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For me, the first time I thought of myself as "bi" was during my first threesome.
From the time we were 13, my best friend and I had been getting off together. In my mind, I never really considered it gay sex, but more of a two friends helping each other get off.
Both of us had girlfriends or were dating girls, off an on through the years. But if Friday or Saturday night didn't pan out, we would do each other. For both of us, it was a sort of alternative to masturbating alone type of deal.
Fast forward to one weekend when I was 17. My mother was going out of town for one of her New Age, Old hippie retreats. The kind where they sit around talk about spirit guides, show off their latest crystals and discuss Birkenstocks new line...
So before mom left, she asked the couple next door (Tom and Jan) to keep an eye on me and make sure I didn't do anything exceptionally stupid.
On Saturday, Tom invited me over to hang out by the pool and stay for dinner.
I jumped at the chance, partially because I was bored, but mostly because of Jan. While she was not Playboy material, there was something about her had got me going. So the promise of spending the day by the pool, her in a bikini...I was all over it.
Looking back, it really was one of those "Dear Penthouse, I never thought something like this would happen to me, but this weekend..." scenarios
Jan kept touching me, brushing up against me and steering conversations towards sex all afternoon. After dinner we ended up back in the pool. She went over to Tom and kissed him. After the kiss, Tom said "Honey, you're going to make our guest feel left out."
She waded over to me and we kissed. Game on!
The three of us made our way to their bedroom. She and I ended up naked on their bed, Tom was off to the side watching. Even then the whole "watching my wife with another guy" thing struck me as weird, but at that point I wasn't complaining.
I went down on her, she sucked me for a while then she laid back and I got on top of her. As we were fucking, he took off his swimming trunks and came over to the side of the bed. With his right had he was squeezing her boobs and pinching her nipples. His left, he was running up and down my back, each stroke getting lower and lower until he was touching my ass. I know now that he was testing the waters to see what my reaction was. The whole time she was sucking and licking his cock.
She took his cock out of her mouth and was licking the head, without really thinking, I leaned down and started licking it from the other side. We did that for a few seconds, then she pointed it up at me and I took him in my mouth.
That moment, sharing a cock with a woman while she and I were fucking, was the moment I considered myself bisexual.
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In my early 30's, I was asked to drive a guy home from a summer pool party who had too much to drink at the request of the host. I had never really felt any attraction to men and never considered having any sexual contact with a man to that point. I was aware of the fact he was bisexual but had no issue with driving him home, he was pretty intoxicated. I had both hands on the wheel on a curvy, steep driveway when he moved a hand up the shorts I was wearing. I about freaked but he did not stop and his hand was latched onto my cock and his movements were starting to get a reaction out of it. I was trying not to pile up a vehicle and figured when I got the car stopped he was going to feel my displeasure with his unwanted advances. I was navigating the last steep curves when his face started heading towards my lap. As I was putting the car into park and putting on the parking brake I thought about the woman I had been chasing that day who went home early, the fact I had not had sex in a while, the fact I was horny and had someone trying to go down on me. In a split second I made a decision I had never considered making before; I leaned the seat back and relaxed. I had never let a woman go down on me that I had not been willing to return the favor to and as he was sucking me I realized I was boxed into a corner. He got the shorts all the way off me, was playing with my balls and ass and when I was ready to cum he gripped me tight and took every bit of me. I came as hard as I could ever remember and it went on forever. I resigned myself as I was finishing to the the fact I was about to touch a guy for the first time, suck him and let him cum in my mouth. When I went to reach for him to repay the favor, he simply said no thanks and went into the house. I wondered for hours, days, then weeks what the night would have been like had he wanted me to repay the favor knowing that I would have. One morning many months later I found myself regretting the fact he refused to let me reciprocate. When that thought hit my head it dawned on me I was bisexual.
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hope u got to return the favor on some other guy:)
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I was about 17 and over visiting my girlfriend at her house. I really had the hots for her and it was all good. Until I met her brother. She had told me she had a gay brother but he was away at school most of the time so I hadn't met him previously. It took a while but he talked me into letting him blow me. I came but was too nervous and confused at the time to enjoy myself or really know what I was feeling.
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When I sucked a dick and liked it then later took it in the ass.
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Back in the 70s I would occasionally go to bathhouses. I don't remember what year was but I wasn't at this one bath house it was during the week later in the evening. I met someone who might have been at that time my age or just a little bit older. This man made the most beautiful love to me that I have ever had made to me in my entire life. He devoured my body there wasn't one part of my body that was left untouched. It was the first time in my life I've ever been rimmed and was a silly Wild as you all know. When he inserted his Cock I was actually ready for it it was as if my body waiting for it. It didn't hurt it felt wonderful when he came inside me and we relax for a while I was saddened by the fact that his penis off and and just came out of me. But he was not done with me yet he kissed my armpits and lick them like there was no tomorrow my nipples became on fire any sucked out of me. From that point on I knew I was bisexual. Yes I like pussy and would like to find another man who could make love to me like that again not just looking for a hookup something steady
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So true. College was a wonderful time to explore because people aren't so quick to judge and for most of the kids, it's their first time being away from home so you can let your guard down a bit. I wouldn't give anything for that experience. My roommate and I had a wonderful and healthy, albeit it discreet, sexual relationship that eventually fizzled out but I learned so much about another woman's body, and my own and you are so right about it not being too late; their is still plenty to learn!!
I agree and find it so interesting. Now my son is off to college this fall and I wonder if he will experiment with boys. I hope he does.
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i so wish i was open to experementing with guys or even interested when i was in college, it would of been such a great time to do it. none of my friends were doing it at least that i know :) but it wouldn't of been a big deal. though i don't think i would get as much encouragement as college kids might get these days. i think the biggest problem would of been convincing myself it's healthy to explore. i hope ur son gets to experement with other guys if that's what he really wants to do. i don't think i have ever said that to another guy without expecting to get punched out lmao! but seriously he has got the right to find himself like anyone else. hope he gets to experement with girls too :) but hope he is safe.
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When I was 15 and sucked my cousin's cock and cum and LOVED it!:bigrin:
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My first sex was with a guy, but I still fancied girls, so I realised when I was in my teens!
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i so wish i was open to experementing with guys or even interested when i was in college, it would of been such a great time to do it. none of my friends were doing it at least that i know :) but it wouldn't of been a big deal. though i don't think i would get as much encouragement as college kids might get these days. i think the biggest problem would of been convincing myself it's healthy to explore. i hope ur son gets to experement with other guys if that's what he really wants to do. i don't think i have ever said that to another guy without expecting to get punched out lmao! but seriously he has got the right to find himself like anyone else. hope he gets to experement with girls too :) but hope he is safe.
I hope he gets to experiment too. I have a good feeling about it. He seems very open minded which is a great start. I've read some of his text messages, so I'm sure in time.
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I was about 20. Before that I thought I was a lesbian, but then realized Inlove men as well. And also did research on it.
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there wasn't just a single moment for me, in fact i'm still trying to figure things out lol. there might of been signs in my teens, but i think it was just being horny in general not for a particular sex. then again who knows. my curiosities really began in my early 20's. it would come in phases but it would go away for quite sometime. as the years went on the phases were shorter. now i know i don't wanna date a guy but i know i wanna have sex with a guy at least try. the idea excites me. even if it turns out i do not like sex with guys, i know i'm not completely str8. how bi i'm not sure but i guess time & experiance will tell.
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I discovered I was bisexual when I started getting hard looking st named men and hard cocks.Next I started watching gay porn it was so fun and exciting beating off while watching guys suck and fuck each other and imagining what it would be like to feel a cock in my mouth and ass.Finally I got up the never and meet a guy and after I sucked him off I realm y new I was bisexual it was incredible now I crave it waiting for my first full sexual encounter with another guy I want to be a total bottom .
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When I realized I had a cock in my mouth and was very happy.
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High school I was one of those Alpha males, real masculine,
popular with the girls, got laid plenty and had fun BUT I
was always curious about guys with big cocks. After football
in the locker room always stealing glances at the few
really hung guys (6" here). Wondering what it would be like
to suck one of those, I wasn't interested in any cock but
always a big cock.. Never did act upon my curiosities, had a
steady girlfriend for a couple years. After college I went
to a gay club to see what it was like, I was shocked it was
a real cross section of people, guys and girls. Hung out for
a while and started talking to one guy said it was his first
time there also. I said lets go out to my car and do some
420. So out we go, smoke a little, we talked for a while and
he asks me so why did you come here? I reply, cause I really
want to suck a cock for the first time. So he says do you
want to suck my cock? Yes I say and with that he unbuckles
his pants and unzippers his pants and pulls them down to his
ankles, wow he had a HUGE cock. Not only was it long, but it
was very very thick with a huge mushroom head. So I just did
what my girlfriend would do to me, I started by very lightly
caressing his big balls, he was moaning, oh suck it suck it.
Then I started flicking the underside of his cock by his
balls and slowly working my way up towards the head, once
there a huge amount of precum was waiting which I licked up,
I was surprised at the taste it was almost sweet tasting. I
stopped and said does that feel good, he said oh my god
don't stop.
Then I took my mouth and went as far down on his cock as I
could without touching it and then wrapped my lips around it
and pulled up, he went nuts, oh suck it suck it you
cocksucker.
I did this for about 15 minutes all of a sudden he started
bucking his hips and he let out a huge groan, he shot about
5-6 squirts of cum in my mouth, I'LL NEVER FORGET IT. I
liked it the way it squirted, instinctively I just
swallowed. I remember his cum tasted nutty and the
consistency was like nothing I ever had in my mouth before
(obviously) Bottom line I LOVED it.
He then said can you get that last drop on my cock, I go
down on his half hard cock and lick up the leakage. He said
you are an excellent cocksucker I can tell you that.
We had some more fun later that night but that's another
story......
Fast forward 20 years, married with kids in college, still
have those urges, tried to go to some Adult bookstores but
too creepy for me. So I placed an ad on CL got the usual
nutcases but one guy stood out, married in center city, in
shape, big cock as requested. Long story short he would host
me in Philly as his wife worked in Bensalem and he worked at
home. We'd be in his living room, he'd put on some porn, and
pull his cock out, want some? Yes I'd say and over I"d go,
it was so much fun sucking his cock, told him I liked to be
talked to so he's tell me that's right cocksucker suck my
big dick. I would show him nude pics of my wife which got
him horny as hell. We'd go into his bathroom in front of a
full length mirror, we'd both watch his big cock sliding in
and out of my mouth, your such a cock sucker I LOVED it.
He would shoot a load and he'd say do not swallow, spit it
back on my cock. I would and then he'd say now lick it off.
Damn it was a hot scene to say the least.
Unfortunately he moved to Arizona and I haven't been able to
find a suitable replacement.
I'd really like to find a reasonably in shape WELL HUNG to
suck off once in a while.
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Over the years since college I would have an urge every now and then to suck cock but never acted on it until about 15 years ago when wifey decided she was no longer into sex of any kind, giving or getting. I began a ritual of getting a blowjob video every Saturday while she was working and get off that way. Having always been very oral I began to watch an occasional bi movie, threesomes etc. and then gay movies always focusing on oral pleasure. One day on the way home with a video, I stopped at a nearby lake to catch some rays and have a beer. Sitting at a picnic table with my shirt off, a guy was walking by and asked if he could join me. He was attractive, nice build, shirt open to the navel and longish blonde hair. Idle chit chat led to me telling him I was on my home with a dirty movie and he asked if he could come by. Soon we were in my living room, both stripped to the waist and watching the mmf bi movie with lots of blowjobs, guy on guy, girl on both etc. Next thing I know I had my cock out of my jeans and he comes over kneels down and starts blowing me. Soon I asked him to stand up, drop his jeans and took his cock into my mouth and started giving him a blowjob. With a mirror on the wall behind the couch, I could see myself with his cock in my mouth and it was a huge turn-on. He went back on me and I came in his mouth as he greedily swallowed. We got together one more time and I sucked him to completion. From that time on, I became a very active bisexual oral male and really enjoy giving pleasure like that to special men.
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When I was 11 in the group showers at school I was interested in other guy's cocks. Then I found myself sucking my 15 year old cousin's cock and cum at 13. I was hooked.
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I knew I was Bi when I realized I liked looking at the naked boys in the showers after gym class in JR high school.
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It was in the 80's and I was in my 30's. No internet but Penthouse Letters and Forum mags occasionally would have mmf letters or stories and i found myself searching for and reading only them. Years pass with no real life activity and I found literotica.com and after reading so many stories with bi men started reading the gay stories and finally writing and submitting my own fantasies. it was so sexually satisfying!
Finally around 2014 I hooked up with my first man and it was instantly so satisfying I knew I was happily bi.
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I think it would have been when I was just 7 or 8 back in Missouri. My best bud at the time and I ran around our small town like we owned the place.
I didn't realize it until I was an older (and sexual) dude...but I remember being attracted to him even back then as a 7-year-old. The memory is fading but, as weird and potentially pervy as it sounds, I can still remember how he smelled on a hot Summer day. That's when it began for me.
There was also an incident with his 16-year-old brother where both this young friend and I were introduced explicitly to the naked male body in full sexual arousal but I'll stop there to protect the innocent. :)
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I think a lot of guys our age traveled this same route -- the interest was always there, you found yourself drawn to bisexual stories in places like Penthouse Forum or a newbie being seduced by a more experienced guy, but didn't act on it. Until much later. And now you wonder why you wasted all that time.
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It was in the 80's and I was in my 30's. No internet but Penthouse Letters and Forum mags occasionally would have mmf letters or stories and i found myself searching for and reading only them. Years pass with no real life activity and I found literotica.com and after reading so many stories with bi men started reading the gay stories and finally writing and submitting my own fantasies. it was so sexually satisfying!
Finally around 2014 I hooked up with my first man and it was instantly so satisfying I knew I was happily bi.
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When I got a dick in my mouth and loved it, nearly 50 years ago!!
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Mine was when I was 9 and was forced by a group of teenagers. I've even written an erotic story about it. At first it was terrible but once they were grabbing me almost daily I started enjoying it. Probably why I'm more of a sub with guys.
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I was 22. I had never even thought of sex with another man. On her birthday my late wife invited 3 other couple over,for a weekend. Not going to go deeply into what happened unless you ask me. She wanted to see me with another man. It came to pass that over the weekend I sucked and was fucked by everyone there more than one time. Love it and have since.
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I had jerked my friend off and he had returned the favor many time the summer of my 13th year. I never thought of being gay or bi. Then we ended up together at 18 one night, I had never been with another guy or ever considered it since he and I were jacking each other off at 13. I thought we would just jerk each other again. Then when I saw his cock and felt it grow in my hand, it was so much bigger. I was a big jock and he was a quite skinny guy. His dick was so much bigger than mine and I was so turned on by it. I couldn't believe how much I wanted to suck on him. I wanted to be submissive to him. We had never done oral and as I kept complimenting his gorgeous fat cock as I stroked it I got very close to his face with mine and asked if I could suck him, telling him he didn't have to suck me. That was my first time to give and his first to receive. I didn't stop till I had all of his cum, he shook so hard as he came. I just kept sucking him till he was soft. I was surprised when he went straight down on me and I only lasted about 30 seconds.
Thats when I knew, I couldn't believe how much I liked doing it, I loved eating pussy so I should of had some idea I would like it. When we were 13 I use to want him to go down on me and I knew I was willing to reciprocate if he did but I didn't have the desire to suck him. We ended up secretly doing this for the next five years, I ended up with more desire to suck him than he had to suck me. I thought it was because my dick was smaller but found later he desired to fuck me. He finally told me he had no interest in sex with women. Late in our time together I let him fuck me, or I would have let him. He was really thick and 7 plus inches. Once he was about halfway in me I thought the pain would ease. It didn't. I asked him to stop and he did stop pushing but didn't withdraw. He kept telling me to relax and when I did he would push further in and I would try and relax again, I was shaking. He almost withdrew the pulling back I relaxed and then he surprised me by thrusting back in all the way. It burned so bad as he was telling to relax. I caught my breath and he started gently pressing against me and pulling back slightly. Just several small thrusts and he began to cum in me. I didn't realize I was the one rocking slowly on him until I felt myself start cumming. On my hands and knees looking back at my small penis spurting a lot of cum. At that moment I thought I must be gay, who else could cum being fucked in the ass. He told me I was gay just like him and I believed it for a while. Even though I climaxed and climaxed hard I never desired doing it. He kind of held me hostage for about six months before he found a BF. Sorry I went so long, never told that to anyone. I would like to find an oral friend all these years later but no anal.
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i hope ur friend honestly thought u were gay not just saying it so u would let him continue fucking u. he would have no right to lie to u like that. that would be very selfish of him & cruel to u to deny a whole part of ur sexuality & who u are.
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I kinda always knew I was, but the experience I had with a slightly older son of some friends of my parents when I was 12 (he was, I think, 14) just confirmed what I was already feeling. I knew I wanted to have sex with both women and men. I loved the feeling of playing with his cock, and wanted more. We almost fucked (some stupid cousins of mine came over just as we were getting into it), and even though I was terribly nervous about it, I always regretted not feeling that beautiful cock inside of me. Having a cock in my ass became a major transgressive masturbatory fantasy of mine for several years (I finally got it from an older man in the back of my van when I was 19).
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Couple of things. An interest in CD at an early age, playing with friends in showers at the pool in my early teens. But oddly enough it was about the time I was engaged. Went for haircut near my job in DC. The barber leaned against the end of the arm on the chair while trimming, and I didn't move my hand. He stayed there, rubbing back and forth as he moved around and I felt him grow and harden against the back of my hand...and I loved it. I returned to grad school and met a guy in the university library, went to his place and we made out. I loved feeling him respond, harden in my hand as I stroked him and gave him a HJ. And then a couple of years back I was watching a video on a sex safety website, watching a guy put his cock in an ass...I wanted to be that bottom, so badly. I knew right then that that I was bisexual. Men or women, I loved arousing them, and to feel, see, and hear them respond to me.
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When I was 15, a family friend spent the night at our house in the extra bed in my room. As we were laying there in the dark, he started talking about sexual stuff. Of course, at 15, all it took was a light breeze and I got hard so the sex talk got me really hard. He knew exactly what he was doing and after a while, came over to my bed an started touching me. I was scared stiff but, for some reason, didn't object. He pulled my covers down and started sucking my cock. I have to admit, it felt very nice. I thought about returning the favor but was to afraid to do anything. For years after that, I fantasized about being with other men and thought about what it would feel like. In college, I had guys hit on me all the time but I could never do anything. I did have one guy that I would go sailing with and one day the boat flipped and we got soaked, not an unusual occurrence, except that this day it was pretty cold. He suggested we cuddle to keep warm and I let him spoon me. He started fondling me and for some reason I let him continue and he ended up sucking my cock. Again, I could not bring myself to return the favor. Since we were sailing buddies and he had the boat and I really like to sail, we continued to see each other and he continued to suck my cock and I continued to enjoy it. Of course, this just made me more and more curious about my sexuality and after a short while, I started playing with anal toys and tasting my own cum when I masturbated. I did try to suck a few cocks but could never go through with it. Over all, I probably let four or five different guys suck my cock during this time. One or two more than once. It wasn't until just recently that I actually got up the nerve to go for it. I think it has something to do with the counseling I went to during and after my divorce. I dealt with a lot of guilt issues and discovered that things like my cross-dressing and my sexual curiosity are just variations on normal. So I met a guy on Craig's List and we decided we could trust each other and that we wanted to play. He told me he was a strict top, which I didn't really mind because what I really wanted was to know for sure if I could suck a cock. He came over to my apartment and we kissed and fondled each other for a while. I started sucking him and exploring his cock and balls with my mouth and tongue and discovered that I actually enjoyed it and liked the way it felt in my mouth. I asked him how long he usually lasted and he said he could go for quite a while but that he honestly had difficulty cumming with just oral. I figured I had come this far and I knew I enjoyed anal penetration from my toys, so I asked him if he wanted to fuck me. He said absolutely. I got out the lube and a condom and did a quick enema. He got on top of me and went inside me. In all my years and with all my different partners, I have never felt anything as intense as him fucking me. I think it was at this moment that I knew for sure I was bi. It was absolutely amazing and, true to his word, he lasted a long time. At some point the condom came off but in the heat of the moment, I didn't care. I just wanted him to keep fucking me. He must have fucked me for 20 minutes before he went balls deep and exploded. I could feel his cum in my ass and I was in ecstasy. After he pulled out, I squeezed the last drops of his cum for his cock and licked them off with my tongue; my first taste of another man's cum. I was hooked on all of it. We got together again a few weeks later and it was just as amazing.
So, that's my story...
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it's so good u got counseling u found out ur sexuality is normal. im' so resentfull of society saying this is wrong or that is wrong. it's so good ur beyond that. u can enjoy being urself not let urself be led by guilt. i wish everyone "got it."
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At about 26 I thought I was over that "phase" of my life until I was at the gym, a ymca in the late seventies. I had worked late and was getting a late workout, the place was almost empty. I noticed a slim blonde guy on the other side of the room that was looking at me every time I looked up. I finished and did what I usually did in striping down and grabbing a towel for a 10 minute sauna before showering.
As I sit on my towel reading a paper the guy comes in and sits across from me. No words were spoken. Like most he and I had a towel around us and when you sat the towel would end up open. We had been sitting a couple of minutes when I looked up to see his hard dick. I looked down immediately. About tens seconds and I'm looking at it again. A good 7.5 and real thick in the middle. As I raise my eyes he's looking straight at me. I feel my cock getting hard and give a glance, I'm already half hard. I look again and he is slowly stroking and smiling. I'm in a panic now and real hard, he's stroking and looking at my dick. I stand covering myself and quickly retreat hearing him asking me to stay. I don't even shower, just change and get out. I knew he would follow into the shower. Once in the car I was still so hard I considered jerking right there, it would not have taken long. I was hard the entire drive home where I found my new bride doing something in the kitchen. I hugged her from behind and pulled her shorts down and was inside her in seconds. I came in about a minute and in my mind I had his cock in my mouth and he was coming. I still remember her asking what ot me so worked up. Can't remember what I said but it certainly wasn't " a guys fat cock in the sauna." I knew then even after 3 years of no male contact it wasn't over.
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about 16 years ago i began camming with men as well as women. i liked it but never figured i would be doing bi activity. Until i started looking at bi porn and bi websites reading erotic incidents between couples n bi men....str8 men n bi couples...str8 men n bi men etc. Was on a bi/gay hookup site and was messaging alot of men and getting alot of messages one day an older guy who was living not far away invited me over a few times and one time i said yes. He wound up sucking me off and i told him i liked my asshole licked too. he said the next time he would rim me. Didnt think i was going back..i felt ashamed of my actions of playing with a man but a couple weeks later i agreed to come over again and he sucked me off and rimmed me pretty good. i sucked his dick without asking and he was very appreciative...he said most guys he met would not return the favor although it was not a requirement. The fact that he really enjoyed it was what i liked. now he will do anything..anyway i ask. that was my first bi encounter that got me hooked.
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My first time was intense, and most certainly unexpected.
I was 100% straight until about ten years ago, and never had any inclination to explore sex play with other guys. But circumstances tend to change, and in 2005, mine took a dramatic turn when my wife, lover and partner lost her left breast and both ovaries to cancer. Along with them, went all future interest in sex and nudism -- my two greatest passions. Not only was her sex drive gone, the type of cancer she had prevented her from taking the hormone replacements that might have restored it. After one very frustrating year with no physical intimacy (other than the self-service variety), I began to realize a more-than-casual interest in like minded guys. In a way, it sort of made sense. Sex on the side with another woman would have felt too much like cheating, and the odds of finding a willing female co-conspirator at my age were growing increasingly slim.
As winter set in, I started hanging out with Bruce and Colleen, a younger nudist couple across town. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I was aware that Bruce had once expressed a casual interest in exploring guy-on-guy fun, but at the time I had a fulfilling sex life, and no particular interest in straying across the gender line.
Indeed, our get-togethers started off innocently enough; just naked friends enjoying a naked dinner, drinks and a movie or a rousing game of Pictionary on a cold winter night. One night, however, I glanced over from the movie -- The Goodbye Girl, as I recall -- to see my hosts going at it hot and heavy on the couch just a few feet to my left. As the tempo of their play increased, I got the distinct sense they would soon want their privacy. Awkwardly, I started searching for my clothes and an excuse leave.
"You really don't have to leave," they protested. "You're welcome to stay. You can even join in, if you want to."
To tell the truth, I had never seriously considered the possibility of participating in a threesome until that very moment, but the invitation was clearly there, and I'd been too long without sex far to refuse it. The next thing I knew, the three of us were all moaning and groaning, naked on the couch. Bruce and I took turns pleasuring Colleen, and she us. It was wicked, but also wonderfully liberating, and as the night wore on, I found myself witnessing things -- and doing things -- I, frankly, never thought I would.
Bruce and I took turns tonguing Collen's clit, then I watched my friends fuck passionately and without inhibition right in front of me -- and they watched intently as a sensuously stroked my cock. I held Colleen as she shivered with orgasmic pleasure, and sucked her nipples as her boyfriend filled her full of himself. Finally, Colleen stroked me to the most powerful orgasm I'd had in years. Initially, I was worried that jealousy or regrets over what we'd shared that night might sink our friendship, but no unhealthy emotions surfaced, and the following weekend I found myself back at Bruce and Colleen's place for a repeat performance.
Now, each time we were together, the intensity of our sex play seemed to increase, but Bruce and I were exclusively focused on pleasuring Colleen. There was, admittedly, some incidental contact between us guys -- "crossed swords," as Bruce jokingly called it -- but it all seemed perfectly natural and quite unintended. In retrospect, I was probably being naive.
Somewhere in the middle of our third encounter, Colleen pushed herself up on her elbows, sat against the headboard, and quite matter-of-factly announced that she wanted to watch Bruce and me play together while she diddled her clit. I was reluctant to explore sexual contact with another guy, but I even more reluctant to offend my hosts or kill the intensely erotic mood we'd created. So, hands trembling and a belly full of butterflies, I reluctantly agreed to indulge Colleen's fantasy. Bruce and I took up a position near the foot of the bed, positioned ourselves so Colleen would have an unobstructed view, and began slow mutual masturbation.
I don't mind saying I was initially nervous as hell. It felt very awkward, as if I was doing something very wrong, something I would later regret. But, with Colleen cooing her approval and telling us how beautiful it was watching us, my nerves and inhibitions began to dissipate, and within five minutes, I had completely surrendered to the extraordinary sensations of Bruce's cock gliding rhythmically through my hand, while he tugged rhythmically on my own. Soon I was pumping both our cocks together in my well-lubed hand, our super-sensitive undersides and swollen, purplish cockheads urging one another toward the point of no return. I was on automatic now, doing without thinking, exploring fantasies I never even knew I had.
Sensing that I was close to cumming, and being unsure how to gracefully handle that awkward moment, I did the last thing I ever expected. Without so much as a conscious thought, I pulled away, dropped to my knees, and began sucking Bruce with genuine enthusiasm. It felt wonderful -- the different textures, the way he throbbed and pulsed in response to my ministrations, the way his ball sac drew up tight as he neared the brink. I felt as if I'd found a missing piece of the puzzle -- a piece that completed me, and I specifically remember thinking, "So this is what I've been missing all these years!"
I fully intended to suck Bruce to completion, but as his orgasm arrived, I pulled instinctively away, letting him splash instead on my neck and chest. Before I could even catch my breath, Colleen was on me, causing me to spill my own copious load while Bruce dabbed with a hand towel at the rivulets of semen that seemed to be running everywhere.
In the week that followed, I waited in vain for the guilts to arrive, but oddly, they never did. Not once did I harbor even the slightest regret over the forbidden pleasures Bruce and I had shared. Moreover, Bruce and Colleen must have felt the same, because we met several more times throughout that first winter, and guy-on-guy fun became a regular part of our sexual repertoire.
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Re: How did you discover you were bi?
i guess it was about 37 year s ago ,, we had a good friend , that had a interest , in the wife , and her with him ,, some talk about how much she would lie to do and how it would begin ,, after all thing s got worked out , and it started out slow ,, but my wife wanted me by her some of the time s ,,.This was kind of a long time thing , in which it was over 3 years of getting together s ,, just about all , were in our bedroom,. Now in most visit s,i was sometime s just a room away ,, but she liked showing how much she enjoyed him , and how big he was ,, and , i never was that interested ,at first , but after some thought,, i started to wounder , just how it would be if i was her ,, and how it was to do the thing s that i liked and have seen my wife doing to someone else ,,. I never said anything about it to her about it ,, but i could nt get it off my mind ,, near the end of it ,, i was getting more of a urge to find out how i would like , or even try to do it with a man ,, but that s how it started ,, after a time i met a little older guy ,, and after some time , just touching , and getting each other off ,, he offered to suck me sometime , if i would like him to , .The next time we got together , he did ,, and i did him , it was much different than i had thought it would be , he felt so good , i could feel him getting bigger , and harder ,, more than when we had be jacking each other , it was much better ,, i guess that s when i felt how it was for the wife ,, to feel a man , other than your own partner , and give your all to them , That would have been when i knew how it good it was , and that i enjoyed it , and would be doing it when ever i had the chance to ,
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Re: How did you discover you were bi?
When I was a teenager I fantasized about my male friends when I masturbated. Later in life I acted on it and got to go down on a friend while his girlfriend watched and directed my cock sucking. Later I got to finger fuck her while sucking his cock. I have been sucking cock ever since whenever I get a chance.
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Re: How did you discover you were bi?
well, for me it was not really a discovery. You see, I sucked my 1st cock way back in school and just loved it. We would get together when ever we could and trade blow jobs and swallow each other's cum. He made the suggestion and I just jumped at the opportunity. no hesitation. This was all before I knew what bisexuality was or that it even existed. Much later in life, when I was wondering about my sexuality and confused, I realized I was BI and finally acknowledged it. So not a discovery because I was what ever I was (and enjoying it), it was just me finally acknowledging it.
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Re: How did you discover you were bi?
Was always bi from 7 years-old...just had a 40+ year hetero period that ended about 4 years ago
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Re: How did you discover you were bi?
I think I always knew but only accepted it two years ago after a strong desire to kiss another man.
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Re: How did you discover you were bi?
I started shaving my whole body smooth. Then i went through my sisters clothes one day and put together my outift. I took a shiny silver thong, black pleather arms sleeves and matching thigh high stockings and a choker. And i wore it under my clothes all the time. I was into the goth thing. I wore all black. Eyeliner had long dark hair. I guess i thought people would be scared of me and wouldnt know how wimpy i am.
There was this skinny nerd who always wore nsync and hanson shirts. I always picked on him and called him pussy and fag and made fun of him for listening to boy bands. I would make fun of a lot of people, but never to their face except him, because he was shy and skinny and i saw other people bully him and he was always too scared to stand up for himself.
So Im with a group of guys including him one day. One of the guys was this really hot guy. Tanned, muscular, jock, popular, and he picked on the nerdy guy sometimes. So im trying to impress him by being extra mean to the nerdy guy. Calling him fag and just relentlessly teasing him and looking back at the hot guy laughing.
Well he walked right up to me and i taunted him like what are you gonna do? Then punched me in the face and my eyes a mouth opened wide with fear and he punched a couple more times as i stumbled backwards. Then tackled me to the ground and i started crying as he pulled my pants off exposing me wearing my tight silver thong and thigh high leggings. I put my hands on my crotch humiliated as i got hard and came myself. So he just lets me lay there crying and cumming trying to cover my crotch with my hands with all the guys watching then grabs my throbbing buldge and pins my crotch to the ground. I scream and cry and kick my legs and blasting cum helpless while easily holds me pinned down until i came so hard it knocked me out cold. After he knocked me out he grabbed my thigh and pulled my leg back squeezing my thong even tighter into my crotch. The guys took pictures of me laying out cold while he held my leg pinned back exposing my silver thong tightly embedded in my crotch. They left me laying there out cold and humiliated.