so ladies, what are your thoughts on a strap-on? also who do you prefer to use it on a guy or girl?
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so ladies, what are your thoughts on a strap-on? also who do you prefer to use it on a guy or girl?
Well, I can state right now that I will never use it on a woman.. :eek:
I have never used one but am more than willing to try..I guess that means I better get one first..huh??
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Mrs.F :)
I wish my wife was as open you Mrs f.
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my ex girlfriend would use the strap-on as often as possible, cause it served two of us instead of just me. dual pennatration, vagina and anal. cool device and great sex toy. was worth the 90 dollars spent. :flag3:
Straps? Been there done that! -But only with other women. :)
I know that there is a section of the genuine lesbian community who use and love them - they're an integral part of the fem/Butch dynamic.
However, as far as this little Bi-gal goes .......... overrated.
I felt (both as user and usee) that something isn't quite right - the angle of the dangle and the pushin in the cushin didn't quite hit the right spots.
I know some gals love them, and I'll readily tolerate having one used on me, but its not the same.
For me, personally, with another woman, if we're going to do the plastic penetration thing, a dildo can be far more sensuous.
As far as with a guy - haven't explored that scene yet. Probably never will. :eek:
Me and the wife love the strap on we have.
We like toys and the strap on is up near the top of the list.
I dont know why this post was directed at woman,because we both enjoy it..If you get 1 spend the few bucks more for a good 1 :2cents:
The Mrs. and I have not crossed that brigde yet. I think I seem to recall her having some aversion to the idea. I find it intruiging though. :)
I don't know why I can't get into the mood with my love behind m with a strap? I think it probaly has to do with dominance in our usual bedroom activities....LOL my poor baby is so submissive, then again I've seen her control a woman before! (smiles)
I bought a strapon a few months ago and it's still sitting in the box in my toy closet. I dunno, I just haven't been in the mood to torture hubby with it lately ;).
I'm a strap virgin, though my ex g/f kept promising to initiate me but we never got around to it.
I would love to use one, if only I could find a willing partner :female:
if you want to (join) with your man girls this will do it.
The whole strapon thing is about who owns the power. Traditionnally the penetrator (he or she) would seem to hold the power when in a superior position penetrating the subordonate.
I find this power game very arousing.
StrapOns, why not!
DM
I've always fantasized about having a girl use a strap-on on me, I've told 2 ex-g/f but then again, imagine, they are now EX-g/f, so I'll just keep on searching for that fantasy... STRAP-ONS EXCELLENT!!!
Either you are into it or not.
I think a lady with a strap on is very exciting.
I'm lucky that my wife knows how much I like it and is willing to use it on me.
Tip for the guys: start out with a small one, it takes some getting used to.
I have been fucked in the ass by both strap on's and dildos and I generally don't praticularly care for them...they just don't feel like the real thing and that counts for so very much. If I am going to have anal sex, give me a nice large real dick anytime...besides dildos and strap on's can't cum.
I am not into anal sex, but my g/f LOVES it so I let her use her strap-on on me whenever the mood hits her. It is so exciting to hear her moan and cum simply from using it. And I guess it was/is some sort of payback, because watching her use it on a female friend was one of the hottest things I have ever witnessed.
I'm not a woman but I would'nt mind letting my wfe use one on me once in awhile. Sounds like it could be fun.
Once you get over the shock of seeing your g/f being well hung, they are a lot of fun. She enjoys it, I get needs served, all is good.
Good advice about starting small, by the way.
we love ours so much that if they didn't exist, we'd probably invent one.
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Originally Posted by smokey
Smokey,
I feel so very bad for you...because what you fail to acknowledge is the love and feeling that goes along with the use of a a strap on or a dildo....It's not just the act of fucking someone's ass. Between two loving and consensual adults, it can be a very beautiful thing! But for the rest of you, if you feel as Smokey does...do yourself and your partner a favor...don't allow them to do it...how humiliating could that possibly be???
And to those that are considering it...please..don't shove a strap on in your lover's face and say..."here...mind using this?"....talk about it as a couple...make plans to use it...and together learn to experience it for what it can be....a wonderful and very loving experience!
Hugs,
Kate
Kate,
It is not often that I am at a loss for words, but I have nothing to add.
WELL DONE !!
Belle
I've had some strapons for a couple of years now? Have used them on both women and men but mostly women. It's a thing you have to be in the mood for. When i'm in a naughty mood with my partners they can sure be fun;
There is nothing for you to feel sorry for me over Kate, I don't care for the feel of a strap on or dildo in my ass, it just doesn't feel real to me. If I want to get fucked in the ass then I want it by done by the real thing, in short another man...its not just the penis its the whole experince. The same is true with a woman...I want a woman, not a man pretending to be. I know you can express love and caring all sorts of ways but that doesn't change the fact we all have preferences, nor does that mean because something can be done lovingly, that we are obliged to practice it.
Well I haven't used on yet, but the plans have been made. I have a very special guy in my life that loves anal play. He wants me to use one on him next time we see each other and I can't wait. I agree with Kate, in this situation, its not about just a fuck, its about a shared experience. There's something different about being the one who is penetrated. Without the strap on, he wouldn't be able to feel like he is letting me take him. And that's something we both want. The idea of me penetrating him is hot as hell. Fortunately we are both able to talk about it since it will be a first for both of us. And laugh about it too, cause no one's a porn star all the time. lol
And to those that are considering it...please..don't shove a strap on in your lover's face and say..."here...mind using this?"....talk about it as a couple...make plans to use it...and together learn to experience it for what it can be....a wonderful and very loving experience!
Hugs,
Kate
I agree Kate, CMM
P.S. I have had both and the security of not wondering if your going to get Aids after the condom slipped is a big plus for strap-ons.
Strap on, strap off. Like anything else, folks preferences should prevail. Have I used one during sex? Yes, with women on rare occasions. Do I enjoy them? Not so much. Would I considerusing again? To please my partner, yes. But, be that as it be, I prefer a 'real' man over dildos / strapons, and likewise when with a woman I like the feel of being with a woman as two women, not a woman with a penis. But to each his / her own, as someone said it's not the act itself, it's the feelings behiond the act.
Lisa
hugs n kisses
Here is a funny anecdote about the first time I went to the 'toy' store to buy a strap-on.
I had talked it over with my wife and she agreed to try it with me. So, I went to the adult store to buy one but couldn't find any so I had to ask the clerk who proceeded to show me where they were. Since I had no experience I told her it was for my wife and I so I asked her opinion on which ones were better. She was not embarrased although I was and she picked one out and showed it to me. She recommended it because it went over your penis and stuck to your groin with a water soluable adhesive, and she assured me that worked very well.
Then I told her it wasn't for me to use on my wife, it was for my wife to use on me. She said, 'Aaaahhhhhhh, whoopsee.'
It is about the passion of two people sharing. Although I prefer the real thing, I'm very open to a woman using a strapon with me.
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Originally Posted by onewhocares
I concur!!
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In my way of thinking. If I can have anal with my partener I think it only right for her to use a strap-on and allow me the feelling of what it's like for her. The other part is that it feels so good having her do me and feel breasts on my back as well as her reaching around and getting me off with her hand Emmm Yes!
in the interest of strapons this would be very interisting....................................... ....http://www.feeldoe.com/page2.html
The wife and I use the feeldoe. She is still working on holding it. But with me on top it is the greatest.
;)
I too agree with Kate.Quote:
Originally Posted by csrakate
Why is that most stories, pictures, and videos about a woman using a strapon on a man are of the FEMDOM manner. I like a woman to make love to me in a very loving and gentle manner with a strapon just like I do to her. I don't care for the FEMDOM where the woman punishes the man with the strapon.
To each his / her own. The Femdom way can be found to be very exciting. VERY, VERY, EXCITING......... :eek:
I like them.
If my partner is into it.. male or female.. i think it is awesome. It is such a cool experience to share with a guy especially... having him look at you while you're penetrating him.. and he's feeling something new.. and reaching another level of his sexuality and yours... wonderful.. intimate moment.
with a woman is fun too.. but truth be told.. women for the most part are used to being penetrated.. and well.. it's fun.. and erotic and lovely..and damn satisfying...
but I enjoy using my strap on, [and other toys] with my male partners a bit more i must admit..., i just feel like I'm sharing more than just sex with him.. I feel as if we are learning about each other.. and there is a shared vulnerability, that is present and increases the emotional bonding, for me anyway.
We have the most amasing stap on ever invented.
Its made by Doc Johnson called the "male strap-on.
It has a nice 6 inch rubber cock and a 4 inch butt plug.
under the cock is a hole for the real penis to hang out,with a tight clip that acts as a cock ring.The penis hole when worn bi a girl gives access to her whole pussy if you open the built in cock ring thing.Best part is if you dont want the butt plugg it comes off or the dick same thing.
its a vaculock system too so if you want a diffrent dick or plug just go to the sex store and bi a diffrent one, they just snap it in.nice leather too. :tong:We both love it..
Never used one...My gf has on her ex. She wasn't too excited about the idea. But suddenly she got the urge to fuck me. Hmmm. So off we went to buy a new one (her grandmother found hers and threw it away after she moved out) and didn't see anything we liked but the double headed dildo looked like fun so we got that instead. Stuck it up in me and bent it up between my legs and I swear we couldn't stop laughing long enuf to have sex. I'm not sure if we ever find a strap we both like that we'll actually be able to use it. We're both very much girls who enjoy girls as girls and can't quite adjust to girls having penises. Sounds like fun if the day ever comes. I'm always open to something new... :tong:
I'd love a woman to take me with a strap-on one day
I use one regularly on my husband and would be more than willing to try using one with a girl. I enjoy it alot.
Drew posted this link on another thread which sort of fits here too:
http://www.goodiebag.tv/video/do_you_take_it.htm