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Ok people I?m about to sound odd, I don?t like guys. I have had anal sex with a shemale and strapon sex with many girlfriends and wife. Like I said it?s odd because the thought of being with a man does not work for me . Here?s more weird stuff I who consider having oral sex with a glory hole (Condom usage of course)
go figure
Maybe you are attracted to cock and anal penetration and not men.. I find I am interested and attracted to cock and not men at all.. not interested in anything anal with men but have done anal in a women .. so I only want to suck cock and be sucked , and I find many cocks attractive .. and often think a ladyboy would be a perfect sex partner for me
Yes you belong. If is all about the cock and suckingQuote:
Originally Posted by Tag200
It is part of my nature and I'm proud of it.
I'm inThailand now. USA too expensive crazy dangerous and most people are no longer sincere. In Thailand people are more genuine. There ladyboys everywhere and many you can't tell from women. You should visit and of course I will suck you in front of my Thai wife
Grant
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I would agree that a ladyboy and a shemale are more appealing to me , hence the reason why I say I don’t belong
I dont think there is anything wrong with what you are saying. In my opinion, meaning, I don't know, it's jsut what I think..............so YMMVQuote:
Originally Posted by Intoone
I have met men that say the same thing, they are not attracted to men, but would like to spend time with me. Now, I am not passable at all. But I believe the clothes, the smell of perfume, helps them to relax a little, and I think it helps them to, kind of not think about gay sex. So yeah, you get a pretty ladyboy or Shemale, that makes sense
As others have said, sometimes they are attracted to cock, but not men, so someone who appears to be female, but has a penis is great
I wouldn't stress labels or do I belong, don't I, just go with the flow, relax and don't put much thought into it.
Hang out here, even if you find that maybe, it is not your thing, you can chat with some good people, and maybe understand them better
Thanks for your reply
I' m with Jass , just go with the flow
I think you belong here kick back and enjoy yourself. I’m very similar to you and lots of guys here are.
I sometimes still wonder if it's "a phase" but I've loved men ever since my teens, I really like THIS guy .. I do get frustrated by the fact that I want him to duck me and it would be so much easier if I had a vagina, but he likes guys, with dicks .. I couldn't be with this guy otherwise.
I know several guys who focus on just the act or the genitals, I don't think that's unusual. I used to think most of my relationships were going to be like that until I met this guy, who I am just head over heels for. He really is patient, kind, loving and it just feels right. It did take me about 30 years of working through past hangups about the way I grew up in order to finally understand that life is short, nothing is wrong with me and it's okay to be happy.
A common question I hear from straight guys is them sort of freaking out over being attracted to trans folks. I mean, the person has always felt like the opposite sex, they want to be the opposite sex and do everything in their power to be that individual. To me in that case it's perfectly natural for the partner to feel attraction ..
As far as attraction to genitals, if you're watching porn I don't hear too many complaints from anyone when someone sees a hard dick in a porno.
Thanks for your reply
Sometime it just makes me say why
That’s sounds freaky and would be something new
You mean why are you interested in cock?
During natal development we all receive certain washes of hormones that influence our growth, if the timing of any one of those was little off you might have slightly different physiology.
I happen to think that it's part of the plan. Like if you already have a big family the last thing you need is more procreation. What you really need is another pair of loving hands to take care of the family you already have.
Environment, socialization growing up might also play a part. If you encountered an early experience that your mind is still trying to resolve you might find yourself back in those same situations, trying to figure things out. Sometimes that strategy works, sometimes it's detrimental but it's a sort of natural things that sometimes happens as a response to trauma.
I started out just wanting to love, I didn't really care what was between people's legs until OTHER people MADE it a problem.
I never felt like I fit in with "the guys" and a saw many of them act very insecure and jealous. The male role models in my life were pretty abusive to other folks I cared about. It set up a nasty conflict in my mind because even though he wasn't much better, when one of the teen boys held me, it was like the first time anyone held me like they DESIRED me. He was not good for me, but it felt so good being in his arms.
I hated the way I saw those men behave toward women, so much so that' I would have rather been ANYTHING other than "male". But you know, nature was like hold my beer .. I was simultaneously infatuated with them growing up as well .. still wanting that one guy who would shield me from all that crap and treat me well.
Add on to that teenage hormones, that I could play around with my peers a lot more than I could with females .. it just seemed natural to want to play with guys.
It could be as simple as just having a fixation on genitals or something else that gets you off. We are social creatures, sex is used for bonding, stress relief, affection, power/control, fantasy, procreation .. just because you want to feel good or you want the thrill of being able to make someone else feel good.
I think it's a classic thing for people to want to play outside of their assigned roles in society. If you have a high stress job maybe you relish the idea of being able to give that up and be submissive every once in a while. That's not a crime.
Why do some people like yellow and some like blue? It's just a preference, you are okay.
I became almost instantly happier when I stopped trying to live up to what I thought everyone else's expectations were, stopped trying to chase a label, just be me, and be happy. We are a lot more than just our sexuality, although that is a part.
I am not what happened to me, I am who I choose to become.
Not odd at all. I too am not at all attracted to other guys. Not into kissing, cuddling, etc. with a guy. I am fascinated by cocks and love sex! I realize that some acts involve body contact and touching. But in general, I am not attracted to guys. So I don't think what you've said sounds odd.
My husband is not into men per sea. He is as addicted to cum as me, does love cock now as much as me, and absolutely loved getting fucked in the ass (fascinating orgasms), and getting cum filled is the bomb as he puts it, but if he could do it all with females/me that's all he needs. To bad we ladies don't have cream filled eclairs to fill you gents up.Quote:
Originally Posted by Intoone
Lol ,thank you for sharing
That's the thing right, you're asking to provide a rational reason that you like cum and cock..
There was no rational reason for that teen boy to torture me and stick his dick in my mouth when I was 7 other than he was being driven crazy by hormones and he had authority and opportunity over me. There is no rational reason why I enjoyed it so much, even though he really didn't treat me well. We are talking about some very strong base instincts .. power, control, desire, pleasure, breeding.
All l can say is that if everyone likes it and you aren't hurting each other than what's the real problem? That society doesn't approve? There are a lot of folks who publicly condemn stuff but privately have the same desires we all do.
There may very well be some underlying reasons for why I behave the way I do, but when I try to seriously analyze it I just end up with the jumbled up mess of emotions you saw before .. and it's not like I can really change it anyway, it's just who I am. It you aren't hurting anyone it will be okay. Something doesn't have to be "perfect" in order to be beautiful or worthy.
I get off on the idea that I can please or share pleasure with this person, even though we've all been socialized to believe that we always have to be in control, show no emotion, always be brave, athletic, competitive? For ladies it's a lot of those same things but also always be nurturing, caring, smiling, impossible standard of beauty.
No human being can do that 24x7 .. so for someone to show me their vulnerability and trust me to bring them pleasure and nurturing? Or that I'm desired and they want to do the same for me? That's like the ultimate aphrodisiac to me, beyond that it just feels so damn good .. at least when they aren't using you. But for others, some people really WANT to be used.