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Make someone cum or have someone make you cum?
So...I put this question to everyone...men and women...out here. If you had to choose...what would you say is more satisfying (emotionally as well as physically) for you? Is it to make someone you're having sex with cum...or would it be having someone make you cum?
For me...I find it more satisfying to take control of my lover's orgasm and make him or her cum incredibly hard. To know I'm stimulating someone to the point that they can't help but cum is empowering and even flattering.
What do you all think?
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For me it is making someone cum orally and then us cuming together with penetration!
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Giving someone an Orgasm is IDEAL for me!
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Honestly, when I bring a guy to orgasm with my mouth, I believe I enjoy it probably more than he does, but I'm sure he enjoys it too. I also love bringing women off orally and thoroughly enjoy having a man or woman bring me off. Whether it's individually (him then me), or simultaneously, like in a sixty-nine, really doesn't matter as long as both are satisfied.
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well most of the time my boy friend makes me cum a lot , seems like every one i ever go with any more wants me to do all the cumming , i have made others cum by playing with them or them giving me a good pounding up the butt will make them cum , i don't suck any more do to mouth problems tho i want to suck a nice penis again i sorta miss doing that :(. how ever i don't mind shooting a lode for my boy friend he like every one els loves the taste of my cum :tong:
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My gf is a squirter so I really love making her cum for me, and I am a swallower for men so really really love making them cum for me!! I love to cum, but it makes me happier to make sure my lover either male or female,gets off in our sexual encounters!! :tongue:
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I absolutely find it more satisfying to be a giver. No question for me.
Love to give!
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I would have to say, making other person cum. I am very oral and love to lick a women's pussy until she is twitching and moaning, and sucking a guy until he unloads.
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Hmmm good question...
I love to make someone cum. I get such pleasure out of their pleasure
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Now that I think about it, I guess I like to give or get equally from a woman but like to give slightly more with a man. I love the whole cum explosion you get with a cock.
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I'm afraid I have to agree wholeheartedly with the rest of ya. I Love to make a lover cum...several times if possible! lol I love that little ounce of power...having them under your pleasure quaking and moaning, wanting more and more, feeling that heat rush all thru them, just pure mindless pleasure. To almost be able to Mentally feel the electricity flow over their body, and have them in such a state that when they do cum, its loud, hard and delicious....to both of us. Mental for me, physically for them. :}
And I know that if I do a good job for them, that it'll be my turn in a bit...lol
Cat:bigrin:
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TO GIVE PLEASURE IS TO RECIEVE PLEASURE
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I have always been taught & thought it was better to give than than receive.
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I must say that either alone (without the other) leaves me feeling somewhat...errrmm, incomplete and unsatisfied.
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I love to make my partners' cum. There's just something so rewarding about seeing your sweating and flush partner, breathing heavily and trying fruitlessly to contain the feelings that are washing over them. Not to mention that the little feeling of pride and power you feel for giving them such pleasure is its own reward.
However, I'm also not foolish enough to refuse a chance to cum myself when offered it from the right person. ;)
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Yes, I love to work my partner from soft to hard to cumming hard in my mouth!
But, OH, yes that feels so good!!! OOHH YES!!! HERE IT CUMS,YES!!!
OH, GOD YES!!! When, he does the same to me.
Also, I love 69 when I get some of both at the same time.
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Both are nice. But I absolutely love to bring my partner pleasure. My favorite part of making love to my wife is to watch her achieve orgasm after orgasm on top of me. Everything after that is icing on the cake.
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Definitely making someone cum!
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I enjoy both, but I would much rather give than receive. What a pleasure it is to satisfy someone.
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If we can't cum together, then I would rather give first....then receive
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I enjoy making them cum, but when both cum same time or not makes me horner when they cum befor me i get off even better! LOVE TO WATCH THEM SCRUM WHEN I DRAIN THEM DRY & MOAN WHEN I SUCK THERE HEAD AFTER WARDS! WHAT FUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :):bigrin:;)
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Originally Posted by
bisexualcocklover
So...I put this question to everyone...men and women...out here. If you had to choose...what would you say is more satisfying (emotionally as well as physically) for you? Is it to make someone you're having sex with cum...or would it be having someone make you cum?
For me...I find it more satisfying to take control of my lover's orgasm and make him or her cum incredibly hard. To know I'm stimulating someone to the point that they can't help but cum is empowering and even flattering.
What do you all think?
I Feel the same way having control on the other person and allowing them to cum when I ready to let them off is awsome
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taz321
(snip).........I love to cum, but it makes me happier to make sure my lover either male or female,gets off in our sexual encounters!! :tongue:
Exactly! my partner cums first! I can always jack off at the end if I haven't and I need to..
Liz
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Sam~
It's actually kind of funny; I love to make Mikey cum and he loves to make me cum. We've actually had "games" where we tried to make the other cum first. Nothing is better than seeing his shoulder muscles contract and back arch when he lets loose.
Mikey~
Before I say anything: Yes, I do that. And I like to receive, but making Sam cum usually puts me over if he's not playing with me. Can't say I have never made him cum, really. Then again, he's never failed under normal circumstances either.
~!?
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It's nice to read all of your replies! It's good to see that we have an abundance of generous lovers on here!
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giving a huge orgasm to someone else is where its at, receiving is also wonderful
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I enjoy giving sexual pleasure and orgasms much more than receiving them, but I have to say that the best sexual encounters occur when my female/ male/couples lovers give as good as she/he/they get!
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giving for sure..probably a direct correlation to those that swallow!
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i am also one that gets the greatest pleasure from giving. to be on my knees and sucking his cock to the point of orgasm and beyond gives me the thrill that i seek. i enjoy it ever so much more that receiving . i dont know why but that who i am.
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My priority is to make my partner cum and preferably more than once.
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Making someone else cum is more satisfying.
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To me it is all about making who i am playing with cum. I try to make sure they have the best time possible. Nothing like seeing that special smile on there face as they go to sleep in my arms
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Normally, I love it when my partner cums first. The one eception to this is something I love doing with men. I get extremely turned on by giving head, and love playing with myself while I'm sucking his hard cock. I really love cum too. So I love jacking off while sucking, then when I cum I stop sucking for a minute, move to where I can shoot a massive load all over his hard cock and balls. Then of course I go back to sucking him off but with my juicey hot load dripping all over him. I love it especially when he cums at just about the time I'm done cleaning/licking/sucking my tastey load off him. It's incredibly erotic, and makes me hard again within just a couple of minutes.
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I like to make the person I'm with cum it makes me feel so good. I love the taste of the other persons excitement.
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Regarding male partners: I've noticed that over the years, I have converted from being more selfish and wanting to be serviced, to being more interested in pleasing my partners.
Part of that is because of my first lover, who seduced me right after my 14th birthday, only wanted to make me cum. I was so spoiled that I didn't think of anyone else's needs.
The second one wasn't much different, but the third guy was the first person I ever fell in love with. For the first time, I began to want to give as good as I got.
Feminine partners:Again, the first two were not good for several reasons...mostly because of my immaturity. Luckily, my third...and first real girlfriend, was very compatible and we shared a lot of similar desires, as well as being bisexual. With her, I learned to be open, honest and always strive to ensure she enjoyed being with me, as much as I did her.
By that time, I became progressively more interested in my partner's feelings and relationships improved a hundred-fold.