Regular vs Random

I want to find one person on a regular basis. Multiple hookups with multiple men is unsafe in my opinion. Better to have one trusted person.

I've done a few randoms over the years but would love to find a regular that you can build trust with. Seems to be too much risk with randoms.
Ideally I'd love to find a married guy that gets turned on by chatting about our unaware wives and ending with some long and hot M2M activities.

There is no denying that random hookups are exciting, but finding a regular someone is safer and can be exciting in its own way.

I am married and developed a friendship with another married guy. We just enjoyed hanging out together with no thought of anything sexual. Things changed one day when we confided to each other that our wives had lost interest in sex. This led to many discussions of sexual topics, including masturbation and our sexual pasts.

We both acknowledged that we had bisexual experiences when we were younger, and we slowly began thinking and eventually talking about a possibility of getting together. We had some steamy conversations, and one day he suggested we jack off together. I found the idea appealing, but I got a surprise. We were having a great time stroking and having a hot conversation and he suddenly came over to me, got on his knees and started sucking me. I wasn't expecting it but didn't resist. It felt so good to have a wet, warm and skilled mouth sucking my dick! I had been fairly close to cumming already and it wasn't long before I spurted into his mouth.

HIs cock was still hard and as soon as he finished, I started to suck him and continued until I felt him cumming into my mouth. I swallowed every drop -- as he had. We put our cocks away and started talking about what we had done and how much we enjoyed it. Soon he was unzipping me and sucking me again, and I reciprocated.

This started a long mutual cucksucking relationship. We continued to talk about sexual things as well. and we confided fantasies to each other. They were pretty vanilla fantasies at first but we eventually began to talk about kinky fantasies we had both had for years. This led to our enjoying kinky things that had fascinated us both for years.

So my "regular" person became much more exciting and fun than many, many random hookups would have been.