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The problem for me as a want to be cocksucker is that I'm married and retired. Married is a full time job, retired means I don't get out much. The pandemic means we spend most of our time together which is why I'm not getting out. I don't want her to know and I don't think she wants to either. Medical issues have arisen over the years and now I have problems with my immune system too but I'm living in hope for one more chance at sucking cock again. LOL.
Yes, they want to spend time with you on holidays and to know you are always thinking about them. I haven't met a cocksucker yet that was put out because I didn't call him on his birthday. Or did anything other than show his appreciation that I came by to visit on short notice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tag200
yeah I have had a girlfriend on and off for years and very complicated… thinking sucking cock might be better and less hassleQuote:
Originally Posted by Jozyxt
I’m a married cocksucker and my wife loves it. She enjoys watching men have sex, live action and in video, she’ll play with her pussy watching mm play, she explodes during the anal scenes.
I have a wonderful wife.
I know how you feel as I have been trying to find a guy here in Phoenix to practice my blow job skills on for a while. You would think that Phoenix would be easy to find someone. But nothing so far.Quote:
Originally Posted by bikurinpa
Let's talk, I can't host but would like very much to suck that nice cock of yours.Quote:
Originally Posted by Tag200
Yes you do!.....you and me both actually...:tongue:Quote:
Originally Posted by NWMichCPL
Mae have emailed before , j in can’t host either so not many options .. feel free to email me again thoughQuote:
Originally Posted by averagejoe33
That's hot as hell! I love a woman who loves to suck cock. I can relate to her!Quote:
Originally Posted by Rvdude05
My wife's loss of sexual desire has brought out my bi feelings that I've had since I was a young lad and sucked my friends uncut cock! Now those tendencies are floating back to the surface! I don't believe men even as we age never lose that sexual drive!
My first time sucking a cock, ended with me on my way back to work(lunch hour)gagging and dry heaving, I thought I will never do that again.....two hours later I got to thinking about it, and thought, it really wasnt that bad...the next day i was back at his house with his cock in my mouth, been addicted now for 12 years
Hi, altho her drive died long ago, we were active with a couple that we bi before that. spent many nights enjoying time with them. sometimes just the wifes, or just us guys. 3somes depended on everyones mood. was a great time for all
Her idea?...sure it wasn't more like a heated discussion about something entirely unrelated, that ended with here saying "Oh, go eat a dick!"...?...lolQuote:
Originally Posted by atxbi
It definitely played into it. My wife knew I loved sucking cock before we were married and found it very erotic. She wasn?t interested in participating so, the opportunity to indulge didn?t come up often and we enjoyed an active sexual life. Menopause began and ended with her having some challenges with sex that led to frustration for her. Her desire is there but the work that goes into it has become a deterrent. Less frequent sex for me and I was constantly thinking about it. I would never pursue another woman beyond the massage with a happy ending. I started jerking off more but wanted some variety. That led to curiosity about anal sex and the purchase of my first dildo. That just got me desiring cock more. She is cool with it since it?s not competition for her.
I love to suck cock and swallow cum and my wife loves it as well
thats exactly my problem too. Damn immune system and this virus. Not a good comboQuote:
Originally Posted by twilde1952
My wife and I have a great sex life. It helps we both are BI and enjoy each other.
However here in North East PA, we have alot of phonies and creeps. Guys who say they are BI but only want to get with the wife.
I love sucking cock and really would love to find a BI guy or BI cpl we can have a lasting friendship with.
hasnt happened yet
I Truly love Giving Guys a nice long sloppy blowjob. I?m very Str8 Acting & a closeted Bi Man. Either way, I?ve been sucking dick for about 14 years now & don?t regret having my mouth stuffed with some Nice Thick Cock. I?ve even swallowed a few Guys & I always enjoy how their Bodies squirm when they cum down my throat, There?s nothing Better!!!
Good times!Quote:
Originally Posted by Into_it_all
I was in the same situation. We were exploring swinging and wanted me to try it because I had wanted to see her with another woman. Loved it and regretted that I hadn't tried it earlier in my life. Nothing quite like the feeling of a cock in your mouth going off.Quote:
Originally Posted by atxbi
After my wife passing, from fighting Cancer for 3 years. I had lost most all interest in things sexual, giving or getting for about a year or so. I initially found other women to date from time to time but there were to many games going on and a lot of the time, I found that a of the women were truthful! So eventually I began to develop my bisexual side and especially the oral sex features, not so much the ass fucking. I took the plunge and met up with other males and I did let a guy suck my cock and I ended up sucking his as well. That opened up the floodgates as I can now enjoy both getting oral from women and men but also give guys great blowjobs. Over the years I developed some very good oral talents. That was before Covis-19, and I do miss being with others. Other than the pandemic I been fighting to have my knees replaced so it been a very long time since I have sucked a cock, and I do miss it. Soon I will have one knee and then the other and once I have recover, I do hope to get together with others. I never had a problem with most married guys!
Older Married, she and I both have very high sex drives, desires and activity. She knows I love cock and fantasize about it. Sex has not dropped off, but increased as well as intensity for she and I. Her love, passion, desire and being her makes me more erotically desiring erotic estacy life offers those who desire it. She is my whole reason for anything I do, she is my world.
It IS very arousing for me! When I place an ad, looking for a cock to suck, I always say I am seeking a married guy in part because I love to suck dick with no expectation of recip and in part because I feel married guys would be likely to keep our secret.Quote:
Originally Posted by GayGuy04
I was married and now a widower. After my wife passed i date several women as Fred said to much drama for me. I had sucked some cock in my younger years so decided to give it a try again. I found I enjoy sucking cock. I prefer married men that just want a good blowjob. I do not want or need in any reciprocation just enjoy sucking cock and getting a nice load of cum. I'm a normal guy that likes sucking cock.
you sound like my kinda guy lol^^
The world need more men like you. It so hard to find a guy that can host and isn't a flake.Quote:
Originally Posted by travelmanNW
Im in the same boat and as my wife had a hesterectory she now hates sex and Ive been without for 5 years. Im in Eastern Ky and sure would like to meet a like minded person.
I had been bi-curious for 30 years or so. Almost a year ago I discovered my wife was having an affair. The first thing I said was, "maybe I should explore my bi side." It just slipped out! I think it was in part that I wanted to experience something she could never give me...the opportunity to suck a cock. I have now experienced five different guys and one of them is semi-regular every couple months or so.
My wife is going through all sorts of stuff, coming off of giving birth to our three kids and the trauma of that to her body and mind, finally weaning the last baby, now a sort of midlife crisis, and rebelling against some of the religious indoctrination she received as a girl, etc. So, yes, she does have a lower sex drive (mine has always been way higher) but it is at its lowest ever right now...almost asexual. So, as so many have shared, HER sex drive, or lack thereof, did not make me bi, but it did definitely get me to the point I was willing to explore outside our relationship and get my sexual needs met in other ways.
This a recurring theme I see over and over through the years ,that is , guys finding that they can get sexual relief without the encumbrance of another woman even some cases the wife is OK with it as well.
And MM play doesn't threaten your marriage. Or at least doesn't have to.
Obviously a lot of variables here, depending upon the individuals-involved and the type of marriage that they've enjoyed. In a lot of cases the wife could be horrified at finding that her husband could or would even contemplate such a thing, even if it never came to fruition. It could mean instant separation or divorce.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jozyxt
But in others, like mine, it can work. My wife is ok with my indulging in MM play, even MM play that involves me crossdressing. She simply loves me for the person that I am, and knows that I want real cock, not a dildo.
I highly doubt that her tolerance would extend to my being with another woman, though. So I've never even contemplated that!
Old, Married, and not getting any either. I'm certain a man on the side wouldn't adversely affect our relationship.
I flirt with women all the time, but hide behind my ring. Many women like to feel appreciated that way - even ones that don't want to have a/another man in their life intimately.
A woman on the side had always been messy for everyone involved with the exception of the 'winning' female sometimes.
My wife has known I am Bi since before we were married. I'm pretty sure that she knew about my previous sexual relationship with a male friend. Nothing changed at home even though she and I were fucking and sucking at the time. (She has only sucked me off once, and made it clear she didn't like it, but she did swallow.)
I love cock and crave sex with a warm person, but would like it to be a safe comfortable relationship whether he wants it mutual or just to get off.
I have a good relationship with another man at work, and at times it seems he might be into it. At least I don't think he'd out me for trying. Time may tell.
Being not into sex, and secure in our relationship she probably just wouldn't want to hear a blow by blow commentary on it, but it may spark some desire. She was interested in watching me with another man and not join in once before we were married. Too bad he wasn't into it.
The main thing is that men who are swapping cock aren't looking to be wined and dined before sex. You don't have to spend time with them on the holidays or take them out for romantic dinners on their birthday. They just want to suck cock. The other stuff is for gay couples although I suppose you could find a gay guy that falls for you and wants a relationship that would be on the rare side.Quote:
Originally Posted by SilkyHoseLover
Top 10 reasons why a bi-male lover is better than a mistress:
10) He doesn't mind if you'd rather watch the game than talk.
9) A male lover is always up for anal OR oral.
8) You don't have to worry about being seen in public with him.
7) He's always got beer in his fridge.
6) He doesn't expect you to leave your wife for him.
5) It's totally cool if you don't buy him jewelry.
4) No monthly "downtime".
3) Your bisexual side guy can relate to your women troubles.
2) He won't resent the time you spend at the gym, golfing, fishing, working on your car etc.....he may even join you.
and the #1 reason a bi-male lover is better than a mistress......you can borrow his clothes without being accused of cross dressing!
I tried sucking cock twice and didnt enjoy it. I did realize i really enjoyed being sucked by a grown man. Now, at 60 yo i wish i could find a decent married cocksucker i just dont know how to start or where to look.
Not taking off our rings was an ongoing joke with us.Quote:
Originally Posted by stonebow
I have to say I have been experiencing wife having no interest in sex as well. She is going through menopause so I am assuming that is mostly why. Prior to this we had a great sex life always exploring. We starting roleplaying threesomes with dildos and lots of me fuck licking her to orgasm. She would always feed me the dildo after she would orgasm all over it. She also did some anal play while licking me with her finger teasing or small anal toy. We would share who we would love to try it with. From her BFF to some male friends we both knew. Just as she was coming on 49 when when it slowed down alot then now to a dead stop.
Now I feel like I need to try my bi side.. but with whom. Needs to be soo discreet and no STDs .. it just seems so overwhelmingly huge challenge. Hoping we get back into it again. soon.
I could enjoy a married guy who's curious or enjoys a guy licking and sucking him past his orgasm and let's go
Double list is loaded with cocksuckers eager for a feeder. If you can host, there will be plenty married men who will drop by for a dram. Adam for Adam is a bit of a mess, but I have found some cocksuckers there too.Quote:
Originally Posted by FriskyGent
I want to try sucking a cock for my first time and going nuts thinking about it