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The title says it all. I have always been bi-curious. I have j/o with another guy before and he gave me a great blowjob, but after I finished I was no longer interested in continuing. The same thing happens when I watch bi mmf and/or gay porn. I just lose interest after I cum. Does this ever happen to anyone else?
describes me pretty good alot of other guys too. i've never been with another guy but i fantasize about it. after i j/o i loose interest & alot of times question what i even see in guys. women make more sense to me then. i usually feel pretty lonely afterwards too........Quote:
Originally Posted by Johnnystp43
I think this is a pretty common. I have only had one experience with a guy when i was younger. But when i j/o to tranny or gay porn(very hard to find a good one) i feel the same thing. Also when i wantrd to try my own cum i was running into the same problem.... after i came i lost interest but i did find ways to e not the moment but then the moments after i still tend to ask myself lots off questions.... but the fun is sometimes worth or lol.
you guys are known and done years ago i used to have sex with a lot of women and girls who boyfriends and husbands was like that i was allways good for 3 or 4 times i may be old now but still can go 2 or 3 times of course i have allways love having sex
it's bad either way doesn't it seem so? if ur building up the tension ur tense u can't stand it. but once ur done u don't see the point in all of it. so would u rather be frustrated or bitter? but for those few seconds mmmmmmm pleasure.Quote:
Originally Posted by Itsmejj
Exactly its almost like a loose loose lol. But like u said for the time ur satisfying the urge u had ot the fantasy u fulfilling or acting out its absolutely awsome. So like u said it is very hard to just stop cause then ur frustrated and u didnt cum but u know if the back or ur brain the questions will be comong when ur done..... bit sometimes it is so worth it lolQuote:
Originally Posted by sysper
I went through what you are experiencing. I had sucked cock right around puberty and loved doing it. Then I chased girls for several years, and a nagging desire to be with men led me to meet up with a gay guy one day. I went to his apartment and we removed our clothes. Being on my knees with his cock in my mouth and smelling his freshly bathed and powdered ass was a richly rewarding event. My introduction to savoring and swallowing another male's cum. He gave me a mind boggling blow job. And then I came. My exuberance drained as fast as I shot my load of cum. Guilt stepped in and transformed a beautiful experience into something shameful. I got dressed and left. I was very embarrassed and never contacted that guy again. Such a shame because I later came to realize he had a lot to offer me in learning the joys of gay sex.
My experiences with guys followed roughly the same feeling after I would cum, but each time it lessened. In the mean time, my desire for cock has grown. Then one day, after sucking and swallowing a friend. I noticed I had no guilt. Now I suck, swallow and get fucked and love it.
Consider sucking off your partner's cock before he sucks your cock and you lose your enthusiasm.
delpark
so glad u stuck with it untill u lost any feeling of guilt & all that was left was joy. kinda same journey i took just with fantasizing about it & j/o. wonder what it's gonna finally be like with an actual guy...........
Thanks, everyone. Glad to see I'm not alone!
I know how you feel. I have been curious as long as I can remember. I tried several times with the same result you mentioned. Then I ran into a guy that didn't reciprocate and actually just wanted to fuck me, which I really liked. OMG, it was awesome. I sucked him until he was ready to fuck me and he came in my ass. I took his condom off and sucked him again and realized that I actually liked sucking his cock. I never got to cum but it didn't matter because I enjoyed everythjng we did. Now, when I'm with a guy, I stay interested even after I cum because I enjoy what I am doing. My point is, keep trying until you find that place where you can enjoy what you are doing because you actually enjoy it. Don't quit. It will be worth it.
I solved that problem by going first. I actually prefer giving over receiving. I can get head or fuck a girl anytime I want. I can't suck a cock or get fucked by a woman so I really don't care if the guy gets me off or not.
shelby thanks for this it's very encouraging. i will try & remember this when i begin to have my 1st experiances with guys.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shelby57
Good grief, no, you're not alone! Almost as soon as my orgasm subsides, my urge to continue sex play or see to my partner's needs quickly fades. Frankly, this sudden and precipitous loss of sexual interest has occasionally caused relationship problems. Some years ago, I started exploring MMF play with another couple. A big part of their fantasy was for the gal, Colleen, to watch me suck off her boyfriend, Bruce. But no matter how erotic the mood, if I happened to cum first, there was just no way I could force myself to continue servicing Bruce, let alone bring him to completion. Predictably, my inability to fulfill their fantasy made my hosts angry and upset. The solution was simple; I had to bring Bruce off first. Once he'd had a good cum, Colleen would see to my needs.