It appears that majority of men on this site prefer to bottom rather than top. I could be wrong. I have done neither but am interested to know which you prefer and why?
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It appears that majority of men on this site prefer to bottom rather than top. I could be wrong. I have done neither but am interested to know which you prefer and why?
ohhh, the feel of a cock sliding in and out and hitting that prostate is just unbelievable!!
as far as anal sex is concerned ,i'm am a virgin. however my wife thinks i would make a very fine bottom, a submissive bottom at that, as i would love to please my partner in any way he or she may want.
vers bttm butt love gettin fucked ... have a difficult time with condoms on my cock.. so i found bottoming to be enjoyable .. espesailly after getting my hole eaten and opened bi tounge!!! wooohooooo
mainly because I don't like how tight asses are on my cock...if I top, it's pussy...but I completely melt when I let a guy take charge, put me in my place, and fucks me till we both cum...it is a completely different sexual feeling, not better, not worse (ok...possibly better IMO) than topping.
With women I'm a top, but when I'm with a guy, I prefer to bottom. I dunno, but it makes me feel hot.
I did not vote on this poll because this "issue" like many others--is not an either/or sort of thing---you didn't provide enough options and take into accounts many variables.
When it comes to being a top or a bottom for me--it does seem that with ladies---I surely do "take the lead" and all---but when it comes to being with another guy and doing anal---I really do prefer to "be the bottom."
I find it very "hot" to be on the receiving end of a guy's sexual attentions. I do love the feeling of "being probed" as it were--with the right person of course and taking all necessary precautions.
It is an entirely new aspect of sex to be on the receiving end of coital sex---as great and enjoyable as it is to be the one "on top"--it is also great and enjoyable to be the "bottom" as well.
I love to top (though I have never bottomed) and am rock-hard from this thread!
I love all sex with both F&M. I always loved to be in charge but as I am getting older I now find to be submissive and bottom for both F&M in very enjoyable. Anel orgasums are just unbelievable!!!!
I am on top cause I love to ride a cowboy . I am only on bottom when I am made to be . I love to be incontrol . CS & WS excite me ...
I used to know a nice woman who did phone sex for a business.
She said finding a top male was rare, that for some reason the majority just loved being subs.
So your assumption may have merit ?
i mostly like to top and enjoy topping men and women that said i also enjoy being a bottom from time to time either way is fun for me
When with a male partner, I love being a "bottom" for anal. I love to take control orally.
I'm a top. I have never been fucked in the ass. I do not like anything up my ass during sex even fingers or a tongue.
For anal sex between men most men are bottoms for it. You get lots of men who say that they're versatile for anal sex but they prefer to get fucked so they're more bottomish.
Despite what you see in porn most men are not versatile for anal sex.
I love being the bottom, but sometime you have give and not just recieve.
I like both, depending on the situation. I love oral with men and woman. Love to get fucked by a strap-on or a real cock (assuming the size and shape work for me), I have also topped dudes when the vibes are right. Love fucking women (or course). Perhaps the hottest scene ever was fucking a dude as he fucked his wife....it was nothing short of amazing.....everyone involved loved it... It's all good really..... :bigrin:
Since I am a sub cross dresser I love being a bottom. Love getting all dressed up sluty and pleasing men or women. Most women are not in to cross dressers so most of the time it's giving pleasure to men.
TOP, TOP, TOP !!!!!
I must agree with dbltrbl69. On the very rare occasions that I have been sexual with another guy, I was the submissive one, the bottom by nature, and loved it. It's who I am. Hearing my partner breathe deeply and moan as I make oral love to his cock and then gasp with pleasure as he overwhelms my mouth with a warm load of bitter-sweet cum sends me right over the edge. On the other hand, lying beneath my partner and gasping softly in his ear while I wrap my legs around his back and feel the entire length of his iron-hard shaft disappear into my body brings me to a level of ecstasy that would frighten most people.
The anal part of this post hasn't really happened yet, but it is a fantasy I hope to realize one day with the right person... I will always be a hopeless bottom!
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A few hours ago, I voted on my first poll since joining last weekend. I, like most guys, apparently, voted in favor of being a bottom in encounters with other men. While I am very cautious of the "disease factor", In an ideal world, I would insist on unprotected or, "hardback" anal sex. To be topped by another heallthy stud is a delicious activity, of itself.
When engaging in oral sex, I prefer to suck my partner's cock to completion in my mouth and, at the point hebegins to cum; I would draw him deep into my mouth and hold him in place in order to swallow every last drop on his man juice, without spilling. For powerful reasons which I often fail to fully comprehend, I NEED to drink every bit of the CUM. spurting, oozing or dripping from the hard organ in my mouth.
Similarly, I crave the warm gush of his orgasm filling my asshole to the brim and overflowing onto the bedsheets. Guess I'm more deviant than I thought; my "CUM. JONES".
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I put down bottom, but i like both. I think what ever works for both,I am finding bottom cool also, but size is important ,:male: say 5 inch. girth great, and condom always.
i did not vote on this poll becouse like a couple of others mentioned there is not an both equally! I love sex whether it be female or male. when with another male I can go either way top or bottom and greatly enjoy. since I enjoy both so much one of my fantasies is to enjoy bein on top while being bottom at the same time. and if the wife is there to enjoy it with me it would be all the better!!!!
Only been bi for short period of time but 1 day will try bottom with right male friends, until then top is 4 me!
What the hey I voted. :bigrin:
I loved to be used by a man.
I love the taste of him and to offer my entire body to him!
Havn't been there yet, but anything less then 50/50 would seem unfair.
Are those the only options? How about some of both... ;)
I'd have to say a little bit of both. Just depends on my mood and what my body wants to do.
I just cant choose. Theyre both so pleasing, but theyre completely even to me.
I just love pleasing...I am very oral...and I love to hear the sound of orgasms
versatile all the way
It's way too simplistic a question.
Assuming myself and my partner are doing anal, I'm open to being a bottom or top depending on the circumstances. Hopefully in the end, everyone is happy.
Should be an option for 'none' and and and option for 'no preference'
In my limited experience, have only topped once & have not been topped. Fantasies definitely usually involve being topped. Consequently in the poll, I voted as being a bottom. Should there have been a "negotiable" option?
i am all bottom. i want to see the look in my lovers eyes as he is about to enter my sissy pussy.
Top versatile, in that I mostly prefer to top, as a rule; but with the right partner and the right mood, I do also like to bottom
I started as a top but I now prefer to bottom. I like the submissive aspect to it, and it can be great for role play, if you can find a man with imagination good luck with that. I also like the challenge of taking a nice large one and being totality stuffed. Spooning is a really nice position soft and gentle, but doggie style is great when I want to be fucked hard.
In South Florida finding a top who is not totality self centered sexually can be a quite a chore and some guys who say they are tops really want to bottom, many times I've ended up fucking them. I still like a nice ass.
i voted top cause i love giving but i will most deffinately be on bottom to
There should have been a spectrum of options with one of them being something along the line of "depends on the my mood and that of my partner at the time"Quote:
Originally Posted by tristancir
This poll in the options being one or the other is way too limited--the person who did it might find it more interesting to go back and redo this poll---offering many more options for us to select from!!
100 percent bottom
I agree with voltman that there should be more options tho.
Something like:
Top
Top vers.
Versatile
Bottom vers.
Bottom
I'd say a mood dependable option would be covered by 'versatile' myself.
As for sub/dom roles, I do often find myself being something of a dominant bottom and, not strictly submissive but certainly less dominant, a top