I'm a married bisexual man my wife found out about my bi side about 4 yrs ago. I told her I would never cheat on her but won't mind a mmf 3some but she won't go for it. I was wondering how other married bisexual men are handling this.
I'm a married bisexual man my wife found out about my bi side about 4 yrs ago. I told her I would never cheat on her but won't mind a mmf 3some but she won't go for it. I was wondering how other married bisexual men are handling this.
I was in the same boat. She found out about a month ago, and we have never spoke about it again. She loves Gay Movies and Gay Men, but she was not happy to find out about me. I am 58 she is 52. I have no idea where this all sits now. I identify as Bisexual, she is 100% straight.
I identify as bi-curious with experience. But it has been such a long time ago that I wonder. I do think about it often, reminisce, and enjoy gay porn.
I know that I am more attracted to women than I am with men. But some men, especially when they are erected are awfully hot to look at!
No, she does not know.
Married and wife doesn't know I like cock. She is too conservative and would never go for it.
Married & wife knows I’m bi , just doesn’t want to hear about what I get up too
been married 20 years , in the beginning we were all over each other but after a couple of kids and a car accident she has no desire for sex , just companionship
she knows I’m a very sexual person and would never deny me that , so she told me to get what I want and to be safe about it, she just doesn’t want to hear about it
I have a couple of married guy friends that like to play , so it works out well
met these guys on Grindr
I've stated this in a previous post, I belonged to a Bisexual support group some distance from where I live....The facilitator of the group wanted to have an afternoon group, from 11:30 a.m. to 1 P.M., to reach out to all the married men who were Bisexual "on the Sly" and didn't want their wives to find out about their sexuality.
In my own, there are a lot more married men who are Bisexual , then we will ever know about.
You are a very lucky man, 1 that she is ok with you meeting men, most wives dont allow it and if they find out your desires, you would inherit a leash with a very short chain! 2 ur lucky to find any one on Grindr!! I had that app, in my area it is all college kids looking for weed or a sugar daddy, or guys who just like to BS to get their rocks off!Originally Posted by Pgguy
I just don’t tell her. I’m careful and she can’t give me what a man can. No harm, no foul!
I'm one of the luckiest guys on the planet. I have a great wife who loves to have sex with me Over the many years of our marriage, my life has slowly evolved to the point that I am now a bisexual cross-dressier, although I rarely dress 'all-the-way'. That aspect of my personality has been with me since adolescence; the bisexuality developed rapidly over the course of a couple of years, beginning about 5 years ago or so.
I say that I'm lucky, because my wife knows these things about me, and loves me unconditionally. She's given me her consent to enjoy occasional sexual experiences with other men. (or gurls!)
I tried to get my wife into a MFM threesome, wanted to show her my cock sucking skills but she wouldn't go for it, too nervous, raised a good girl so I play without her. It does make it tougher but you got to do what you got to do.....
I get man play about once or twice a year. I could never tell her about it. I'm not proud of cheating at all but this is something that she can't help me with.
I've been out to my wife for almost 20 years, since I recognized it myself.
It's been a journey to find where we fit, and we are taking a long time getting to where some get to quicker. Each journey is unique. What works for some, may not work for others. Knowing what your actual desires are, and what your partner's desires are as well... then recognizing where you can or cannot meet those needs is so very important.
If your relationship is important, it is worth being honest.
If you are looking to be honest, there are some support groups for you and for your wife. Opening up allows you to live honestly. If you can't trust your wife to accept who you are, in total... that's a shame.
she does not know
My wife knows I'm bi. She was pissed that she found out when I was 54 when I knew all along since I was a teen and never told her. She knows I have had sex with a guy, but does not realize how many. After many discussions about lack of sex in our marriage I gave up. I told her I promised monogamy but not chastity. Now I think we have a "don't ask, don't tell" situation where I'm not chasing her for sex and she's not asking how I'm taking care of my sexual needs.
i told my wife that i was bi about two years ago . she took it better than i thought she would. i tell her when i go out to look for cock to suck , and sometimes she'll ask me how i did. to me , it's very erotic that my wife knows that i'm a cocksucker.
Wow I wish your wife would talk to my wife.
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