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Couldn't answer the poll. My response is lop-sided because I favor one woman but many men. I think I am more romantically inclined to women but I only want the one so I don't know if it is the gender I favor or the single personality which is the dominant factor. And yet a crave a deeper relationship with a man.
I have always had a preference for women over men, though I think that the preference has been reduced over time...in my 20s it was maybe 75% into women/25% into men and now I'm closer to 60/40. I think over the years I've become more comfortable and knowledgeable about myself and my sexuality, and also have let go of some of my hang-ups about masculinity and being sexually fluid.
This is so incredibly hard for me. For so long everyone has known my desire for young women, but in the back of my mind that's private trees been occasions where I've gotten the hots for a young male too. For the record men who like teenage boys disgust me. Always have. So when I tell you I was 27 and had sex with a student that could have gotten me arrested, you'd be right to call me a hypocrit. In fact the 21 year old hottie chick I was going out with exposed as a reaction to her anger. You see my whole life I've hid my secret lists for girls and boys of ages 13-17 that I so often longed for. So when after a party I realized there was a mouth watering kid, athlete, ripped, 6pack and a tight perfect shaped butt that I was just horny enough to grab my attention. With my date soundly asleep with the other 6 or so who passed out drunk at a friends house, I made a move for Christopher. When he awake and kissed me so passionately with his tongue I took my hand and unbuttoned his jeans and palmed his 'still growing penis' and fondled his perfect feeling balls. I Remeber thinking how I really wanted to put his balls in my mouth and nibble on them while stroking his cock and after that I wanted to as a 27 tear old man take a risk of horrific consequences and toss he salad with all the sleeping witnesses that close to prof I was at least bisexual if not a complete homosexual. I Remeber pulling Chris' underwear down and starin at his cute cock of just under 5 inches. That turned me on too.
He didn't have a hair on his body and his skin was so perfect. Then my conscience asked me right then if I was about to have gay sex with a ten he boy who had at least been through puberity or was I about to have sex with a minor and risk my entire life. Chris wrapped his sexy legs around my neck and my decision was made, except for a voice that whispered 'go ahead and suck that boys penis you closet homo, your nothing but a great big butt pirate and I'm gonna let everyone know I saw you take advantage of a teenage boy. I was so hard, and so was Chris, but soon others could wake up, and I'd be forever shamed. Right then Chris asked if I was a coward or if I was man enough to let people know you are who you are. Just then I leaned forward and kissed Christopher and I could hear people moving around and I knew that was it, everyone wa staring at a sight they couldn't beleive, me of all people having gay sex and publicly. I though couldn't resist this kid, I coukdnt, even my fears of social condemnation weren't enough to allow me to pass on this perfect male body. I Remeber hearing insults while we had interxourse. Nasty terms were being uttered and someone threw a banana at my head and said stick that up your ass while u fagets are are poking each other's poop holes you ferry. I came inside Chris and after I did reality set in, I felt so small laying there stuck to Chris and everyone knowing I couldn't resist cumming inside a boy am not my hot date or public ridcule could save me. In one day I went from popular kid for 20 years in a city to a homosexual who likes little boys. Are they right? I can't flat out deny it I know that, Chris would agree
I prefer men over women. I would say that for every woman there has been in my life, there have been five men. I just adore sex with men and do anything for them.
Interesting subject for me. I grew up having a sister that would get my brother and me naked and suck our dicks and then have us lick her to orgasm. After she would finish with us, my brother and I would continue in our bed until we both had orgasms in each other's mouths. This went on for years until I met an older man who had me sucking his cock two or three times a day. After getting married, I talked my wife into meeting other guys and getting them to fuck her whenever she felt like having a cock other than mine. This turned into a fantastic relationship where I got to watch her get her pussy pounded several times a week by other guys and as she increased her intake of cock. She went for 6" cocks to 10" cocks over a period of 35 years. I got to lick them as they fucked her and clean her up after they finished. Now, I am into enjoying the male cock without the addition of the female body. Love to feel a big hard cock throbbing in my mouth.
I have had love relationships with both sexes,It seems on a rotating basis. I can truly love either sex.Depends on the person,not the plumbing.
I am capable of deeply loving a woman sexually and emotionally, to the point that I easily remained faithful despite my secret mm desires. I am 60 and have been married twice. I did not desire men for the 1st 32 years of my life, but once I was introduced to oral sex with men at that time, I was forever erotically attracted to bi men and their bodies. Over time, I began to enjoy romance with men as well as sex. I have never had, nor will I ever have deep feelings of love for the men I go to bed with. Paradoxically, I feel and project romance with men and make love to them with as much passion as I do with women, but with much more lust for male lips and bodies than for females lips and bodies. At this point in my life, I more often feel sexual lust and desire for men than for women. I seek no-strings romance and sex with male FWBs much more often than I seek women for the same, but that could change if I once again met and fell in love with a special woman. So for now, put me down as more into men :)
Romantically more into women and that lifestyle, but still very sexually into men
Very true. I suppose "pansexual" is a more accurate description for me. Most of my experiences have been with cisgender men, but I have had crushes and one experience with a cisgender woman. Almost three months ago, I fell in love with a trans woman who is now nine months into her transition. If (God forbid) this relationship ends, I'm willing to do more exploration. It really does depend on the person rather than the gender identity.Quote:
Originally Posted by BiEd9
For me sex is always more intense with a man. But I have two bi male friends and we all agree that women complete the circle. We're all with women at the moment. However, my favourite thing is cocksucking. I love the smell, taste, texture... And swallowing another man's load is indescribable. I figure I'm 70% str8, 30% gay. But, I could settle down with the right guy.
I'm totally into men after I began noticing that I was increasing getting more emotional with men during sexual intimacy and experiencing feelings of love with a man after dating him a few times.
While I felt not so much with women as I couldn’t stay hard when fucking them. I would get in and I wouldn’t feel anything, no intimacy and feel myself softening up as compared to with guys I felt I would never stop orgasming.
Women bodies turn me on more then men, while men' personalities turn me on but not really into men's bodies except 4 rearely a man's body will rare! lol
Does your wife know you are gay?Quote:
Originally Posted by boyfox
Sounds like me....
I'm only romantically and emotionally attracted to women. Guys not so much, I'm just not wired that way.
I'd have to say I am more into men at present. After 2 marriages and regular sex with women since I was in college, meeting men for sex excites me more than meeting women. I discovered my bi side at age 32 and have spent the years since then "catching up" and exploring my mm desires moreso than my mf desires. I didn't physically cheat on either of my wives with other women or men, but I did secretly lust for mm sex. I didn't have that same lust for other women. I'm not capable of an emotional or love relationship with any man, but paradoxically I do desire intimacy and romance as part of a sexual relationship with a man (or woman). At this point in my life, I don't desire to marry again or be in a committed relationship with a woman or a man. I could bond with a woman or man if we click socially and sexually. I could also love either gender as I would love a dear platonic female or male. But for me, the sex would be strictly for the fun and pleasure of FWB sex with both of us being independent and going our own ways until the next time we meet.
I would say I am more physically attracted to men and more emotionally to women. However the intensity level is a bit fluid on the physically side. There are times I go out and see both women and men attractive and there are other times I go out and only find the men attractive. The emotionally side is a bit more constant, always leaning toward the women side.
I am more sexually attracted to men. However, sometimes, I meet women that definitely get my attention. That happened today.
Yes, she knows I'm gay.Quote:
Originally Posted by pole_smoker
Like Cat I am very damn picky. With a man the relationship could never be more than sexual, or FWB. With a lady it could be as simple as FWB. That is the situation I am in now with a couple of ladies. Just wish one or both were in to playing with BI men. I could and would love to find a lady that could become a much deeper relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cherokee_Mountaincat
for an ongoing relationship, I choose women over men. The novelty of being the center of a gang me guys, age has moved me to a point where lust, has pretty well diminished, but making love has become very, very comfortable. The memories of hard cock to the left of me, to the right of me, and inside me, still burns strong and brightly but for a number of reasons, is not the daily entree as it was. But I do love many of the thoughts here, when digested proved BI sexuality DOES exists, is real, and a true blessing.
I am much more into women, in fact guys that turn me on most of the time share the same traits as the women that turn me on only they have a cock. I like slim guys that are hairless on the cock balls and ass, I love a cute hairless ass on both sexes. I discovered my bi side looking at she males. I would never give up pussy though!
For me being attracted to both men and women giving a slight edge to women only because I am a tender, romantic, passionate and I have yet found a man whom gives me this in return. Perhaps it's the soft side of me, not fem but definitely not macho that controls my erotic side. I will say I have only been with a couple of guys and never more than a physical so the emotional part of this relationship I still am in search of. I never thought I would enjoy another mans body so I am open to what comes my way. Thanks
See, I've never had a solid preference. There are times when I was more romantically attracted to women, and times where men were the targets...
How about this:
My first long-term romantic relationship was with a man. It last 4 years.
My second was with a woman, lasted 4 years.
My third was with a man, 2 years.
Fourth, man, 2 years.
Fifth, woman, 2 years
Sixth, A male/female couple, 3 years
Seventh, a man, 1 year
I'm on my eighth, and last (Hopefully) with a woman, It's been 7 years now.
As for sex? I can honestly say I've never had a moment where it was "am I going home with him or her?" I've just always been in the middle. If given that choice between two people, it'd be one of the hardest ones I make.
While I used to love to eat a nice wet pussy, I don't get a chance anymore, just too old for a young woman to be interested in. I still find cocks to be very beautiful. The sight of a hard cock in front of my face is so hot, I just have to suck it. My age doesn't seem to be a big factor. I find it fairly easy to find guys to suck off.
Sounds about on par with me.Quote:
Originally Posted by blatant_bi_guy
Enjoyed only sex with a guy, lost my virginity with him.
Enjoyed sex with a girl, lost that virginity with her.
Got involved with a girl for a few years.
Involved with a guy a few.
Nothing a few.
A gal for sex.
A guy for sex.
Nothing a few.
Involved with a couple guy and gal a few.
A gal for sex.
A guy for sex.
Married a gal.
Involved a bit with a guy while married.
Fairly much the same place for while now, married to a gal, involved a bit with a guy.
I too find it difficult choosing, do not consciously think "oh, okay I'm with a guy now because ...".
Life happens, people enjoy one another. What says we need to choose?
[QUOTE=glansandlabia;138949]I am a bi man who prefers women to men 60/40[/QUOTE
If there are 3 of us playing I am attracted to the other 2 the same. I am not attracted o men t all without a lady in the mix, unless I had been wit him and a lady before. I will pursue a lady, ont a man.
Pretty simple for me ... I am much more into men. Maybe we could connect and explore why and how much!
I romantically and physically enjoy being with both, my husband however is more into the physical aspect with men and romantically/physically with women
I am definitely 50/50, I love being married but love my cock sucking adventures as well. My wife and I are both Bi, so I get a lot of pussy and she gets a lot of manly cock. Fortunately for us all of our bedroom friends are married as well so our meetings are sometimes short notice. Take last night for instance, she and I were relaxing here at home and our mutual friend sent a text asking if we were up for some naked fun, I showed the wife and she smiled and got up and headed to the shower, I text him back and said give us 1/2 hour and we will be ready. Gotta have fun in life, love both sexes.
I am romantically attracted to women but sexual attracted to men.
I was in a threesome with my wife and a male friend for over a decade. When we were were in foreplay, it was a free for all, all three of us enjoying everybody. When it came time to cum, we both went for the wife vaginally or anally. I don't have any idea how that fits into the scale.
The answer: yes:). I am Kinsey 3. Been and am in love with both men and women. Watch both straight, bi, and gay porn.
I am primarily attracted to women both physically and sexually. I also cross dress and fantasize about being a woman quite a lot.
With women, I see their entire bodies as erogenous zones and sources of pleasure for them and for me.
With men, while I do admire a good looking man and his body, I am not attracted to them in the same way.
With men(even in my fantasies of being a woman) I am only interested in about 5 - 10 inches of very specific real estate and how it feels inside me.
Sexually, it is women hands down. However, if I do ever decide to marry, I can only see myself doing it with a man.
I consider myself to be a male lesbian. I love to role play as a woman but have no interest in men. I love woman and wish I were a lesbian.
Sexually I am into men. I appreciate the female form but overall I prefer cock.
l have had my share of women in the past and just get along with men so much better....there's no pretense when meeting another man for sex...l can say and do what ever my soul tells me too to do...and when it flows both ways with my lover ohhhh it's like always the best ever...my next relationship with be with another man or a Very Hot CD l'm most happest with a cock in either of my fun holes...unless l'm with an understanding women that knows this of me then perhaps it could happen again...but not looking for women now ...may never happen again..
Just my 2 cents
Jimmiejoe/Vickie when dressed