Originally Posted by
Rod_7_5
I was trying to figure out how best to describe this (as it applies to me, anyway) just yesterday. In my case, while "intimate" might be the word I'd use, it's maybe not the best..."affectionate" or "emotional" might work better. Blunt as it may sound, my attraction to men is purely physical/sexual, not emotional or affectionate. There's a significance imbued in kissing that, for me, just doesn't carry over to interaction with men. I certainly agree that there's also a significance and intimaty associated with (NSA) sex...and that's a large part of why, being married, I choose not to act on the physical draw of sex with another man, just as I choose not to act on the physical draw of sex with a woman other than my wife. I would apply the same boundaries to interaction with another man as the ones we've established, say, at the strip club during a lap dance.