Prefer women over men, but like to suck dick couple times a month.
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Prefer women over men, but like to suck dick couple times a month.
I love having sex with men, but it is only sex for me; there is no emotional connection. I have an emotional connection to women and I do like having sex with women. I also find that I form an emotional connection to transgenders and do love to have sex with a transgender woman (that is male to female).
equally into both but men suck cock better
I prefer women overall and am not sure I could have the same type of relationship with a man that I do with a woman in terms of emotional bonding and such.
I do however enjoy giving and receiving oral with a guy... and I love watching a man orgasm as much as I do a woman. (Especially if i am the one that made them orgasm! :bigrin: )
As for penetration... so far I have only had one experience with M/M anal and that was as a Top. I liked it and want to do it some more but one time makes it hard to choose a "preference" in that aspect.
I am a bi man who prefers women to men 60/40
That's very interesting. I wonder how you came to see and self-identify as being in the bisexual/fluid/pansexual part of the LGBT spectrum then.Quote:
Originally Posted by GayAZN
He doesn't. We have a few gay men here. Which is perfectly fine. The problem is that some of them make comments that veer dangerously close to misogyny -- or at least a hatred of all women who aren't lesbians.Quote:
Originally Posted by nyabn_webmaster
Right now I'm more into men than women...but most importantly I'm very happy being Bi-sexual:flag4: :flag3:
LOL Oh our bad, didn't think of that at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bi-Zarro
i'm engaged and really love women 100% of the time, but 5% of the time i just really want a big c**k as well LOL. i couldnt ever see myself having a romantic relationship with a guy.
Generally I prefer women, but if I wasn't already married to one, I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with a man either. As in all things, the chemistry would have to click.
However, it's the female form that generally catches my eye.
Yeah, that's the ticket, you've said it all right there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nick_C
And it only took me 30 odd years to figure out. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by nyabn_webmaster
Ahhhhh... What?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mobydick187
Women are awesome and just as much fun as men (in my opinion they are more fun but that because I lean towards women romantically and sexually)
No need to knock on women or make them sound like they are only good for marriage (which reads: they are good for supporting me and washing the dishes). Ladies are awesome and all kinds of fun.
Depends on the day I'm having, really. Blah when I'm feeling less braindead I'll come back to this post and write something more substantial.
I agree with you. Prefer women, but enjoy being with men.
If the question is about sexually: prefer men.
If the question is about all else: prefer women.
The only guy other than Brad Pitt, that really turns me on, I married. As for the womyn, it is different I like to play lots, with the womyn I am with. I guess it is like a guy going from a womyn to another but I form relationships. The young lady I am with as you all know is quite younger than myself but I have met a very interesting womyn my age and there goes the feelings. I am into one man but I love to play with womyn.
Sexually I'm an either/or guy. Either I want sex with men (like now) or I want sex with women. It's never and. Romantically, it's all women.
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I am a married man, attracted to both sexes, but only in love with a woman. I couldn't see myself loving a man in that way, but sexually I am attracted to both.
this point of contention comes up more often than not here; but it is also a frequent stumbling block in any discussion regarding sexual orientation. it is if bisexuality is some sort of foyer, or waiting room, before going on into the next room. for me, that is nothing but a los!
to date i have had a relationship with 5 men and 4 women, in most cases overlapping one another. i am bisexual, now and always; i have offered on several occasions on what a day is llike for me as far as being out and about amongst other people; i scope out what appeals to me, with no emphasis on any one sex. i'm far more likley to be attracted to any combination of sexes at any given moment.
for me however, the depth and breadth of the relationship is of far more importance; i dont have sex with anyone that doesnt matter to me! in my last two realtionships, with a man and with a woman, the ltr's overlapped like most as i have previously indicated. i was with the woman for just under 20 years, and with the man, just over 14 years; my relationship with either was just as strong as any way you wish to consider. i was with both 'unto death do you part', and for me that is what ended both; a day does not go by that i give each of them more than just a passing thought.
i am what society calls a serial monogomist; what i get from a man or a woman is as different as day and night, and one does not over power the other.
so be the prevelant belief or whatever the latest study shows, contrary to my above commitment, for me it only proves that you have to be very careful when broad statements are held as truths for the specific participants under consideration!
I prefer romancing with girls as so far the guys iv met are mostly just all about the sex really. I'd say I'm 40/60 in favour of girls and that 10% swing is mostly because of the intimacy.
That might change in time if I meet the right guy though. Until then I'l carry on as Iv done for ever. Going out girls who understand me and are Bi too and letting guys come and go from my life.
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I have been reading most of the entries on this topic and find them all so fascinating. The diversity of interests and desires is intriguing and I found of course many practices and interests similar and identical to my own.
As far as voting goes, I couldn't do it simply because sexually I enjoy both very much....when I am with a man, I am totally into those moments sexually and the same when I'm with a woman. However, for me I am interested in women in a much broader scale and for this reason, I have not made a connection with a woman in the way that I would prefer. Alot more is involved and I know when I'm interested in a woman in depth, the intensity of everything changes down to my daily living.
I have never been able to connect romance, emotions, and sex with males. With guys, I am only in it for the sex and only when the desires are stirred.
For example, when I'm out and about in public, I don't really take notice of men at all...I am captivated constantly and continuously by women.
There is the rare ocassion where a male might capture my attention.
When moments of sex are happening, how I love all the wonderful intricacies of what is special about both sexes. I am so tuned in by whichever sex I am playing with and totally devoted to that moment and sensations.
Though I get involved with women emotionally and not with men, I am capable of enjoying a woman just for the sex if that is what is understood from the beginning. This especially applies when I have played with married couples or devoted boyfriend/girlfriend couples; I never infringe upon what they hold dear with one another. I am merely the guest there to enjoy them both.
I absolutely adore women in so many ways, but even when in love with a woman, I have always felt the urge eventually for a cock....
This has created problems for me with the women that wouldn't share me with anyone else. I was able to stay devoted without playing with other women outside the relationship, but my appetite for male sex I have never really been able to put a cap on...and it's not because anything was lacking sexually or any other way with the woman.
I realize many would say that were I truly in love with the woman, I would never stray to anyone else for any reason. But it's more complicated for me. I have tried countless times to deny my urges for male sex when in a relationship with a woman, but to no avail. For years, I hated myself and my urges for male sex when I was in love with a woman.
I finally made peace with this many years ago and through the help of my counselor. Though she is monogamous and heterosexual, she has never judged me for my inability to not stray from the woman I was in love with. She has studied bisexuality for many years and according to her, there are many individuals such as myself that truly do love their partner but cannot get around the desire for same sex indulgences. Her advice to me was to make peace with it and trust that there are women who do accept this in their male partners and allow them to play and sometimes participate with their men and their male sex partners. I already know of several couples where this is true.
I know that many here would judge this and do judge it. I am not by any means proposing that everyone adhere to this kind of situation; we all individually are who we are. I would never judge anyone for their choices and it sure would be nice if the same were true for me. But I know too well after so many years, this is not the case. I am at peace with this as I don't expect everyone to understand or accept.
So, in closing....in ways of emotions, romance, etc........I do lean towards women....but sexually, I am most definitely interested in both equally.
How did you become a Enuch? Can you ejaculate, have an orgasm, or get an erection?Quote:
Originally Posted by Eunic
Right now, I'm more attracted to women than to men, while still being attracted to men on occasion. Ten years ago, I think it was the opposite. Ten years before that, it was the opposite of that. It came as a great surprise to me in college to find myself romantically drawn to a man for the first time.
I had a very emotional, tender, romantic relationship with another man in my late twenties. I wouldn't have given that up for the world. (Although I kinda wish that he had been bi, too, so we could have picked up women together from time to time). It was a little tough telling him -- years after the relationship was over -- that I wanted to start dating women. I think he was a little disappointed.
Honestly, the sex I've had with women recently has been just about the best of my life. And, while it's not clear-cut, I think, on balance, I prefer M-F sex to M-M sex.
So maybe for me, bi doesn't mean a steady 50-50 over the lifespan. It's much more fluid than that. But I'm not someone who responds "sexually" to one sex and "romantically" to another.
But here's a funny question. Lots of guys seem to enjoy sex with men and women, but only have relationships with women. I'm wondering if there are any guys who enjoy sex with both, but prefer men emotionally. If so, how do they pull it off? It would seem to be hard to have a primary relationship with another man, but have female sex buddies on the side.
You KNOW I'm that woman right? lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by littlerayofsunshine
"But here's a funny question. Lots of guys seem to enjoy sex with men and women, but only have relationships with women. I'm wondering if there are any guys who enjoy sex with both, but prefer men emotionally. If so, how do they pull it off? It would seem to be hard to have a primary relationship with another man, but have female sex buddies on the side."
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Ah, I wonder if this is where LDD got the idea for his quirky "type of bisexual" poll?...:bigrin:
I think that you are correct that few women would accept being not the primary relationship with a man. I do recall a friend stating that he knows a male couple where the one man had a very close relationship with a woman. However, I do not know if it was sexual. In some cases that may be where "fag hag" comes in? In other cases a "fag hag" is usually not sexual in nature.
I agree with those that write that "preference" has varied over my lifetime and at this point I wouldn't say which is the overall preference. At this point though, guys are much easier to deal with.
Years ago, I traded e-mails with a guy in a M-M relationship who had watched a lot of straight porn with his boyfriend and had become fascinated with cunnilingus. He was looking for a M-F couple to try it out with. I don't know if he succeeded, but he did have a serious prospect. He agreed with me that he was more of a Kinsey 4-5 than a 6.
*grins* uh huh uh huh uh huh *shakes her head up and down like a bobbledoll*Quote:
Originally Posted by rissababynta
After all these years, the fires still burn and age has only made us more beautiful and brighter.
You still owe me a date my sexxy vixen.;)
I´m more into women, all the way. The most fantastic and wonderful lovers I have ever had have been people of the opposite sex. I dont deny that there are some men who can be really sweet and kind when they want to. But when it comes to sex, I prefer doing it with a woman, because most men I know are only in for a random sexual encounter without more contact. However, when it is a woman, I love the taste of her lips in my mouth when I give her the first kiss, the embrace of her arms as she hugs me like there is no tomorrow, like she is never going to let me go. I love the feeling of being inside her and the warmth of her breath as she falls asleep beside me. And waking up besides her and watching the sun making her hair glow... although I love to please both sexes, there is no doubt that I would prefer to be with a girl that wigh a guy. I have read that actually, when it comes to bisexuality, only a 5% of the people who identifies as such is attracted to both sexes equally. The rest usually prefers one sex over the other.
I go back and forth on this question. Depends on whether I'm predominantly in my straight or my gay mode
I am totally agreement with Krysa here. A relationship wit a woman is needed in my life with a man I am interested only in his cock, if there is sex to be had. I have known men that I had BI relations with that lasted as long as 10 years. All of our play time was Bi never M2M alone. We did g out to club, maybe or have a meal but always as Bi couple. A romantic relationship with a man I no place on my radar.Quote:
Originally Posted by Krysta
Yes. Now that I've become more comfortable with myself.
I've always been attracted romantically and physically to men more. There ARE certain women I am attracted to but I couldn't always tell you why, it's not necessarily because when you say "Hellooo" it echoes down cleavage canyon either.. (giggles).
Seems to be a combination of things. I was raised by a single mom in a divorced household so in a way I've always viewed women more like "sisters" than objects of desire and who wants to have sex with your sister?! A lot of my good female friends, some of which I would've loved to be with - confided in me and at that time in their lives they seemed to need a friend more than a lover (sighs).
Men I lust after, women I've always had to work harder at, but the feelings are definately there.
fantasized of having of more than just sex with a man but not sure if i can stand it.
married now so relationship with wife is good but sexually, i think i like taking cock more.
This has changed for me over time. Romantically I am more drawn to women and I look at them much more in real life but my fantasy life is now more leaning toward men/homosexual fantasies. So perhaps call me a 4.5
women only from 1965 til last year, except for thoughts. now more into men, not for romance , but just for sex. did some male/male stuff prior to 1965 and then sucked one male around a year ago. I loved it.
Women by far. Guys only when the urge to be taken is particularly strong and quite honestly I'm only in it for their cock in me.
I enjoy being treated like a slut bitch in heat by men! Course, I enjoy that from women too! But have had relationships only with women, and married a wonderful woman :)
Kind of odd one. I like women's looks. Their shape, Breasts, ass, legs, etc. I find that I am not attracted to overly hairy guys, or heavy tats, etc. So I end up looking at more women than men, but when it comes down to pubic area, while I will go down on a woman and bring her to multiple orgasms, physically, I prefer a cock down there. I don't know what it is. I have only had one cock in my mouth and it was brief, but I am more attracted to cock than pussy.
I definitely prefer women for companionship, romance and sex. Although I have not done it in quite some time, I enjoy sex with a man, both oral and anal. Howeve, there is nothing quite as thrilling and wonderful as sliding my cock into a warm, wet pussy!!!