Re: Bisexual Married Men Bashing
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Originally Posted by
Maybhere
We are both bisexual and have no secrets. What you do is what you can justify in your mind. We won't put you down but on the other hand we wouldn't care to know you if you are being dishonest.
I feel the same way. When I was single I never had sex with other married women and men who wanted to cheat with me. My partner also never got with other people who were into married and cheating. These people lie and cheat on their spouse/husband, or partner. So you simply can't trust them at all.
People who excuse cheating, and who knowingly have sex with people who are married and cheating, are just as bad as people who are into cheating on their BF/GF/wife/husband. I feel bad for people who cheat, and for the unfortunate people who they are married or in a relationship with.
Re: Bisexual Married Men Bashing
I agree with that.
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Re: Bisexual Married Men Bashing
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Originally Posted by
sdf123
Lately, Ive seen alot of posts that have gone above and beyond to bash married bisexual men. Id just like to say that the gift in our being bisexual is the variety -- we have choices, we have options, we have POSSIBILITIES that others do not understand. I am not going to make someone feel horrible for "cheating" on their wives--we dont know the nature of their relationship, nor do we know what their situation is. Maybe they are indeed in the closet, maybe they are selfish, maybe their wives know, maybe their wives dont care, maybe no one in the relationship gives a damn anymore. Who are we to rip apart someone else's life? I understand that we all have an opinion. But I think it is unfair to call out all bisexual married men and label them as cowards. Some of us are polyamorous; some of us are monogamous, some of us are so many things. We don't fit into the common mold and if you are bisexual and don't know that critical factor by now....you're the one that the rest of us should be feeling sorry for and NOT the other way around. There's more than two choices and I think as a true bisexual, that point alone should transcend every part of your lives. No one has to be one of anything. I support and admire many of our married bisexual men. That is the richness of who we are..the layers and juxtapositions and contradictions.
…well said…I totally agree…
Re: Bisexual Married Men Bashing
I agree with sdf123 and Charles.I make no judgments about people and their relationships.What works for them may not work for me, but, that does not justify me to judge them.
Re: Bisexual Married Men Bashing
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Originally Posted by
jem_is_bi
I agree with sdf123 and Charles.I make no judgments about people and their relationships.What works for them may not work for me, but, that does not justify me to judge them.
…we need a lot more of that attitude on this board…