I can't live bisexual as i would like it, so i want to see and to talk about it! :female: :male:
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I can't live bisexual as i would like it, so i want to see and to talk about it! :female: :male:
Personally, I was a little bored one night and decided to see what was out there for bisexuals. Found the forums here and was very impressed at how incredible the site is, and how friendly and supportive everyone is, so I figured I'd join up and hang out for a while. :)
I am living in a desert known as NW Louisiana and need interaction with other LGBTs. The people here hate anyone different and that means me, since I'm a bi-femme and a pagan. Hope to make new friends with interests and hobbies they can talk coherently about and share with me. I've never before lived in such a closeted place with no culture. Feel I should be able to at least meet others online to talk with.
well basically i came here to meet others like me to meet up and fulfill each others fantasies.
Freedom. Peers. Intelligence. These are some of the things I seek and can have here.
What brings me to this site? Hmm.... I guess that I first stumbled across it by accident when trawling the internet for anything LGBT related, this was before I went to university and when I was still in the closet. I only got round to joining it a week or so ago after a disco by my university's LGBT society in which a (probably rather strongly gay) DJ started asking me if I was bisexual after I requested a tune by 'The Offspring' (probably quite 'straight' music). After getting back from the disco I couldn't get to sleep (too many caffeinated alcopops lol.... what? they were on special offer lol) and so I started reading this forum as well as several TV/CD ones (which I have not yet signed up for). Finally, I thought about the DJ's comments and thought 'sod it! I'm Bi and I should be proud of it' and I ended up signing up to the site at something like 3am lol.
Izzfan
kitten first got me to come here so I could understand bisexuals and now I'm looking to meet people and hopefully make more friends on here, I've found alot of very nice people here and like that this site gets people from all over the world.
I heard there were ez women and hung men here in dire need of reminding just how great sex can be, so out of a sense of obligation I stopped by. :cool:
Well I am here hopefully to meet some new friends and to be able to talk about what being bi is all about, it seems to be different for everyone, I mean as to each person liking different things.I am also hoping to meet some people on here from the Tampa Bay, St Pete area that I may actually get to meet in person.
Jim
I thought that it would be a great site to meet a lot of new people. Just like I imagine a lot of people are here for. I came across this site in the search engine and so far am really liking what I see.
As a bi curious female, I have a lot of questions and am hoping to have them answered. Hoping to also find a compatible female. Someone like myself.
We shall see
Curiosity
I was directed here by a friend, whom was bisexual himself. I never actually thought to look for anything like this, but I guess he was. It served a purpose then, and now I just tend to use it as a forum.
I am not looking for anyone, but there are certain members whos minds I think are unique and inspiring, I like to read anything by Long Duck Dong and there are a few others such as biwords, diamonddog ETC...
Myself, my bisexuality has come easy, I never had a problem with it, so I don't feel like I belong in this pool of outcasts.
I found this site after coming out to my wife. After talking about it she suggested I find a support group and look on line for information. Found this site and have learned a great deal about the what bisexuality means to me and other people, and learned so much about myself. A lot of wide and varying topics are discussed in the corner of cyberspace and I really appreciate everyones views. There are some really good people here who are willing to accept you for who you are!
to be more sociable among people that aren't hung up over societies perspective's on issues
Pure chance.
I was wondering if there were any resources or communities for bisexuals-- I knew about very few sites , and I wasn't doing well with running on my 15th year pretending to be straight or gay just to keep people around me happy. I REALLY needed an outlet.
I forgot exactly how I found it.. maybe after I searched Google for the 3rd time with my third search string.
All I know is that when I first got here, I was really surprised. But I also remember thinking that I wouldn't stay long because of the amount of sexual orientation communities that seem to focus wholly on sex. I thought this would be one of them, to tell the truth.
I was wrong, and happy to admit it. :bigrin:
what brought me to this site was my curiousity about being bisexual.I actually stumbled onto it,and am glad I did. I'm str8,wife's bi. Main goal was/is finding locals.I also enjoy reading and discussing the various topics,rated from "G" to "R". There's more locals in this area than I thought,and we have found one bi lady,who's about 4 hours away,and we're happy about that.It's fun to talk with ppl from all over the world, yep!Quote:
Originally Posted by wanderingrichard
we'd like to find more locals.
Anyway, we enjoy bisexual.com for those reasons. :)
mrc57107@aol.com
A lot of confusion, a lot of questions, feeling lost and a search engine. :tong:
And none of it sexual :cool:
i volunteer at my local lgbt center and there is a flier for bisexual.com on the bulletin board. i have been having a rather torrid affair on-line with a bisexual man at gay.com. there were a couple weeks where that site was down and we couldn't get to one another. it was DIFFICULT to say the least. soon after, we joined bisexual.com as an alternative chat from for gay.com and what a blessing. so many nice people here. to ice the cake a bit, my lover and i are able to leave each other discreet notes throughout the day. SWEEEEEEEET.
I came here last month by googling "bisexual". Bisexual.com was at the very top of the list. Quite frankly, I was looking for sex. I found much more.
I became aware that I was attracted to both sexes in my late teens. Since I'm in my early sixties now, you can imagine that admitting to those attractions back in those days was not something that one could discuss with anyone. There was no place like bisexual.com, so for many many years I lived the straight life and kept my real feeling bottled up. This place has allowed me to discuss my sexual preferences openly with other people like myself. What a releif. Thanks to Drew, and thanks to all of you. :)
Met a girl from Womanline.com (part of lavalife but for lesbians or female bisexuals seeking females) who told me about this site.
I was like "I don't think Im bisexual so why should I join?"
She said "Well your in question about your sexually... perfect reason."
lol
So I joined.... she no longer comes here tho (don't know why) but thanks to this site I have learned a lot about my sexually and other stuff too :) Great place to meet friends.
I was searching for a place online where I felt I could truly belong speaking from a sexual orientation point of view. There are so few quality bisexual sites out there that don't focus only on 'hooking up' and whatnot. So far, I'm liking this place.
I'm with BiPixie I was trying to find some place that I could actually come out
to so to speak and just be myself for who I really am and this way maybe get
more encouragement to hopefully one day come out to all my friends and even
family, and to get general advise on different things.
We're here because I am Bi and my lovely and adoring wife wanted me to not have to closet my sexuality just because we are in a relationship.
Since the places to find other Bisexuals in the public world are almost non-existent and very far between, we went to the web.
Lo and behold, here we are on this site as well as a few Yahoo groups and other Bi and swinger sites trying to find Bi guys that are local, meet our basic physical requirements and want to be friends and not just playmates.
for me it started out as a quest for answers, and for raist exploration. this site is a place we can come to seperatly and toghether, and be excepted for who and what we are. i'de like to thank both the people who posed the questions i was thinking about, and those who answered with care, compassion, and understanding. you helped me to realize that we are not alone, and that helped me so much. now i'm starting to do a little exploring of my own, and you know what raist is behind me 100%. this site and the wonderful people here helped me to open up. thanx luv kit :)
well first off i would like to say hi. :bigrin: i have been gone for a good 8 months or so.and i came back.what brought me here to begin with is that everybody in here are a great bunch of people. they dont seem to prejudge other people. so i came back. :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bipride:
i stumbled onto this site as well i was looking for bi groups and such because i am 38 bi married man who's wife will not accept this behavior, and i was hoping to find friends locally to meet and also just be able to talk to people like me. it has taken me along time to agree with myself that i am in fact a bisexual man, and this forum has helped me with it because there are so many here like me. i am glad i found this forum and glad i am able to express myself with you all with out fear of judgmental people or being outcast.
so thanks to all of you for being warm and welcoming and most important being bi like me.
I'm a new member, and also bicurious. I hope to meet friends online as well as gain a support group.
So just want to say thanks to the makers for the injenuity of this website.
The urges for male to male sex have become stronger over time and I was looking for an outlet. I did an internet search and found this site. My urges seem to be changing to needs. I am hoping to find friends with similar needs. I am not comfortable cruising for a quick blow job, I want to find a place where nudity and sex are socially acceptable, whether that be in a bedroom or elsewhere.
Want to get what I can't at home. :flag4:
There have been some really great answers to this question....I find myself returning to this site more often than any other website I currently visit...It's got everything one could want from an online community.. I keep meaning to leave but can't seem to find the door out...just the haunting distant memory from two years ago of where I came in...In...or..Out...oh yeah...maybe that's the reason...in lieu of some of the more recent posts...the question once again..
Ambi:)
Do you think that it was just coincidence that I gave the 69th response?
Ambi:)
I can't actually remember how I found this site but I've been a member a couple of years now and still come here daily for a look around. I haven't met anyone face to face so to speak but I am starting to make more effort to do so these days. The trouble is that the anonymity of this place makes it so easy for people to bottle out like I used to so still not sure it a the best place to meet people. Even the flesh is willing now and the mind is stronger! having this site to come to, centres me and my bisexuality.
We found the site pretty much the same way as everyone else through a search engine. We wanted to explore the lifestyle as we are curious as to what it is like. We've been married for a while now and about two years ago started playing with a toyon the male. He liked it so much that it has been a regular part of our sexual play. We are trying to find a hookup on here and other sites so that he can try the real thing not to mention he wants to watch a guy screw is wife. Only one problem and that is that she is very shy and scared to make that second step (afterall she is the one who signed up here) of finding a good guy or couple to play with.
surfed in havent left.though i have known for some time that i am bi i finally decided to try to learn how to be bi.dont get a chance to purssue it much but i like it here.i would like to thank MR.BURLESON for what he is doing here.i am belive he is making a difference.
i was looking for a place to find people to chat about being bi with, especially those that live in secluded non-bi friendly areas, and not get swamped with people looking for sex (being bi, but hetro committed). Sad to say i have not seen much of that here from local people
As realization of my bi-ness increased, I began to search for answers. This search included looking on the web, which led me here. I "lurked" for a while, and found out that I was not alone in my feelings. Others had travelled on the same journey; had some questions about my feelings answered, and that this is a community. I stayed. This is very much a comfort zone for me. :male:
Ally
I'd have never met this wonderful woman, without her having come here and learning more about her self...and I started coming just to see who all these names she brings up in conversations were all about
Awww an not lil ole me??? tee hee...Quote:
Originally Posted by Bethyboop
No matta Bethy..ya cud do lots worse.... jus relieved 2 hear it wosnt goat face!:bigrin:
Well I came to this site by accident. After privately going through the motions, and also a recommendation from another site, I thought that I would finally be brave enough to see what is out there…For I am pansexual, single, in constant denial about who I am or what I am, after having what I would personally call a emotional journey with a female co- worker, I felt it was time that some changes took place within my life.
However, I really would love to meet other’s who are similar to me, for social networking, romance as well… Romance does that ever truly happen.[B]I’m disgruntled woman, needing to find my way in life and my footing with like minded lost souls. So any bisexual or bi curious men and women please get in touch… I promise I wont bite, well not much lol…
friendship
comraderie
hell i even found a wonderful boyfriend on here and we live together in our own little bi world....
intelligence... opinions... common sense....
theres a lot of kewl peeps on here :)
In one simple word.... Hope