How many guys are afraid to suck their first cock?

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Originally Posted by DLazguy

I wasn't necessarily afraid to suck my first cock, I was more worried about anyone I know finding out that I sucked cock. I CAN'T have my wife finding out or family/friends.

I would lose the desire to meet up after I cum too. Now I resist the urge to cum if I know that I'll be meeting anyone.

Im still worried about getting found out, but my urge to suck a big cock is getting too strong to resist.

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Well after starting this thread more than 3 years ago I finally sucked a cock and swallowed cum in April of 2024. Did it again a few times, then took a break for a while. I was not so crazy about it as I never get hard when sucking. I think I was too excited, and concentrated.

Just sucked another cock after a six month break which was my 7th cock. Now I love it more than ever, and was almost getting hard while doing it, and after he shot his cum in my mouth I kept his cock in my mouth for at least a minute and did get hard then. I was naked in the forest on my knees. LOL

I think I love cock, and love cum even more.

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Originally Posted by licyou69

18 months after I posted this, I found the right man, with the right cock, in the right situation, got down on my knees, and sucked his cock like a pro until he was cumming down my throat. If you want it bad enough, it will happen for you.

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My problem too. I am only looking for married guys who want a BJ. Getting better at finding them now.

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Originally Posted by Kip2june

My problem too. I am only looking for married guys who want a BJ. Getting better at finding them now.

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What has helped you find them? That's what I'm looking for as well. Just trying to minimize risks...

The first one wasn’t an issue, as I knew him exceptionally well and we were both exclusive, just graduated and had a summer of fun exploration and kind of as much “love” as on can have at 18 before we both went off to colleges on almost opposite sides of the country. The second one was the scary one, just met the guy at a party the 2nd month of college, he was older, invited me back to his place, not familiar with what he liked, was looking for, and after making out in his living room and him stripping me down, he asked me back to his room, I sat on the edge of his bed and un-did his pants, he was a bit bigger, didn’t have the cute little curve my ex boyfriend had, kissed better though, I took him in my mouth and was still freaking out! Was I doing this right? According to my knew friend, it was ok, but he guided me with a few tips finally eased my nerves. I ended up spending the night, and the walk of shame the next day had me so paranoid I hit the student clinic, asked for all of the tests, was told I needed to wait on a few, stressed out for about a month, ignored his calls and pages(it was the 90’s) finally got a clean bill of health, and rea
out to the guy only to find it was now my turn to be ignored.

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Originally Posted by Footstep40

The first one wasn’t an issue, as I knew him exceptionally well and we were both exclusive, just graduated and had a summer of fun exploration and kind of as much “love” as on can have at 18 before we both went off to colleges on almost opposite sides of the country. The second one was the scary one, just met the guy at a party the 2nd month of college, he was older, invited me back to his place, not familiar with what he liked, was looking for, and after making out in his living room and him stripping me down, he asked me back to his room, I sat on the edge of his bed and un-did his pants, he was a bit bigger, didn’t have the cute little curve my ex boyfriend had, kissed better though, I took him in my mouth and was still freaking out! Was I doing this right? According to my knew friend, it was ok, but he guided me with a few tips finally eased my nerves. I ended up spending the night, and the walk of shame the next day had me so paranoid I hit the student clinic, asked for all of the tests, was told I needed to wait on a few, stressed out for about a month, ignored his calls and pages(it was the 90’s) finally got a clean bill of health, and rea
out to the guy only to find it was now my turn to be ignored.

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Wow. This is the kind of first-time story that guys who haven't sucked cock yet wants to avoid. The thing is that you won't ever know what's going to happen until you start doing it and it doesn't help that when you do it for that first time, you become paranoid and of a mind that everyone who sees you knows what you did last night. It can "take a while" for a guy to realize that, um, no - everybody not only doesn't know what I did, they don't even know who I am! Some guys relax after this and it's on to the next cock to suck while some guys remain paranoid and, often, to the extent that the people who do know them are asking, "Dude, what the hell is wrong with you?"

The last thing a guy coming home from this situation wants to deal with is people asking him questions he (a) doesn't want to answer or (b) is going to tell a big fat lie to explain why he's acting weird. Just know that a lot of guys have their very first time and... none of this shows up to mess with him so, new guys, learn from stories like this but remember: Just because it happened to someone else isn't a guarantee that it's going to happen to you.

Now, go ye forth and suck cock!

Indeed! My first time led to a summer of love and joy. Second time I was unfamiliar with my surroundings, partner, and worst of all myself. As I became more aware, I became more comfortable and less concerned about “what others said or were more likely not thinking”, which can be hard. Becoming more comfortable with yourself is truly when you realize it’s perfectly ok, and you blossom into your true self. I felt like a gigantic weight was lifted, and I enjoyed possibly some of the best sex ever, as I was completely comfortable in my own skin, and was able to relax and enjoy it, became pretty good at it too!

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Originally Posted by Footstep40

Indeed! My first time led to a summer of love and joy. Second time I was unfamiliar with my surroundings, partner, and worst of all myself. As I became more aware, I became more comfortable and less concerned about “what others said or were more likely not thinking”, which can be hard. Becoming more comfortable with yourself is truly when you realize it’s perfectly ok, and you blossom into your true self. I felt like a gigantic weight was lifted, and I enjoyed possibly some of the best sex ever, as I was completely comfortable in my own skin, and was able to relax and enjoy it, became pretty good at it too!

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So good to see that you [obviously] recovered from that moment! I read that it wasn't so much that the guy you were with "did you dirty" in your encounter but, yeah, you wake up the next morning, there's a naked guy lying next to you and, fuck, the reality of what y'all did slams into you and evokes the reaction you had. Some guys... don't recover from this reaction. New guys, learn from Footstep40's moment and the part that starts with "As I became more aware..."

Go ye forth and suck cock and have fun doing it!

I can't remember if I get hard while I'm sucking. I DO get extremely hard watching video of me sucking. I can't wait to a hard cock in my mouth again.

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Originally Posted by mwmcumslut

What has helped you find them? That's what I'm looking for as well. Just trying to minimize risks...

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Sniffies.com is a game changer…just used their free version first, now have paid. It is great at finding guys, especially if you are near a populated area. With paid you can post what you are looking for and you get a lot of responses……So I will post something like the following.

Need a married guy to come to my hotel room and cum in my mouth. Or need a married guy to come to my room…let me lick and suck your cock until you cum on my mouth.

I had been fantasizing about sucking cock for years before I got up the nerve to connect with another guy. The meet up was going really well, with lots of stroking and nipple play. I was really turned on but a still nervous about sucking his cock, wondering if I would like it, would his cum taste good or awful, would I be grossed out. I just let the moment takre me and dropped on my knees and took his cock in my mouth. All that anxiety was for nothing. I loved the feel of it it in my mouth. A little later, while I was stroking him, he indicated he was about to cum. I hesitated briefly, until I saw the first drop of cum appear at the end of his cock, and then just went for it. Took him as deep as I could in my mouth, sucked and tongued his cock, while his cum spurted into my mouth. It tasted great!

Not me I sucked my cousin off then swallowed his nut. We traded blowjobs for years after that.