Bisexual Married Men Bashing

Lately, Ive seen alot of posts that have gone above and beyond to bash married bisexual men. Id just like to say that the gift in our being bisexual is the variety -- we have choices, we have options, we have POSSIBILITIES that others do not understand. I am not going to make someone feel horrible for "cheating" on their wives--we dont know the nature of their relationship, nor do we know what their situation is. Maybe they are indeed in the closet, maybe they are selfish, maybe their wives know, maybe their wives dont care, maybe no one in the relationship gives a damn anymore. Who are we to rip apart someone else's life? I understand that we all have an opinion. But I think it is unfair to call out all bisexual married men and label them as cowards. Some of us are polyamorous; some of us are monogamous, some of us are so many things. We don't fit into the common mold and if you are bisexual and don't know that critical factor by now....you're the one that the rest of us should be feeling sorry for and NOT the other way around. There's more than two choices and I think as a true bisexual, that point alone should transcend every part of your lives. No one has to be one of anything. I support and admire many of our married bisexual men. That is the richness of who we are..the layers and juxtapositions and contradictions.

Could not have put it better myself.....

Hear, Hear. Well said

Great Post. Absolutely agree! Thanks!

Agreed.

Great points and very well said!

You're spot on and the name calling is uncalled for. Each of us is unique, that's what makes life so rich: the diversity.

I'm in the amen pew with you. I already have a conscience and I don't need another one!

As a bi married man, I have seen the attacks against us. I have also seen bi married men use bisexuality as a justification to cheat on their spouses. I'm sure they have a perfectly good reason. Frankly I don't judge them, but on the same token I will not participate in those "hook ups" or NSA sex meet ups simply because I don't respect their choices. Thats not a judgement, that's self preservation. Domestic disturbances are the leading cause of murder and assaults. My wife and I self disclosed all of our skeletons prior to being married. We also practice open and honest communications. We also happen to be poly so in our situation it is vitally important to communicate before acting upon.

Maybe I'm not here enough anymore but I don't recall seeing much of that. About the only thing along that line that rubs me the wrong way is comments- usually from one side of a couple or another- ragging on someone for "cheating", but even those comments aren't very strong or widespread. Those comments rub me the wrong way mostly because that particular couple seems to have a decent situation. Puts me off a bit when someone who has theirs rags on someone who doesn't.

I never bashed bisexual married men but the men that were never honest with their wife with their sexuality preferences then cheat behind their wife's back. I'm done with this topic and don't care about the topic anymore. Keywords are unfaithful, dishonest, and cheating.

The fact that bisexual women are less discriminated against than bisexual men is a problem for bisexual men. The fact that a man is bisexual and married can be a problem. In my opinion it is logical to include a basic bisexual morality where having more than one partner is acceptable. The word Polyamory is a negatively loaded word in my society. Yesterday, the word was used about a religious sect that practices multi partners (one man and many women) and some of the partners are basically children is a problem. It seems very difficult for my society to be accepting not only of bisexuality but that it is appropriate to have more than one partner whether the partner is a closed loop, friend with benefit or fuck bud etc.

Some people are too quick to judge like the OP states. Some people tend to lump bisexual men with all kinds of negative adornments. I agree that more tolerance is helpful on a bisexual site.

Since it got moved out here, I will paste my response from the blog:

for the record there are lots of awesome bi hubby's on this board. Mine is one of them. ;)




We're not bashing married bisexual men. It's the cheaters that are being bashed. No one has a problem with who you are. It's how a lot of them act that creates the problem and the bad perception.and to be fair, I hate cheaters of ANY persuasion.

Maybe we should have titled it "Cheaters bashing"

When I first found this site I was delighted, a community of bisexual people who are supportive of each other and function as an actual community. As I got more familiar with it, I began to see the flaws but those flaws exist most anywhere where sex is the main topic. Bisexual married men are not immune to human failure any more than any other demographic group. Some of us are beautiful people, some are unscrupulous cads. On the whole, I have found that we are no more or less susceptible to flaws than the rest of society. I have found a lot of really wonderful people here, a few exceptional examples. I have found many I wouldn't give a plugged nickel to talk to again, most of them begin their conversations in chat with the line, "a/s/l?" These folks tend to be hit and run speed wankers looking for a quick j/o session before they're off to bed. Which has it's merits, but not my own cup of Earl Gray.

That being said, the vast majority of us are here to identify with each other, we want a place to belong. Our motives are different because our lives and circumstances are different. I'm tired of the judgement being passed around like a collection plate in church, if I wanted judgement, I'd go to church instead of coming here. It is an unfortunate and inconvenient truth that SOME here are unfaithful in their relationships. Others want to talk out of one side of their mouths with judgement for others and then openly admit they have dipped their wick in the same pool. Some have been less than judicious about their criticism of others and feel justified in doing so. The truth is, we are subject to enough judgement by the outside world. You can't swing a dead cat without hitting someone willing to stand on their soapbox and beat us on the head with our sexuality. I'm over it, and I didn't come here in the first place to hear what I can hear on a plethora of swinger sites or 50 other sources of bi-bashing. I'm tired of trying to be the voice of reason, I'm tired of this subject as a whole. It seems matter how I try to moderate the vitriol, the shit storm keeps flying around me. So....

Sdf123, I agree with you, there are good guys and good gals here. That's all I have to say about that! I'm over it!

I am not into married men bashing or cheater bashing at all.The only thing that marital status means to me that that they will likely be available for play at 5:30 AM until 7:05 AM on Sundays and between 10:13 and 10:55 AM on Tuesdays every 2 weeks in July and August and they cannot host and I need to live nearby.I am sure that after a while restrictions such as those go away for those that actual get their dreams fulfilled and that makes me happy for them not sad or judgmental of them.

OK, yes, I’m married and I have sex with other men.

That said, I don’t cheat on my wife!

We’ve been married for 42 years now and have had a great sex life for most of those years.For the past couple of years she has just not wanted intercourse of any kind.We still hug, kiss, and sometimes will do some fondling but that’s all and she’s very content with only that.

We have both had sex with other partners in the past through some swinging activities so, having sex with other isn’t something either of us would condemn the other for doing.

She knows of my bisexual interests and has said she’s fine with it.She even suggested, numerous times, that I go see a bisexual friend that we met through cybering with other couples 15 years ago.

OK, all that explained, I only have sex with men that she knows I’m friends with.Now, sure, I become acquainted through sites like this but before any sex at all I know the guy, my wife knows I know the guy, and my wife has even met the guy at least once.So, it’s not like I’m sneaking out without her knowledge.

I’d love to be able to experience sex with a woman again but I know she’d hit the roof if she found out.If she found out that I’d had sex with my current bud, she’d probably either say she thought so or she’d say she was surprised but, either way, she’d be cool with it.

So, no, I don’t feel like I’m cheating on her at all.My friend and I help each other enjoy sexual release and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it.We enjoy spending an afternoon drinking beer and discussing politics or religion and we also spend other times sucking each other’s cock!It’s all about sharing enjoyable times with a buddy!

Should I tell her I’m having sex with him?I could but I just wouldn’t be comfortable with it.It’s probably the main reason I haven’t driven up to my Internet friend’s town.Because she’d know I’d had sex while I was gone.It’s just something that neither of us would want to discuss.

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Originally Posted by Ja&Ve

We're not bashing married bisexual men. It's the cheaters that are being bashed. No one has a problem with who you are. It's how a lot of them act that creates the problem and the bad perception.and to be fair, I hate cheaters of ANY persuasion.

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This type of judgemental attitude is something that I find difficult to understand????

First, it is sexist as there are many cheating wives and women in the world. Some of these cheating women are bisexual while others are gay or heterosexual. If you do not like how a person acts then do not interact with them. This works regardless of gender and lifestyle. The addition of the words "any persuasion" coats your negativity with sugar. To spend energy stereotypically and negatively judging others is a waste of your life energy. Hate is an emotion that you should try to reduce expending. You do not know the individual and you are not involved sexually or socially stfu and move on with your own life. This type of blanket hatred was used and still is used by some people to condemn others due to race, religion, sexuality, disability, etc. Hatred and bigotry should have no place on a bisexual site. Tolerance, genuine empathy and kindness should be encouraged.

Yes you are right and I have been cheated on while on deployment. She cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. You are also right that we do not know the individuals that do cheat. This is a topic that is like a nasty scab. It will never heal up because people are always going to pick at it. I don't like cheating spouses but it's not my problem. I don't recommend cheating because eventually you could be caught by the spouse and it won't be pretty. It's none of my business what people do on here.

You don't quite get it do you? It's not the bisexuality I have a problem with - it's the dishonesty. Trust is a huge part of a relationship for me, if I can't trust you then we might as well not even be in a relationship. I don't have any problem with third party relationships where all parties know and consent to what is happening. That is the way you avoid disease and potential hurt feelings. If you ask most wives (cause I see it echoed on here) it wasn't really the sex that bothered them, it was the fact that their husband hid himself from her.

Another person was describing a divorce her daughter was going through and the fact that the daughter and her husband were not sleeping together, someone suggested he was gay and my response was - even if you are gay you still don't treat the people you love the way this guy was acting all through the divorce - basically taking it out on his little girl and making it really hard for his wife to raise her (the guy is always travelling for business so whether he wants to be there on not, he can't.) Every little vindictive childish action he takes makes it worse and worse.

That's not to say that I don't have sympathy for men who are struggling because their wife is not interested, or they have a family to raise and want to be there to support their family - or they found out much later in life that they really are attracted to men but come on guys - being bisexual is not a free pass. I guess people do it, but I could not imagine hiding such an integral part of myself from the person I love most in the world, the person I'm supposed to be able to trust with my life, for very long.

If you're BOTH cheating then fine, but at least be honest about it - and now I suppose you can tell me all to go to hell..I do have a lot to learn and I know that in the real world relationships are messy.

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Originally Posted by elian

You don't quite get it do you? It's not the bisexuality I have a problem with - it's the dishonesty. Trust is a huge part of a relationship for me, if I can't trust you then we might as well not even be in a relationship. I don't have any problem with third party relationships where all parties know and consent to what is happening. That is the way you avoid disease and potential hurt feelings. If you ask most wives (cause I see it echoed on here) it wasn't really the sex that bothered them, it was the fact that their husband hid himself from her.

Another person was describing a divorce her daughter was going through and the fact that the daughter and her husband were not sleeping together, someone suggested he was gay and my response was - even if you are gay you still don't treat the people you love the way this guy was acting all through the divorce - basically taking it out on his little girl and making it really hard for his wife to raise her (the guy is always travelling for business so whether he wants to be there on not, he can't.) Every little vindictive childish action he takes makes it worse and worse.

That's not to say that I don't have sympathy for men who are struggling because their wife is not interested, or they have a family to raise and want to be there to support their family - or they found out much later in life that they really are attracted to men but come on guys - being bisexual is not a free pass. I guess people do it, but I could not imagine hiding such an integral part of myself from the person I love most in the world, the person I'm supposed to be able to trust with my life, for very long.

If you're BOTH cheating then fine, but at least be honest about it - and now I suppose you can tell me all to go to hell..I do have a lot to learn and I know that in the real world relationships are messy.

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Bingo! Spot on Elian!!!

They won't get it and never will and that's why it is pointless to argue with them.

True. Narcissism is an inherent personality trait.

This is a really interesting article I found that sort of relates to the topic..the second part of the article is better than the first.

http://waitbutwhy.com/2014/02/pick-life-partner.html

I do think that bisexuality is a bona fide state of being with its own unique requirements - I'm not saying that it's easy to be bisexual and in one or more relationships but I think that there may be ways of treating yourself and the people around you in a genuine, balanced way.

Maybe I'm dreaming, who knows.

Heck, I'm single and although I'm feeling much better about my sexuality I'm still not 100% accepting of it. As it turns out, sex, relationships and how we relate to the world can be complex and elicit powerful emotions in people..who would have thought..

This will probably be the last I post on the topic because we are all at different points in our lives, with different circumstances..I can only speak to what I think is the way I would want to be treated and treat others. Part of my strong reaction to this comes from growing up in a divorced household and seeing a lot of insecure men in a position of authority take advantage of people in bad ways. In truth I have no right to judge anyone else.

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Originally Posted by elian

This is a really interesting article I found that sort of relates to the topic..the second part of the article is better than the first.

http://waitbutwhy.com/2014/02/pick-life-partner.html

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A fantastic read. Every single person should read this. And more than a few marrieds could use the refresher course.

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Originally Posted by elian

In truth I have no right to judge anyone else.

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I agree in as much as no one has such a right.

That aside we each respectively to hold our own opinions based on
personal experience. With this in mind, I can attest that your opinion/s
and manner/s seemed balanced and impeccable to me.

This is said without intention of being lip service or homage, merely
because you treated me favorably. There is no denying that you did. My
point here though is you are are quite apt in what you express.

I know you and me have not talked much within the last while. I
understand much of the reasons behind that. We each get busy in living.
Still, I often find myself enthralled with loving you. If we lived
nearer to one another you can be assured I would be the visiting
husband, swapping out nightly or weekly visits between you and my wife.

And yes, this would entail adversity in being fair with you both, and
fair to myself. For the most I am content to act as consort as in days
of old, the stag back at the edge of the wood watching the does graze,
the cardinal bird letting his wives come feed on the seeds. That seems
purely masculine and dominate. You and my wife both know I have bouts
where it is the opposite, I indulge in being submissive.

Still I would be aloof and the gentle shadow following you both. That is
just me, a humbled old soul who is there, who loves. I am discovering
more and more how right you were regarding the kitten incident. Bah, and
you wonder why I love you. ;) It's all about that cute ass of yours.
Riiight. :) :P

Wow... I don't know where to begin. I have just begun this journey of truth. Admitting to myself that I am at the very least bi curious without trying to justify it. I have come out to my wife and she is supportive of the notion. We have yet to work on anything beyond and I know we shall as we both become comfortable with our admissions ( she is hi curious too).As for bashing married bisexual men honestly I have seen limited examples mostly in internet articles usually. from one of the two other extremes ( gay & straight ). Funny how these opposite sexual lifestyles say that bi men are just more or less gays in training. The whole aspect of cheating ... Going behind my wife's back is unpalatable to me. I have these desires and they can be very strong. However out of respect for the woman I love I just wait and more importantly communicate. I respect her and myself and owe her total honesty. In fact if we never get to the point where she ( or we ) can allow it to happen then I suppose another lifetime then. Another thing I cannot see happening is the "hook up". I wish a friend to spend time with ... Know ... Not just an anonymous tryst. I will say from what I read here today I'm proud to be here sharing these journeys. I wish I knew what was coming next... But then don't we all

CB

We are both bisexual and have no secrets. What you do is what you can justify in your mind. We won't put you down but on the other hand we wouldn't care to know you if you are being dishonest.

The self appointed morality police force on this site is a appalling.

I don't judge or condemn bi married men for seeking and/or meeting other bi men, mainly because I am one of those "other" bi men whom they seek on this site and other sites. I much prefer bi married (or divorced) men because they are safer, more discreet and non-judgemental. They have more in common with me than single bi men or gay men. I permanently separated from my 2nd wife over 5 years ago and I consider that marriage to be a legal technicality until we eventually divorce. I feel no guilt or shame, nor do my married male partners. I feel single but list myself as a solo bi male on my adult site profiles so as not to misrepresent myself as not married.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion of bi married males who see a man (or men) on the side. I pay no attention to criticism and condemnation and bashing from holier-than-thou jackasses who can't or won't simply agree to disagree on the issue.

So my wife knows im bi and also has made it clear that she is not interested in participating. We have a healthy sex life, good communication, and have been together for over 15 years. She knows that 2-3 times per year I get with guys but its understood that I don't announce it.

is that cheating or lying?

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Originally Posted by silkysmoove

So my wife knows im bi and also has made it clear that she is not interested in participating. We have a healthy sex life, good communication, and have been together for over 15 years. She knows that 2-3 times per year I get with guys but its understood that I don't announce it.

is that cheating or lying?

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neither
, you are one of the awesome ones. Your wife "knows" and you have her tacit blessing.

It used to be a lot worse here for members who posted that they cheat on their partner. I lost count how many were driven off the site just for being honest about their situation.
You'd always get some self appointed 'monogamy police' ripping into them like they had any business to, on that issue alone. I and others would get criticized for defending their right to be here and given a bit of respect.
Respect is what it all boils down to IMO. We don't have to respect the choices other members make, but we do need to respect their honesty here even if they are not so honest elsewhere.

On a sexuality themed site, the comfort of honesty and protection from judgement is pretty damn vital. There may not be anywhere else many of us could be honest, even to ourselves. Whether or not we think others deserve respect for the things they do, is neither 'here' or 'there'.
We have different moral compasses, and as much as we'd like to believe it, ours are not the prime shiny golden compass of the cosmos that overrules all others that we believe it to be. When entering into 'morals' there's always a little mine waiting to be stepped on.

Truth is - this place isn't called Saint.com for obvious reasons, and the 'cyber Doormen' need to remind themselves of that sometimes.:rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by sdf123

Lately, Ive seen alot of posts that have gone above and beyond to bash married bisexual men. Id just like to say that the gift in our being bisexual is the variety -- we have choices, we have options, we have POSSIBILITIES that others do not understand. I am not going to make someone feel horrible for "cheating" on their wives--we dont know the nature of their relationship, nor do we know what their situation is. Maybe they are indeed in the closet, maybe they are selfish, maybe their wives know, maybe their wives dont care, maybe no one in the relationship gives a damn anymore. Who are we to rip apart someone else's life? I understand that we all have an opinion. But I think it is unfair to call out all bisexual married men and label them as cowards. Some of us are polyamorous; some of us are monogamous, some of us are so many things. We don't fit into the common mold and if you are bisexual and don't know that critical factor by now....you're the one that the rest of us should be feeling sorry for and NOT the other way around. There's more than two choices and I think as a true bisexual, that point alone should transcend every part of your lives. No one has to be one of anything. I support and admire many of our married bisexual men. That is the richness of who we are..the layers and juxtapositions and contradictions.

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I sympathize with the guys that can nor reveal themselves to their partner, live in the shadows, dream of a different life....... but by the same token, its not our sexuality that makes us cheat.... unless we have some type of bisexual cheating gene that is not found in any other sexuality......and while the desire for sex can be strong in people, we still choose to cheat, we make that conscious choice to cheat and we justify our arguments for and against cheating...... but its not a clear situation where lines can be drawn, its blurred lines and that is why I have a hypocritical stance on cheating.... I do not condone the action, I will not always agree with the reasoning but I understand that there can be more to cheating than just the sex....... in the same way a person may rob a store for money for drugs while another person may do the same thing in order to feed their family.........

the issue I have, is with the idea that we are supposed to accept, support and even condone bisexual males cheating.....yet ignore the effects that it can have on families, partners, loved ones and often sit in judgement of those affected by the cheating........ its something that goes against the nature of a lot of people.....and something they are judged for, by people in the site, often by the same people that are quick to pass judgement on other people that are not bisexual and not perfect, just like us

Good points Gear. How can someone turn all pious when there are such sexually explicit threads? The morality of the heteronormative mainstream society needs questioning and challenging.


There is a huge difference from condemning bisexuals for their sexual activity and condoning it on a bisexual web site. Empathy and sympathy may be expressed without judgment and using heteronormative moral values. Sucking cock is sinful if you are a man according to heteronormative moral values. Understanding and examining society values and judgements regarding bisexual men in relationships with heterosexual women needs challenging. You do not have to condone or condemn a bisexual man who enters a heteronormative relationship with a heterosexual woman. You may question his wisdom of doing so without having discussed his sexuality and having fully understood his sexuality. These mistakes are made. There is rarely full discussions on monogamy and sexuality prior to entering these heteronormative relationships. It is assumed.


People posting on this site should spend their energy changing society to make it suitable and comfortable to a bisexual man to discuss his sexuality without fear of retribution or shame. They do not though. If you are not in such a marriage and bisexual, it is none of your business what happens to a family of a bisexual any more than any other breakdown factor in that marriage.

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Originally Posted by tenni

People posting on this site should spend their energy changing society to make it suitable and comfortable to a bisexual man to discuss his sexuality without fear of retribution or shame. They do not though.

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Allow presentation of some words by Socrates.

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting
the old, but on building the new.”

“He who is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with
what he would like to have.”

“Let him who would move the world first move himself.”

“Do not do to others what angers you if done to you by others.”

"The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing."

In my humbled opinion, Socrates was far wiser than I will ever be. Your
words could be seen as offensive. Some of us choose a path found within
the wisdom presented in Socrates' words.

Instead of moving the world, we move ourselves. Instead of fighting
the old, we create the new. Instead of desiring what we have not, we
are content in what we have. Instead of telling others how to live and
assailing them with our lifestyle as a be all and end all, we live
quietly and peacefully with others.

This way seems not to expend energy in a manner what suits you. We
could apologize in that your approval was not sought out. We could also
apologize you only seem grand king of the world in your own mind alone.
It seems though any such apologies will be artificial at best. So, we'll
merely close here without bothering being offended by your words above.
:) Have a good one.

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Originally Posted by void()

Allow presentation of some words by Socrates.

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting
the old, but on building the new.”

“He who is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with
what he would like to have.”

“Let him who would move the world first move himself.”

“Do not do to others what angers you if done to you by others.”

"The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing."

In my humbled opinion, Socrates was far wiser than I will ever be. Your
words could be seen as offensive. Some of us choose a path found within
the wisdom presented in Socrates' words.

Instead of moving the world, we move ourselves. Instead of fighting
the old, we create the new. Instead of desiring what we have not, we
are content in what we have. Instead of telling others how to live and
assailing them with our lifestyle as a be all and end all, we live
quietly and peacefully with others.

This way seems not to expend energy in a manner what suits you. We
could apologize in that your approval was not sought out. We could also
apologize you only seem grand king of the world in your own mind alone.
It seems though any such apologies will be artificial at best. So, we'll
merely close here without bothering being offended by your words above.
:) Have a good one.

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this explains so much of why my husband is such a more peaceful person than I. And why I consider him the wiser of the two of us. :)
he he doesn't want nor expect the world to change for him. He can only change and be happy within himself.

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Originally Posted by Ja&Ve

this explains so much of why my husband is such a more peaceful person than I. And why I consider him the wiser of the two of us. :)
he he doesn't want nor expect the world to change for him. He can only change and be happy within himself.

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* grins, nods knowing * "Yup, yup, yup."

For a long while, I had a great deal of trouble regarding allowing the emotion of anger to assume control.
At one site of employment where my wife worked as well, I was terminated for a fully bull dung excuse / reason. We still believe it was really because I refused sleeping with the new management's niece.

At any given, there was a meeting with corporate folks. The new manager had written stuff on accident forms, not discipline forms. The corporate guy showed these to me as proofs I had all these piles of disciplinary referrals.

I laughed in his face and explained they were not discipline forms, and I had not signed them as required by the company's disciplinary policy. They still railroaded me out of work there via accusing me of everything from stealing the Lindberg child to crossing my ts with xs. My wife boiled over and flew into a very loud rage at them.

I sat there as calm and somber as Solomon. It was a minimum wage position which ought to have garnered better wages, we worked full time but were still listed as part time. I had better work at various times and with far better people, so, it was not worth letting anger drive for me.

I got her, held her and we left the meeting abruptly. I went back in to let them know we were leaving, after getting here into the car. We left and enjoyed a nearby local nature park the rest of the day.

At times she wonders about me and tells me she does. "I wonder about me too", I tell her. "Married to such an easily angered and psychotic woman. Never know if I'll wake up dead one morning or not." ;) :)

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Originally Posted by void()

* grins, nods knowing * "Yup, yup, yup." For a long while, I had a great deal of trouble regarding allowing the emotion of anger to assume control. At one site of employment where my wife worked as well, I was terminated for a fully bull dung excuse / reason. We still believe it was really because I refused sleeping with the new management's niece. At any given, there was a meeting with corporate folks. The new manager had written stuff on accident forms, not discipline forms. The corporate guy showed these to me as proofs I had all these piles of disciplinary referrals. I laughed in his face and explained they were not discipline forms, and I had not signed them as required by the company's disciplinary policy. They still railroaded me out of work there via accusing me of everything from stealing the Lindberg child to crossing my ts with xs. My wife boiled over and flew into a very loud rage at them. I sat there as calm and somber as Solomon. It was a minimum wage position which ought to have garnered better wages, we worked full time but were still listed as part time. I had better work at various times and with far better people, so, it was not worth letting anger drive for me. I got her, held her and we left the meeting abruptly. I went back in to let them know we were leaving, after getting here into the car. We left and enjoyed a nearby local nature park the rest of the day. At times she wonders about me and tells me she does. "I wonder about me too", I tell her. "Married to such an easily angered and psychotic woman. Never know if I'll wake up dead one morning or not." ;) :)

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If she is anything thing like me, her passion extends into all facets of her life, hence why you love her so much I'm sure.