I did find a guy my own age and it lasted a good 5 years. Then I met my gf. Ahh how I miss those long sexual nights.
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I did find a guy my own age and it lasted a good 5 years. Then I met my gf. Ahh how I miss those long sexual nights.
I'm 62, but don't look it. I am also young acting and young thinking. Still, I'm not interested in very young men no matter how hot they look. Even though 18 is the legal age for sex here, teens and young men 18-21 can still be jailbait. I've come close to meeting quite a few hot young men who claimed to be over 21, but when I told them they'd need to show me ID they quickly made excuses that they lost their drivers' licences or IDs. I'm not really the daddy type anyway...I'd be more into being a bi mentor to an eager student than to be daddy to a son because daddy-son has the context of incest that just puts me off being called daddy. Also a guy that young would need to be mature for his age or I'd feel like I was a child molester. Still I'll keep an open mind about younger men, but my preference is still for mature married or divorced bi men over 40 of which there is no shortage anywhere.
i'm not into daddy-son stuff either. also agree kinda sounds like incest it totally turns me off. not saying i wouldn't do it with a younger guy though :) or especially younger girl :D
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When I officially became Bi, I just craved older men...Now that I'm older, I look towards younger men. :upside: Who knows...
Ditto that! My wife gave up on sex almost 13 years ago following a bout with cancer. Her loss of libido does not diminish mine, and for a dozen years now, I’ve been exploring bi alternatives with little result. I rarely get responses to personal ads, or posts on this and other Internet sites. Moreover, the few responses I’ve received over the years have generally led to once-and-done sexual encounters that leave me feeling more than a little used and deceived.
Look, I’m 63 years old. There may be snow on my roof, but there’s still a fire in the furnace. Okay, I’m not the sexual dynamo I was at 33 or 43, but everything still works, and I still have needs — needs that beg for sexual expression. There have to be other middle age guys who feel the same and are open to bisexual forms of play. How do I reach them?
Have played with one guy 72 years old, and another 23 years old. Indeed 23 was much better, but I had fun with the older guy, too. I’d love to play with younger guys, but let’s face it, they’re not going respond to ads from the AARP set.
Very well said. Sex is, indeed, a natural part of living. I think a lot of people trivialize sex, particularly sex among older adults. They and labor under the mistaken notion that sex is primarily for reproduction, and that people beyond their child-rearing years have no business having sex. But sex is important on many levels, and was meant to be enjoyed throughout life. It's the glue that cements a relationship. It plays a role in maintaining both physical and emotional health. It stimulates the immune system, and let's not forget that sex is fun. I have no intention to give it up!
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Originally Posted by WestTxCouple1
I have always liked older men, usually around ten years older. Still do, but now that I'm older, I tend to stick with lovers roughly around the same age. Now that I'm in my mid-fifties, it really hasn't occured to me to try younger, although I'm certainly open to the idea.
I’m 30 and absolutely love older guys. I used to have an older friend who would finger me etc. It was amazing. I miss him a lot. Honestly I prefer guys 65 plus
I had sex today with a 65 year old man and got the. Best. Blow. Job. Ever.
I was writhing and moaning with pleasure. So good.
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Originally Posted by yallt39
If your top come see me you can use my pussy all you want😜🤪😏🍆🍑💦💦💦
Since the OP posted back in August of 2011, I really wouldn't hold your breath on that count. ;)
I have only been with one man so far and he was probably in his upper 60s, maybe early 70s. I am in my upper 40s. He gave me a good blow job, but he couldn't get hard. I still sucked him good, but I kinda wish he was hard for my first blow job. Other than that, I have no problem with older men.
I’m 52 and like older than me or within 10yrs meet them on silver daddies my fwb is 72 Love it when he takes control
Been out of the sexual arena for a bit, took care of my parents, and an aged aunt, work; just too much to have a social life. After I became free of those obligations, I found my old sexual appetite returned. I also found myself older. Well as a younger guy I always liked guys and gals my own age (20s-early 40s) and my tastes have not really changed. I did however find out (happily) that there are folks who I'm attracted to who like daddy/grandpa types, and even some who have a Santa Fetish.
I would love to help you out, but you live too far away. I'm 68 years old and don't have a problem finding cocks to suck. I have lots of luck with Doublelist.Quote:
Originally Posted by yallt39
Doublelist sucks for the central Pa, great for the pittsburgh and Philly area!Quote:
Originally Posted by cleves
The social perception and one we see damned near everywhere is that sex is only for the young when the truth is that it never was; at 63, I've forgotten more about sex than younger guys have ever learned just like I've gotten more sex by accident than younger guys have gotten on purpose. Yeah, they say somewhere around 40, issues start to show up like ED, prostate issues, having high blood pressure and having to take meds to lower it - but could rob us of some of our erectile function but there is a hell of a lot more to us older guys than how hard our dick gets or how long we can keep it up. I've been having sex since I was 8, been sucking cocks (and other things) with guys since I was 9 and have not let off the gas at all so do the math and ask yourself if 55 years of sexual experiences is of any interest and more so if you're of a mind to be able to get with someone who knows - really knows - what the deal is.
I met a guy who was like 68 at the time I met him; had his prostate removed, couldn't get hard, couldn't produce any sperm... and that old guy was getting more dick than I was - and I was getting a lot of dick and pussy. I've had guys who are a couple of years older than I am tell me I'm too young for them and some of them haven't been playing with dick anywhere close to how long I've been doing it. So... people are funny; they want what they want and in the exact way they want it but to me, that makes them miss out on a lot of sex by putting shit in the way that will prevent them from having it... like being picky about how old a willing guy is. Youngsters have some issues and that's to be expected, just like us older folks do but as the saying goes, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter if the bottom line for you is to find a dick you can play with and with as few hassles as possible.
Every human culture is ageist, but I think the m4m hookup scene is very ageist.
Every 2nd ad says "my age of younger".
Many guys lie about their age, or otherwise try to look younger than their true age.
Many older guys fetishize youth, a few younger guys return the favor.
I refuse to lie about my age or hide it. I am also aging very well, so ...
Nah, it's more than that. I am scrupulous with my word & respect that in others.
I would rather have older!!Quote:
Originally Posted by playful808
Older the better! More mature!
I'm on Adam4Adam and have had some pretty good luck with it. It comes and goes, you know? but, I have no complaints. First, I have found that some secrets to my success have been to be friendly - be willing to say more than one word responses... having pictures to share helps. having a place to meet is helpful. taking risks is helpful. I have met some really great guys in my area - and when I have been on the road. I would love to have a long term friend- but, I have found that most of my encounters are one time things, maybe I might get a second or third meeting - but usually it is once. I also think it helps when I am open and up front about what I want or don't want, and I definitely stay away from drama. I am 62. I am married... and we sound like we have very similar circumstances. haven't had sex with my wife for several years.
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I'm the same playful. You are correct. Papa you need to start the Man to Man project on this forum. That was my favorite thread on SBG.Quote:
Originally Posted by playful808
Wish you were closer...I'm 69 and enjoy oral and anal play...actually, when we had Craigslist I had no shortage partners...early 20"s to 70's...all good..hope you find some soonQuote:
Originally Posted by yallt39
I am an older guy who is always looking. Adam has been good and Squirt dot org also. Adam tends to find more local guys. There are guys who like older guys but there are many many more who like top guys. Advertise your nice cock size and willing to ass fuck. Good Luck.
I definitely prefer men my age or older. Some of the hardest cocks I've had in my mouth were older ones!
My regulars are all in their upper 50s to mid 60s, All are in long term marriages except one, his wife passed last year. Although I don’t discriminate as my wife does. 2 of the 4 play with my wife as well, the 2 she doesn’t play with are bigger guys caring some weight but their cocks need service just the same. My frequent go to guy however is simply awesome and she and I participate almost daily with this guy. He is so sexually frustrated at home that his kink really shines around us. He is never shy when he comes over, he gets naked and is proud of his cock and he should be, the wife and myself enjoy many fun filled evenings taking care of his needs. It seems that us older guys just don’t care and concentrate on having fun while we are on this shitty earth.
Id like to think that I am not “old” at 58 but rather experienced. Drama free as well as that is all behind me. My cock still gets good and hard and no problem ejaculating. I’m also possibly in better shape now than I was 20 years ago.Quote:
Originally Posted by BigMikeSlade
in short, I am very comfortable with my age and would love to tempt a younger guy to see if I can satisfy him...
I was always more attracted to older men. Even as a 19 year old I sought out older men because I found they were better and more attentive lovers. The couple of same age hook ups I had at that time it was about them getting theirs and being done. Now in my 50's I still find men my age and older to be more what I am interested in. Of course if was easier to find them when I was a 20 something. :)
Keep trying. There must be periodicals or something as well as carefully worded Craigs list "missed connections" add like "I saw you in the grocery store and we smiled at each other. I'd like to buy you a coffee" or something - or I'd like to bi you a coffee or something. They are out there and probably have the same problem you do.Quote:
Originally Posted by yallt39
Let's see... when I was younger, it didn't make a difference how old the other guy was as long as he wanted to do something. As I got older - over 21 - guys my age seemed to flock to me more than guys, say, over 40, but still, if anyone wanted to do it, I was game to throw it down with them. Once I got to 40, there were a lot more younger guys, not so many guys my age, and practically no guys in the 50-60 range; it seemed that the guys my age were looking for guys who weren't my age and usually younger guys. Today, at 63, there are more younger guys looking to hook up than guys my age or older; I recently had an 18-year-old hit me up looking for a daddy to teach him the ropes but since I never practiced any kind of age discrimination, I stay firm with my stance that as long as the guy is of legal age, is clean, healthy, and not my idea of an asshole, we can do something. I do get that younger guys are attracted to older guys and, usually, because we're more settled, mature, usually no-nonsense about things (read this as not being of a mind to be playing games) and, I think, we don't see the point in putting performance pressure on anyone - at least I don't - and we tend to be more patient and understanding about stuff.
All I know is that what I find amazing about the cock is that is an ageless wonder. That is does not seem to age like the rest of the body. Many videos and pictures of older men in their 60's and 70's but the cock looks as young as they were in their 30's or even 20's.
I love looking at cock.
I'm 68 and have great luck with Doublelist.Quote:
Originally Posted by softheart
I am 50 and I like older men and women.. I also like women and men my own age.. cum to think about it I also like younger men and women too.. lol
I am a 68 yo mom who’s Wife has lost the sexual desire. I would a friend to play and experience. Perhaps an older couple open for fun
Any older discreet in guys in Northern Utah. Am a mom interested in meeting people of like mind
I'm 63 and as long as it's hard and can stay that way while pounding my ass I'm attracted to you.
I'm 58 and I'm tired of seeing ads that cut the age off at like 50. I wish I could find other guys interested in someone of my age. ��
I'm interested buddy ... better between buds of similar ages.
I know, I am only 51, I dont think I am that bad to be past the cut off age