How many are straight acting closeted cocksuckers?

[Rest85]

It seems we all have the same appreciation, admiration, and desire to please other men's cocks.

I am just curious how many are straight acting and fully closeted about it, with no other person knowing that you enjoy pleasuring a nice hard dick?

I am totally closeted about my love of sucking cocks and I can't foresee that I ever will tell anyone, other than in forums or in conversations with those who I submissively orally pleasure.

I like it that way because, for me, I find it especially arousing and naughty to hide my intense desire to be a slut for another man.

I am straight acting. The one time I slipped up while cruising and came face to face with a guy who was acquainted with me through a customer/cashier connection, he kept saying, "I can't believe it. I never would have suspected you!"

Thankfully he was discrete. That was years ago and I've never seen him since, so I maintain my cover...my secret side.

[Fzmr9t]

Married over 40 years, been BI (closeted) for about 20

[tongueteaser]

I sucked for one guy only and no one knows or would realize it. I need to find another discreet guy to go down on weekly and discreetly. I will never be open about this

[jargon]

I am not an active cocksucker but, at 66 years old have come to embrace the bi-side that I suppose has been part of me since adolescence. These days I jerk off primarily to gay porn and get off on the idea of sexual exploration with another man. However, these desires are kept fully in the closet. I identify as a straight man and am still very much attracted to women but find this secret lust for men very exciting. So I absolutely agree with you, Rest85 about the arousing and naughty aspect. I am also very turned on by stories about married men secretly sucking cock, getting fucked by other men and carrying in a "naughty" way secretly.

[dicktrobing]

There are certain pleasures I enjoy in life that just do not want the whole world to know about, enjoy a hot arse slamming, cock sucking few hours with another man is one of them

[Kysquire]

I am not an active cocksucker but, at 66 years old have come to embrace the bi-side that I suppose has been part of me since adolescence. These days I jerk off primarily to gay porn and get off on the idea of sexual exploration with another man. However, these desires are kept fully in the closet. I identify as a straight man and am still very much attracted to women but find this secret lust for men very exciting. So I absolutely agree with you, Rest85 about the arousing and naughty aspect. I am also very turned on by stories about married men secretly sucking cock, getting fucked by other men and carrying in a "naughty" way secretly.

You and I get-off on the same things. I find hard cock so appealing and stimulating. These days, women, not so much. I am 75 and I think older men get more bi as they age.

[KDaddy23]

I find the term "straight acting" to be inaccurate since bisexual men are straight until they're doing something that isn't. Being able to act straight was a gay thing and understandably so since, at the time, they were catching all kinds of hell about being gay and the only way for them to avoid being singled out and persecuted was to act straight. The same with "being in the closet;" it was something used to describe gay men who were afraid to let their gayness be known and being in the closet turned into a bad thing to do and a very bad place to be and, yeah, that place to "cower in fear." Not everyone can come out - another thing originally associated with homosexuals - but a lot of men are amazing cocksuckers and can be without coming out or making themselves look "silly" trying to act straight when, in fact, they still are.

It is just my opinion that if you think in these terms, all you're doing is giving yourself some "issues" that you probably don't need. I suck cock. Don't much care who finds out that I do but I'm not going to "run around" telling everyone I come in contact with that I'm bi. I'm not "straight acting" because I am straight... until I start sucking your dick - but the act never defines the person. That's a "gay thing" to do and we've associated all kinds of bad shit behind it but, um, we're not gay. We are bisexual. Men and women (and never, ever "or"). Straight and gay sex works for us. Learn not to be your own worst enemy by using these terms and letting them fuck with you. Just be yourself. Own being bisexual. Not everyone needs to know that you are. As far as I know, you can't look at a guy and tell if he's bi or not - and it isn't because he's acting straight because, again, he is straight until he's doing something that isn't but, yep, even then, he's a straight guy who likes dick, too.

Finally, there are way too many people in the world who cannot tell the difference between a bi guy and a gay one. All they see is the gay stuff we do... and overlook the fact that it's not the only "stuff" we do. None of us here are straight acting closeted cocksuckers; we're straight, we suck cock, and we'd prefer that not a lot of people know that we do because who wants to listen to all that bullshit about not being 100% straight and being in denial of being gay? I sure as fuck don't and I'm sure you don't either. I understand why we think this way. We shouldn't. I don't because it implies that I'm not okay with what I am and if I'm not, that's the real problem. I beg you not to do this to yourselves. Just be you. Own being you. And give up this "straight acting" crap because it's not the reality of who you are since, um, you're both but neither think exclusively. We are not gay men - and I say this without any offense to gay men. We just aren't. We don't need to act straight because we are straight. Understand this.

[mtnmen2]

I'm totally in the closet. Have way too much to lose by getting found out, plus I like having my dirty little secret all to myself. Also the chance of getting caught adds to the excitement.

[cornholejoe]

I am discreet on what i do and with who i do it with i may have sex with a woman one week and a man the next week or maybe a 3 way with a man and a woman so its not anything i feel ashamed about its just no one business but mime

[B87cabj]

That’s me! I am a discreet cocksucker who is married.

[jem_is_bi]

I am more gay than straight.
I do not go out of my way to hide that I have sex with men, nor do I go out of my way to tell people I do have sex with men.
My primary sexual preference is the only thing that differentiates me from totally straight men.
Straight acting is the only way I interact with others.
I am totally comfortable being a straight acting mostly gay man.

[Warmnsalty]

Started sucking cock when I was married to wife #1, sucked for 15 yrs she never new anything. Got divorced, was single for about 10 years, dated several girls, still sucking as much cock as I could get. Was an active single M in the lifestyle, loving all of it. Told myself I wasn't getting married again unless I found a hot wife of my own. Found one, she knew I was bi, so is she. Married now, still suck as much cock as I can get while enjoying her pussy. No one in my "normal" life has any idea I'm a cock sucking cum slut.

[licyou69]

At this point still just a straight acting bi-curious wannabe cocksucker and cum swallower

[csreef]

I think there are more closeted Bisexual men and women then we will ever know about.

[Jozyxt]

I am completely straight with only a slight tendency to make self-inclusive homo jokes. That tendency predates my being a cocksucker or a feeder by several decades.

[Rest85]

I am completely straight with only a slight tendency to make self-inclusive homo jokes. That tendency predates my being a cocksucker or a feeder by several decades.

Same here. It was commonplace when I was growing up to make all sorts of homo jokes. I played along but never was one to speak of 'queers' with disgust like some guys. I never understood the animosity some guys had toward gays.
Anyway, yes, my homo joking predated the beginnings of my curiosity about sucking dick. I don't hear many anti homo comments now, thank goodness, because I wouldn't laugh along with others. It was part of the times when I was young.

[jamier58]

I agree with you

[SilkyHoseLover]

I'll put a little bit different spin on this. To most people who know me or see how I appear in public settings, I would likely appear to be straight. But it's not an act, and I don't try to give that impression. It's just that projecting sexuality isn't part of my everyday life. I don't 'act' one way or the other. I'm just me. If I engage in private conversation with like-minded people in an internet forum or in-person, we can throw around the word bi or heteroflexible. Or even straight.

I like to crossdress. I like to suck cock. I like to have cock sucked. Labels, I'm not so concerned about.

I'm not 'in the closet', but it's not common knowledge that I enjoy these things. The people who have a right or the privilege to know -- such as my wife -- know. Anybody else can take a guess, but I would think not too many others care.

[KDaddy23]

"Homo joking" is, I think, just part of being one of the guys. Even I've done it but, unlike the other guys, I know what's really hilarious about getting some dick. Yes: To hear the hate from other guys just pisses me off but I learned to understand that they don't really know what they're talking about and all they're doing is repeating the same old dumb shit that has been around since forever. I stopped letting what other people think bother me and keep me from being the guy who loves to suck dick. The fella homo joke and I know that for some of them, they're really expressing their own inner fears and I long since learned that a lot of guys behaving like this could be hiding their own desires to have sex with a man - but image is everything and it's not so much "acting straight" but it is a thing of not being tagged as being gay... and even I will give you a piece of my mind if you accused me of being gay. Just how it is. I'm not gay. Well, like I said, not until I do something that we all know is gay but, in reality, it's just having sex. It's having sex in a way that, again, not everyone needs to know about. I maintain that if being in the closet is scary for you, it's because you've allowed others to make it scary for you; we tend to believe the horror stories more than we do the truth and I'd implore you to seek and accept the truth: You're not acting straight because you are and more than just that. You don't have to let everyone know this about you.

Don't overthink this. Don't buy into the "straight acting" nonsense. Don't accept the bullshit that being in the closet means you're cowering in fear and really understand that the more you try to "act straight," you just might get someone wondering what the fuck is wrong with you and they might start asking question you might not want to answer. Just be who you've always been since there's no real reason for you to behave any other way. You're straight and, really, even when you're throwing it down with another man. Understand this and do not let anyone tell you anything different. I'll say it again: The act doesn't define this and sucking dick, or topping, or bottoming doesn't mean you're gay because you damned well know that you aren't - so there's no need for you to "act straight."

Because you are. Duh. A lot of you became bi late in life and you were straight before you found this out about you and once you did, you're still straight - but you have a hankering for men. And that, my friends, is the only thing that's changed about you and, yes, given the hell you might catch from others, it's normal to keep this to yourself but that doesn't mean you have to be fearful over having to keep this to yourself and to the best of your ability. Not every guy who's in the closet gets outed but I will tell you that any time you're not being yourself, you stand a good chance of outing yourself. This is some real shit and I've seen a lot of guys out themselves... because they were trying to act straight. Think about this - seriously. Trying to do this can draw unwanted attention to you because you're behaving differently and if you're married, a wife who's paying attention to you will pick up on the fact that you're acting weird. Think about that, too.

You're a cocksucker. Great! You don't want everyone to know that you are. Understandable. You never have to act straight because you are but you have no issues with getting some dick when you can. This is the reality. I apologize to you all but this "straight acting" just bakes my noodle because it's some shit that gets imposed on us by others who don't understand what being bisexual means... and I gotta tell y'all not to let what others think fuck with you and get you thinking and behaving this way.

[marine20]

i am naturally a very masculine man. there is no acting for me . there are no friends or relatives that no my secret . when i grew up it was a mortal sin to be gay , or even bi. so i have been in the closet since i started at 25. that being said , i finally told my wife after about 40 years. she had no clue at all , because of the way i am. fortunately , she took it well. i think because i started doing it before i met her. that way , she new it wasn't because of her. so , she is the only person that knows.

[Rest85]

"Homo joking" is, I think, just part of being one of the guys. Even I've done it but, unlike the other guys, I know what's really hilarious about getting some dick. Yes: To hear the hate from other guys just pisses me off but I learned to understand that they don't really know what they're talking about and all they're doing is repeating the same old dumb shit that has been around since forever. I stopped letting what other people think bother me and keep me from being the guy who loves to suck dick. The fella homo joke and I know that for some of them, they're really expressing their own inner fears and I long since learned that a lot of guys behaving like this could be hiding their own desires to have sex with a man - but image is everything and it's not so much "acting straight" but it is a thing of not being tagged as being gay... and even I will give you a piece of my mind if you accused me of being gay. Just how it is. I'm not gay. Well, like I said, not until I do something that we all know is gay but, in reality, it's just having sex. It's having sex in a way that, again, not everyone needs to know about. I maintain that if being in the closet is scary for you, it's because you've allowed others to make it scary for you; we tend to believe the horror stories more than we do the truth and I'd implore you to seek and accept the truth: You're not acting straight because you are and more than just that. You don't have to let everyone know this about you.

Don't overthink this. Don't buy into the "straight acting" nonsense. Don't accept the bullshit that being in the closet means you're cowering in fear and really understand that the more you try to "act straight," you just might get someone wondering what the fuck is wrong with you and they might start asking question you might not want to answer. Just be who you've always been since there's no real reason for you to behave any other way. You're straight and, really, even when you're throwing it down with another man. Understand this and do not let anyone tell you anything different. I'll say it again: The act doesn't define this and sucking dick, or topping, or bottoming doesn't mean you're gay because you damned well know that you aren't - so there's no need for you to "act straight."

Because you are. Duh. A lot of you became bi late in life and you were straight before you found this out about you and once you did, you're still straight - but you have a hankering for men. And that, my friends, is the only thing that's changed about you and, yes, given the hell you might catch from others, it's normal to keep this to yourself but that doesn't mean you have to be fearful over having to keep this to yourself and to the best of your ability. Not every guy who's in the closet gets outed but I will tell you that any time you're not being yourself, you stand a good chance of outing yourself. This is some real shit and I've seen a lot of guys out themselves... because they were trying to act straight. Think about this - seriously. Trying to do this can draw unwanted attention to you because you're behaving differently and if you're married, a wife who's paying attention to you will pick up on the fact that you're acting weird. Think about that, too.

You're a cocksucker. Great! You don't want everyone to know that you are. Understandable. You never have to act straight because you are but you have no issues with getting some dick when you can. This is the reality. I apologize to you all but this "straight acting" just bakes my noodle because it's some shit that gets imposed on us by others who don't understand what being bisexual means... and I gotta tell y'all not to let what others think fuck with you and get you thinking and behaving this way.

The way I see it, there are some folks who have replied that misinterpret the phrase 'straight acting'. It has nothing to do with acting in the sense of pretending to be something you aren't. All 'straight acting' means in this context is a person who doesn't seem gay with his mannerisms. It doesn't have anything to do with 'acting' a certain way that is not natural to your normal demeanor.

I agree with the notion of just being who you are. I don't attach anything negative to having what are generally considered to be gay mannerisms or any other way people naturally act.

There's no hidden meaning in the phrase 'straight acting'. I don't see anthing to be upset about in my original question/post. But, if you just want to be offended, go ahead.

[Veryoralniceguy]

I’ve been a bisexual cocksucker since I was a boy and no one would ever guess from the way I appear or act.

[CurEUs_Male]

I used to identify as straight, more likely as the default not-gay option?

Then in my 30's., while enjoying an open, swinging experience with my wife I started to question some attractions and assumptions of my like. I look back at my teens and 20's, and think "How did I miss that bi thing?", and I came out as bi-curious and eventually bi, to my wife. A few contacts across online quickly followed, and I strived to find other bi folks that were fun and supportive.

It's been a long 20 years or so since then. I have had a few experiences that make me sure I fit well between the endpoints of straight and gay on a scale. Middle, Slightly left or right... it does shift from time to time, but solidly bi. I share this more with new people I meet. Often I only focus to meet new people that are within the LGBTQ+ community, or adjacent such as kink and poly/open communities, as they are far more accepting than the general public.

So, I am not specifically closeted, though still not out to most family, old friends, and co-workers.

Am I straight acting? That seems to be something to ask of all the people that look at me to determine. I am, after all bi, and not acting, so I should be bi-presenting? If you look at some sites that show "This is what bi looks like..." It's all over the place. I do not think there is a bi 'look', honestly outside of stereotypes I do not think there is a gay look, nor a straight look... Sure, my cuffed jeans and flannel shirts may certainly fall into the bi look, but I would bet walking down the street with my wife would rule those, and most others would assume straight. That's on them.

[PickleRick]

First time poster here... Yes, closeted cocksucker. First time was about 10 years ago, in my mid 20's, I was a little curious after hearing that a college buddy and his friend used to suck eachother off. Somehow found the nerve to check Craigslist and reply to an ad about half an hour's drive. Met in his car, he was probably early 50's, soft spoken, though we didn't say much... He took his out and I went for it. He got a little pushy to see mine, but I wasn't ready for that and kind of chickened out.
Kind of suppressed the desire for a few years, then met with him again. Let him see mine but not touch, he came in my mouth in less than 2 minutes.
I met up with a few other guys since then, never finishing them off though unfortunately.
Have met up with the original guy as lately as a month ago.
We don't know eachothers names or much of anything about eachother, but he hosts, and I enjoy our occasional meet ups.
Aside from that...pussy all the way!

[Buck Naked]

I am not an active cocksucker but, at 66 years old have come to embrace the bi-side that I suppose has been part of me since adolescence. These days I jerk off primarily to gay porn and get off on the idea of sexual exploration with another man. However, these desires are kept fully in the closet. I identify as a straight man and am still very much attracted to women but find this secret lust for men very exciting. So I absolutely agree with you, Rest85 about the arousing and naughty aspect. I am also very turned on by stories about married men secretly sucking cock, getting fucked by other men and carrying in a "naughty" way secretly.

This could have been me writing, same age, same desires, and would love to have a secret suck buddy

[jimmy1664]

I am straight acting and love cock!

[nephillyguy]

I love sucking cock, but not attracted to guys at all other than their cock.

[SuckerMC]

I am a straight guy and am a curious cocksucker. No one knows about my curiosity.

[rascal2014]

I'm a 70 year old closeted bisexual. Been married forever lol. As some others have stated that I became interested in cock around 60. Now I prefer sucking a cock over pussy. Although I won't turn it down lol. I'd like to find a younger guy for a regular fwb. I once had a regular guy that only wanted me to suck him nothing more. I really enjoyed that very much. Hope to find another guy like him.

[Rest85]

I'm a 70 year old closeted bisexual. Been married forever lol. As some others have stated that I became interested in cock around 60. Now I prefer sucking a cock over pussy. Although I won't turn it down lol. I'd like to find a younger guy for a regular fwb. I once had a regular guy that only wanted me to suck him nothing more. I really enjoyed that very much. Hope to find another guy like him.

Good luck to you. We have that in common, the love of sucking with no recip. It's my favorite turn-on, the perspective that I am being used as a cocksucker for anoither man's pleasure and nothing more.