Sex made simple... you'll both sleep like babies afterward
So, I get this asked a lot...
"How do I... or How can I make my wife cum like they do in porn movies?"
First and foremost... all women squirt. It's a physical fact that women (and men too ... duh) have glands that result in ejaculation. Women's glands are a bit harder to reach and require a bit more force or stimulation to react.
To make a woman cum and gush like she's never... insert three fingers into her pussy, place your pinky finger in her ass, and use your thumb to rub her clit. With some women, it helps to put your cock in her mouth (but be careful) there is a bite reflex that may kick in when she's cumming really hard.
Work both slowly in until she can take all of you into her mouth and gradually increase the frequency of the strokes of your hand and slowly turn your hand until you're pressing upward against her pelvis. Between the inner force of your hand and the upward pressure on her pelvis, plus the sensation of having her anus stimulated, she will release her glands and squirt, and cause her to have the orgasm of her life.
With men, I've found that two fingers in his ass massaging downward toward his balls (basically stroking his prostate gland) while you suck him or let him fuck your mouth (or you can just stroke him if you don't like giving oral) will create the most mind blowing orgasm and will probably win you a friend for life.
These are simple tricks that they should be teaching people in high school sex ed classes, but they don't.
It's one of those things your parent's don't teach you either. LOL
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What they don't teach you about getting women to squirt is that, to some, it feels like they're peeing on themselves and that's embarrassing so, nope - no squirting. You can play with their G-spot and get them to orgasm... but maybe not get them to ejaculate so the trick here is convincing her that, for one, women do ejaculate, and it might feel like they're peeing, but it really isn't. Just let it happen. It'll be fine. If you can "remove" that mental block (and it's not easy to do), she'll be gushing like a firehose - and just like women do in porn. It's just that some women aren't of a mind to "go all in" when they're having sex and because they don't, being able to squirt escapes them... because the problem is in their head and not with their body. Women have been subjected to so much slut shaming - and get so worried about "losing control" of themselves that getting them to squirt isn't an easy thing to do. You should know the anatomy involved... but it's someone's mind that requires the most work to get the most desired result - getting them to ejaculate and whether they're male or female.
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Originally Posted by
KDaddy23
What they don't teach you about getting women to squirt is that, to some, it feels like they're peeing on themselves and that's embarrassing so, nope - no squirting. You can play with their G-spot and get them to orgasm... but maybe not get them to ejaculate so the trick here is convincing her that, for one, women do ejaculate, and it might feel like they're peeing, but it really isn't. Just let it happen. It'll be fine. If you can "remove" that mental block (and it's not easy to do), she'll be gushing like a firehose - and just like women do in porn. It's just that some women aren't of a mind to "go all in" when they're having sex and because they don't, being able to squirt escapes them... because the problem is in their head and not with their body. Women have been subjected to so much slut shaming - and get so worried about "losing control" of themselves that getting them to squirt isn't an easy thing to do. You should know the anatomy involved... but it's someone's mind that requires the most work to get the most desired result - getting them to ejaculate and whether they're male or female.
Very true! But once they have experienced it... and speaking from experience... they love it! Hence letting them suck your cock while you "work them up" for it. It's a pleasurable distraction for them. Again, this is a cautionary note... THERE IS A BITE REFLEX! I know because my former girlfriend almost bit my cock off when she came. So... beware!
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I have found many of my GF over the years don't let go enough to squirt, they feel it is 'dirty' embarrassing etc. The ones I have managed to let go never looked back after and found their orgasm so more powerful.
Not all women produce the big porn style gusher butt they all produce a nice load of tasty cum to savour
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Originally Posted by
jjourneyman
So, I get this asked a lot...
"How do I... or How can I make my wife cum like they do in porn movies?"
First and foremost... all women squirt. It's a physical fact that women (and men too ... duh) have glands that result in ejaculation. Women's glands are a bit harder to reach and require a bit more force or stimulation to react.
To make a woman cum and gush like she's never... insert three fingers into her pussy, place your pinky finger in her ass, and use your thumb to rub her clit. With some women, it helps to put your cock in her mouth (but be careful) there is a bite reflex that may kick in when she's cumming really hard.
Work both slowly in until she can take all of you into her mouth and gradually increase the frequency of the strokes of your hand and slowly turn your hand until you're pressing upward against her pelvis. Between the inner force of your hand and the upward pressure on her pelvis, plus the sensation of having her anus stimulated, she will release her glands and squirt, and cause her to have the orgasm of her life.
With men, I've found that two fingers in his ass massaging downward toward his balls (basically stroking his prostate gland) while you suck him or let him fuck your mouth (or you can just stroke him if you don't like giving oral) will create the most mind blowing orgasm and will probably win you a friend for life.
These are simple tricks that they should be teaching people in high school sex ed classes, but they don't.
It's one of those things your parent's don't teach you either. LOL
Trust me babes, I have never needed a pinkie or be other digit in me arse to cum or gush and squirt... I don't know ne woman who does.. Not saying they don't exist.. I just don't know any... And cock in gob plays no part in a woman's squirting abilities. Not saying some women don't enjoy that, just saying it's cos they like it not cos it an essential prerequisite to cumming, anally or vaginally. Seems to me in there is touch of male ego and wishful thinking contained in ur post!!!
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I don't have much experience with women... My wife never squirted - we had great sex years ago - wonderful orgasms, often simultaneous orgasms... but Ive never been with a woman who squirted like that... I've asked a couple of my friends and they said it isn't even real - that women don't squirt like you see in porn. So, I guess some women are much more in tune to their bodies and enjoy this - and others? Well, possibly others have not been with a man who is capable of creating this level of pleasure for her. I'm kina bummed because I really enjoyed witnessing a woman have a great orgasm...
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I could at one time ( and might still be able to...if I catch her horny ) make my wife squirt by pushing down firmly but gently on her muffin and using either my fingers or a curved vibrator to massage her g-spot. Using a quality lube or a light massage oil can help her relax and make things more comfortable for her. Putting a towel or two under her allso seemed to help her relax and "let go".
The first time I made the effort to get her to squirt, she said it feels like I need to pee !!, I said yes it can feel like that, it's ok relax and let it happen, she had the hardest, most intense orgasm of our marriage to that point, soaking the towel I had under her.
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Women don't need anything in them to cum, you should be able to make them gush just by licking that pussy right, my ex will testify to that, and I have video that proves it lol. I learned about the G spot back in 82 in high school out of playboy or penthouse mag, maybe hustler, it worked a few times on different girls, maybe 3 out of 30 something. But it's all good just do whatever floats your boats, gush or no gush. On the male side, I will agree a guy who knows what he is doing with his fingers in your ass and your dick in his mouth? Whoa! I came so hard and I tense I actually laughed my head off, I didn't even get "tickly" after I came and he kept working my cock, just lay there giggling and having tremors, wow.
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@MontyinHamilton, yeah - I've rarely had to finger a woman's G-spot to get her to squirt; I just eat the shit out of her. And, yeah - I've had guy mess with my prostate while sucking me and I've had a powerful orgasm and release... and I'm giggling.
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KDaddy23
And, yeah - I've had guy mess with my prostate while sucking me and I've had a powerful orgasm and release... and I'm giggling.
The best head, and best orgasmin recent memory, was from a guy that spent a lot of time on my prostate. I would sometimes go soft while he worked on it, but never stopped getting closer. When I came it left me woozy. He told me that he had three fingers inside. It was just amazing. I gave him a big kiss afterwards even though he had rimmed me ealier, he deserved it.
He was a gay man in his 40s that loved servicing older men. Alas, he got insistent on anal sex so I broke it off.
