Re: Bi-sexuality in golden years
HornedupRam
I think that this discussion has happened to some degree on a previous thread. The fact that you knew about bisexuality in the 70's distinguishes you from some of the bisexuals who may be of the same generation as you. Many if not most bisexuals were not aware of the concept of bisexuality back then. I'm not stating that some bisexuals never were immersed as deeply as yourself in the gay community in the 70's but a lot were not. Just as Voltie has posted, many bisexuals were not attracted to the gay lifestyle of that era. You are not now but perhaps you were during that era? I'm sure that a lot of bisexual men never read the Advocate then and probably not a lot read it now. You are correct quite possibly some bisexual men may not have wanted to have same sex experiences as much as you in the 70's. The reasons may be varied as to why they were not "ready" or even interested in same sex experiences then. I may be wrong but from what I have read from your posts you hold a different perspective than many bisexual men your age that are on this site.
Re: Bi-sexuality in golden years
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pbvasc
Thank you on behalf of all married bi-curious or bi men.
I really wish more women to have an open mind about bi-desires because that is a complement to their partner happiness.
If my wife had bi-desires and I was a regular straight guy, I am sure I would support her all the way. I would still love her. She would be happier and happy peaple will return love to you.
God Bless you!!
Ditto!!! Women like you are a rare breed. I came out to my wife after 22 years of being together. I had to because I felt I was going to have a breakdown. And miraculously, she understands and supports me. I can't say everything is totally perfect, but pretty close. The rest we just talk it out. She has met my lover and really likes him too. WE all get along so well. To those of you who are surpressing your bisexual feelings, be very careful cause it could tear you apart and cause for an unhappy life.
"Repression Brings Obcession." I learned that the hard way. So, let it go, give in, give up, surrender and be the true you!!!
