I am a married bi guy. My wife doesn?t know. I have sucked off two different guys and really liked it. I met both guys threw doublelist. I really want to suck a younger guy with a really big cock. My cock is really small and I love small penis humiliation. Both guys I?ve been with were also pretty small. Is it hard to find a guy with a big cock or maybe I just haven?t found him yet. Most of the time the meet ups fall threw. I?ll just have to keep trying I guess
I have only sucked for one guy and he happened to be very small. Also came quick from me sucking. It was exciting and fun being new but I would like to be overwhelmed by a long thick one just once. In videos all guys are hung but I am thinking in real life not so.
I really want to feel a big cock in my hand and in my mouth. The girth of it sliding in and out of my mouth. I want to feel the pulsing when he blasts a huge load down my throat. Then slap me in the face with it.
It's not that hard to find guys with big dicks - you just gotta be able to convince them to get naked with you. I get the SPH thing and there are probably guys out there who'd indulge you in this and they have a monster-sized dick. You just have to keep trying. If you're specifically looking to be humiliated, that might be a rather small "segment" like, for me, okay, you have a small dick. So what? I'm not going to humiliate you because I don't believe in that shit... but I am going to suck your soul right out of you and until you can't take anymore sucking. Because smaller dicks are easier to suck than the bigger and much bigger ones. This is me and probably a lot more guys who, regardless of cock size, would want to get at your but the humiliation thing... isn't their thing.
You and all of us who are looking for men to have sex with are... advertising. One of the keys in this is knowing your audience and there are a slew of guys out there who want to suck dick and be sucked, and size doesn't matter to them but if you're looking specifically to be humiliated, your audience is going to likely be very small. Let's say you and I hook up. Dicks get sucked and I like that you're small - and because I don't give a fuck about cock size. Good shit and enough for us to want to make it more of a regular thing. If "sometime later" you tell me that you love SPH, well, hmm, okay, it's not my cup of tea but if we've really connected, let's give it a try - but if you mentioned this when we first started talking, eh, let's not go there and let's focus on sucking each other off.
The more you... specialize, the harder it is to find exactly what you're looking for. Young dudes with big dicks are easy to find and you still have to convince them that it'll be in their best interest to have sex with you and despite your size and, yeah, they might be looking for guys with huge dicks, too. But this is the way it's always been in that you have to keep trying. It makes me ask you what your "priorities" are in this.
There are a lot of guys on DL looking for humiliation. The opposite of BJ's I suspect the receivers of humiliation are in greater supply than the givers. But all you can do is keep looking. Write different ads, respond quickly. Respond with details of when and where and offers to be flexible to met the other guys needs.
Since you presumably can't host, find the motels near you that have daytime "nap" rates so you can be ready to offer. And be willing to pay for the room.
A man that wants his monogamous wife to fuck others. And to swap cock.
I don't mean to be critical here (perhaps you would prefer if I did LOL), but I find what you say confusing. On one hand you claim you love small penis humiliation. On the other, you claim you haven't yet been with anyone in the position to humiliate you despite the purportedly unusually small size of your dick. How can you be so certain you love something you by all suggestion have never experienced? I don't mean to say that huge cocks do not exist, but the fact that you've found it so much easier to find guys with "pretty small" dicks, apparently similar to your "tiny" dick, may say something about your expectations and how they compare to reality. Porn producers seek big because big sells, but it represents a small part of society overall. What even makes you so certain that your dick is all that tiny? If you've been going by porn, that's a big mistake.Originally Posted by Tinycockkev
I have borrowed the following info from a web site (click on Trusted Source to learn about the resource), that was easy to find online (what it offered is in red; my commentary is in black):
- Around 85 percent of people with penises overestimate what the average penis size actually is.
- Many people with penises are under the impression that the average package is over 6 inches long ? a notion that researchers partially attribute to studies that were based on self-reported measurements. Men are notoriously bad at measuring the length of their own erect penis, and somehow, their measurements tend fairly reliably to come out in excess of the true measurement.
- I am surprised that they did not mention this factor in this context, too, but of course, we cannot help but be influenced in our suspicions by the size of cocks we see in porn, when in fact, even if we've seen hundreds or thousands of porn photos or videos demonstrating massive cocks, the men involved represent a minute portion of the population, which is attracted to porn as a vocation specifically because they have an unusually long penis.
- Based on various reports, 45 percent of people with penises wish they had a larger penis, including those who have average-sized ones. Like most things in life, who wants to be average? But I digress.
- For some perspective, an erect penis of 6.3 inches falls into the 95 percentile, meaning that only 5 out of 100 (or 1 out of 20) people* would have a penis longer than 6.3 inches. (*"men" would clearly have been a better choice of word there)
- Likewise, an erect penis of 3.94 inches is in the 5th percentile, meaning that only 5 out of 100 (again, or 1 out of 20) would have a penis shorter than 3.94 inches.
- Around 95 percent of penises do fall into the average range.
So to recap, research says the average penis size is a lot smaller than what most people believe it is and usually looks nothing like what you see in porn.
In other words, 95% of us fall between 3.94" (just short of 4") and 6.3" (a little over 6") in erect length, or just about 4" to 6". Of course, in a country with a population of 330 million people, there are millions of guys with erect cocks over 6.3" long, but they still represent only about 2.5% of the male population (with 2.5% being shorter than 4"), and the way statistics work, the longer or shorter they get than those cut-offs, the less common they are and the harder they will be to find. You can't find legitimate reports on what proportion of the male population has dicks of a given specific length, but cocks longer than 10" are certainly much less common than cocks longer than 9", which are much less common than cocks longer than 8", which are much less common than cocks longer than 7", which are much less common than the upper limit of normal, at 6.3". I mean, think about it. If 95% of all men have erect dicks between about 4" and 6" in length, and half of those who fall outside of normal range are shorter rather than longer, how many can possibly have these huge dicks you see in porn? To find one by accident when you're hunting down a cock to suck would be practically a miracle. If you want to suck off a 7" cock, you should advertise, stating specifically what you are looking for! If you have not done so, you have no business thinking your two partners had unusually short cocks. I mean, I am not in a position to measure them, but there's a 95% likelihood they were perfectly normal!
Now, there is still the issue that even within normal range of cock lengths, the upper end is about 50% longer than the lower end (i.e., 6" = 1.5 x 4"), and that seems a difference that would be obvious and possibly make one at the shorter end of the normal range still see himself as somewhat "tiny." That may be exactly your problem. If that is your case, I can't take it away from you, but you must recognize that you are not some rare breed. A significant chunk of the male population has erect cocks that measure in at a bit shorter than 4" long. For what it's worth, that being the case, it seems to me absurd to label them "tiny" of for anyone to want to humiliate them for it.
SPH ????
SPH = Small Penis Humiliation
I too am married and bisexual and my wife doesn't know. The biggest problem about finding cocks to suck big or small is where you suck them. It is my experience that having a safe place to play is the biggest obstacle. I'm not sure what Kev's situation as to play spaces but suspect hosting is probably somewhat complicated like most married guys. If he can separate SPH from sucking big cock it might help, I have hosted a couple of big cocks while my wife was at work but feel uncomfortable with hosting. I have to admit I'm a cum slut when it comes to sucking cock(covid ruined my cock sucking life), big cocks are fun to suck having to stretch your mouth not being able to deep throat.
Personally I like cocks that are at the top end of average or just a little bigger allows you to provide him so much pleasure which as a cock sucker will bring you much pleasure. Nothing like the feeling of a man's cock as it starts to twitch and throb before exploding it's sweet nectar in your waiting mouth.
I will add that it's not the size of the cock that matters the most: It's you being willing and able to do your best to suck it. I can deep throat a 9" dick without even thinking about it but it's not really that easy to do. Some guys are just thick and for no good reason and getting my mouth around them has been interesting... but it's all about doing what you can do and I have yet to come across a dick that I couldn't suck. The best dick I've ever sucked was a guy with a very small dick. The best and easiest. Holy shit, I think I traumatized him because I couldn't stop sucking him off and even when he tapped out, I wanted to keep sucking him because it was so damned easy for me.
It's okay to have... "secondary" stuff on your mind that you're into. But it's all about sucking dick and that should be the first thing on your mind and size, such as it is, doesn't really matter. Having the desire to suck cock matters. Finding someone you can suck matters and if he's as small as you, it is what it is and you should be able to easily and, importantly, comfortably wreck shop on each other because your respective cocks aren't ginormous. What matter is... regardless of size, can you suck it? Do you want to? If, by chance, you like hearing him giving you shit about having a tiny dick, okay, fine if that's an added thrill for you but it's all about being able to suck cock. Period. Anything else is gravy. Like I said, you still have to convince a guy to give you his dick to suck and no matter how young or old he is and comparatively speaking, most guys are going to be "bigger" than you are, right?
I... understand the humiliation thing. I also understand that I would never humiliate a guy over something he didn't have anything to do with because he's still a man and one with a dick that, whew, ya better hang onto something because I've spent a good part of my life sucking guys who are not only bigger than I am but way bigger so sucking a guy like you? You're gonna need someone to come save you and that is the thing that should be of greater importance to the both of us. I will say - and probably unnecessarily so - that the size of your dick doesn't ever make you less of a man.
I am not into humiliating a sex partner no matter how much they desire it. Just not pleasant to me. Besides, I'm a bit unique in that, having had a major jaw reconstruction, I can only suck smaller cocks well. Bring on those little cocks boys! As long as your head isn't retracted into your body I'll happy take a load from you!
I am married and the wife doesn't know I am bi she has her feelings and thoughts about it and not into two guys going at it at all .
So I like sucking a bigger cocks 8" or larger ,I have had a few 10's and a 12" ,but I like being able to get my hand around the shaft and stroke it while I am sucking it.
As I suck I roll my tongue around the head and most guys don't last long ,I have had a few that lasted awhile but most explode in five ,ten minutes .
I love giving head and could it it all day , it can't I use to meet guys at work and suck them off but I am disabled due to my heart now so I can only slip on in now and again while she is gone and it's been a long while since I have gotten to suck a cock ,but it's hard to find hung guys in the country most of the time so I settle for 6" when I can but there always hope.
I am 7in. Flaccid, well over 1in hard uncut very thick with overly large balls lots of guys want pictures of mine next to theirs , or with the wife , gf , bf
Yep, it's a bit hard finding guys with big dicks, and here's another thing to think about, if big dick guys are 5% of the population, what percentage have their ideal partners in mind dating and don't settle? I wouldn't fool around with anyone who wasn't traditionally handsome looking, clean cut, slim to dad bod, dresses well, can articulate and present themselves well, I'm not into facial hair, rough looking chest beaters, anyone who doesn't have a nice smile and keeps themselves and their home clean and orderly. I'm looking for more than blow and go so that stuff matters to me, I'd rather not have sex than lower my standards with men or women, which cuts about 50-60 % of ppl out right off the bat due to looks, or they way they present themselves initially. If I had a giant prick it would be no different, just a thought that ran through my head reading the responses here. Not everybody is just a horny knob gobbler or looking to get off in just any old mouth or ass. There's usually factors and maybe we don't fit that BDE guys list of wants. I think it's better to just find a man that turns you on and enjoy pleasing him and hope he has a sexy cock that turns you on too.
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