I have been away from here for awhile but I thought it was still very active here?
I am seeing posts from 2019 on the the first page.
What has happened to this once proud forum?
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I have been away from here for awhile but I thought it was still very active here?
I am seeing posts from 2019 on the the first page.
What has happened to this once proud forum?
Might want to hit refresh. Thread below yours is from same day. Glad to have you back, always liked your take on things.
not as good as it used to be
I'll second that!Quote:
Originally Posted by cornholejoe
Sadly, in some ways, yes...............but, it seems to have an ebb and flow. Many of the veterans will kind of keep an order and and motivate conversation or some fun. Then, I guess what happens is, we kind of get tired, and like I do, take some social media break, it it dies down and becomes a dick pic thing for a while , but, this is true of any forum
we just need to converse about our sex lives more often. in my life , i have done a lot of crazy shit . thank God when i talk about it , i'm anonymous.
I second this.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jazminedress
It pretty much died when they killed the chat.Quote:
Originally Posted by SuckerMC
Thank you. I might struggle with my own desire and urge to suck cock but I have them and I like to share my thoughts about sucking cock and the beauties of cock.Quote:
Originally Posted by MAcpl69
I have moved on to other outlets for my cock discussions but will always comeback to this forum. This was the second forum I had come to for my cock desires. The first was a shemale/trans forum. I found that I had a bigger attraction to cock than the person who it was attached to. I will always be attracted to trans women and women but cock has become a bigger attraction for me.Quote:
Originally Posted by cornholejoe
I have been a member here since 2013 and there have always been those many regulars here. One thing I have always noticed on here is there are many lurkers and some of those lurkers have been members for years but will not have a single post. That has always bugged me honestly. I understand if they might be on here for a few months to read the threads but to be a member for years and not type and post a single thing bugs me a little.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jazminedress
The forum would be better if they did post on there. For them and others.
I have been a member here since 2013 and didn't get on the chat for maybe two years. I think that is when the chat began to die because rarely did I find another member on there. Another year or so the chat went away.Quote:
Originally Posted by gooniegoogoo
I'm always on the look out for other outlets... Anything you can recommend?Quote:
Originally Posted by SuckerMC
In many ways, the pattern of this forum follows the pattern of my person interactions with people. The emails always start out fresh and exciting, but eventually I find there is nothing new to share. How many "have you ever tasted your own cum?" and "What do you think of my cock?" posts can one take and still hold interest.
By far, the most interesting posts are personal experiences and living somewhat vicariously through other people's posts.
I will say, I find the forum better now than what it was in the past. There was a long stretch where almost every post had comments from a belligerent judgmental troll who was just an asshole. I won't mention any names but I find the discourse here much more pleasant and respectful than what it once was.
I had another profile but it got banned. Some stupid argument on the forum. Anyway, shame though, got some nice pictures of me on there. ;PQuote:
Originally Posted by SuckerMC
I'm talking about 2008 here, there was a very live chatroom, there was always something going on, it was cozy and fun. I even met a girl on here and we went into a total heterosexual relationship for a while, can you believe it? I flew to the states for her and she flew to me right here in the Netherlands. But we are both bi, and we're still in touch, even though she married some other guy. It happens. Anyway, if there would be a chat, it would be a lot more fun.
I will send you a PM.Quote:
Originally Posted by DMercator
I will say that do to the nature of this forum and us it's members the one subject can be overly talked about. A lot of the posts and questions are the same and repeat questions and comments. Sometimes there is a sprinkle of something different. But that is why I think we comeback here because we like the subject too much that we don't care how many times things are repeated.Quote:
Originally Posted by DMercator
If any member has been here long enough we all know of whom you speak of. I believe he got banned a few years ago and that was a few years too late. He truly was something. Glad they are gone.
Yeah, I was on here too late to experience what the chat room was. It would be great if that could comeback again.Quote:
Originally Posted by gooniegoogoo
Unfortunate, but true. I met so may people in chat here years ago. I am sure there is an expense running the site and to add a chat room might cost more, but it does make it more of a community. Plus I am still looking for that right MWM to play with. Maybe it will come back one day. I would love to know other good sites that are free with chat. I am not into the daddy thing, but Sliver Daddies is not bad. Thanks to whoever is keeping the lights on here...Quote:
Originally Posted by gooniegoogoo
I'm on 4, different sites and the ebb and flow of them is all about the same. It's just par for the course. I agree with Jazmine. I get bored and take a break ever once in a while to clear my brain. The forums do get stale after a while.
I guess we could fire up a discord. Or maybe some oldskool IRC server. :)
I wouldn’t say it’s died but I’m just on here casually.
Activity here is intermittent cannot be expected on a daily basis, I've been here since 2019 and never found it very active, I wish it was!
When I joined back in '03 this place was informative, Ive chatted with a lot of people. It has been a let down lately. I wish I knew how to bring it back.
Like most everyone here I belong to a few different free sites and a pay site I got on for free to start...not going to renew paid membership as it has really slowed down and Silver Daddies just canceled my free profile there so gotta make a new one and their rates are lower so gonna try a paid membership there I think...belong to dudesnude, again free but VERY slow there.
Chat was very lively when it was going but know what software and the hardware to run it cost can very high but I think if they offered it again as a pay only chat but leave the rest like it is now, that they'd be surprised at the response
Silver daddies, I find it does have more of the A-hole contingent group, but that may be a more local thing, I have met a few people from there 2 of them were decentQuote:
Originally Posted by DrBimind
easy, it takes the people who have been here for a while to direct, start and guide stuffQuote:
Originally Posted by Flounder1967
Been here a while and I to have noticed the ebb and flow. One of my biggest peeves, is that you cannot update your location anymore. I have not been in Kansas since July of 2020. I live in Texas, but only get likings to those in Kansas. Who is running this site now and how do we contact them?
Well, the more we frequent the site the better chance of the site to remain viable and relevant. A lot of us guys get benefit from discussion on this site. Its amazing how so many of us have the same ideas about sex floating around in our minds. Lots of benefits from the interchange of thoughts, ideas, and experiences.
Yeah I just returned from being away from the site for a while. It really hasn?t changed. It?s not very well represented in the northeast. I joined when I lived in CT. I moved to Rhode Island and there aren?t any like minded people on this site. Silver daddies was a bust. I?ve gone through ads on doublelist but no real people. Joined Squirt to see if any guys are there. Met a few but they were all on the DL. No female partners. I keep checking here just to get info and contribute a bit to these forums.
Jaz darling, your inbox is full :P