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me too and I loved it!Quote:
Originally Posted by upforfunDe
what a refreshing article I just wish more people understand what it is like to be FULLY:) bi sexual
Very interesting article. I myself have never been to a swing club and this gave some insight as to why I wouldn't be interested in going. I had already suspected that a bi male would not be able to be open about his sexuality in such an environment and reading this article about it, for me proved to be the case.
On the other hand, I have been to several bi sex parties given here in my area by a local bi group that have proven to be much more at ease and open about bisexual play with no pressure on any one. Some of them have been enjoyable and some not. But overall at least everyone had no fear about the fact that they're bisexual. For me the ultimate experience would be to fully express the full sensuality of the bisexual experience; where one doesn't have to feel like it's time to perform but where eventually the erotic becomes charged in such a way that one is completely comfortable in the moment. I am sure there are such environments for such play. Of course this kind of unfolding requires trust where one can open up to the experience. One of my complaints at these bi parties I've been to is that it is still more the males looking to connect with the females which I certainly don't mind since I too do the same thing. But when I have felt the urge to play with the men as well, there's a distance unless one of the women comes along to encourage the men to play. And some of the women voice this and bring the men together so they can watch and eventually join in from getting turned on by the activity. But of course, men are still more uptight about letting it go with men than women are with women. I realize this is not the case with all men and there are certainly exceptions as I've also met men at these parties that were not afraid to open up without a woman's encouragement. And I also respect the fact that some men are more reserved and are in the process of opening up as for some it's new to them to experience being bi. This is the nature of the different levels of experience for different people.
I appreciate the article once again as it does help to clarify things.