matter, I’d have to go to an adult bookstore and buy or rent videos

    it wasn’t until the internet, that I finally explored “other” side of sex. And my curiosity became an obsession, which turned into a craving, which ultimately became what I am now. A lover of both the female form, and a lover of male to male sex

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    my 1st time ever thinking about it was 1 nite when i was 12. to my big surprise i thought of being with guys & it turned me on! i "knew" it was forbidden but i let the fantasy take me there. it was interesting & honestly it was fun to explore something society has tought me is something i should never do, or i would be considered a "faggot." it was only that 1 time untill years later. i never denied it but it was embarassing to think about it so i never did. it wasn't untill my early 20's when the thoughts came back with a vengeance. similar feelings of guilt & shame especially right after masterbating. each time i swore that was it. but the feelings kept coming back, more frequently overtime. at this point in my life i accept i have some kinda attraction to the same sex though it's still pretty confusing to me. about all i can do right now is remind myself i'm allowed to like guys, it's normal & healthy, & i'm allowed to have sex with men too as much as i'm allowed to have sex with women.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    I don't really remember one distinct moment that made me realize I was sexually attracted to men as well as women. To be honest, I think it has always been there. I have memories of thinking about women sexually as far back as I can remember. I feel like I may have always been into penises, but it was right around puberty when I figured out how to suck my own penis that I think I started consciously thinking about dicks as being sexually arousing to me. I remember really enjoying the way it felt to suck myself, but I also remember distinctly loving the taste and the feel of my penis head in my mouth. I always just came in my mouth and swallowed too, so that is something that I've always been ok with. I think for many years I didn't really think too much about it, until the subject of sex started popping up amongst my friends. Once I started understanding the nuanced social-sexual stuff going on around me I started to realize that I didn't want to share my penis infatuation with anyone for fear of being labeled gay. I always knew I wasn't gay, but try explaining that while sharing that you love penis amongst friends lol. I think I was around late teens/early twenties when I consciously realized I liked cocks, and it was around then that I started purposely seeking out porn to fulfill those desires. Right around that age I got my first computer and immediately figured out how to find pictures of dicks on the internet. And then around the age of 23 I gave an older guy a blow job, and that experience solidified my love for dicks. Since that time period I always just kept my penis lust to myself until recently sharing with my wife.

    As a side note, when I was a small boy I used to play with a childhood friend of mine. The details are fuzzy at best, but I have memories of being naked with him and touching/sucking each other. I think that experience, along with sucking my own penis for many years and watching a lot of porn during my formative years, was probably the impetus for my love of dicks.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    first time i sucked a mans cock in a 3some with him and his wife and we fucked each other in the ass decided i like both

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    I don't recall the exact moment. I had sucked a friend's cock at 13, enjoyed it. Got interested in girls not long afterward. At age 20 I was propositioned by a guy one evening. I turned down the offer and kicked have myself in the ass many times since. It may have been the night a year later when my 1st wife and I went to a bar that was reportedly bisexual. I was hoping to find a guy, my wife encouraged it. We didn't meet anyone that night.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    I was young, not sure what age. Had a sleepover with my friend, we had sleepovers all the time and always shared his bed. On this night his mother had no clean pajamas for him because the washer was broken, so he had to sleep naked. I always slept naked at home, and we were both uneducated about being gay, or sexuality. Anyway, we got in bed both naked. Laying in bed with him I kept looking at his penis, wanting to touch it. Skip ahead to high school, gym class and showers. I knew for sure I was turned on by cock

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    I started first grade when I was 5 years old. Shortly before that, I convinced another boy my age to let me suck his cock. Stopped that behavior due to the fear of extreme punishment if caught. I was totally gay oriented at that time. After many years of socialization to be a straight male I gradually became bisexual.
    JEM

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    When I was 12 I was wrestled to the floor by a friend who was a year older!!! He got my pant and underwear off and sat straddling my legs and began to jack me off! Then he removed his pants and underwear had me touch another cock besides my own and jack him off!! Then at 14 another friend spent the night with me he was a year younger and he was uncut it was an awesome feeling jacking off his uncut cock!! It lead to about 2 years of cock play between us!!! I sucked him off every chance I got!! Then one night I wanted him in my ass!! It felt so good, and he fucked me many more times!! That's when I knew I liked boys and girls!!!
    Last edited by ChiefH; Jan 16, 2019 at 11:27 PM.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    Around 8 to 9, I’d been dreaming about sucking cocks and would jackoff to fantasies about sucking older men’s big cocks. It was easy to find guys in the shower room at the local public swimming pool. We’d make eye contact, I wasn’t shy and I’d hang out front. When the guys I was interested in would come out, they would see me waiting we would go to their car and I’d suck them off. I still remember the surprise of the first guy filling my mouth with cum.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    In my early twenties I was in a local adult bookstore watching a film (they ran short movies on film that was projected on the back of the door) and a man was fucking a beautiful ass. They changed positions and I realized that they were two men! I watched the rest of the film and jerked off. When I left the store I was curious about what it felt like to suck cock and get fucked. It took me awhile but I eventually experienced both and I love it! I now enjoy sex with both men and women!

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    Quote Originally Posted by delpark View Post
    I don't recall the exact moment. I had sucked a friend's cock at 13, enjoyed it. Got interested in girls not long afterward. At age 20 I was propositioned by a guy one evening. I turned down the offer and kicked have myself in the ass many times since. It may have been the night a year later when my 1st wife and I went to a bar that was reportedly bisexual. I was hoping to find a guy, my wife encouraged it. We didn't meet anyone that night.
    Lucky you to have a wife that wants you to indulge your bisexuality.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    When she said, "suck him" and I did!

  15. #15

    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    When she said, "suck him" and I did!
    I've been fortunate to have enjoyed sexual activities with my wife and another man on occasion, and it eventually led to my realization that I'm bi. But I've never had this pleasure! The M-M contact came about without her suggestion or encouragement. I'd love to hear my wife to say that to me!

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    I alway had desires towards men but it was my late 30's before I acted. For months I placed on an old personals site on Excite.com. Lots of replies but was afraid to act on them. One Saturday night I got the nerve to act on my desires. I responded, met the guy for coffee, brought him back to mine. We went to my bedroom, I stripped down to my underwear, he went to the ensuite bathroom. He emerged nude and was hung to his knees (really). I was shocked to see it. He spoke with a gentle Australian accent. We spooned in bed, he took my underwear off and continued to spoon. I was afraid to "let him in" so he humped me, blew his load over my bum and we kissed. I LOVED kissing him! I was afraid to take it further, so I took him home. He invited me into his place but I declined. I regretted declining ever since. It wasn't for another 15 years before I had another encounter with another man. It was WONDERFUL. I went to his place, I was greeted with a long passionate kiss and he gently fucked me senseless! He is 15 years older than me. We recently parted ways as FWB's and I would love to find another guy.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    If I'm being honest, it started appearing in my mind when I was 12 or 13. But the intensity of my desire to suck cock has really accelerated in the past few years. I'm now in my mid-50s, very fit.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    When I brought a guy back to my house to watch some porn {wifey was out of town} and I let him blow me. Halfway through, I had him stand up so I could try sucking his dick and watched me suck him in the wall mirror.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    I'm going to say in September of 1982, when I was 15. One day, when walking in the warm Autumn sun, I realized that I wanted "to know what a man's hands over my body would feel like."

    At school I had an English teacher that I would fantasize about when I was sitting in his class. God, did I have a crush for him.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    Quote Originally Posted by lustfulhubby View Post
    If I'm being honest, it started appearing in my mind when I was 12 or 13. But the intensity of my desire to suck cock has really accelerated in the past few years. I'm now in my mid-50s, very fit.
    And you dont live in Delaware why? :-)

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    When I was a 5 year old and my 5 year old neighbor showed me his dick, then asked to let him see mine.
    When I took it out he said wanna see what my Mom does to my Dad? I said okay and he got on his knees and took me in his mouth.
    It felt great. Then he stood up and said your turn and it felt like the most natural thing in the world.
    Ive had an attraction to women and dicks since.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    Looking back I remember the circle jerks and how I'd get a hard on just thinking about those cocks standing straight up and balls bouncing . I loved it !

    Fast forward to today I've become less inhibited more open minded ad realized that yes on a very personal level cock turns me on.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    Quote Originally Posted by nu2curious View Post
    Lucky you to have a wife that wants you to indulge your bisexuality.
    She's long gone.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    I had to be around 13 or so when me and a friend of mine were talking about how we would masturbate and one thing led to another and next thing I knew, we both had our pants down and our dicks in our hands stroking away. I couldn't take my eyes off of my buddies cock and as he started to cum seeing it fly out of his dick and landed on my leg. When he wasn't looking after we were both done and cleaning up, I wiped up the cum that landed on my leg and quickly licked it off my hand. Don't have a clue why just did it. Ever since then I was curious about what it would be like to give a BJ or fuck or be fucked by another guy.

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    This may sound childish or silly to some but whatever. For me it was when I was about 6 and hanging out with a friend who was also my age. We were outside and he pulled his pants down to his ankles. Claiming "they slip" letting everyone around see his boxers. I just remember seeing that thinking I would love to see that more often. Which I eventually did and more. ��

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    Re: When's the first time that you knew you had bisexual tendencies?

    doesn't sound childish or silly at all to me. i have allways felt some kinda desire for the opposite sex since i could remember. i'm sure i would love to see a fellow 6 y/o girl let her pants slip at that age lol. but never felt the same about the same sex untill years later.

 

 

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