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What do you find more enticing... sucking/fucking the same guy multiple times or hooking up with different guys? I know there are a lot of factors involved, BUT taking the risk of STDs and Covid off of the table... would you rather have a regular partner or a new one each time? Why?
works out better with someone you know
I would say a regular, I would prefer to have a relationship with someone I'm having sex with. I also think a spontaneous interaction would be fun, and doing the swing/group thing is something I would love to explore.
I have a regular FWB right now. It is one hell of a lot easier than searching for new cock. We make a date and get to business. And we can expand doing what we like as time goes on.
Regular for sure, it’s more comfortable when you have the right FWB.
Regular guy hands down
For all of the many years I've been a cocksucker, I've always been with random guys and I've always liked it that way...except when I didn't. I loved being on the hunt, the excitement of unleashing a new cock, the arousal/anxiety of not knowing how much cum he's going to feed me, etc.
The overall anxiety of discovering an unknown cock along with the turn on of being an oral slut for another mostly, if not totally anonymous guy was, for many many years, a big part of what drove me to seek out random guys. As the competition got stiffer, no pun intended, it started to be a real hassle to find guys who fit my shifting needs (being a sub, no recip cum swallower). It took more and more time to connect with someone that worked for both of us, and also was often very difficult to find a place to serve him if neither of us could host.
Now, I love the idea of a regular guy who understands my sub desires...someone who I can go to when we both really want and need it so badly. I think I've recently connected with a guy who seems like a near perfect fit and I am looking forward to pleasuring him and discovering how good it is to serve a regular.
All that said, I vote, Regular!
I get bored with sucking a guy after several times. I like different guys as often as possible. I did have one regular that knew exactly how to treat me and I loved sucking his cock.
Regular fwb not even close
FWB is better than no cock at all in my book.
All things considered, I’d say regular, for two reasons. First, a guy becomes a regular because we discover there are circumstances that allow us to get together on a regular basis — usually because one of us can host. So, it’s possible to get together on a regular basis without a lot of logistical problems. Second, with a regular guy, our sex play can evolve and mature, and I like that experience. There is the opportunity for our sex to get to more advanced stages of pleasure and creativity.
Having said all of that, however, there is something to be said for the excitement of getting together with a new guy — discovering what his cock and body are like, discovering how much fun we can have together, and (more generally) just having the opportunity to meet a truly nice guy. The problem is that too often the random hookups end in disappointment.
I can definitely identify with your statement. There is nothing like the thrill of pulling down a pair or underwear or a guy's trousers and being presented with a nice cock! At the same time, it's nice knowing you have a regular, who you know appreciates you and rewards you with a regular load. I got spoiled early by having access to one of the nicest cocks that ever walked. Wasn't in love with the man, but was with his penis and the joys it gave me.
After many years without even a touch of another man's cock, and remembering how difficult it was to find one back then, I think the best is to have at least one regular FWB. Even better would be a circle of friends to call when in the mood. Then, we could know we kept our fun within this safe group and not have to wear a damn rubber - I need the feel, the taste and the cum, without the taste of a rubber in the way.
Nobody should ever have to suck a guy wearing a rubber. Not only does it defeat the purpose, but it tastes awful too!Quote:
Originally Posted by Francumphile
Too often random hook-ups are no-shows. Or they are not the guy that you thought they would be...Quote:
Originally Posted by P-Henry
To your other point, being able to host offers a great advantage, but carries some risk too. I've found that meeting at a neutral location such as a hotel, coffee shop or bar first is a good idea.
I would rather have a regular partner that you can trust in terms of the risks like STDs, discretion, etc.
A FWB. Too many no shows, endless Emails or chatting, excuses. I'd prefer to Email or chat a couple times but months on end?
Both please.. it is very erotic having sex with someone familiar.. but it is also very erotic having sex with someone for the first time.. the anxiety and thrill as he enters you for the first time.. having someone you know and trust thrusting in and out stirring your insides up is amazing.. having both cum as deep inside of my pussy is mind blowing..Quote:
Originally Posted by jjourneyman
A regular FWB suck or fuck buddy for sure. The incredible effort needed through endlessly searching for guys and the personal criteria you are both looking for, many no-shows and cancellations, especially lately, and the endless disappointments with incompatible needs, makes the idea of a FWB so appealing. But I've so far only had one, many years ago. But ultimately it's what I'm looking for.
But the sexual disappointments and emotional exhaustion is sometimes not worth it. Then I get into a phase of tons of masturbation while participating in forums like this and NSFW tweeting of mostly gay porn. Then back to craving a real connection with a bi or gay guy again, starting the whole cycle again. Lol!
But my gay side is so strong since breaking up with my ex-girlfriend two years ago, that I want nothing more to do with women, at least for now. So I'm stuck with this cycle. So, yes, a male FWB all the way! In fact, I'm desperate now.
I have 2 regular FWBs and I like it that way. Both know what I like to do and I know what they like. They are different than each other one only tops ( he does suck dick but won?t take it up the ass) and he has a short extremely wide and round uncircumcised penis. The other guy is versatile and has a long skinny circumcised penis. I can trust them both not to hurt me or play games, not always true with strangers.
I'd prefer, a REGULAR (FWBs) you already have common interests, likes, and positions. And you you want you can socialize just anyone else, but with added feature of enjoying playtime behind close doors. It's your world enjoy it ��
Ii would prefer one guy I experience with. I am too nervous to suck on a random guy
I would prefer regular for sure. For random, I would need to use a non-lubricated condom before putting it in my mouth. Just me.
I much prefer randoms. Have had some regulars over the years, being a guys on call cock sucker is fun and ensures you get to swallow more often but there's nothing hotter than just getting on my knees and sucking a new strange cock working up to the point where I swallow his delicious load. Nothing hotter.
A steady FWB is best as far as I am concerned.
Random. Absolutely.
I understand the threat of disease and, yes, I love the safety and familiarity of a regular friend with benefits, but if I'm honest then I have to say that sucking totally anonymous cock, preferably many at once, is just ... there's nothing like it.
My first time at a public cruising spot was accidental. I was going for a run at night due to stress and because I'd not had the chance to exercise earlier. I wound up running through a local park. I'd been running for a while so dropped to a walk when I noticed another fellow walking along the same path. We said "hi" and I just kinda fell into step beside him. Long story short, I wound up deep in the woods with him and about ten other guys, on my knees sucking off pretty much everyone. No plan, unintentional, but it was ... I don't even know how to describe it. I didn't finish anyone off because at one point it kinda clicked what I was doing and I just stood up and left.
I did some guilt after that but couldn't stop thinking about it. Whenever I got the chance I'd go back and every now and then would run into someone there and be right back on my knees. My friends growing up and I had messed around a little once or twice, but now I loved sucking anyone off. The more unknown the better, and the taste when they came was the best.
I stopped after a few weeks because of the risks, but I want it. Man, do I want it, and if there were no limitations, no risks ...
FWB is always nice... watch out for the crazy wives though... Been there and done that dance after she went through his phone. But, yeah, there is nothing like pulling a guy's boxer brief's down and being greeted by a nice cock just waiting to be sucked!Quote:
Originally Posted by Warmnsalty
I'd like to have a FWB relationship like I had years ago.
Take STD's off the table, and he and I could do others together.
Regular all day every day if possible!
Not into the random stranger thing anymore.
To expand on my upthread post.
I really enjoy relationships. I'd really like to meet a guy I can talk with, watch porn together and share our likes about sex with men and women. There are so few times we can do this in the world and it is what I ultimately want in a FWB.
Random strangers seem to want a performance.
Primarily I prefer regular rather than random sex.
I have had a single regular partner for more than 16 years.
Sex outside our relationship with men or women has been relatively sparce for both of us.
However, we very much enjoy random sex as well.
Sometimes random sex can be the beginning of a regular sex relationship.
That is how my present relationship started.
Even though I ended up voting for a regular, I agree that there's nothing quite so exciting as sucking a random guy. I remember those days when I would be literally shaking with lust when I was presented with a nice hard anonymous dick.Quote:
Originally Posted by Warmnsalty
Still, nowadays I rarely visit my secret side, so when I do it is still incredibly exciting. Whew...is it ever!
Gosh, I really appreciate both options as I do love sucking cock and that thrill of meeting a new penis is as natural to me as the Sun rising in the east each morning.Quote:
Originally Posted by jjourneyman
I simply love meeting and sucking cock for a new guy BUT having several true regulars that enjoy me often is wonderful too because knowing the man and what he enjoys gives me a chance to get into worship mode where I know what he likes and just do it relentlessly to the delicious reward.
Short answer, I guess I prefer new random cock, it's just so exciting. Variety IS the spice of life.
Regular for me. I like to get to know the guy I have sex with and to get to know how to give him maximum pleasure. That doesn't stop us from bringing in a third for some new cock now and then!
I like both, I have a regular I have fucked many times but the thrill of some strange is always there.
I think I would prefer a regular at this point. Want to be able to move from condoms to bareback. Not something I'm willing to risk with a random hookup
I haven't sucked off a lot of men. All have been pretty much random except one guy who I sucked off three times. He claimed to be straight, but it turned out he was interested in my cock also. I'm looking for a straight, preferably married, man to relieve on a regular basis. I get a lot of men pretending to be that, but in reality they want my cock as well.
I'd prefer someone regular.
I have been looking for a fwb forever. I want to play as often as possible. At least 3 times a week. I want to get into bed next to my wife with a load of cum deep inside of me. I also want to come home and give her a kiss after I've sucked and drained a cock.
If there was no chance of stds, random hook ups would be great. Seems like it would be easier to line something up.
I've played with about 15 guys over the years, most were random hookups, once-and-done encounters that always left me feeing a bit used and deceived. I far and away prefer ongoing relationships with a steady partner, someone I know well and to whom I can reveal a side of my sexual self that I keep carefully concealed from public view. My buddy, Dave, and I have been exploring our bisexual fantasies together for a little over eight years now, and have pretty much covered all the activities and positions possible between to horny, open-minded guys.