I would like to know when did you know you were bisexual? And when did you accept it?
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I would like to know when did you know you were bisexual? And when did you accept it?
Sure don't mean to be funny but I knew when I had his cock in my mouth. I did enjoy his cock and accepted that fact reight then. Just seemed so right for me.
I started a sexual relationship with my best friend at age 16 in the late 70's. I realized, at that time, that I could have enjoyable sex with either sex. I could see no wrong in it and never had any internal conflict.
I’m with biguy. I really had no idea until I actually had a cock in my mouth. That was somewhere in my late 30s, under the supervision of my first wife.
I'd been going both way for three years before I learned there was a word for it: Bisexual. Like atxgi, I got dick in my mouth and got instantly hooked... but didn't know what that meant but having sex with girls? Hell, yeah... and now I could have sex with both? How long did it take me to accept it? Maybe another year if that long and if only in the sense that I was... different and I was just okay with being different because I might have felt like I was the only guy who felt like this but I knew I really wasn't because I had a lot of very horny male friends.
when I was 14 I kinda knew
fully accepted when I was 30
high school probably about 16/17 when I had first sexual experience with a female.. before that it had been only guy’s ..
Since I posed the question, I guess I should answer it lol. My first sexual experience was when I was 11 with a male family member two years older than me. It didn't feel weird. A had my first M/F experience at 15 felt right as well. It was in my twenties that I called myself bisexual and bicurious. I fully accepted it then as well.
When I was 14 and found out my then gf had a crossdressing brother(16) never looked back or questioned it all
when i was in a 3some with a couple i knew sucked his cock while i was fucking her then he fucked me in the ass later on he sucked my cock and i fucked him
I was in my mid-teens an older man I trusted began first jerking me off and then sucking me off. I didn't return the favor at the time, but later very much wished I had. From that point until I finally took the next step in a bi threesome with my wife in my early 20's and have been comfortably bi ever since.
Now that's a threesome!Quote:
Originally Posted by cornholejoe
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I guess ever since I was 15 (young and limber) when I discovered by scooting down towards the middle of the bed and throwing my legs over my head and pressing on the headboard that I could get half the head of my dick in my mouth. At 19 I had an MM encounter but he wasn’t into oral, just wanted to screw my ass. The second time however I ended up in a 3 way with two guys, one was screwing me while the other guy and I were doing a hot 69. I was so focused on the dick in my face and mouth that I didn’t really feel the guy in my ass.
Then the one in my mouth started really swelling up at the head of his dick and I realized I hadn’t thought that far ahead. When he started spurting cum in my mouth I just started swallowing as fast as I could.
I’ve been hooked on sucking cock ever since although I did spend almost 17 years in a monogamous relationship with a woman I’ve probably sucked about 25-30 cocks in my lifetime… oh wait, the one last Tuesday and Wednesday 8/29/23 and 8/30/23… let’s call it 31!
In fact the one last week I got some pictures of, blacked out the top of my face and made it my profile picture.
I discovered my bisexuality in the course of threesome play with a younger couple across town. It started out as strictly MFM play, but quickly evolved into MMF. My hosts tried coaxing me to explore guy-on-guy play with "incidental" contact that turned out to be quite intentional. When I was slow taking the bait, the gal outright told me she wanted my to watch me make her boyfriend cum. I was kind of nervous, but also curious and none too eager to kill the intensely erotic mood. Mutual masturbation led to some very exciting cock-cock-to-cock rubbing, and quite spontaneously to oral sex.
The moment I dropped to my knees and took the other fellow's cock in my mouth, I knew. It just felt right, like I was meant to do this. I felt like I had found a missing piece of the puzzle -- a piece that completed me. I remember savoring the taste of his precum, loving the softness of his shaft skin, and the smooth firmness of his cock head against my tongue. I was fascinated by the way his penis twitched and throbbed on response to my oral ministrations. I remember wanting to let him cum in my mouth, wanting to taste, maybe even swallow his semen. And I remember being mildly disappointed when I pulled away at the critical moment, letting him ejaculate instead of my right cheek, neck, shoulder and chest. I loved it all, and after that first time, some 17 years ago, guy sex became a natural part of my sexual repertoire.
At first I thought I was gay. My first time having sex with a guy was my best buddy both in out early teens. My second sex partner I was 16 he was in his 40’s and he took my anal cherry. I really enjoy same sex and still do. Then at 18 met a girl same age that was a nymphomaniac. She rocked my boat non stop that’s when I knew I was bisexual. I loved fucking her pussy but I knew I wasn’t going to give up cock and I haven’t
I didn't fully understand that I was bi until maybe 10 yrs ago (I'm 65 now). My first sexual encounter (gloryhole blowjob) was as a teen, and I then knew that I was interested in cock. I did have a mutual blowjob with a guy when I was about 20, didn't love it, and then decided I was not gay. It didn't occur to me that I was bi. But I continued going to gloryholes for many years after, when i could, and a few ABS encounters as well, but those did not include a cock in my mouth.
I'm quite sure that, like others here, getting a cock in my mouth would confirm what I know inside - that I'm truly bi.
You ask a pair of interesting questions: when did I know I was bi, and when did I accept it. I guess I knew when I was prodded by friends to explore my bi side and it just felt right. It took only moments to discover that I had a very healthy bi side. I found myself surrendering myself to long repressed fantasies. There were no inhibitions, no hesitations, no guilt, and afterwards, I couldn't wait for a repeat performance. It just felt completely natural.
When did I accept my bisexuality? It took a while, maybe a month or two to get my mind around having sex with a guy and loving it! I felt a little confused at first. It was a big step for a guy who formerly considered himself devoutly heterosexual. I still struggle to understand whether I'm actually bisexual, or simply a straight-identifying guy who occasionally likes to suck a cock.
I figured out being bisexual when I was about 15-16 yrs. old. Changing clothes in school gym class, a guy next to me said I had a nice body. He did too and it turned me on.
At about 12 years old the first time a guy friend wiggled his small but erect cock into my ass I knew that even though it felt weird to me and got me sore I kind of liked it. Two years later I was seduced by an older gay male and I knew I liked his probing finger but his big cock hurt really bad. Still there was something really erotic about bending over his couch and taking his fat cock into my ass, and I let him do it again one more time and knew I liked it. But I didn’t accept it and ironically two years later I had sex with a girl that put her finger up my ass while I was fucking her and I loved it. I got my cock sucked by a guy friend in my mid 50s and a few tries later I put a cock in my mouth. I knew and accepted it then.
Back in the 70's If you sucked cock, you were considered a faggot. When I was 14 and sucked my best buddy off, I just thought I was gay. I sucked him off all the time. Then at 16 my married next-door neighbor seduced me and fucked me I really thought I was a faggot. Then at 18 got a girlfriend. we started to have sex I was now confused because loved it with both sexes. Then somewhere in the 80's the term bisexual was making head steam that's when I thought of myself as bisexual. I was in my 20's.
For me in High School. I always have been a very sexual person with a high sex drive. Bi Curious in my 40's. Gave My first BJ at 43....10 years ago. Now very Bi and love it. Wife does not know and would not understand but my sexuality belongs to me and me only ultimately.
I knew I was “different” when I was in high school. I didn’t necessarily know what it was but I knew that seeing a cute guy made me feel a certain type of way. I had a very close girl friend that I talked to about it and she said I was probably bisexual. Little did I know that was exactly it. Maybe I was ashamed of my feelings but putting a label on it made me feel better about myself.
Growing up I KNEW I liked guys -- as young as 5 I knew I was different and by 8 I was falling in love with boys the same way other boys were falling in love with girls.
Girls -- well, I grew up around my mom and her friends -- and they never did anything inappropriate with a kid there right? I thought of most women like sisters. As stupid as this sounds it never even really occurred to me that females enjoy sex as much as guys until like age 25 or something.
I would still get aroused by both in porn though. I would looove sausage, be all about the sausage and then one day you see a piece of fish, and it's like --- hmmm .. I bet that would be sooo good with some tartar sauce! Confusing.
At first it was annoying as heck because both straight AND gay people assured me that "bisexual people don't exist".
In my young mind I didn't think it would be fair to have a wife and start a family if I only turned out to be gay and potentially leave them; so I spent about 20 years trying to "prove" whether I was gay OR straight .. What a complete waste of time and energy.
I had my first bi experience after meeting a couple on this site, they were very kind and helped me understand what I really wanted out of a relationship.
I finally decided that I could either be the way I thought everyone else WANTED me to be, and be miserable, or I could just be my own self and be happy.
The day I gave up trying to label everything and just be "me" I instantly became like 200% happier.
I've always just wanted to love people, I could care less what is between their legs. I consider the fact that I can form deep relationships with either sex more of a blessing than a curse these days.
It helps that post 2007 opinions in society also started to shift some.
The time I realised my cock was in another guys mouth, to be reaffirmed an few moments latter when another guy fucked me
Funny! It cracks me up. This is his perspective. I surpassingly agree.
Got my husband to hold another guy's cock, helped him put it in me. Not bi. Got him to feed me another guy's cock. Not bi. Eventually was able to get my husband to suck a cock with me. Not bi. Get him to suck it dry with me. Not bi. Get him to suck another. Not bi. And another. Not bi. Sucked his cock with a guy. Not bi. And another guy. Not bi. got him and another guy in a 69 where me and the other wife was helping them suck. Not bi. They eventually fucked each other's mouths in this position cumming in them. Not bi. I was able to to convince him to stand fucking a guy's mouth while holding on to his head. Not bi. And more. Not bi. Then in a 69 over him on top of a chirotype table sucking, fingering him, and dildoing him with a friend, she steps up fucking him with her strapon. Her husband fucks me briefly over his face pulling out as she pulls out he replaces her and fucks my husband in the ass for his very first real cock ever. Not bi (I am not kidding). Next time the scenario was very similar this time I sat up on my husband's face holding his legs ups and wide. A second husband fucked and came in his ass bareback. My husband's muffled pleasure could still be heard. A third husband took his turn and I climbed off. My husband for the first time could see a man fucking his ass. He was so busy orgasming nothing mattered. As he took it I kissed him so passionately, it was so amazing to me. After a lot of silence from him, I asked him if he'd do it doggy for me. He said if I would beside him. We did. Then we sucked two cocks off together. I asked if he'd let one fuck his ass and one fuck his mouth for me. He agrees if I did. We did.
By now you are - oh my goodness get to the point. Not bi. I know, crazy? What? Yes, Not bi.
A few more months with a few more sessions like above with variations. I asked my husband if he might take a few cocks by himself. He said that he would if I would eat pussy by myself. That was the turning point for us both. He not only sucked off several guys by himself, staring at me eating pussy after pussy as best he could see, he let three guys fuck him bareback cumming in his ass. I was so proud of him. After that we showered talking about it all. He said, "I guess I am finally bi." I asked why. "Because I enjoy it enough to want it now." I asked sucking? "Yes sucking cock, drinking cum, and definitely getting fucked in my ass. The guys fucking and cumming in me is incredible and I see why you wanted me to give into it all. I love doing it with you and without you now but never without you there. It is something we always need to share or otherwise what's the point?" I agreed and we kissed for a very long time. Then we went back and drank a great deal more cum.
I grew up in boy's boarding schools, so my earliest sexual activity was with other males, until my late teens. However, it wasn't just circumstantial; I loved giving head. It bordered on a mystical, spiritual experience for me. I've always accepted my bisexuality; it's always seemed like the most natural thing to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by iamcontent
Mmmmmmmmmmm!!! I want to experience cock suckingQuote:
Originally Posted by Sundazzled
too!!!
I knew since 5 years old that I was "different" -- molested at 7 and by 8 I was falling in love with boys the same way other boys fell in love with girls. Hormones didn't really kick in until about 11 or so but once they did ... geesh .. I was a horny little hamster.
Both straight and gay folks ASSURED me that bisexual people do not exist, so therefore I spent a good 10 years trying to "prove" whether I was gay or straight right? I didn't think it would be fair to get married, start a family only to "turn out" to be gay later and abandon them. At least that's the way teenage me thought back then.
It was so friggin confusing because I used to be all about sausages, loved the sauusages, but then you see a piece of fish and it's like -- "Oh, I bet that would go good with some tartar sauce!" .. and it certainly isn't as simple as "double your chances for a date on Saturday night" -- because I genuinely want to have a deep connection with the people I am interested in.
I've met some absolutely stunning ladies, where when you say "Helloo" it echoes down cleavage canyon .. but there's more to it than that -- I fall in love with the whole person, not just their body parts. The only woman I really loved, unfortunately her first husband tried to kill her 7 times. At least she's found someone who treats her well these days. Same way with guys -- if I'm really interested in you -- I'm interested in all of you.
It wasn't until about 2006 or so when I first found this site and met a few nice couples that I had my first bisexual experience and started to explore. Even then I think it took me another 5 more years to STOP trying to LABEL myself and just BE who I really am. Once I decided to stop living the way I THOUGHT everyone else wanted me to be, and start being my own self and being happy I became like 200% more content.
So like 30 years total of screwing around in my own head, trying to figure out my sexuality? There has got to be a better way .. I am glad society has loosened up a bit since 2007.
I see people still trying to come up with 40 different labels for every state of human relationship and sexuality and it seems insane, just be who you are.
Well for me other than showing your cock to friends when you are preteen it never occurred to me that I was bi or anything other than straight.. never really crossed my mind to be with another man.. then during a sexual dry spell even though I was dating a girl I took a college class in human sexuality or physiology or something and they had us read two articles about gay “tea rooms” and that film of the government capturing hetero men in ther bathroom sucking each other etc .. I never heard or saw suck a thing ever .. so in my drought I did not go to a tea room as that did not appeal to me in any way but stated to think about whet if I guy sucks me or jerks me might feel good too.. I went to an adult movie theater as this was years ago and bought a ticket and went into the gay porno theater … and didn’t do much for an idea and it’s been in my mind every since..I still have not done a lot or often since then but the older I get the more I want to suck cock and get sucked
Ah, yes: The Drought! Even as a teen, I did very brisk business with straight guys suffering that lack of pussy and desperate for release that wasn't jerking off... and willing to get off with me and to the extent that they'd be willing to do anything to be able to bust a nut in me somewhere. They were guys who didn't believe in this or it's the "in case of emergency" last option to avoid having to deal with a painful case of blue balls. Because of The Drought, I... made a lot of guys bisexual and happily so because they learned what I already knew: Getting some dick is damned good. Comparatively easier than trying to get some pussy. If it's a blowjob, the other guy isn't likely to tell you not to cum in his mouth; he's very likely to get pissed with you if you don't cum!
As Richard Pryor once said, "A lack of pussy will make a motherfucker crazy..." that same lack of pussy can make some men... turn to other men for sex. What fucks a lot of guys up is the belief that they have to be attracted to men like they are attracted to women when, in truth, you don't have to be - you just gotta want to do it with a guy and purely because it's sex. Anything else is mindfucking yourself into not doing something you know you want and need to do. But all of this is "easier" when you already know what the deal is, aka, having sex with your friends and, yes, relatives if that was the way it all went down. It's a sexuality thing... but it is still very much a sex thing and, well, some of us find out that dicks are great for having sex early on and some don't find out until... The Drought pays them a visit and now... you gotta unlearn some stuff that as an adult, isn't easy to do when you've been all about the pussy and nothing else.
I've heard about tea rooms; I do know about being in a theater and watching porn... and some guy starts sucking my dick and, well, I'm a cocksucker, too, so that works and it's no big deal - but it's the difference between having been introduced to this being young and not being an adult and this is something "new" to me. But, sure - if you want to do it, then find a way to do it; it's being bisexual and just "sexual." Being bi doesn't mean that you have to be romantic with men - but you can be if that "makes you happy." It's... not really that hard to figure out if you don't buy into the hype and bullshit being tossed around: Listen to yourself and your feelings more than anything else and perhaps you'll find that being bisexual isn't really a problem other than getting out there and getting dick the way you want and need it. Anything else is self-suppressing and... why would you do that to yourself and on top of society trying to suppress you as well?
The Drought has made a lot of men bisexual...
I was 9 when I secretly watched a guy suck another guy's cock in a park close to my house. Honestly, I wasn't really sure what they were doing at first. Being young and quite naive, I initially thought the guy who was on his knees had dropped something and was looking for it. It wasn't until I moved to another viewpoint that I saw the guy who was leaning against the picnic table had his shorts pulled down around his thighs and his friend had his dick in his mouth. I watched motionless as the guy leaning against the table stiffened his body and and let out several low grunts. The guy on his knees continued to suck and lick his friend's cock for several more seconds. Finally, the guy who was standing reached down and pulled his shorts back up, then he helped his cocksucker to his feet. Then the two glanced around and walked away from each other in opposite directions, oblivious to the fact that I had watched the whole thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by iamcontent
While that in itself didn't make me bi, it certainly made an impression on me. As I moved into my early teens and discovered porn and the pleasures of masturbation, I would often think back on that day, fantasizing about how awesome it would feel to have my cock sucked, and eventually, what it would be like to maybe give a blowjob. Then, on my 14th birthday, I had my curiosity satisfied when I got my first opportunity to suck my friend's stepdad's cock. After that first time, I was hooked. I loved everything about it, especially when I would feel his cock swell and begin releasing load after load in my mouth. Even then, I didn't really consider bi because I had several girlfriends and I had only sucked one cock (although I did him repeatedly for almost a year). I had also lost my anal virginity to him during that time and found whether I was sucking him or letting him use my ass, I knew I liked it!
Ironically, I wouldn't receive my first bj until I was 16 when my then girlfriend agreed to suck me. But as I got older, I started to question my sexuality when I found my second FWBs who loved having his cock sucked and would let me service him two or three times a week. That definitely cemented it for me. Since that time, I have had many more male partners (the vast majority of which have been one-night stands or simple hook-ups), but in terms of long term relationships, all have been with women.
I started sucking guys when i was 32 or 33 .At 1st i did not want to admit i was bi. I was married. For a few months i would suck a guy then promise myself that was the last one . Always after a week or two though I would get deep desires to suck on another guy. After this I realized That I am a bisexual guy. I have sucked cocks for now 35 years likely average of 35 cocks per year this adds up to a number of cocks sucked. I enjoy sucking men
The first time was when I was younger, and me and a friend were checking each other?s dicks out. Seemed harmless and interesting to do. Then we touched each others and then he actually got down and started sucking mine. I was immediately turned on and loved it. We switched and I took his and MAN was that so exciting. I did that before ever fully having sex with a girl, and both were equally amazing to me. I just love sex, and like another posted in another thread, size doesn?t matter. Small medium, large, just like a chick, big boobs, small, flat, no matter, it?s exciting no matter what. So from the first time experiencing both, I just wanted sex with both. Never looked at anything like bisexual, gay, nothing, just ?more please!?.
I have a good friend who told is wife of 28 years. She didn't speak to him until he came to me for help. I spoke with her. We talked for days. When I felt comfortable with her I told her of my longings. She wanted to hear more. We talked for a few more days. She asked if I'd watch some videos with her. We did. She was aroused by it but had no idea if she could go through with it. That is when I told her about us, our journey. She had so many questions. She wanted to see any videos of us. My husband was okay with it. A few day later I had her over asking her to bring a swim suit. We lounged by the pool and watched my husband, John, his wife, and my husband. She was turned on at the first sight of John. When we ladies sucked him together, she was touching herself. When I sucked John with my husband her hands were all over. I stopped the video letting her know there was much more but she needed to talk to her husband. A few more days of processing it all she did. She asked to come over. She had my friend tells us both, "I am in love with my wife but I want to suck cock and get my ass fucked by one. I am bisexual and I want to do this with my wife's help." She asked if my husband and I would help. I replied not as sex partners. She was very disappointed and also very relieved. I explained why. She understood. I also mentioned that they need to take this extremely slow, perhaps some role play, sex toy play, sex talk naked, and enjoy the newness as a couple, alone. All in all I think she handled it well. Time will tell.
It was late in life I finally accepted my bisexuality. I guess I had known for a long time.
I'm now in my 60s and feel comfortable exploring.
I'm still not out yet.
Probabbly knew in my early teens when I would jerk off to fantasies of getting fucked or sucking a cock. I was in my 40s before I learnwd to accept it.
In my younger days (high school). I never really connected with girls. Yes there were a couple. At around 20 I started going to a local adult bookstore. In the beginning it was just me alone in a booth jerking off to porn. I soon realized I was attracted to gay porn. One night I was in a booth where th the door open about 1/2 way. A guy started talking to me. He was older, I opened the door further and he came in with me. That was the first time I had a blowjob from a guy. I walked out of the store that night confused at what happened. But I liked it and that’s how It all started. Now I’m so glad to have had that experience and to this day I enjoy the company of a man.
I knew and accepted it at about the same time. I had a summer fling with another kid as a teen, which I enjoyed, but because I was still attracted to women I cut it off when school started. Like many other I had never heard of bisexuality. Fast forward about 40 years. I was convalescing from hip surgery and discovered tranny and gay porn. Way too much time on my hands I guess...lol It kind of re-lit that flame and I remembered how turned on I got sucking that kids cock and how I felt it pulse as I swallowed his cum. I knew then that I was going to suck some cock again. As soon as I was up and around I started checking out craigslist and away I went! I was also spurred on by my wife's lack of sex drive which is down to zero at present.
In my younger years I was never even vaguely interested in other guys in any sexual or romantic sense, but I did have an overwhelming lot of sexual curiosity. By the time I was in my mid-20s I started to feel like I really wanted to know what it felt like for the women I'd been with to suck my cock or to have it thrusting into them and why these things seemed to them to be as pleasurable for them as the experience was from my standpoint. By the time I was in my 30s I decided I'd had enough of wondering and wanted to experience it for myself. When opportunity presented itself I took it and found I enjoyed it thoroughly. Yes, I enjoy a bloke going down on me or giving his ass a good go, but it is the sucking and being fucked part that really makes the experience unique, different and delightful. Life without having experienced those things and continuing them would be a poorer thing as far as I'm concerned! My buddy and I have plans for tomorrow and my balls are tingling and doing some slow rolls in anticipation. We usually start out with some intense necking and nipple play and then comes that lovely moment when I slip that smooth, swelling cockhead into my mouth. Something especially blissful about that moment for me in the same frame as the intense joy of entering a warm, wet pussy.
Really feeling in rather desperate need of some nice cum shooting into my mouth...