Broaching the Taboo Creampie Subject with the Lady

[BeauKnerr]

For any here who have traveled a similar road, I'd be interested in your thoughts/advice.

For quite a while now, I've had fantasies of going down on my gal after she's been fucked and I know I'm in good company here with other guys who share this kink. For me, it's not about only the cum; it's about the product of consummated passion. Ideally (in my mind at least) this would be another guy, but the likelihood of her acting on that is low. She fantasized about 3+ guys, but says it will never happen in reality. So, I'll probably have to settle for myself as a proxy, but as most of you would agree, the motivation to do that goes out the window immediately after cumming. Often times after we finish, she will spread her legs and show me her freshly fucked, cum-laden pussy and make a comment like, "look at all the cum in this pussy." All I usually do when she does this is tell her it's hot and just finger to more orgasms. Although she is very kinky like that, I'm always unsure what to do in this instance. It would seem like an invitation to dive in, but two things stop me. First, it's usually too soon after we've finished and I'm not quite up for it yet. Second, I'm concerned about what her reaction might be since she is very anti gay/bi behavior and might be revolted by this, prompting her to suspect I might be a little too eager and willing.

So this weekend presented an opportunity to possibly ease into this more. Before leaving to get away for a night, we had sex one morning. She remarked about what a big load it was and she showed me her pussy right afterwards and said it would likely be dripping out of her in the afternoon as is it usually does. After getting to our destination and seeing some sites, we went to our room in the afternoon with some extra time before getting ready for dinner. We were both horny as hell and I had given her some sexy crotchless lingerie that she modeled for me, ending with her laying on the bed spreading her legs and showing me her pussy. So, of course I dove in with gusto, fueled by the knowledge that that load was still in her from just hours ago and I was not disappointed. While a bit faint, there was the unmistakable essence and taste of consummated lust. We fucked with abandon and I filled her up again. Then, we went to dinner and had drinks afterwards. Upon returning to the room, she donned another sexy piece I had given her and once again, she lay spread eagle on the bed showing me that gorgeous pussy. Again, I ate her with abandon, mind-tripping with the knowledge that she was now harboring the residuals of 2 rounds of sex earlier in the same day. So, I loaded her up again that night and again the next morning, but I did not have the opportunity for any additional exploring. She made comments about how much I kept pounding her and cumming in her, so there is a bit of an elephant in the room that I was going down on her knowing full well she was leaking cum; but we didn't speak of that. Perhaps enough time had past in between loads that the "statute of limitations" on what she considers "gay" behavior had expired.

I feel like there's an opportunity here that I'm letting slip away. It was a very erotic and sensual weekend in many ways. And frankly, the experience of tasting her pussy with our combined juices only elevated the passion, for me at least, as a sensual reminder of our unbridled lust and love for each other, much more than just a cheap opportunity to eat cum from a pussy. In that context, it doesn't seem so "gay". I'm thinking of broaching the subject in those terms, something along the lines of this talk-track: "Babe, last weekend was incredible...erotic...I couldn't resist eating that incredible pussy... one thing that surprised me was that it didn't bother me when I could sense that I was still inside you...in fact, the combined essence of our earlier passion was strangely erotic..." First of all, this is true, and secondly, I'm thinking it might not set off her finely tuned gaydar. The objective here would be to enjoy this a bit more freely and openly, so that the next time she displays her freshly fucked pussy, she may not be shocked if I decide to taste her, assuming I'm up to it at that point.

Sorry this is a bit long, but at least it gives you the "flavor" of the situation. What say any of you?

[Leo Rabbit]

Beau, it sounds like you're on your way. The fact that she is talking about it all is a good sign. Perhaps start there. Let her know how her showing you her freshly fucked and filled pussy REALLY turned you on and you'd like her to do that more.

Have the two of you ever had a threesome? I'd say keep working on doing what you're doing so that you eating her out after coming in her is simply another "normal" part of what you two do together...then perhaps bring up the idea of a threesome, even if only as a fantasy, and let her choose a guy that turns her on.

Another avenue might be to tell her about some kinky thing you read on Hot Wife or Cuckholding and see where that leads.

[BeauKnerr]

Beau, it sounds like you're on your way. The fact that she is talking about it all is a good sign. Perhaps start there. Let her know how her showing you her freshly fucked and filled pussy REALLY turned you on and you'd like her to do that more.....

Thanks, Leo. It makes a lot of sense to see you put it that way. I think my issue is that I am inclined to "overcorrect" and not take advantage of the opportunities she is presenting. She is a very kinky gal and by no means a prude; so she might actually enjoy it.

She has told me that she has fantasized about gang-bangs and masturbated to GB porn. And, we have simulated it with a dildo or even just a finger in her ass while I'm fucking her. It puts her into orgasmic over-drive. When we do this, I always make it a point to kiss her very deeply with with my tongue because I know she fantasizes that its a cock. So, yea, she definitely has the sexual capacity and desire for a 3-some+. Getting there in reality is a problem for her because she is very monogamous and is afraid that it would compromise our intimacy. If she were assured that our intimacy might actually be enhanced by this, as it is for some, she might be more open.

Thanks for reminding me that I'm fortunate that she is leaving some bread crumbs around, which is way more than my ex ever did. I need to do a better job of following them!

[KDaddy23]

A couple of things, methinks. One, women are funny about getting filled with cum and now the coochie is "off-limits" until it gets properly washed and clean; some guys are like, "Ew, I just came in there and I ain't going down on her with cum oozing out!" There's a question: Is it "gay" to cum in your lady and go back down on her knowing that you're going to be tasting your own spunk? Some feel that it is... and some - and both men and women - are of a mind that it's just some "nasty" good fun to eat that pussy again after getting it all nice and cummy. If your lady doesn't object to you going back down on her after loading her up, is it that you think that she might think it's gay to have other guys load her up and you go down on her... or do you think that it's a gay thing to do?

Some women think that the idea of getting done by more than one guy would be amazing... doesn't mean she really wants to it or that she will because women are kinda and seriously funny about that and in some ways that disturbs them but, yeah, the thought of it sounds nice and hot and all that. Now the question is if you and some other guy(s) load her up and you go back down on her, well, what does that mean - and if anything? Is it gay that you like eating her after she's been loaded up? I wouldn't say that it is but that's me. Do you think it's gay? Oh, and it might help to consider that gay men aren't all that likely to want to eat pussy to begin with so, hmm. Unlike my fellow members, I get a sense that this isn't about her wanting or having group sex so much but this is you being concerned about licking her pussy after another guy has filled it to overflowing and if it really means anything.

Help a brotha out on this one!

[johnnyeasy]

The keyword here is......s-l-o-w-l-y. If you want a creampie, I have some suggestions for you. If you want a threesome, well my friend, as they said to Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz, THAT is a horse of a different color. First things first........does your girlfriend like to suck your cock?
Does she swallow? After you cum in her mouth make sure you give her a HUGE kiss on the mouth. FRENCH KISS! Get excited! Then, tell her how hot it was to taste yourself in her mouth. See how she reacts. If she is still good to go.......the next time you go down on her....BEFORE fucking, go to town! Try to get her to cum in your mouth. Make sure she knows you LOVE the taste of her pussy. Kiss her when you are done. Then fuck her as regular. After you have filled the magic vessel......kiss her. On the lips. Work your way down. Don't just dive in from the get go.......tease her a little bit and judge her reactions. Then, BURY your tongue so she KNOWS you enjoy the flavor and taste of her pussy. If you want to make comments.....remember: You are NOT eating YOUR cum out of her. You ARE eating (HOPEFULLY) BOTH of your cum out of her. Ever finger her after sex and lick your fingers clean because it is BOTH of your cum? BUT go slowly.......keep an eye out for non verbal clues to make sure she is cool with this new treat. If you are VERY lucky she might want to lick her cum off your cock. If she does, make sure you kiss her right on the lips to show how turned you on when you two SHARE both of your cum.
I would do this a few times so it slowly becomes a regular part of your repertoire before linking it to a threesome. If a threesome happens, good for you. But if not, you are still getting snowballs and creampies! The BREAKFAST OF CHAMPIONS!
Also......please be sure to report back on here of your results.......

[demi_dame]

It almost reads, to me, like she is trying to encourage you to eat her or play with her without her having to say it. Maybe she is embarrassed to ask but it reads more like she is trying to add an element of daring to it. Like 'Oh no, see what you did? What are you going to do about it?' kind of teasing.
That is definitely something I'd do with my partner if I knew we were both ok with... whatever scenario we're egging on. Since we both want the other to enjoy, we toss out ideas regularly to see if there is anything that gets the other interested. Then figure out which triggers work best as it plays out.

Sounds like she is trying a little spice to the mix for some after-play. Which is great for you since you can do all sorts of teasing/exploring while in recovery mode without going straight to bust.
Johnnyeasy had some seriously good ideas to test the waters and see what/how she reacts.
But it does seem like she is trying to initiate without coming right out and saying anything. Plus - for us, seeing how hot something like that makes you, and that it's a little slice of hell for you to hold back until you just can't take it any more? Yeah. Some of us really get off on that. It's a nice little lady stroke to the naughty feels.

[Jazminedress]

what dont you simply ask ?

"Honey, I hope it didn't freak you out that I went down on you so many times after I came in ya ? It's just honestly, seeing you spread out like that, knowing we just fuckedso hard really turned me on"

No dancing around , just say it................she may blow it off and say she was just horny and didn't think about it, or she may say it turned her on too. Sometimes the simple plan is the best laid plan

[Geoff Gregg]

My wife was hesitant when I first suggested I eat her cum filled pussy. Then I pointed out that time I did it and how turned on we both were. The first few times I could tell she wasn't as into it as I was, but now when I do it she purrs away.

[Waylon]

When we were first married wifey was very sexually active, horny and submissive. When we fucked, she would get really wet and juicy and rather than cumming in her pussy, I would pull out and cum in her mouth at climax time. She savored sucking my cock with all the sexual juices' After a while, she told me she wanted me to eat her out after I came in her pussy and then we would deep french kiss sharing our sexual juices which was lots of fun as well. She too has fantasized about being gang banged by 3 or 4 guys but that hasn't happened yet.

[chongster]

Before I ever discovered my bisexual side. I was having sex with a very hot girl, I ate her and made her cum a couple times before I fucked her then she came again while I fucked her. Finally I couldn't hold back any longer and pumped a hot load in her pussy. Before I could even go soft she pushed me downward and my face right back in her pussy, I ate her I lapped up all that cum till she came yet again.
Afterwards I told her I had never done that before, she just gave me a sexy smile )
There were other times with other women that I ate my own cum out of them or licked it off the pussy or tits. Every time I did it they were very turned on by it.
There is nothing gay about a guy eating pussy that has been fucked and filled with cum. Kinda kinky but not gay.

[Jazminedress]

You guys are enablers, now I am sitting here thinking about how awesome it would be to 69 with a woman, while her man bangs her and cums in her..............thanks, now this thought will be in my head all day while I try to work

[Neonaught]

Sounds like the both of you are on the right track! I recommend continuing to be passionate about eating her after and keeping her happy. I told my wife after our first time that the tastes of us both was just so damned good and she responded well. Now we enjoy her creampie every chance we get and she has even gotten into rimming me! Says she loves the sounds it makes me make. Best of luck!

[WABIGuy]

I can say this happened once and only once. My wife and I were fucking only like porn stars could it was hot and long. I in loaded a huge load in her and paused for a minute. She didn't want me to stop, so I kept going but was getting sore. I half way pulled out, when she pushed me on my back pulled out fully and started giving me head. So I rotated my body around so I could eat her pussy. It was awsome for me and her. Until she was done and kissed my cum smothered face. She was discusted and we never did that again. ��

[budg282]

I agree with Jazmine in that the simple and direct way might be the best way (saying this without knowing your girl's personality). But she doesn't seem to think of cum as some disgusting artifact of sex that needs to immediately be sanitized, so a direct approach where it is brought up as a kinky act could be viable.

I think a kinky approach works because unless you are simulating a threesome and therefore simulating eating another man's cum, to me it really isn't a gay/bi thing. There are straight men you eat their own cum and gay/bi men do not eat their own.

[MAcpl69]

You guys are enablers, now I am sitting here thinking about how awesome it would be to 69 with a woman, while her man bangs her and cums in her..............thanks, now this thought will be in my head all day while I try to work

Would love to be "that guy" . Let's add to it, I finish you and her lick the cum off my dick, then you fuck her and we both eat the creampie dripping out of her pussy.

[bikedoc]

The subject of eating my wifes cream pie never came up in conversation, I just decided to go down on her one time after we fucked and began to eat her out. Her pussy was just so wet and tasty and she had several fantastic orgasms from my attention to her pussy. After that it became a regular part of our love making routine including her sitting on my face to clean the cum out of her pussy. I do miss those times as she has lost her desire for sed due to some serious medical conditions but I still like to remember the good times.

[Cum1st]

I have the same change of heart after cumming with a woman or alone, but not with a man. The times that I was up for starting over, each time each woman was into going again. I can't say whether the idea of me sucking the mess out of them turned them on or not, but many times the sex seemed even better for them the second time around. None of them acted weirded out about it. They all were turned on.

Without another's cock involved it may feel intimate to her. Going for it would be more spontaneous than nipping around the edges. Therefor not some queer move. Starting over with a top down warmup she would have the power to stop you if she was uncomfortable with it.

[BeauKnerr]

I appreciate all of the interesting and helpful responses here.

Just yesterday morning, we had our typical morning romp and after lying there for a bit, things started getting heated up again. She climbed on top of me and started rubbing her pussy back and forth on my cock saying something along the lines of, "You've been pounding this pussy and it's so full of cum....I'm going to rub this dirty pussy full of cum all over that cock." I kid you not. So, she did that for a while, finally sticking it in and riding again to several orgasms. I almost, but didn't, cum again. But when it was over, she flipped around again to show me her pussy commenting, "Look what you've done to this well-fucked pussy...". Then I rubbed her clit and fingered her to another orgasm. That wasn't the right time to dive in, as we had to get up and get working, but I took that as very positive signal. I also recalled another incident in the past year when we started going at it after brunch late one morning. We had already done it earlier that morning and cleaned up. But things got so heated up and I went down on her not thinking to much about it but immediately tasted the essence of our earlier escapades. Afterwards, I remember commenting that I could taste our sex from earlier and her responding "that's kinky".

I certainly don't think it's "gay", especially if it's just "friendly fire". With another guy's junk in the mix, I still don't consider it "gay", but certainly "homoerotic" at least, which may be congruous with "bi". But the idea of bringing in another dude(s) is a whole other topic, fraught with other issues, that I'll set aside for now. I've experienced many straight women who are of the mind that "straight is straight, and anything else is 'gay'". My gal is 100%, but you can see that she is very kinky, and would certainly enjoy all of this in the moment. But then, a couple of days later, while having her morning tea and blow drying her hair, does she get to objectively thinking, "That was pretty kinky and hot the other day. But hmmmm. He was licking his own cum. I've never seen a guy eat cum before. It didn't seem to bother him. I wonder if that was the first time. I wonder if this is a red flag. Hmmmm."? And then she starts paying more attention for other clues. Perhaps, I can use her "you're either straight or gay" mindset to subtly get the point across that gay dudes don't enjoying eating pussy, as KDaddy23 suggested.

So, you see my conundrum, but I'm more encouraged then ever to expand our horizons of kink here, given the raw materials I'm working with. I'm suppose I'm a little gun-shy after being exposed by my ex-wife (other thread), although she didn't have a kinky bone in her body -- except for when mine was in her.

My gal just got her period, so there will be brief hiatus before going downtown again. The Red Wings are a fine hockey team but not something on my bucket list!

To be continued...

[Cum1st]

From what you've told us I sense she puts value on your(pl) mixed orgasmic juices. Maybe, just maybe if your knees are planted next to her head when you make your move she may direct you to straddle her head. Of course that wouldn't make her a lesbian.

We are rooting for you two. Maybe some day you two can joke about it. If not, it appears you two do have a good sex life.

The first time #1 wife squirted for me she was on top in the 69 position - our go to warm up position after making out and tit play. After a few orgasms her clit would become too sensitive to continue. This was usually time to start fucking. This time I let it cool some then worked from her lips back to the clit. She quickly had an incredible orgasm and squirted. She immediately tried to roll off my face, but I held her hips so she couldn't. She came again and again in rapid succession squirting each time before we fucked. After that, waterproof pads covered with beach towels were mandatory. She gladly spread them.

[BareHunter45]

Just an idea....I was worried when I came out to my wife as bi and after we talked about it and I explained my feelings to her (I am not running away with a man...still love women, but enjoy sex with a man only). She understood and accepted it. Anyway, understanding your reluctance (as the wife still strongly feels that anal sex with men is gay), you might play it more subtly and play somewhat coy. Here is what I mean.

After cumming in her, and during a rest period, just as things start to heat up again you could think out loud. Stare at her cum filled pussy and the cum oozing out if it. Tell her how beautiful it is and how delicious it was earlier and now you have this incredible urge to eat her out again, but you are not sure as it is so filled with cum. Tell her "damn....tough choice... a delicious pussy, but look at all that cum". Tell her: "I'll eat it and lick it if you want me to" See what she says. She may so go a head (which absolves you of acting gay). She sounds like she wants that but doesn't want to bring up the subject. If she doesn't bite right away, keep ogling it and being a little indecisive. Tell her it looks so good....if she doesn't say anything after a few minutes...then say out loud..."well I have eaten it a few hours after I came in it...what's a few hours less?" Then dig in and slurp away. She wants it and won;t ask...you just want to be sure. Believe me...I understand!

[chtampa]

For any here who have traveled a similar road, I'd be interested in your thoughts/advice.

For quite a while now, I've had fantasies of going down on my gal after she's been fucked and I know I'm in good company here with other guys who share this kink. For me, it's not about only the cum; it's about the product of consummated passion. Ideally (in my mind at least) this would be another guy, but the likelihood of her acting on that is low. She fantasized about 3+ guys, but says it will never happen in reality. So, I'll probably have to settle for myself as a proxy, but as most of you would agree, the motivation to do that goes out the window immediately after cumming. Often times after we finish, she will spread her legs and show me her freshly fucked, cum-laden pussy and make a comment like, "look at all the cum in this pussy." All I usually do when she does this is tell her it's hot and just finger to more orgasms. Although she is very kinky like that, I'm always unsure what to do in this instance. It would seem like an invitation to dive in, but two things stop me. First, it's usually too soon after we've finished and I'm not quite up for it yet. Second, I'm concerned about what her reaction might be since she is very anti gay/bi behavior and might be revolted by this, prompting her to suspect I might be a little too eager and willing.

So this weekend presented an opportunity to possibly ease into this more. Before leaving to get away for a night, we had sex one morning. She remarked about what a big load it was and she showed me her pussy right afterwards and said it would likely be dripping out of her in the afternoon as is it usually does. After getting to our destination and seeing some sites, we went to our room in the afternoon with some extra time before getting ready for dinner. We were both horny as hell and I had given her some sexy crotchless lingerie that she modeled for me, ending with her laying on the bed spreading her legs and showing me her pussy. So, of course I dove in with gusto, fueled by the knowledge that that load was still in her from just hours ago and I was not disappointed. While a bit faint, there was the unmistakable essence and taste of consummated lust. We fucked with abandon and I filled her up again. Then, we went to dinner and had drinks afterwards. Upon returning to the room, she donned another sexy piece I had given her and once again, she lay spread eagle on the bed showing me that gorgeous pussy. Again, I ate her with abandon, mind-tripping with the knowledge that she was now harboring the residuals of 2 rounds of sex earlier in the same day. So, I loaded her up again that night and again the next morning, but I did not have the opportunity for any additional exploring. She made comments about how much I kept pounding her and cumming in her, so there is a bit of an elephant in the room that I was going down on her knowing full well she was leaking cum; but we didn't speak of that. Perhaps enough time had past in between loads that the "statute of limitations" on what she considers "gay" behavior had expired.

I feel like there's an opportunity here that I'm letting slip away. It was a very erotic and sensual weekend in many ways. And frankly, the experience of tasting her pussy with our combined juices only elevated the passion, for me at least, as a sensual reminder of our unbridled lust and love for each other, much more than just a cheap opportunity to eat cum from a pussy. In that context, it doesn't seem so "gay". I'm thinking of broaching the subject in those terms, something along the lines of this talk-track: "Babe, last weekend was incredible...erotic...I couldn't resist eating that incredible pussy... one thing that surprised me was that it didn't bother me when I could sense that I was still inside you...in fact, the combined essence of our earlier passion was strangely erotic..." First of all, this is true, and secondly, I'm thinking it might not set off her finely tuned gaydar. The objective here would be to enjoy this a bit more freely and openly, so that the next time she displays her freshly fucked pussy, she may not be shocked if I decide to taste her, assuming I'm up to it at that point.

Sorry this is a bit long, but at least it gives you the "flavor" of the situation. What say any of you?

Not everything has to have a permission slip attached to it. Just do it without making a big deal out of it. If she does, ask why it has to mean anything other than the two of you having fun. Being PC does not need to enter into your sex life. It is fun, not a job. Getting respect for you making an effort to keep your sex life fresh is more important.

[Fiddlestyx]

My first wife and I loved going down on each other after the first round of intercourse. It started out because we both loved giving each other oral and the urge would usually reappear quickly post-coitus. Then when we were having the second round of intercourse there would always be a lot of kissing and sharing of our mixed fluids accompanied by my whispering in her ear about how delicious it all was. The Second Cumming was usually considerably more powerful than the first in terms of sensation if not outpouring. There was never anything to "broach", it just seemed natural.

[dan.woodlawn]

See, I dont think you are REALLY discussing cream pie. I think you are really trying to explore fantasy in a safe way with a partner. Some items might remain fantasy...some might be as hot as you imagine.
Like, you might get your 3+ guys, but the odds of no condom are low...but maybe if you know them over time...

I think you focus on creating the safe space with out any judgement.

The second part if your fear of rejection for being bi...and that is real. I dont know her, but most people are bi under SOME circumstances. So again, safe space, no judgment...once she is rewarded by your support, I suspect she will reciprocate.

[JeffT]

Oral play has always been a part of our "program". I love getting down on her pussy after cumming in her. She's always extra sensitive after an orgasm and licking and sucking her clit and pussy lips will often get her off again. Occasionally, if she cums hard enough, she'll squirt for me. Love the taste of it all mixed together. She's never been bashful about having it all cleaned up.

[Bidirectional4u]

I guess I'm lucky, my wife is turned on by me licking her pussy after I cum in her, she loves it when i lick other guys cum from her as well. She gets extremely turned on watching me suck another guys cock and seeing in slide in my ass.

[skuz69]

Go for it while you can. After a bout with prostate cancer, I don't cum anymore (well, technically I shoot into my bladder). You just never know when your last creampie chance will come.

[querty]

I guess I'm lucky, my wife is turned on by me licking her pussy after I cum in her, she loves it when i lick other guys cum from her as well. She gets extremely turned on watching me suck another guys cock and seeing in slide in my ass.

I guess I'm lucky, my wife is turned on by me licking her pussy after I cum in her, she loves it when i lick other guys cum from her as well. She gets extremely turned on watching me suck another guys cock and seeing in slide in my ass.

You are indeed lucky! Though I think 'Fortunate ' is a better word...

[CdnBadBoy]

I'd always wanted to go down on my wife after cumming in her, but couldn't do it after I came. I started saving my cum after jerking off and eating it later when I jerked again. I got really used to the taste of my cum, so one time after unloading, she hadn't cum yet, and my dick softened and slipped out, so I put my fingers in and moved them around in the mess. She got off quickly and I licked my fingers clean. She thought it kind of gross, but I said "it just tastes like you". After doing that a few times, I just dove down finally and ate her til she came. She came hard, so I think it might have turned her on, although she would never admit it. She asked me if it was gross, and again, I said no, just tastes like you. She doesn't go down on me after we fuck, and doesn't like me to kiss her after I eat her pussy, but she never asked about me going down on her creampie after that. Hope you get lots more - it's a delicacy.