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Hi y'all. I'm Renee and my fiance is Bryan. We are both bi and hoping someday we will find what we're looking for. In the meantime, it's all about networking and meeting people who share similar interests and views on sexuality as we do. Looking forward to meeting new folks and hopefully make some new friends.
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Howdy. I'm a MWM, 51, and bi. I am married and my wife knows about my orientation. I've never had the opportunity to act on it, partly because of where we live, and partly because I tend to be introverted and shy. :-) My wife is straight, but supportive. I'm not interested in exploring anything without her knowledge (and possible involvement). :-) I love the idea of finding a community that understands what I'm feeling and coming to terms with.
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New here looking for fun. Married guy great wife but this excites me too.
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Hello, I'm NRG2Sspare, and I do have lots of energy and stamina, Check me out....I'll be waiting
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Hi, Ed here, Nomorenomore refers to not having sex in the past five years. Wife has medical issues. She basically told me it was okay to watch porn and even bought me some toys. Not sure whether it was menopause or medication that caused her to have a zero desire, but I have had to deal with it. Due to surgery that left scar tissue and mesh hanging out, even sympathy sex is out. I am one who will not force myself on others, so since she has no desire, I go without. That being said, it has led to the resurgence in my own questions of my sexuality. Okay, well those questions have always been there, but I always pushed them aside due to societal norms. My bad, I know. I have been on here for a little while and basically check back every now and then. I have a desire to be with a man and answer all my questions, but still suffer all the fears, not to mention still being married, that have prevented me from acting upon it. I was told about this place on Literotica. I figured I would come here and check things out. So for the moment, all is just fantasies.
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Good Monday morning, everyone....
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Hey, right now just looking for connection, and folks of a like mind to talk to. Married, monogamous (sigh), female, 50. Been actively bi as long as I can remember. But, it's frustrating being limited to only one flavor of ice cream at a time.
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Hello just trying to find someone.Am a little nervous so hope you will be gentle with me. Look forward to hearing from other ombers
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Howdy All....
I'm David - 50 years old, married and out to my wife.
I always figured I was bisexual even before I had a word for it. When I was 12 I had a huge crush on a younger boy who lived down the street. I was smart enough to know that going up to him and giving him a big wet kiss on the lips was probably not a good idea :tongue:
Through High School up until I met my wife I was active sexually with both women and men. I never had relationships with men - it was purely about sex.
Last year, with my wife's OK, I started actively seeking out partners. Not much yet, but I recently I rediscovered the joys of giving a blow job (wow, I missed giving blow jobs!).
If anyone's up for chatting or cam, give me a shout!
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Hello everyone
We are a 38 year old man and 33 year old woman who are happily married. We are from South Carolina. We have a 100% open and honest relationship and we enjoy sharing our sexiest desires with one another no matter how taboo. It is beautiful and we wish that every couple could share the joy his type of openness brings into a marriage. Neither one of us really calls ourselves bi, even though same sex encounters are very much a part of our sex life. We both enjoy sex with members of the same sex, but have zero interest in being in a same sex relationship. Sorry if that's confusing and feel free to enlighten us if you see that mentality differently.
We joined here to try to meet like minded people and to learn more about ourselves..
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Hi there, everyone.
Just call me Rod. The "_7_5" was a typo with Yahoo that stuck because I'd had the nick/address too long before I noticed. :tongue: I'm a 43 y/o MWM whose wife knows he's had encounters with a friend many years ago. There are times that I miss having a good friend for masturbation & other "fun," but wouldn't do so without the wife's OK, which is pretty unlikely.
There's more intricacies to all of us than that, but that should do as a brief intro. :)
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Hi everyone, I just found this site last night and am glad that I did. I'm really looking forward to meeting new like minded people here.
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Hello from Cleveland, OH! I'm a 39-year-old cis bi woman who has just started coming out as bi. I'm currently involved with a wonderful 36-year-old trans woman who identifies as lesbian. She just started transitioning in August of last year, so we're both strangers in a strange land.
Just looking for opportunities to learn and to give and receive support.
Cheers,
WildColonial
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that is 1 nice cock and her pussy and tits are awesome too
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New here looking for fun. Married guy great wife but this excites me too.
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Bah ok, hi! So I'm a woman, married to a man who I love very very much. Buuut since...well for a long time I've been attracted to women and men equally. I was raised in a Christian home that taught being gay is a sin (cliche', yes I know) so I never did more more than make out and fondle other women. I've really struggled with my sexuality a lot and mostly ignored it, but lately my church group is getting very involved with the LGBT community--in a very good and open way. We don't believe that being gay is a "sin". So this has had me thinking a lot more about my sexuality. And sometimes I think it's irrelevant because I'm married, but then other times it really bothers me that I'm not "out". I don't know it's all very confusing...which is why I'm here. :) I find men and women mostly equally attractive in the real world...but I do tend to notice women more and I fantasize only about women. However, I very much love my husband and love sex with him and do find men attractive too so I'm not 100% sure where I lie on the Kinsey scale...I didn't have a chance to have a full blown relationship with a woman before meeting my husband which makes that difficult too. I don't know.
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New member here. Nice sight. Looking forward to making new friends!
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HI
Bi guy living and working Central London, looking to meet friendly people for friendship, fun or just a few drinks. Please feel free to drop me a note and say hi, whether you're a London living person, or just visiting this great City...
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Hey! bi guy here from Orlando. Looking to meet like minded people
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Joined this site a few months ago...just posted for the first time today...35 years old from CT...married but 100% bi, wife has no idea...knew I had a bicurious side for over a decade...had an ex that at the time knew I was curious, wanted her to fuck me with a dildo, never got around to it before we parted ways, however would every once in a while finger myself or use a dildo. Wasnt until a few years ago that I started messing around with guys, and have loved it ever since. Find myself, dreaming about sex with guys, hardly ever have sexual dreams about women, not sure what that means!! Hope to continue to explore with guys and maybe fulfill some fantasies as well.
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Can't remember if i've introduced myself or not but.....
i'm from the Midlands UK. My only experiences were as a young boy masturbating with a friend, holding his penis and then when i was about 13, kissing and masturbating with another boy, resting my cock between his buttocks. Never sucked, been sucked or taken a cock up my anus. Still have those thoughts today and maybe one day....
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Greetings everybody! I just joined this site to feed my growing curiosity and see exploration of bisexuality. I hope to meet lots of nice and genuinely sincere people.
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Joined this site a few months ago...just posted for the first time today...35 years old from CT...married but 100% bi, wife has no idea...knew I had a bicurious side for over a decade...had an ex that at the time knew I was curious, wanted her to fuck me with a dildo, never got around to it before we parted ways, however would every once in a while finger myself or use a dildo. Wasnt until a few years ago that I started messing around with guys, and have loved it ever since. Find myself, dreaming about sex with guys, hardly ever have sexual dreams about women, not sure what that means!! Hope to continue to explore with guys and maybe fulfill some fantasies as well.
Welcome bictguy. Your story mirrors mine and probably a few others on here as well.
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Bah ok, hi! So I'm a woman, married to a man who I love very very much. Buuut since...well for a long time I've been attracted to women and men equally. I was raised in a Christian home that taught being gay is a sin (cliche', yes I know) so I never did more more than make out and fondle other women. I've really struggled with my sexuality a lot and mostly ignored it, but lately my church group is getting very involved with the LGBT community--in a very good and open way. We don't believe that being gay is a "sin". So this has had me thinking a lot more about my sexuality. And sometimes I think it's irrelevant because I'm married, but then other times it really bothers me that I'm not "out". I don't know it's all very confusing...which is why I'm here. :) I find men and women mostly equally attractive in the real world...but I do tend to notice women more and I fantasize only about women. However, I very much love my husband and love sex with him and do find men attractive too so I'm not 100% sure where I lie on the Kinsey scale...I didn't have a chance to have a full blown relationship with a woman before meeting my husband which makes that difficult too. I don't know.
being a Christian does tend to bump up against every day life at times. You want to be a 'good Christian' but what does that mean?
And on top of that you add your sexuality and unless you're a 'black and white' type person, meaning for you there are no shades of grey in your perception of things, then you're a sinner for just having non heterosexual thoughts.
welcome and good luck
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He everyone, I'm new to this forum. I'm a 22 year old from the North West of England. I look forward to chatting with some of you!
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Hey I'm josh. So far i think I'm the youngest guy here. I'm 18 years old i just recently discovered my bisexuality or should I say admitted it. I'm from New Jersey and I've never had a bisexual experience before. This is definitly the most liberating thing I've done in my life and I'm glad I joined this site
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I hope I'm not breaking any rules, as I joined this site a very long time ago. Before this thread was started, in fact! After a nearly five year hiatus, I've decided to check back in here, update my profile, and see how the forums are holding up. I'm 40, bi, and married. My wife and I are open with each other, and are non-monogamous, though I have been pretty monogamish of late. I've felt a bit lacking in my social connections lately, and am attempting to change that! I have fond memories of the chat room and forums here when I was a more active member.
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Well, here I am on page 27. I'm single, an older guy, and still getting to know myself. I'm not in a committed relationship at present. Looking to talk with people, maybe make new friends, in place where I don't have to hide who I am.
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Hey out there we are a bi couple looking for like minded couples. Tammy and Ron here.
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Hi all,
I'm Mick, i live in the North East of England i'm married and bi although my wife has no idea of my bisexuality. It is pretty much all fantasy at the moment although I have had some same sex fun before i met my wife.
My biggest fantasy is to be watched buly a woman whilst playing with her man... The quest continues....
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Hi there, I am 29, straight, married. My husband told me last week that he is bisexual, and we have been struggling with what it means for our future. This is a very confusing and emotional time for me. We have been together for 11 years and have a 6 month old baby. I haven't had much luck in finding support for the "straight spouse", especially for couples who wish to remain monogamous. I am trying to understand my husband a bit better; hopefully I will find some of what I am looking for here.
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Hi there, Just wanted to chime in and say you sound strong and care for your husband quite a bit. I didn't really come out to my wife that I was Bi until it was too late. She ended up finding someone else to be with thinking I was more into guys. She gave me a so called "Hall Pass" to go and find myself. I never went out site of our marriage until that point. I found a few guys to be with, one I tried to date a bit. At that point I new I love women. I've never fallen in love with a man, but felt a close FWB bond. Being Bi is and I think will always be very difficult to understand. Sexual attraction can vary day to day. My wife is and I are now open to each other about it. She never thought she would like the thought of her man being with another guy. I think she sees it as a bit kinky, but it has grown on her. Separating the sexual from the emotional parts is tricky too. Men tend to be more about just getting a sexual fix (as you can tell with personal ads). Hope this helps.
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Awesome you and your wife are open to each other! I am 41 and my wife and I are open also. We have both been around the bend(so to speak) and do find having the Bi-influence in our marriage does shake it up a bit.
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Hi y'all. I'm a 58 year old man rather frustrated by moments some started & didn't have the nerve to finish. Family & otherwise. Got me hard & wet, but stopped for whatever reason. But had some hot moments I figured it was time to share.
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welcome Older.........where you located in ohio
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Hi y'all. I'm a 58 year old man rather frustrated by moments some started & didn't have the nerve to finish. Family & otherwise. Got me hard & wet, but stopped for whatever reason. But had some hot moments I figured it was time to share.
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North East near Lake Erie.
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New guy joined yesterday, I was on www.dick.net but there is a problem with there web site, it got hijacked. I'm curious and retired and looking for my first encounter. I enjoyed reading some of the forum post. Thanks for looking.
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hello all.. I would like to make new friends .. this is all new to me.. just recently had my first experience
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Hello. I'm a bi, married guy in Texas. My wife doesn't know about this part of my life. I've been bi curious for about 10 years, but I'm now fully comfortable with being bisexual. Looking at this site gives me comfort that I'm not alone. I look forward to meeting some really nice, compassionate, and understanding people.
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New here, newly bi(?) LOL just Lookin for support and someone who understands
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New here, newly bi(?) LOL just Lookin for support and someone who understands
I understand where you're coming from kind of strange but good at the same time.. you're not alone just have fun