MMF 3somes

Its how we actually started out..

It was a fantasy of hers, the standard MFM, but as she opened up more about it, the idea of the guys playing with each other turned her on more and more. When I suggested we make fantasy reality at first she was against it, but as the fantasy evolved more, she finally agreed.

The internet is a great empowerment tool, and for us was the dorrway to our fun. We met a guy in a chat room in the old days of AOHELL.. and after a few days of talking, then talking on the phone we set a date to meet.. Knowing full well that if things fell into place it was a night for fun

Well, without going into too many details, the evening was a suc-cess,lol.. but more importantly, it turned her on so much, She lost count how many times she came.. And thru that expereince learned a new "power".. She came from watching without playing with herself, or any contact from us..

Led to lots of fun nights, then we found a bi couple to play with, and she learned the joys of female sex..

My advice on ALL threesomes, MMF or MFF, is that you make sure all parties involved are "into" each other.

I had a fantastic MFF threesome with two bi girls and it was one of the greatest times I ever had.

Then I tried an MMF with a couple I knew... Honestly, I knew the woman better than the man, and I did it to get in bed with her. The guy wasn't bi, or at least didn't say he was, he just wanted to watch his girlfriend have sex with another guy along with him. I didn't understand my own sexuality enough to be willing to take a risk by touching him, and I certainly didn't understand his sexuality. Long story short: it was still fun, but a little awkward, and we never did anything together again.

So the personal lesson I took away: Only have threesomes with bi people. It ain't written in stone, but just it's easier if everyone knows what they're getting into.

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Originally Posted by guycurious

I only wish I could find a decent bi male for my wife and I.

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would like to help you out, my wife is the same, never had the opportunity to experience it. Looking forward to the first time
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We have had a few threesomes, MFM, FFM, FMF, MMF and to be honest we prefer 4somes...as for watching the two men together she really does not care too, but also not really into watching him with a girl, he gets more turned on my watching her with another person and like one poster had said, he really likes to be with her after she has been with another man...and he loves being with the other man (oral) after he has been with Michelle :)

In response to Stargazer's post: My wife and I have been sharing the fantasy of having a guy join us for almost 5 years! It hasn't yet happened because we haven't been able to find the right guy. She doesn't want for me to tell any prospect up front that we want a 3-some. Rather, she wants me to have them visit for me to give them head and if she likes him, she may join in.

She really gets hot playing with a dildo. She loves for me to lick her pussy with the fantasy cock in her and she loves having it deep in her pussy with my cock in her mouth.

I'm trying now to set up a meeting with a "new" guy. Hope it works!

MMF 3somes can be a delicate situation for those who haven't been there before. I've been in a few as the single male who was invited to play. I wanted to introduce this to my recent girlfriend (we are going our separate ways because of me being bi and she isn't), but she was not interested in this in the least.
In fact, tonight I will be joining a married couple to play.
It takes a lot to be secure about everything...the confidence in knowing that what you have together is going to continue and not be threatened by the other person's interest in wanting to play with another. Also that the dynamics of that sort of thing will not interfere or pose any threat for the love you have for each other. I think this is the most common problem that faces this kind of situation.
My recent girlfriend did not want to share me with anyone though my play with males is purely sexual in nature and nothing more. Some people cannot grasp that it is possible to have sexual pleasure without any strings attached....and that is okay. But if you are of the nature like myself in which you need more and are unable to let go of this, then you must reconsider if she is going to be insecure.
You will know more once you have had the experience unless she decides not to go through with it....best wishes to you.

we have had mmf 3soms. my advice to you is let your wife pick the time to try it. has she ever watch two men together yet? maybe that would be a starting point for her. one more thing, are you cool with another man having your wife? you see there is alot to consider here. good luck and keep talking to your wife.

MMF is SO exciting...I especiall love licking both man and woman while they fuck..

A few years ago we finally found a bi male that the two of us had a chemistry with. So, our one time MMF experience was fabulous....only problem was, my hubby made me feel like I was doing something wrong by enjoying the experience of being with another man, but it was ok for him to enjoy himself. I called the whole thing off and there was a lack of communication between us for a very long time and it has been several years since we have toyed with the idea of trying again. He since has explained to me that I misinterpreted his meaning.

Our couple other experiences were with bi couples, I am a straight female so I haven't enjoyed these experiences as much....it is too difficult to find a couple where there is attraction among all 4.

I recall, one night we met with a couple we had known for a long time and had become very good friends. This was during the time we were exploring the idea of "swinging" and nudism. The guys were bi curious, but we girls were not.....so it was awkward for the two of us to watch them...It never happened again with them either, but we remained friends.

Now, we had to relocate and hubby is interested in the idea of finding another bi-male friends/couples. I might enjoy the MMF experience again. We have talked at length about exploring this subject again. I am open to the idea and accept his bi-ness, but I won't be tarred and feathered for enjoying myself and he needs to stop being a one way street, and I have made this clear, if we should give this another go.

We understand the difficulties that comes from having just one bi person in a relationship. It gets very frustrating at times.:2cents:

dorie

I have had one MFM relationship that lasted for about 13 months. I actually lived with them. Although, I am bi and the husband was bi-curious, most of our time was spent trying to please the wife. I can remember only one time when he and I had sex and she just watched.

She was easily aroused, but had a difficult time cuming. I don't mind telling you she was one virile woman and one woman can easily work two guys to death! ...................At least that was my experience.

I soon found out that the husband had some kind of hang-up about having oral sex with her. (Which he slowly overcame, once he saw how much his wife loved it) She did not have a odorous vagina, in fact, she was very sweet-smelling and tasted delicious to me. After I began eating her, before and after we'd had sex with her, she really came alive. It was a real ego-booster for her to experience her first multiple orgasm with me.

We more-or-less developed a rough routine of me being the one to get her aroused....she loved to be touched, sucked, caressed and lightly man-handled. My cock was somewhat smaller than his and about the only way I could make her cum was orally, or manually. After I'd cum inside her, he really began to love fucking her with my cum paving the way for their session.

I loved them both and since we were all in the Army, we were subject to transfer. To say I was sad for us to part, is putting it mildly, but those days were some of the best of my whole life.

Hi, we've talked about this. we're at the start of all this,i'm still trying to get my head round being bi as is my hubby. most of the messages seem to be about male male female(new and not sure if the order of letters matter??), IF we had a 3some it'd be my hubby,me and another female. the fantasy of it is a turn on but wether i'd be (or my hubby)brave enough to try it would be another matter. i'd be scared it'd change our relationship and think it'd be a lot to cope with. but, if someone had told me when i got married-20 years go that i'd have a sexual relationship with a woman i'd never have believed them,so maybe i should keep my mind open eh?
up untill this i'd been faithful throughout our marriage,my husbands asked me to tell him if i meet anyone i want to sleep with. i'd prefer it to be someone you got to know rather than a stranger.at this moment in time i can't see how i'd meet anyone!
sometimes i think we're doing great and others i could weep.it feels so hard at times. we are getting through by talking and being so bluntly honest with each other.we go to Relate which has helped us so much. i'm so glad i found this board,thankyou

A MMF is how I went from BiCurious to Bisexual.

It was the hottest thing I ever did, and would love to do again. And again. And Again. And Again.

i can help you with alot we play mmf only she was new never had i grew up playing with couples in ca now that we are older i let guys play with her we play with all guys but bi is the fav emaile me lets chat and wife will chat with your wife if i ask her to jimdiana98@yahoo.com

Yep. Love 'em! MMF and bi couples-play are our usual play. She'd love more FF play, but single bi fems are truly unicorns.

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