How did you discover you were bi?

"Discovered" or accepted? I suspected there was something different about me when I was in my early teens and would masturbate thinking about guys fucking me or sucking their dicks. Took many years of guilty jack off sessions before I even knew that my fantasies didn't have to mean I was gay. Just knowing the term 'bisexual' was not much comfort to me though...much as I tried to console myself. I felt ashamed that I couldn't be content with the sex I was having with my wife.....that is when we were still having sex. As the distance between us grew and my desire grew along with with it, men were more often than not the easiest outlet. More guilty pleasure followed until long after the final break and I met my present wife. Her open mindedness and hedonistic streak showed me that I could be truly myself as we played with both sexes freely and guilt free. THAT was when I was able to say I was bi.

I’m an exhibitionist who enjoys getting naked in my car and going to cruising sites to be watched masturbating. Before long I was allowing strangers to touch me, then suck me and before I knew it I was sucking their dicks as they approached me naked in my car. It just kind of happened. Now I actively seek guys who are looking to be sucked off and arrange to meet them through websites and apps.

It never occurred to me to suck cock or have a gut suck my cock until I took a sociology class in my mid twenties and we read articles on the tea rooms and the old video of those bathrooms from the 50’s I think.. to this day I still remember reading it and finding it fascinating. Married me , straight men needed a release so they sucked each other off.. today I am not attracted to men at all, but very attracted to cock. Limited experience but want to start sucking and getting sucked weekly once pandemic is over.. so am I bi? Maybe or fluid or all those other terms ? Not sure.. what is a guy who loves sex with women is not attracted to men other than their cock make me?

I was 14 and my gf at the time had a brother who was two years older than us and was a crossdresser both his sister(my gf) and his single mother knew and not only accepted but helped him , I had no idea at first until one day I was at their home and from the hallway there is this beautiful girl walking into the room I thought my gf had a friend over and she intoduced her to me and me to her I was really taken with everything about her , and when the two started giggling and laughing all I knew was there was a joke that I was not apart of until my gf told me who her gf really was , but I was not sure about the news and was looking hard at her face and body she was wearing a short skirt and when I was walking around her looking about my second trip I lifted the back of her skirt and was looking at the sweetest tightest little butt in the sexiest little panties , they both broke out in a loud laughing fit and I knew they were just fucking with me , when she said wrong side she lifted the front of her skirt legs together showing me a definite bulge in her panties as I was just staring she moved in close tilted my head so we were eye to eye and kissed me right in front of my gf after filling me in on his crossdressing they told me how he always wanted to be HER in front of someone other than his sister and mother that day we spent all day together I thought my cock would never go down and we were inseparable for so many years. I have never looked back and never questioned somthing that was so good and fullfilling

I got sucked into it.

The reply above probably explains it.

Moreso, when a couple of work colleagues approached me, and one revealed his erect cock. All a bit of a joke. I laughed along with them, then went to find somewhere quiet to masturbate. I had fucked a few guys by then, and received a few blowjobs. But I did not admit my attraction to cock until that date. I realised then that I had been kidding myself. I really wanted that big, hard cock in my mouth.

I guess I had a slow realisation of my self understanding. I was a very young teenager when I was 'accosted' by a man on the roadside. He asked me to follow him into a field to help him move some fallen branches and as he was leading me away from the road I noticed that he was playing with his cock as it was dangling from his open flies. Luckily I had the presence of mind to get away from him and I probably saved myself from an unbidden sexual assault or worse.

A few years later I was befriended by an older man in my local pub. After getting to know each other over several evenings, he invited me back to his flat for a nightcap and after revealing that he was gay (which I was already assuming) he offered to suck my cock. It was my first ever sexual experience, and one that I'll always remember with fondness.

A few years later I was going through a turbulent break-up with a girlfriend. A gay friend of mine invited me out for a drink to give me a little support and friendship during the hard times I was going through. He revealed that he had feelings for me and asked if it would damage our friendship. I also really liked him too, and decided to go with him for a short drive. We parked up and he asked if he could suck my cock. Then I asked if I could suck his. His 9" cock was an impressive sight and felt so good to touch (it was the first time I had ever touched another mans body) The hardness of his erection was distinctly at odds to his to the silky soft skin stretched over it.

I took the head of his cock into my mouth and loved the feeling of it filling me. It all felt so natural, and right.

I knew I would never not want cock after that even though I still wanted the softness and curves of a woman's body.

to add more I eventually went to a porn theater in a major city and went into the gay movie . It was dark I could see some men sitting though out the theater s sone wondering around or hanging at the back. On the screen was a muscle guy jerking off .. I didn’t know what to do and was so nervous. I decided to sit down one seat in from the isle assuming that woild mean to guys come sit next to me. Within a few minutes a guy did. Within a minute his hand was in my leg, then he started rubbing my leg and I didn’t stop him so his ribs were longer and starting to rub my cock.. I started getting very hard, he then focused on rubbing and outlining my cock. Eventually he went to undo my pants and instead of stopping him I found myself helping him .. he rubbed my cock over my under sweet then he put his hand inside my underwear after the second stroke I came really hard. I then got nervous and told him it’s not for me and left with him saying please let me suck it .. I left and was ashamed and disgusted with myself .. what was I doing I am never doing that again but a few days later it’s all I could think about

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Originally Posted by Tag200

It never occurred to me to suck cock or have a gut suck my cock until I took a sociology class in my mid twenties and we read articles on the tea rooms and the old video of those bathrooms from the 50’s I think.. to this day I still remember reading it and finding it fascinating. Married me , straight men needed a release so they sucked each other off.. today I am not attracted to men at all, but very attracted to cock. Limited experience but want to start sucking and getting sucked weekly once pandemic is over.. so am I bi? Maybe or fluid or all those other terms ? Not sure.. what is a guy who loves sex with women is not attracted to men other than their cock make me?

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When I started giving blowjobs to men and and enjoying it.

how many did you give before you started to enjoy it?

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Originally Posted by Waylon

When I started giving blowjobs to men and and enjoying it.

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Originally Posted by Jozyxt

I got sucked into it.

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Best one liner for the win

For me being a cocksucker is simply me fulfilling my place in the universe. I had always thought of myself as being completely straight until I blew my first cock. To this day I love having sex with women, but I also absolutely love sucking cock as well. For me, giving a blowjob to a nice cock fulfills an incredibly strong sexual desire like no other.

The first guy I blew was a guy in college with me. He use to tease me a lot about sex. He finally told me two things that I will always remember. He told me that there are two types of men in this world; those born to have their cocks sucked, and those who are born to suck cock. He also told me that by the way I dressed, and the way I held myself, that I had "cocksucker" written all over my face, and that I was a guy born to suck cock. He finally forced me to try sucking his cock one time when I was over at his place. It wasn't rape, but the first time I sucked cock was pretty forceful, and I definitely resisted for the first few minutes until I opened my eyes. When I opened my eyes, and I saw his cock fucking my mouth, I was turned on like I have never been in my life. He kept insisting that the first time I got a taste and feel of a cock and cum I would be addicted to sucking cock for the rest of my life. He gave me a big facial the first time I blew him, but I got a good taste of his cum as well. He was absolutely right. I absolutely loved the cum, and his cock. Blowing him the first time was the most erotic experience of my life. I have since found out that I tend to be very submissive as a cocksucker, that I absolutely love cum, and regularly crave the taste of cum.

I find that I'm fairly picky about the type of cocks I like to blow. There are only certain types of cocks that make me weak in the knees as a cocksucker. As a cocksucker fulfilling his place in life, I love pleasuring guys with my mouth, and I love a mouthful or faceful of cum more than almost anything in life. I'm very proud of being a cocksucker. I have no problem at all with a guy calling me "cocksucker," and I really love a feeder who is willing to show me my place as a cocksucker

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Originally Posted by Jozyxt

I got sucked into it.

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OK. . . now I get it!

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Originally Posted by Tag200

how many did you give before you started to enjoy it?

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A half dozen or so. At first I would let him cum in my mouth but I would spit it out. Nevertheless, guys would finish and then tell me how good I was so I decided to take it to the next level and started gulping like a good cocksucker and that's when I started to really dig it.

My curiosity about sex with a man began at an early age when a neighbor boy four years older molested me. Basically a show and tell on his part and my touching his cock. In time discovered porno paperbacks (remember those?) One of the stories was about a guy getting fucked in the ass. The detail it went into really turned me on. I began to notice other guy’s cocks in the gym shower. I would fantasize about being fucked during sex with girlfriends I also started to pay attention to what was written in bathroom stalls and noticing glory holes. The urge to act got stronger and stronger.

I wasn’t attracted to men just their cocks and was very inhibited about what I felt. In my late teens early 20’s I acted on my feelings and hooked up with men, first at public restrooms and rest stops eventually discovered adult personals and as time went on, the internet.

It wasn’t until the early 90’s and posting ads on the internet that I started to identify myself as bi. Up until that point I never used the term. Still have no attraction to men, just their cock.

I too am only attracted to cock not anything else , what does that mean, why is that the case? Any idea ...

“I wasn’t attracted to men just their cocks” and was very inhibited about what I felt. In my late teens early 20’s I acted on my feelings and hooked up with men, first at public restrooms and rest stops eventually discovered adult personals and as time went on, the internet.

It wasn’t until the early 90’s and posting ads on the internet that I started to identify myself as bi. Up until that point I never used the term. Still have no attraction to men, “just their cock”.[/QUOTE]

I noticed that I would feel sexually satisfied by different things at different times. So sometimes I would want to be more dominant, and other times more submissive. But those things tended to align with my sexuality: so when I'd feel more 'dominant' I'd want to have sex with women, whereas when I felt more submissive I would want to let men have sex with me. I still like women but I also noticed that I cum harder when a man has anal sex with me. Yeh some of that is probably to do with the prostate or some technical internal thing lol, but I also get pre-cum when a guy first puts it in, which I've never got with the few girls I've done stuff with. I realised pretty quick that being *that* turned on by it was probably a sign I was bi.

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I too am only attracted to cock not anything else , what does that mean, why is that the case? Any idea ...

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I am turned on by the physical act of sex, both while fantasizing about it and during the act. For whatever reason the man himself isn't important to me, although I prefer bigger and stockier types but mainly I focus my attention on his cock. I've had a few glory hole experiences both sucking and being fucked. Aside from the awkwardness of trying to mount a cock sticking out of the wall I enjoyed it as much as full body contact.

I am a submissive bottom, I don't expect or encourage reciprocation from a Top. On occasion I get my cock sucked, I do cum, but I don't seek out getting sucked. I find myself looking at a man with a big bulge in his pants trying to envision him as a Top but come up short on connecting the dots. Yet I see a hard cock in a porn flick and I'm really turned on. Not sure what it all means, I have accepted that is how I am wired.

I sucked my older brother's cock.

When my best friend and I started jerking of together. Then we started sucking each other. Was so fucking hot. Wish I had a friend like that now.

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Originally Posted by Tag200

It never occurred to me to suck cock or have a gut suck my cock until I took a sociology class in my mid twenties and we read articles on the tea rooms and the old video of those bathrooms from the 50’s I think.. to this day I still remember reading it and finding it fascinating. Married me , straight men needed a release so they sucked each other off.. today I am not attracted to men at all, but very attracted to cock. Limited experience but want to start sucking and getting sucked weekly once pandemic is over.. so am I bi? Maybe or fluid or all those other terms ? Not sure.. what is a guy who loves sex with women is not attracted to men other than their cock make me?

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Feel the same way brother , just discovered that I'm very attracted to cock, love a nice package ! I still remember the first time I looked at pics of naked guys , loved their dicks and imagined them in my mouth. I don't find the male body attractive at all just their cocks.

I think it was the porn that clued me in....been getting really turned on by bi-cuckold, femdom and gay porn lately

....years ago I was drugged up with something by a couple of girls I barely knew. My band had played at a local bar, and the way they were acting I was going to get the dream threesome for a straight 22 year old male. I never lost consciousness, but for the entire walk back to their place it was all I could do to put one foot in front of the other. They were helping hold me up, and I remember thinking "how am I this drunk?!"
Once inside, and seated, I felt a little better, but still not quite right... The girls had both gone back into one of their bedrooms, giggling and laughing, and whispering to each other. I was only really hoping to hook up with one of the two....we'll call her "N", and the roommate "O".
N came out of the room with nothing but panties on, black lace panties! She beckoned me back to the bedroom where "O" was standing, facing the wall. I slowly got up, still really experiencing vertigo when I stood up, and she guided me to the bed and proceeded to help me take off all my clothes. I was a little bit of a shy guy back then, but between the booze, the adrenaline from the show, whatever the hell they put in that last shot, and the fact I was in a room with a couple of hot women about to do naughty things to me, I didn't care!
N proceeded to suck my cock, lick my balls, and touch me all over...while O was still fiddling with something at the foot of the bed. N told me to roll over so she could lick my ass....I had never had that before, and had never even thought it an option...so over I rolled. I think I almost passed out for a little bit, because the next thing I knew my hands were tied to the headboard...and my feet were immobilized as well (though I couldn't see how). I felt something in my ass, which turned out to be N's fingers....I kind of freaked out a bit, but they had me tied good, and gagged with a scarf.
N proceeded to finger fuck my ass for a little while, saying things like "my this ass is tight".
Finally I got to see what O was doing at the foot of the bed...she had been trying to tighten the straps to her strapon the whole time, but she was too wasted to figure it out in the dimly lit room.
N walked away from me, and started putting her strapon on right by my head, so I could see a rubber dong slightly smaller than my own. I hadn't even really put together what I was seeing when O started to penetrate me from behind....her hands grabbing my hips as she tried pushing her dildo into my ass. I was surprised by how much this actually turned me on!
O's strapon was just a little too big, so, after me objecting as loudly as I could while being gagged, after what seemed like hours (probably 20 minutes) of trying, N took her place.
I tried asking them repeatedly to untie me....N just laughed as she took position behind me. She said, and I'll never forget it or how much this turned me on, "don't worry, I'll go nice and slow".
N had no problem penetrating my ass....she worked it with her fingers again, and rubbed lube into it and onto the cock before pressing the tip in and gently pushing. She didn't even really "fuck" me with it...more of just penetrate and remove. She did that 4 times and I was cumming harder than I ever had before.
O was pissed she couldn't get hers in, so she said I was gonna make up for it another way. She took the gag from my mouth and forced my face into her pussy.
Before that night, I though of myself as absolutely straight....after, there was the lingering question "why did that feel so fucking amazing".
I saw them on campus a few times after, and even hung out with N a few times more, but the strapon never even came up in conversation again.
My porn watching habits changed after that, and I found myself diving into femdom porn....submissive male. I love some good bondage porn!
I found a girl I wanted to be with for life after that (not N....she was a little crazy for me). Got married, settled down, had kids...now here it is 20 years later, and I find myself really enjoying bi-cuckold porn, gay porn, TS porn, and...well, all porn really. With 2 young children in a house on a homestead, there isn't a ton of free time, much less "lone" time. So, I find myself up early/late, satisfying certain urges.
I have recently gotten into anal play while masturbating. While fingering my ass, probably the 4th time in my life, I found my prostate....no "world shattering" orgasm, but I believe I saw the precipice as I almost fell in the shower!
For Christmas this year I got a little money, so I bought myself a few gifts....got my first set of anal plugs, a strapon roughly the size N used (with a strap, hoping I can get my wife into this eventually), a prostate massager, lube, and a few "sexy" undies. I've started "training" with my plugs...up to the second one (0.9" at max, nearly 4" long). Next one and I should be able to take the massager (it has a rotating head that I can't wait to experience). Then the dildo....I got a realistic looking dual density silicone dong....it is very real looking/feeling in the hand...slightly longer than my own cock, but slightly less girth. Shower time had me sucking that cock with vigor, plug in my ass and cock in my hand. I found I wasn't fantasizing about my wife taking that strapon to me, but I was thinking about what it would be like to suck a strangers cock at a glory hole when I came.
Now, does that make me bi? Hahaha.

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Originally Posted by Catharsis

I think it was the porn that clued me in....been getting really turned on by bi-cuckold, femdom and gay porn lately

....years ago I was drugged up with something by a couple of girls I barely knew. My band had played at a local bar, and the way they were acting I was going to get the dream threesome for a straight 22 year old male. I never lost consciousness, but for the entire walk back to their place it was all I could do to put one foot in front of the other. They were helping hold me up, and I remember thinking "how am I this drunk?!"
Once inside, and seated, I felt a little better, but still not quite right... The girls had both gone back into one of their bedrooms, giggling and laughing, and whispering to each other. I was only really hoping to hook up with one of the two....we'll call her "N", and the roommate "O".
N came out of the room with nothing but panties on, black lace panties! She beckoned me back to the bedroom where "O" was standing, facing the wall. I slowly got up, still really experiencing vertigo when I stood up, and she guided me to the bed and proceeded to help me take off all my clothes. I was a little bit of a shy guy back then, but between the booze, the adrenaline from the show, whatever the hell they put in that last shot, and the fact I was in a room with a couple of hot women about to do naughty things to me, I didn't care!
N proceeded to suck my cock, lick my balls, and touch me all over...while O was still fiddling with something at the foot of the bed. N told me to roll over so she could lick my ass....I had never had that before, and had never even thought it an option...so over I rolled. I think I almost passed out for a little bit, because the next thing I knew my hands were tied to the headboard...and my feet were immobilized as well (though I couldn't see how). I felt something in my ass, which turned out to be N's fingers....I kind of freaked out a bit, but they had me tied good, and gagged with a scarf.
N proceeded to finger fuck my ass for a little while, saying things like "my this ass is tight".
Finally I got to see what O was doing at the foot of the bed...she had been trying to tighten the straps to her strapon the whole time, but she was too wasted to figure it out in the dimly lit room.
N walked away from me, and started putting her strapon on right by my head, so I could see a rubber dong slightly smaller than my own. I hadn't even really put together what I was seeing when O started to penetrate me from behind....her hands grabbing my hips as she tried pushing her dildo into my ass. I was surprised by how much this actually turned me on!
O's strapon was just a little too big, so, after me objecting as loudly as I could while being gagged, after what seemed like hours (probably 20 minutes) of trying, N took her place.
I tried asking them repeatedly to untie me....N just laughed as she took position behind me. She said, and I'll never forget it or how much this turned me on, "don't worry, I'll go nice and slow".
N had no problem penetrating my ass....she worked it with her fingers again, and rubbed lube into it and onto the cock before pressing the tip in and gently pushing. She didn't even really "fuck" me with it...more of just penetrate and remove. She did that 4 times and I was cumming harder than I ever had before.
O was pissed she couldn't get hers in, so she said I was gonna make up for it another way. She took the gag from my mouth and forced my face into her pussy.
Before that night, I though of myself as absolutely straight....after, there was the lingering question "why did that feel so fucking amazing".
I saw them on campus a few times after, and even hung out with N a few times more, but the strapon never even came up in conversation again.
My porn watching habits changed after that, and I found myself diving into femdom porn....submissive male. I love some good bondage porn!
I found a girl I wanted to be with for life after that (not N....she was a little crazy for me). Got married, settled down, had kids...now here it is 20 years later, and I find myself really enjoying bi-cuckold porn, gay porn, TS porn, and...well, all porn really. With 2 young children in a house on a homestead, there isn't a ton of free time, much less "lone" time. So, I find myself up early/late, satisfying certain urges.
I have recently gotten into anal play while masturbating. While fingering my ass, probably the 4th time in my life, I found my prostate....no "world shattering" orgasm, but I believe I saw the precipice as I almost fell in the shower!
For Christmas this year I got a little money, so I bought myself a few gifts....got my first set of anal plugs, a strapon roughly the size N used (with a strap, hoping I can get my wife into this eventually), a prostate massager, lube, and a few "sexy" undies. I've started "training" with my plugs...up to the second one (0.9" at max, nearly 4" long). Next one and I should be able to take the massager (it has a rotating head that I can't wait to experience). Then the dildo....I got a realistic looking dual density silicone dong....it is very real looking/feeling in the hand...slightly longer than my own cock, but slightly less girth. Shower time had me sucking that cock with vigor, plug in my ass and cock in my hand. I found I wasn't fantasizing about my wife taking that strapon to me, but I was thinking about what it would be like to suck a strangers cock at a glory hole when I came.
Now, does that make me bi? Hahaha.

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Great story! All I can say is Wow!

I think it was when I entered my teens.
I’d sneak peeks at the guys in the school shower or secretly watching my best friend masturbate.

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Feel the same way brother , just discovered that I'm very attracted to cock, love a nice package ! I still remember the first time I looked at pics of naked guys , loved their dicks and imagined them in my mouth. I don't find the male body attractive at all just their cocks.

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looking forward to pandemic end as I am going to suck cock a lot. Sounds like we have the same desires

I was 17 and my buddy and I got caught in the rain riding our bikes, when we got back to his house we changed into towels and wrapped them round us and sat on the couch. His mom put our clothes in the dryer and we waited in the bedroom of his sister as his was being painted and decorated! As we watched he noticed me looking at his sisters worn panties that was on the floor and he grabbed them and handed them to me and said they smell better than they look, with that I put them to my nose and was instantly hard, he grabbed another pair and said let suck each other whist we smell her panties (that was my first and last time and would love to do something like that again) Tampa here

The first time I discovered I was bi was after I had sucked my first cock, had been fucked, and then fucked my girlfriend (sister) for the first time. That brought it all home to me that sex was all about pleasure... kind of like taking a vacation in your mind, and sharing the experience with another person(s).

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I got sucked into it.

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This is why we need to have a "thumbs up" button. Total win here!!

I was crashing at a friend’s place as we were both drunk as could be, she told me I didn’t need to sleep in her couch. We went to her bedroom, she stripped down and said “I sleep naked, hope that doesn’t bother you”. I told her, nope, I do too. I undressed, she noticed my dick was hard, she asked if I was sure I was gay. I told her I thought so. We ended up having some pretty amazing sex, it had been ten years or so since I had been with a woman. She wasn’t bothered by any of it, didn’t claim that she converted me, but we had a long conversation, several really about how she was bi, and how I probably was too. 20 years later, we still enjoy being bi together and it’s just part of our happy life. She has her girlfriends and I have my boyfriends, and we have each other.

I first became interested in the cuck lifestyle as an adult. From that appeal grew a fascination for cocks and cum without the woman being involved.