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    How do you meet people?

    Since Craigslist went down how do you meet people who want to hook up? My wife and I are both bi, but we don't meet people.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    I hear some people are using a site called doublelist...

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    I have started wondering this too.... I really want to meet up with another guy letely and have no idea where to go looking now.

    Quote Originally Posted by jebenjho View Post
    Since Craigslist went down how do you meet people who want to hook up? My wife and I are both bi, but we don't meet people.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    doublelist doesn't pick up the areas between the big cities.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    In my area here, CL was about totally worthless any way because all was just looking to chat to get off, 1 or 2 email sessions and then they was GONE, none had no real intentions of meeting any one. Just BS and games or just guys only wanting blo n goes.
    Someone who wanted someone as a regular and a worth wile friend was impossible to find.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by bikurinpa View Post
    In my area here, CL was about totally worthless any way because all was just looking to chat to get off, 1 or 2 email sessions and then they was GONE, none had no real intentions of meeting any one. Just BS and games or just guys only wanting blo n goes.
    Someone who wanted someone as a regular and a worth wile friend was impossible to find.
    same experiance here...

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    I've met people from the personal ads here on bi.com....

    I've met people from ads on CL ( waste of time)

    It all boils down to this ....Its a numbers game trying to meet people....

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    www.squirt.org (good reviews of cruising sites in your area + people search) and www.silverdaddies.com (good people search and great open chat rooms w/cam)

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    I agree with Naked in Seattle. I have a lot of luck meeting men on squirt.org and silverdaddies.com. Although adultfriendfinder.com is thought to be more oriented to mf hookups and swingers' hookups, you can find hundreds of bi and bi curious men there as well. I've had some luck with manhunt.net and adam4adam.com too. The more irons you have in the fire, the more likely you are to meet guys !!

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by cuttin2dachase View Post
    I agree with Naked in Seattle. I have a lot of luck meeting men on squirt.org and silverdaddies.com. Although adultfriendfinder.com is thought to be more oriented to mf hookups and swingers' hookups, you can find hundreds of bi and bi curious men there as well. I've had some luck with manhunt.net and adam4adam.com too. The more irons you have in the fire, the more likely you are to meet guys !!
    Here in my area, the ones on squirt are all the same ones on all the other sites too, just made new names! Most have no real intentions of trying to find anyone, just like to chat to get their rocks off then they are gone, the reason so many has been on the sites so long.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    walk the mall. Eyes show who wants to play. Or pickup a hitchhiker.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    that is probably alright if you are just looking for sex with just any random guy. I am looking for someone who wants regular friendship as well and a regular thing, which is nearly totally impossible to find too!

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    I find caffmos.com is the best xx

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    Red face Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by bikurinpa View Post
    Here in my area, the ones on squirt are all the same ones on all the other sites too, just made new names! Most have no real intentions of trying to find anyone, just like to chat to get their rocks off then they are gone, the reason so many has been on the sites so long.
    This.

    Or go to bars.

    But first learn how to read eye-contact. You can DEFINITELY tell who's interested by the intensity of eye contact that they make with you.

    I also recommend taking a phenibut supplement to relax yourself and become more socialable.

    It basically makes you calm, focused, and relaxed.

    The most popular vendor for phenibut is Phenibut Hero - they make some good stuff, straight out of Los Angeles

    In any case, becoming ultra-sensitive to social dynamics in public settings can allow you to find partners nearly everywhere!

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    learning to read eye contact would be my best, I go out to lake fish hoping to find some one there who may be interested, but I also thinking of maybe trying a gym, like the Y that has swimming pool or a hot tub.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by hazelcd View Post
    I find caffmos.com is the best xx
    Wanna provide a link that works?

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by jebenjho View Post
    Since Craigslist went down how do you meet people who want to hook up? My wife and I are both bi, but we don't meet people.
    Why don't you give this site a try. http://www.polymatchmaker.com/

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Met with a guy from SilverDaddies this morning. He may be the guy I've been looking for for a long time. Married, no sex at home, lives close by, great availability, able to host sometimes. Totally new to M-M play, but very curious, interested and not afraid to at least try just about any possible activities that we may come up with. Loves my passion for silky lingerie.

    Very nice guy, and not averse to exchanging several substantive emails to get to know one another before the first meeting. We're both hoping that we can become 'regulars'...

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    I have been finding Tinder for very sexy ladies.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    I have never been nor could I ever go on hookup sites for cock. I have been extremely lucky to identify men who are looking for the same thing. As a frequent business traveler I know most men away from their wives either fantasize about other men or are privately Bi. That said, I often find myself in the Hotel workout centers and have been extremely successful. But not long ago I was on a trip to Buffalo NY and sitting in a Hotel bar I over heard a guy asking the bar tender if there was a more happening place within walking distance, after the bar tender said no I motioned for him to come over and when he came over I asked him if he was without wheels, he said he was there for training and he was using the shuttle. He was quite a bit younger than I am but I asked him what exactly was he looking for , he wanted to relax in a place with music and drinks. I told him I am not familiar with Buffalo but I would drive if he was willing. He said he’ll yea let’s go. Not knowing the area we ended up at a sports pub not far from the Hotel. As the evening progressed we decided to leave and head back, driving back he said so what are you doing to entertain yourself tonight. I laughed and said probably go back and beat off like every other guy, he laughed and said holy shit I was thinking the same thing, maybe we could beat off together. I laughed and said what kind of porn do you watch, without hesitation he said any kind of porn. When he said that I knew he was looking for an evening of fun so I just built on that. We decided to go back to the Hotel bar and of course the conversation was switched up to sex. He was married as I am, I learned he was a little wild in Collage and had been with men before. He said you seem pretty chill, want to go and watch some porn and see what happens? I paid the tab and we went to my room and I put on porn hub and looked up facials compilation and as we watched I seen the bulge in his pants grow and I told him it was alright to unleash it, we got naked and was stroking our cocks and he kept staring at my cock so I guided his hand and he started stroking it and now he was rock hard and it wasn’t long before he was sucking my cock. It wasn’t long before we were 69ing on the bed and his younger cock was leaking precum which is my favorite. It wasn’t long before he was on top throat fucking me and enjoying every thrust. He in a very soft cautious voice said he was ready to cum I grabbed his ass and forced his cock deeper and I milked every drop I could and as he was throbbing and cumming he started moaning so loud I thought the next room was going to hear us. After he gave me my reward, I tuned him over on his back straddled his chest and jacked off a load all over his face.

    So guys, who needs craigslist or other sites, do the old fashioned thing and learn to identify who needs what.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by hung4you View Post
    So guys, who needs craigslist or other sites, do the old fashioned thing and learn to identify who needs what.
    That may work out well for a business traveler who hangs out in hotel workout rooms and bars in Buffalo, NY, but come back when you're retired and spend 90% of your time with your wife, and your primary socialization consists of a weekly 1/2 hour Weight Watchers meeting in a mid-sized suburban town...

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by bikurinpa View Post
    In my area here, CL was about totally worthless any way because all was just looking to chat to get off, 1 or 2 email sessions and then they was GONE, none had no real intentions of meeting any one. Just BS and games or just guys only wanting blo n goes.
    Someone who wanted someone as a regular and a worth wile friend was impossible to find.
    ive searched for smaller cities within Austin, TX and found a few. So if there are posts for the cities being searched, they will show up

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Doublelist doesn't have my city so that didn't work out for me.

    Squirt has been a total bust. Lot of activity but it doesn't seem like anyone is actually looking to meet, it's just endless messages and requests for pics. The only good thing about Squirt is that the cruising spots in my area are well documented, but I don't know if I want to get into that scene.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    You could try Adultfriendfinder.com or Adam4Adam.com they are very popular.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by elmwood7 View Post
    You could try Adultfriendfinder.com or Adam4Adam.com they are very popular.
    Adultfriendfinder, i bought a 6 mo membership their IM chat that can send IMs to other members, dont work that great, you can send 10 messages and maybe if ur lucky 1 user would actually receive the message! You have to buy both levels of membership to really benefit, the first level is the gold, but if you message another non member, he can not even read or reply back! In this area, none of the sites work good, all just looking to chat to get off and no intention of meeting.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by bikurinpa View Post
    Adultfriendfinder, i bought a 6 mo membership their IM chat that can send IMs to other members, dont work that great, you can send 10 messages and maybe if ur lucky 1 user would actually receive the message! You have to buy both levels of membership to really benefit, the first level is the gold, but if you message another non member, he can not even read or reply back! In this area, none of the sites work good, all just looking to chat to get off and no intention of meeting.
    Adult Friend finder is a massive waste of time and money. We were members for 7 years and it was decent the first couple of years. Now their user base is pretty small and god only knows how many of them are fakes. If the Ashley Madison hack taught us anything it is that none of the hookups sites are what they try to appear to be.

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    Re: How do you meet people?

    Quote Originally Posted by JonT559 View Post
    Squirt has been a total bust. Lot of activity but it doesn't seem like anyone is actually looking to meet, it's just endless messages and requests for pics. The only good thing about Squirt is that the cruising spots in my area are well documented, but I don't know if I want to get into that scene.
    My problem with Squirt is that there is this obnoxious button that lets users send a 'Hey, I checked you out' canned message with one click of the mouse. How fucking lazy is that? There's a guy on there that sends me a one-line 'Hey sexy - can you host and play today?' request via chat at least once a week. First time, I politely answered via PM, suggesting that 1) I take the time to get to know people a little in the virtual world before getting naked with them in the real world, and 2) I don't have a lot of opportunities to play, so I tend to look for specific things in a user profile before agreeing to meet. I'm sure he's a 'nice guy', but he's not what I'm looking for.

    I'm not trying to find new best friend, but the kind of guy/gurl I want to play with has to invest a little energy into getting to know me a bit before we meet -- ESPECIALLY since I'm almost always expected to host. I want to find someone with whom I can play on an occasional or regular basis, not anonymous one-offs I'll never see again. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out, but I'm not holding auditions for just anybody. I'm not 'picky', but I have some selection criteria and preferences. Show some initiative.

    Send me a PM that says more than 'luv to hook up'. If you like my pictures or profile, tell me what it is that interests you. Suggest what we may have as common interests based upon what turns you on and what you enjoy doing.

 

 

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