Both - but the dick matters much more to me. I want and also need a guy with at least 9 inches of dick. The cutest hottest sexiest man doesn't do it for me if he's packing anything less. And 10 inches is my personal sweet spot....
Oh just the cock. I don't ever "see" men as attractive. More often than not the "hot" guys according to females are pretty much not very cool in my opinion. On a man scale, they don't rank very high to me. But I am so drawn by a hard cock. Mmmmm. One belonging to a guy who will not shy from fucking me like the dirty little whore I am. Then lets me suck him off over and over again, filling my belly with his sweet sperm. God I need it now.
Great thread. I can relate to so many posts here.
Same here, it's the guy. But once we connect and both feel comfortable and gain more experience together then I lust for the cock. It's so much better after we learn each other's likes and dislikes.
I can really relate to this feeling (not the experience) because the initial sexual attraction doesn't happen with men as easily as it does with women. I'm really turned on by feminine qualities and emotional connections with women come so much easier. An emotional and sexual relationship with a feminine guy earlier in life would have been very fulfilling. Unfortunately I didn't recognize the my sexual desires until later. And at this age I have difficulty thinking about this with someone much younger.
Very well said.
BiBoz49 Live in the moment
I have been with guys who turned me on because I enjoyed being with them both dressed and naked. Then there have been a few guys who I only wanted to suck their cock and get their load of cum and get out because their cock was the only redeeming feature.
me too! are you in the Cypress area?
Cock for sure..But...i did kiss a guy a cpl weeks ago for the first time. As soon as i stuck my toung in his mouth, my old cock got hard as a brick. As it is now thinking about it..he was not good looking at all but when you shut your eyes and feel the passion, it makes absolutely no differance..but cock is the main attraction. I like them clean about 6 or 7 inches with mushroom head..perfect fit in my mouth...
for me it's Confusing and I've fought with myself for years over it, I actually don't find guys to be very attractive and I can't and I've tried to get emotionally attractive to a guy but my mind won't let me plus I absolutely hate body hair. I find women's body and minds to be so sexy and can easily fall for a woman. But I love to feel, suck, and ride a nice real natural cock so for me it's all about the cock. hell if trees started to grow cocks I'd live in the woods.
I have been with unattractive men who have had the most delicious cock and I loved every minute of it.
Most of the time I'm just interested in the cock and don't care what the guy looks like. But if they're ethnic looking and decent looking, I get really turned on by them. Especially black, latino, asian and middle eastern.
This is me exactly. I've tried to find men attractive and it just doesn't work. The wiring isn't there. I can notice a guy is good looking, but I'm not attracted or turned on by it.
But watching a guy getting sucked off by another guy and all of a sudden I can fantasize myself in either roll. Cant watch buttsecks though, mm or fm, it grosses me out.
Foe me it is MOSTLY about the cock, but I cannot be with a guy that has poor hygiene, way over weight, or just plain ugly. There has to be some form of attraction.
For me the cock is the attraction.
For me, the cock comes first. If anything else develops then that's all to the good.
It really depends on whom I am with and the mood I am in. There are times when I people watch and fantasize about people I see in public. Other times it is about both the man and his cock. And then there are times when it is just about the cock and getting a mouthful of cum.
Defiantly the cock, can count on one hand the guys I've actually fancied after all these years and they weren't very desirable to me in any way where as its in the thousands with women, just don't find guys attractive but many-a cock is soooo sexy.
Think thats why i like shemales so much too, in fact spend to much time looking at shemale porn, perfect combination beautiful curvy feminine girl with a sexy cock..recon i could fall for a shemale quite easily, of course the reality of dating a transexual on hormone therapy is an altogether different thing!
I need to feel friendship or more with a person, man or woman, before anything else happens. If I'm with someone I hardly know or who doesn't care about anything except sex, then I cannot feel safe enough to get aroused. I need to feel some kind of emotional depth or warmth. I realize that I'm odd in that way, since most men can become aroused just being around an attractive man or woman, without knowing much of anything about them. I guess that I'm wired differently, and this makes it much more difficult to meet people, especially men.
I never "see" men as attractive. I do with females (almost all) only "turned by a man when we are planning to have sex. I do need to know him and the plan.
if con is the opposite of pro
is congress the opposite of progress?
how cute is the guy, if t how passable, cock 6" or more, and a kisser
Definitely the cock. No real attraction to men. But I absolutely love sucking a hard cock.
Like many others on here, for me it's more about the cock than the man. I wonder if that's part of the difference between being bi / bi-curious rather than gay. If so, I'm certainly getting more "gay" as I get older. Last year a gentleman friend introduced me to anal. Since then I've found myself not only thinking of his cock and the experience, but wishing we were free to hang out and get to know each other better than circumstances would allow. I don't think I'll every feel that wave of lust that I feel at just seeing some women, but suddenly the idea of making out with a guy (at least this guy) doesn't seem so bad.
Uh, guys, if you aren't attracted to men, but only to their penises, you are not bisexual. You have what is known as a cock fetish. You abstract the penis from the man it is attached to, but have no other real sexual attraction to the man himself. There is nothing with this, of course, but it isn't a bisexual trait. We have known for a long time that straight men can - and very often do - pleasure one another, but want nothing more than this release. Bisexuals are sexually attracted to men, not just the penis.
Do you even know anything about human sexuality? Men who are gay/homosexual are only sexually attracted to the same gender, and yes some gay men are mainly into men only for their cocks, and do not like kissing.
People who are bisexual are sexually attracted to both genders even if it's just a sexual attraction such as, "being into men only for their cock" or on the flip side "being into women only for their cunt".
"bi curious" is just another term for being bisexual since if the person was really gay, or if they were heterosexual they would not have sexual attraction/sex fantasies about both genders.
There is some truth in this in that if you're actually really truely bisexual or a real actual Kinsey 3 you will want a man for more than just his cock, and you can fall in love and have relationships with men as both myself and my husband have done as we're bisexual.
But being obsessed with dick, ass, or cunt is not a sexual fetish as a sexual fetish is when something that's completely non-sexual turns you on like how some people have a foot fetish, get sexually aroused by seeing people smoke, or get sexually aroused by seeing people wear certain types of shoes or gloves on their hands those are actual fetishes.
I know of no actual heterosexual man who has ever had sex with a man, except for men in prison but they get raped and forced to have sex with men as a prison bitch.
I agree to an extent. I'm not the biggest fan of the Kinsey scale, since it is outdated and somewhat limited. Yet I am the equivalent of a Kinsey 2. I've never "fallen in love" with a man, though I have developed a deep and meaningful regard for my male lover. If I don't have this, the sex is empty and really only slightly more satisfying than masturbation. So I need the emotional connection.
a fetish is, by definition, the objectifying an object or an act to the extent that the object or act is more sexually satisfying than is usual. It is different from an obsession. So if you focus on just the pussy, just the breast, just the cock, or whatever, and don't care about the rest of the person, it's a fetish.
I find the dick much more attractive than the man. I will suck a cock regardless of what I may think of the man.
I have an obsession with the cock; I want the cock more than the man; getting to know the man after using his cock might lead to the reversal.
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