Why are you here? Why have you stayed?

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Originally Posted by onewhocares

....we are more here.

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one other positive thing about meeting someone here (online in pvt. msgs. or email) is that you don't have other distractions which we all use to "judge" people.

For example, I cannot hear your voice, nor see how you dress, nor smell (dammit: I'm REALLY into scents hehe), BUT I hear your heart through your words. I think online is one of the purest ways to build a friendship, build desire (if that is why you're here) build mystery...and more.

We are all free to express our deepest thoughts and desires (even if NOT sexual) and mercifully equally free to ignore those who don't agree with us LOL.

:2cents: :tong:

I found this site when i was searching for some bisexual support groups..

I'ts been just a few days but i feel immensely comfortable here.

Where I am, being 'alternative' - not just in sexuality - makes life hard, even dangerous - you''re required to fit into a mould - if i changed my lifestyle drastically , i could do it , but it would mean leaving my old life behind... which I'm ready to do as long as there's someone who loves me for who I really am

I'm also looking to find someone, maybe a bisexual girl, a guy or even a couple.... for what ? - lets see how it goes...

take care everyone

dreamer

well there are a number of reasons i came here and stayed. 1- is that there are quite a few pagans in here of which i am one, bisexual and in a poly relationship with two other witches, that is not accepted within most cultures or fourms. 2- like minded open minded people that try to help and understand rather then put down and scorn someone. 3- i am accepted unlike within most sites and society where i would be ridiculed and hated for my beliefs aqnd way of life. 4- it's totaly free and one has access to everything the site has to offer. 5- it gives me a chance to search for that special someone, who knows maby i will find him one day. 6- there are a lot of interesting questions in the fourms that one can put their two cents in on. 7- there are a lot of hot people with interesting profiles and pics to look over and spend hours reading. 8- a chat room to say hi and get to know everyone that comes in. 9- a chance to see other bisexuals, their problems and help if possible or at least suggest a solution. 10- to be a part of a comuinity and share things personal that you wouldent even share with your family. 11- oh should i go on. i could and you know it, the reasons for joining and staying are endless. just as the topics, problems and questions that come through here. it's obivious that your friend dosent understand the involvement and closeness one can attain with like minded people not of the mainstreem. as a witch and druid at times i feel different and apart from most of the people within society yet i have to live and function within it with my different opinions and beliefs. here at least i feel comfortable knowing others understand my beliefs and desires. and it's not just a laptop, i am talkin to real people just like yourself and i hope to influence others in a positive way. well as usual this is my :2cents: to this thread for what it's worth. peace and blessings be with you always :flag4:

My wife and I came here hoping to find someone to help fulfill our fantasy of being with another bi guy. So far...no luck. We stay because we hope it will eventually happen for us.
Also, it's a good place to explore with others what we are feeling...and know we are not "weird" like some people would label us. There seems to be so many understanding people here who are feeling just like us, and that is a kewl thing for us. To get on this site and read all the forums and respond to people is great!!
You know..in our society other people just don't 'get it' and if they find out they label us in some negative way. They can kiss my bi ass!! ;)
My wife and I have come to a point in our lives where we say, "Screw it, we don't give a rats' ass what anyone thinks, we are going to do what we want....and that is to enjoy ourselves, have fun, stop missing out on exploring that curious side of us. If others don't like it, we really don't care one bit. As my wife says: They are all probably thinking just like us...just not ever going to admit it to themselves. And damn if I'm going to be one of those people. :eek: Miss out? Not anymore....long enough for us.
This place....other than a few annoying, ah, people...ROCKS!!!!! And, we plan to stay until we meet that person who rocks "us." :bibounce:

Well,I'm new here,and hope to meet some like-minded people in person to explore my curious feelings with!