that is so hot. What is it about the submissive aspect?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rest85
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that is so hot. What is it about the submissive aspect?Quote:
Originally Posted by Rest85
I sucked my first dick when I was 13 and was never able to stop. Combination of the thrill, the taste the accomplishment. Just something too hard to describe. Nothing at all like it but be prepared to be in it for the long haul.
for me personally, when I suck a cock it is the moaning that gives me the most rush. Its feeling the cock throb in my mouth, Its how it jumps when I tease it. The feelings I get just from giving in to my desires. Knowing that what I am doing is driving someone wild.
And...
When he cums, its not just the ejaculant that is a rush for me, Its listening to him gasp for air, his heavy breathing, his stuttered moans. Its feeling his body quiver and quake as he thrusts forward, giving me even more of himself just before he collapses to the floor in a heap of complete satisfaction.
Him giving me his precious load is just reward for a job well done
but thats just me
I was eating pussy long before I ever sucked a cock and it is such a thrill to make her cum while eating her. I found the same thrill sucking cock and making him cum
once you find the right guy it is a real trip. coming to this later and it is such a rush to be providing good head to another man. nothing like it.
I love oral, woman or man. I love a cock in my mouth, licking and sucking on the shaft and head. My old buddy would begin to moan and move his hips, I knew I was doing good, when he got close he got more verbal and heavy breathing. That was encouragement to me and he would thrust as he was cumming, sometimes I would keep him deep in my mouth at the back of my throat, other times just the head in so I could feel it on my tongue all hot and creamy, Sure wish I could suck my own
I can't explain why I love the role of being submissive while sucking cock. In my day to day public life I don't tolerate taking anyone's shit, so to speak. I treat other guys with respect and I expect to be treated with respect while doing business with someone or when with friends. BTW, my friends don't know about my secret sub cocksucker side.Quote:
Originally Posted by coleb5791
But when I connect with a guy to suck his cock I let him know ahead of time that I am the sub.
A lot of guys don't say a word while having their cocks sucked and that's fine. But the first time I met a guy who teased me with statements like, "you want to suck that dick, don't you?" "You like the way that cock feels?" "Suck it slut, slut", I loved it. It made me feel so dirty and slutty and I knew I would always want that.
Now, whether a guy is verbal with me or not, I always stop to tell him, "I love sucking a hard dick" "Am I sucking it good?" (I know...bad grammar)
Sometimes I will ask, "Are you going to 'make' me swallow your cum?" It really, really turns me on to play the role of a guy who is being 'made' to suck cock. I find that most guys like it when they realize the can call me a faggot or cumslut, then hear me moan out my approval.
And, no, I didn't have any experience being 'made' to suck someone's cock when younger. I didn't start out craving the role of sub. It has developed over time. My girlfriends and ex wife would have taken offense if I called them a slut or cocksucker/cumwhor, etc. but I always wanted to. Now, I find that the things I wanted to do with my women during oral sex is exactly what I want said or done to me while I am sucking dick.
What is the psychology of that, the reason I want it and seek it out? I have no clue.
"Use' me and 'make' me take your cum in my mouth and I'll thank you afterwards every time.
Many guys, but especially straight guys seem surprised when I tell them, "Thank you for letting me suck your cock." or "Thank you for cumming in my mouth" Many straight guys don't get why a cocksucker is so grateful, but we both like that I have been their slut.
I a curious to know why I love it so much to be someone's oral sub. Regardless, I like being used.
And, oh...as an afterthought... I also love being sub when I'm licking pussy. If a girl wants to straddle me and use my tongue to grind on while saying, "You love licking that wet pussy, don't you?" it gives me the same overpowering feelings of lust.
I 100 % agreeQuote:
Originally Posted by Veryoralniceguy
This!!Quote:
Originally Posted by chongster
rest 85 , you took the words right out of my mouth , you cocksucker !
Because dicks are delicious. I find the ability to make a man feel good hot as well.
wow. Thank you for sharing. I love it! I think the idea of being a slut and doing taboo kinds turns me on. Wow. I need to suck a cock badQuote:
Originally Posted by Rest85
I think that most heterosexual women would disagree with you on sucking cock and the reward of cum being so desirable. At least in my experience. C’est la vie. Probably because it's been done in porn so much, and so badly from the point of view for women. I don't go much for throat fucking or when someone gags themselves so much on a cock that they're choking and spitting out when they finally pull the cock out of their throats. That to me just looks more like a medical emergency.
I do love passionate and sensual though. The biggest thing that gets me off is seeing my partner getting off. I love the way a tongue feels on my cock, slowly, passionately bringing me to the edge, and over to a nice orgasm. I'd love to look up into partner's eyes when I've got him on the edge of cumming too, then see his look as he loses his load into my mouth.
I think one of the differences between us guys and when women think about the ending of a blowjob, and why guys relish the ending where women seem to dread it is caused by the differences in our perspectives. Women are almost punished for their sexuality in our society. They're looked down on for being sluts and whores for doing what men are almost encouraged to do. They get punished by enjoying their sexual desires by an unwanted pregnancy. This, to me, seems to attach a dread to semen. It can develop into a revulsion to cum along with all the other bodily fluids of other people.
For us guys, the cum is produced out of the very part that's tingling the most when we cum. It's like it's an extension of the orgasm. The further, farther, and more that's produced is like an extension of our orgasm.
Your mileage may vary, but I think that's the biggest difference in how cum is viewed, and why it's women seem to dread the ending of a blowjob, where guys get into it so much.
Aside from the fact that it's just great sex, it's an exhilarating change of pace to break out of my everyday decision-making masculine persona. When giving myself to a man, the only decision I have to make is choosing the man. From then on it's all about his pleasure, from which I get my pleasure. I prefer to be naked when I suck off another man because there's an intense feeling of vulnerability and femininity in taking off my clothes in preparation to please another man, and then standing there naked and ready to be taken as he walks in my door. Once my mouth is on his cock it becomes a sexual act not really that much unlike than any sexual act I've had with women. That is, until he cums. There's a passionate personal connection that takes place when a man is ejaculating inside my mouth. As he begins to orgasm I feel his sexual energy surging from his body into mine with each pulse of his cock and every spurt of his cum. When all of his cum is inside me and his cock begins to deflate that feeling of vulnerability and femininity returns. Then when the man is zipping up his pants and walking out my door, as well as hours later, the lingering taste of his cock and cum inside my mouth is a reminder that I let a man cum inside me. It's just so surreal. Ever since I sucked that first cock I'm constantly thinking about getting another one in my mouth.
For me it's sort of power thing -- at first it's the idea of being desired or the desire you feel for someone else -- then all the tension builds up during sex, knowing you are helping someone experience intense pleasure -- then the release -- it's like watching a storm brewing right? All that action, motion, desire, energy building up and then spraying out .. sometimes involuntarily, but always with the idea of pleasure in mind -- the rhythmic movements, the contractions, the pulsing, knowing someone has just surrendered to you -- in wave after wave of pleasure - during one of their most intimate and vulnerable moments ..
So true. Finding the right guy is important. For me, it was getting to suck the type of dick that I personally love and the man having the right chemistry that helped me feel relaxed and not shy to completely act on my impulses. Love smoking weed together and just tripping out while I worship a cock in a long drawn out blowjob. When the vibe is warm and right, the feeling of swallowing a man's cum at the end is so fucking amazing.Quote:
Originally Posted by stephmtl
I think every man on the planet needs a break from his masculine persona at times and have their own ways of doing that. I totally relate to your words. I love that feeling of vulnerability, getting naked with another man. It feels taboo, risky, perverted, but so thrilling. As men, we are naturally guarded and competitive with each other. It's in our biology of survival. In another context, you might fight a man to the death if you were in war. A man is a dangerous animal. I get so aroused by making myself vulnerable to that threat. To me, it might feel like the same rush someone gets if they get up close with a tiger or animal that could rip them apart if the animal wanted to. That feeling of danger and vulnerability keeps you on edge and truly in the present moment. I can say that with women, it's easy to not be in the moment and let your mind wander, but with men, I have always felt totally engaged in the present, which is when you are truly alive the most. I tend to seek out men that are masculine and dominant because I enjoy the feeling of being overpowered and controlled by someone else. Even if he doesn't act that way, just knowing that he could if it came down to it makes it so erotic. Getting to experience his male energy as you said is so intoxicating, and the feeling of intimacy and personal connection is so pleasurable when you feel that male energy, in the form of his semen, spraying into your mouth. I have told men before to manhandle me a bit, to "make me" eat their cum. I enjoy the feeling that if I don't do what he says, or I let him down in any way and disappoint him, that there is the threat that he might hurt me. I like feeling that threat under the surface as it makes me feel even more vulnerable, which is the key to feeling the most intimacy...which is what we all want as humans.Quote:
Originally Posted by licyou69
What an insightful and engaging reply! I feel the same way, with the additional idea of abandoning all daily.responsibilities other than my top's pleasure. And when he explodes in my mouth or up my ass my reward is his pleasure. And yes, there is a thrill in the fear of his reaction to disappointment, but "man handling" is off the table. Talk to me yes, but rough housing is going to get you hurt. I may be a submissive bottom, but still I'm letting you into me and enveloping you with my body. Feel free to imagine you're "taking" me, but I still control that little part of the scene.Quote:
Originally Posted by camelblue
It is the natural essence of life itself.
I used to be an accomplished cunnilinguist to the point that women would tell their friends. I even serviced several adult "family members". It was enjoyable, intimate and extremely satisfying to have my mouth at the opening of a woman's cunt, where all life begins.
I had many bi experiences growing up and enjoyed frequently pleasuring my buddy's dicks and swallowing their yummy loads but it wasn't until I hooked up with a gay male that I began to understand that while the cunt gives birth, it is mostly internal and receptive in design.
The penis juts outside the body, throbbing and swollen and erect and at its base, deep in its ball sacks lies the nectar that creates life. The penis is external and designed to penetrate and deposit it's seed deep inside the receptacle once the penis is properly aroused.
Being a cocksucker, the idea of my mouth "receiving" the penetrating penis like my mouth IS a vagina, a pussy, a cunt and accepting his seed and swallowing it creates the alternative to the essence of life and tells the essence of faggotry.
I love cock and cum and the act of being a submissive cocksucker worshipping another man's penis just completely satisfies my need.
And it's hot to come home with the taste of his cum still in your mouth and kiss her.Quote:
Originally Posted by DLazguy
For me it's same as eating a lady. Enjoying the act and bringing them pleasure. I actually get off more from the yelling and body shaking than the juice.
some men love the reward of cum so much they will suck another guy against there will and take there cum. a random guy pulled my dick out and sucked it untill i cummed in his mouth.
I've done that once. It was a rush. I want to get spit roasted and filled at both ends and then go home and fuck my wife. Have her rim me as I'm filled with cum.Quote:
Originally Posted by Leobloom