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For me sex is always more intense with a man. But I have two bi male friends and we all agree that women complete the circle. We're all with women at the moment. However, my favourite thing is cocksucking. I love the smell, taste, texture... And swallowing another man's load is indescribable. I figure I'm 70% str8, 30% gay. But, I could settle down with the right guy.
I'm totally into men after I began noticing that I was increasing getting more emotional with men during sexual intimacy and experiencing feelings of love with a man after dating him a few times.
While I felt not so much with women as I couldn’t stay hard when fucking them. I would get in and I wouldn’t feel anything, no intimacy and feel myself softening up as compared to with guys I felt I would never stop orgasming.
Women bodies turn me on more then men, while men' personalities turn me on but not really into men's bodies except 4 rearely a man's body will rare! lol
Does your wife know you are gay?Quote:
Originally Posted by boyfox
Sounds like me....
I'm only romantically and emotionally attracted to women. Guys not so much, I'm just not wired that way.
I'd have to say I am more into men at present. After 2 marriages and regular sex with women since I was in college, meeting men for sex excites me more than meeting women. I discovered my bi side at age 32 and have spent the years since then "catching up" and exploring my mm desires moreso than my mf desires. I didn't physically cheat on either of my wives with other women or men, but I did secretly lust for mm sex. I didn't have that same lust for other women. I'm not capable of an emotional or love relationship with any man, but paradoxically I do desire intimacy and romance as part of a sexual relationship with a man (or woman). At this point in my life, I don't desire to marry again or be in a committed relationship with a woman or a man. I could bond with a woman or man if we click socially and sexually. I could also love either gender as I would love a dear platonic female or male. But for me, the sex would be strictly for the fun and pleasure of FWB sex with both of us being independent and going our own ways until the next time we meet.
I would say I am more physically attracted to men and more emotionally to women. However the intensity level is a bit fluid on the physically side. There are times I go out and see both women and men attractive and there are other times I go out and only find the men attractive. The emotionally side is a bit more constant, always leaning toward the women side.
I am more sexually attracted to men. However, sometimes, I meet women that definitely get my attention. That happened today.
Yes, she knows I'm gay.Quote:
Originally Posted by pole_smoker
Like Cat I am very damn picky. With a man the relationship could never be more than sexual, or FWB. With a lady it could be as simple as FWB. That is the situation I am in now with a couple of ladies. Just wish one or both were in to playing with BI men. I could and would love to find a lady that could become a much deeper relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cherokee_Mountaincat
for an ongoing relationship, I choose women over men. The novelty of being the center of a gang me guys, age has moved me to a point where lust, has pretty well diminished, but making love has become very, very comfortable. The memories of hard cock to the left of me, to the right of me, and inside me, still burns strong and brightly but for a number of reasons, is not the daily entree as it was. But I do love many of the thoughts here, when digested proved BI sexuality DOES exists, is real, and a true blessing.
I am much more into women, in fact guys that turn me on most of the time share the same traits as the women that turn me on only they have a cock. I like slim guys that are hairless on the cock balls and ass, I love a cute hairless ass on both sexes. I discovered my bi side looking at she males. I would never give up pussy though!
For me being attracted to both men and women giving a slight edge to women only because I am a tender, romantic, passionate and I have yet found a man whom gives me this in return. Perhaps it's the soft side of me, not fem but definitely not macho that controls my erotic side. I will say I have only been with a couple of guys and never more than a physical so the emotional part of this relationship I still am in search of. I never thought I would enjoy another mans body so I am open to what comes my way. Thanks
See, I've never had a solid preference. There are times when I was more romantically attracted to women, and times where men were the targets...
How about this:
My first long-term romantic relationship was with a man. It last 4 years.
My second was with a woman, lasted 4 years.
My third was with a man, 2 years.
Fourth, man, 2 years.
Fifth, woman, 2 years
Sixth, A male/female couple, 3 years
Seventh, a man, 1 year
I'm on my eighth, and last (Hopefully) with a woman, It's been 7 years now.
As for sex? I can honestly say I've never had a moment where it was "am I going home with him or her?" I've just always been in the middle. If given that choice between two people, it'd be one of the hardest ones I make.
While I used to love to eat a nice wet pussy, I don't get a chance anymore, just too old for a young woman to be interested in. I still find cocks to be very beautiful. The sight of a hard cock in front of my face is so hot, I just have to suck it. My age doesn't seem to be a big factor. I find it fairly easy to find guys to suck off.
Sounds about on par with me.Quote:
Originally Posted by blatant_bi_guy
Enjoyed only sex with a guy, lost my virginity with him.
Enjoyed sex with a girl, lost that virginity with her.
Got involved with a girl for a few years.
Involved with a guy a few.
Nothing a few.
A gal for sex.
A guy for sex.
Nothing a few.
Involved with a couple guy and gal a few.
A gal for sex.
A guy for sex.
Married a gal.
Involved a bit with a guy while married.
Fairly much the same place for while now, married to a gal, involved a bit with a guy.
I too find it difficult choosing, do not consciously think "oh, okay I'm with a guy now because ...".
Life happens, people enjoy one another. What says we need to choose?
[QUOTE=glansandlabia;138949]I am a bi man who prefers women to men 60/40[/QUOTE
If there are 3 of us playing I am attracted to the other 2 the same. I am not attracted o men t all without a lady in the mix, unless I had been wit him and a lady before. I will pursue a lady, ont a man.
Pretty simple for me ... I am much more into men. Maybe we could connect and explore why and how much!
I romantically and physically enjoy being with both, my husband however is more into the physical aspect with men and romantically/physically with women
I am definitely 50/50, I love being married but love my cock sucking adventures as well. My wife and I are both Bi, so I get a lot of pussy and she gets a lot of manly cock. Fortunately for us all of our bedroom friends are married as well so our meetings are sometimes short notice. Take last night for instance, she and I were relaxing here at home and our mutual friend sent a text asking if we were up for some naked fun, I showed the wife and she smiled and got up and headed to the shower, I text him back and said give us 1/2 hour and we will be ready. Gotta have fun in life, love both sexes.
I am romantically attracted to women but sexual attracted to men.
I was in a threesome with my wife and a male friend for over a decade. When we were were in foreplay, it was a free for all, all three of us enjoying everybody. When it came time to cum, we both went for the wife vaginally or anally. I don't have any idea how that fits into the scale.
The answer: yes:). I am Kinsey 3. Been and am in love with both men and women. Watch both straight, bi, and gay porn.
I am primarily attracted to women both physically and sexually. I also cross dress and fantasize about being a woman quite a lot.
With women, I see their entire bodies as erogenous zones and sources of pleasure for them and for me.
With men, while I do admire a good looking man and his body, I am not attracted to them in the same way.
With men(even in my fantasies of being a woman) I am only interested in about 5 - 10 inches of very specific real estate and how it feels inside me.
Sexually, it is women hands down. However, if I do ever decide to marry, I can only see myself doing it with a man.
I consider myself to be a male lesbian. I love to role play as a woman but have no interest in men. I love woman and wish I were a lesbian.
Sexually I am into men. I appreciate the female form but overall I prefer cock.
l have had my share of women in the past and just get along with men so much better....there's no pretense when meeting another man for sex...l can say and do what ever my soul tells me too to do...and when it flows both ways with my lover ohhhh it's like always the best ever...my next relationship with be with another man or a Very Hot CD l'm most happest with a cock in either of my fun holes...unless l'm with an understanding women that knows this of me then perhaps it could happen again...but not looking for women now ...may never happen again..
Just my 2 cents
Jimmiejoe/Vickie when dressed