15 or so I think..... not till my 40's did I finally take the plunge
15 or so I think..... not till my 40's did I finally take the plunge
So to answer, I knew early in life without any action till later in life.
I was introduced by close family member with his member:-) before I had experienced pussy. I did enjoy the intro however never followed thru with more as I kept the experience in the back of my brain for years as I lived the "hetero" lifestyle that goes with my generation. Many years later my brain was craving and itching to suck a cock after divorcing in the early 2000's. This was my chance to re-experience sucking cock, so I did. Haven't stopped since. I have been lucky enough to have a steady suck buddy for the last 10 years. We get together as schedules allow... maybe tonight!
Female friends? Sure, however I stay single and happy.
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Don't worry, be happy!
Shit... I was up to my eyeballs doing it with both guys and gals before I even found out there was such a word as "bisexual." Got started at nine and I was eleven before I came across the word and famously said, "So that's what I've been doing!" For me and given the nature of my introduction, it wasn't a thing of me knowing before the fact as it was a thing about me finding out about it.
I have to say I mirror you Chief. Sleepovers, camping or his house when no one was home up until about high school, that when i know i liked girls tooOriginally Posted by ChiefH
He was cut, I'm not so i liked the dynamic of being the uncut guy. There weren't too man guys intact but now I definitely prefer intact guys.
My early twenties is when I discovered I liked cock too but I would suppress and tell myself that I was mistaken. It took 20 years to accept it. It never goes away, it just gets stronger.
As a little kid, I was sexually attracted to / played with girls and boys.
If this was just a phase, it has been a rather long one.
It was mid twenties for me. Newly single, horny and hanging out at a strip club in Quebec. I had been approached a number of times in my teens by older guys but wasn’t interested. But that night with the alcohol, porn and hot dancers I couldn’t resist. There was an 40ish guy at the bar who struck up a conversation with me. At closing he asked if I could give him a ride back into town to his hotel. Knowing where this was going, I said sure. When we got to the hotel he invited me up for drinks. Nothing had been said to that point. He said he wanted to take a shower and at that point it was my turn to either take the initiative or not. I came into the bathroom and asked if I could join him.
The rest is history but but I was hooked on sucking cock. It took quite a few years before I found an outlet for my desires. Now with my wife’s blessing I’m on the lookout for opportunities to arise!
18. A friend (who later came out as gay)and I hit his parents liquor cabinet while they were on vacation. We went skinny dipping in their pool, he swam up to me laying on the Baja shelf and kissed me. I kissed him back, we started making out hot and heavy, then spent the next two days recreating scenes from his secret stash of vhs gay porn collection. We secretly dated for some time after that, having as much sex as we could.
that sounds like such a beautifull story of 2 young guys discovering something new & intimate with each other. i bet the sex was magical!
When I was a teenager, and realized I was just as sexually attracted to other guys as much as I was attracted to girls. Suppressed those thoughts a lot because I grew up in a time when you were either gay or straight, no in between. Like the old joke goes, "You could sleep with a million women, but suck one cock, and you are a cocksucker for life."
There were a few signs in my youth that I might be Bi or attracted to other guys. I think I was just naive at the time and didn't realize what was going on. Used to jerk off with a buddy in high school a few times one Summer... But it never really seemed sexual to me. We never really talked about it and it never progressed to anything else. Had my first sexual experience with a guy when I was 19 and it seemed so random and out of the blue. After that I realized some of the signs were there from my early teens. I remember having a fascination with guys in their speedos. When I was in my teens I used to work out at a recreational facility that also had an indoor pool. I used to be in awe of this guy that used to swim there... Seemed like for some reason we always ended up in the locker room at the same time. This guy had an amazing body! Hairy chest, great ass, and nice cock! The locker room had communal showers. I used to get excited when I would go into the locker room and see his blue speedo hanging up on the hook. I used to always slowly walk by the showers so I could get a quick peek at him. I remember a few times thinking to myself why I am I so fascinated with this guy. For some reason I didn't realize it was sexual until I got older and would occasionally think about him!
Had no romantic attraction ever but at 18 a friend and I were out one night, we had jerked each other off all summer about five years before. After some beers we were parked in the woods and he reached for my crotch, I just let him do it. I thought at worse I was going to get and give a handjob. Once his jeans came down and I saw how much bigger he had grown I couldn’t stop looking at it and playing with it. I was overcome with the urge to suck his fat cock and I eagerly did all the way till he shoot a huge load in my mouth. He was so excited, he had never had his dick sucked. He confided he had no interest in girls and he and I kept a secret relationship going for the next five years until he found a friend that was also into what he desired and that was it.
Ive never understood why but bigger dicks than mine really excite me. I’ve always loved seeing pictures and the occasional locker room stare.
When I started noticing some boys in high school looked cute.
As young as 12-13 I remember experimenting playing with other boys But never had sex, used random objects inside me for a long time before realizing what I was craving was a thick cock... had my first at 18... and randomly through my remotely strait lifestyle
I guess I had what's now known as a friends with benefits relationship with a lad my age who lived nearby. Given we were teens I guess it was also experimentation. We'd dress up in women's tights (pantyhose) and wank ourselves off, then each other, then we got to suck each other's cocks in a 69. I started dating girls, got married, and only put tights on when I got drunk. When people talked about gay people, I felt uncomfortable. I wanted to jump on a good friend once, so there was always this weird horny I'd get. Thankfully I met a female, similar to me in terms of quirky, and we'd talk about lezzie and gay sex. Since the internet I've found sites like these and realised and come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual, albeit not active beyond online. It took me many years to get to this level of comfort. It was tormenting for a time, but age has helped.
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14 I think - my cousin and I used to stroke, then each other and one sleepover we started sucking each other off. We did that for years after.
At 12 I had a jo/suck encounter with a friend for a wonderful summer, we both couldn't cum but it was awesome. Met chicks and concentrated on sex with women. At about 20 I was at a Grateful Dead concert and got in an issue with security, they tossed me out and wound up with this guy, we when to his place and next think I know I'm asking to suck his dick. We both had great oral sex, and a I asked him to fuck me unfortunately neither one of us had enough experience so that didn't happen. About 7 years ago I realized I was bi, I told my wife who I've been with for 32 years and she is working with it. We have engaged in anal on both sides since then and I have made it clear that I would love to have a 3some with a bi guy. I feel great that I have expressed my feelings and I hope our sex life continues to grow.
It was a very strange night for me even though we had jerked each other off many time one summer five years before. We were 18 and we ended up alone that night away from our friends. As we parked and drank beers his hand came over and started feeling me up, my pants were down quickly and he was stroking me like years before. I finally reached for him and he dropped his jeans. I had never been turned on by anything except his touch and never thought about giving oral. When I saw how big he had grown over the past five years I was at first jealous. Then as I complimented his size we got close and held them together as he stroked us. I could not stop looking at and stroking his larger dick and couldn’t believe I was so drawn to go down on him.
Once he was in my mouth it was all over, I loved the feel and taste along with hearing his reactions. I positioned where I could look up to see his facial expression and knew I wasn’t stopping till after he came. I sucked on him a good five minutes after he came and remember him saying “ you really like that.” I did and I continued to suck him over the next five years.
I think I was born bi! My very first experience was with both genders.
I was 5, at a birthday party for a pair of paternal twins. A little group of us were standing around behind the house listening to the twins telling us they liked to kiss each other.
Someone asked, "Who kisses better...girls, or boys?" Spontaneously, we all began kissing each other. It was my first scientific experiment, to resolve a question!
My mother happened to be in the kitchen, and looked out of the window, just in time to see me, finishing kissing the female twin.
The was probably thinking, "Aw, they're so cute!"
Then, much to her chagrin, I turned to the male twin and we kissed, too!
She burst out of the house, grabbing my arm, hauled me off to the garage and began spanking me, like she was going to beat that scene out of my head! She was yelling at me, about the sins of same-gender interactions, as her belt were concentrating on my little ass!
The only thing she accomplished, that day, was to put me into a covert mode that I still maintain, to this day!
I'm sure she went to her reward knowing she'd cured me from ever again being drawn to both genders!
Oh Mama, if you only knew!
Way before I knew what "bi" was. As far back as I can remember I would play "show mine show your" with friends. Before I knew what sexual arousal was, I always got a strange feeling in certain instances. No matter what we were doing, I always wondered about and wanted to see other penises. I would try to suggest activities that would involve being shirtless or more. I managed to "experiment" with most of my friends growing up.
Sounds crazy (and I dont think this way in reverse) but when we would learn or hear about "inappropriate contact" I didnt quite know what I was feeling but I actually would fantasize about it and hoped it would happen to me. My first real learning experience happened that way with a friends older brother when i was maybe 10 or 11 and while I had learned in school that what was happening was supposed to be bad, I couldn't understand why. It was the most awesome thing I ever experienced and I found every reason I could to sleep over at my friends house to do it again. From that point on, I've always had a secret obsession in the background.
As I've gotten older (mid 30s now) I've been more into submission and age differences. Most I can only role play now. When I was 18 there was very limited online opportunities since most sites were barely starting and the internet was still new.
I sometimes think about if the internet, smartphones, and hookup apps were available when I was in my teens and 20's like they are now. Especially if I had the interest in older guys like I have now.
Probably around age 13 or so. A couple of us used to get together in the woods nearby to watch each other masturbate.
I have always been daring since I was a teen, getting naked outside, fucking at an early age but it wasn't until my early 40's that the thought of playing with men entered my mind. It just took one trip to the local ABS and got enough nerve to enter a booth with a glory hole, did things changed. When I experienced the incredible feeling of having another man suck my cock to completion, I knew I was all in. It didn't take long before I was sucking cock and enjoying the taste of cum. After a couple of years of this, anal was introduced into my play. I have loved playing with other men ever since.
You and me both. I have so many stories I could tell.
So do tell please..
The first time I saw gay porn at 14. Gay sex was an abstract idea for me before that point which I hadn't really thought about. Seeing two men have sex made the idea real to me, and at that point I knew I was sexually interested in both men and women.
I had this weird set of epiphanies at age 16 that contained a very calm analysis that “I’m attracted to girls *and* guys...I guess that makes me bisexual.” I honestly have no clue where I came upon that word, but I knew what it meant, and from that moment on, I knew it applied to me. At this point I’ve had a *lot* more experience with women than with men. But hey, life is long, right...still time to balance that out!
I hope my achievements in life shall be these: that I will have fought for what was right and fair, that I will have risked for that which mattered, that I will have given help to those who were in need...that I will have left the earth a better place for what I've done and who I've been. (C. Hoppe)
I grew up in a neighborhood of older boys, all 19 and 20. I always wanted to hang out with them, but they wouldn't let me because I was only 13. One day, one of the 19 year old's invited me to his house, I was glad for the invitation. His parents were at work, and we were alone. He quickly showed me a stack of rubbers, hidden under a seat cushion. When I asked what they were for, he told me his dad didn't want him getting any girls pregnant, and his mom was tired of him messing up the sheets. I told him it was the first time I ever saw one. He quickly pulled his pants down and showed me how to put one on... He got really big and hard as he did. Next, he wanted me to put one on, and he helped me. Then he said we could now play with each other without making a mess. He got to his knees and took me into his mouth...WOW! What a sensation that was, and I liked that feeling. He stopped and asked me to suck on his, and I didn't know how to do it very well. He instructed me on how to cover my teeth, to gently suck and play with his sack, to tickle his butt hole. I felt his cock throbbing in my mouth, he told me to keep sucking. After it stopped, he pulled his cock out and showed me his cum. I didn't know what it was, but said nothing. From that day on, he would invite me over and we would do the same. During that time, I started to cum myself, but only bluish water, nothing like his thick stuff. Before long, all the guys were inviting me, and they all wanted to play the same.... I was too stupid at the time, but he told them that I sucked cock, and they all wanted in. this continued for about 6 years, then I joined the Army and left home..... I never regretted sucking cocks, in fact I always enjoyed having a cock in my mouth.
As far back as sexual thoughts began to form. Into my teen years I fantasized about it constantly, but never actually thought I'd go through with it until my 20's. One day as I was in a gay fantasy daze I suddenly realized - hey I can actually do these things! I was immediately hard, and on my lunch break found a quiet spot to jack off in my car. This was before internet, so finding someone was the trick, but that's the day I realized this is the life I wanted.
i was 48 when my wife and i had a 3some with a married man. sucked my frist cock then and loved it.been with 5 other men sometime alone
Early teens and always knew I liked both girls and guys. Genuine attraction to both not just a cock thing with guys.
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