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wow thanks, u really put some thought into this. i know my goal in sex at least with the opposite sex, is to do whatever i can to please her. my pleasure is worthless if i don't make her have at least as much as me. otherwise i might as well j/o. i haven't figured out yet if this is what i want with the same sex too.
Yes,Sysper.. pleasing the other is a super turn on.. One woman put it this you must learn to listen to the body of your partner. Feel their response.. vagina, penis, breathing facial expressions small body movements. You do it too when you are getting stimulated.. it's a conversation in touch.. pay attention to tone of voice words feelings.. Don't try to figure out how the other feels with your mind.. focus on your feelings and let them guide you in your movements and touch..
I met this guy a while back.. all he wanted was someone to suck him off regular.. I was like, sign meup.. lol.. anyway i just held his soft cock and squeezed it gently till i felt the pressure back up and jsut pump it's like playing on a awing a little extra push each time and it gets higher. then let it back and bring them down again..
Well said and I agree completely. I just want to enjoy it as much as he does and not be worried about time.Quote:
Originally Posted by silkyhoselover
I will suck cock as long as it takes to get his sweet cum in my mouth. I have been known to suck cock for up to an hour, alternating between his cock and balls using my mouth, lips, tongue and hands. I like being between a man's legs and I love to suck cock.
The main thing is don't be selfish. Let him enjoy what your doing as much as you enjoy doing it. We he does cum, it will be more enjoyable for both of you.
it is much more about how much cum do you get as opposed to how much time.
I love your answer and quite agree. Wish you were closer so we could enjoy one another.
These days I only suck on a limp penis to get to it hard for my wife. The objective is that he can fuck her, and then cums in her, and not in me.
I've only sucked a few cocks, for maybe 5 or 6 minutes each. It was usually a quick blow and go type of situation where I was the recipient. I've reached a new stage in my bisexual life a couple years ago and decided that I want to completely embrace my bi side and really enjoy being with men. That being said, I mainly want to suck and bottom for now. I want to experience worshipping another man's cock. I want to lick and suck on his balls and take my time milking every drop out of him. I really enjoy having a hard cock in my mouth. I hope I can find a fwb to wants to play often.
How long do I really want to suck before he cums? Ideally, anywhere between 30 seconds and 15 minutes and you might be laughing at the 30 seconds thing but the guys who came in my mouth in 30 seconds didn't think it was funny. Not since I had a boyfriend have I taken any longer than 15 minutes to suck a guy off; with him - and since we lived together - I could take all the time I wanted to suck his beautiful dick. Any- and everyone else? The sooner I can get them off - or they can get me off - the better so we both can get back to other things and even if that's going to the next guy to do more sucking.
Obvious, how long it's going to take him to cum is a whole different thing and especially if he jerked off before he got to me (which I can't stand, by the way)...
I was turned into a slut one day at the adult theater. Back row, aisle. Guy stands next to me with cock out and playing with it. I did nothing for awhile. He then started rubbing it on my left cheek of my face. I couldn't stand not sucking so I turned my head and let him enter my mouth. %-maybe 6 minutes later and I had 4 guys around me and one sitting next to me jerking his meat. There was a guy standing between my knees , cock out jerking away. The "turn on" factor maxed out and I came in my pants without touching my cock at all! When I cum...I lose the mood. Bummer!!!! I had to get up and go to the mens room to clean up. I was done.
5 to 10 minutes for me. By then it's either cum in my mouth a stick that cock in my horny ass!
I am in it to get hot cum in my mouth to swallow. So the quicker it is done the better, then I can move to the next one. i also prefer smaller cocks as they are easier to work, and tend to cum faster. I guess taking longer could provide more cum, but I think the guys I have sucked off (only 5) were jerking off/playing for a while before we met. Give me the cum!!!
I find that the answer varies widely. Some guys come pretty quickly when receiving oral sex, while others take a surprisingly long time to orgasm. It depends in part on the guy, how long we've been going at it, how aroused everybody is and how aggressively I'm sucking.
For what it's worth, I enjoy giving oral sex. I can't do it with just anybody. There has to be a certain chemistry and level of trust that isn't always there. When it feels right and I'm properly motivated, it's sort of a treat, something I look forward to and which, sadly, doesn't happen all that often. I find anything less than five minutes is kind of disappointing. After, say, 15 minutes the act becomes kind of tedious and I find myself asking if he's getting close. And after 20 minutes or so, I start to wonder if I'm doing something wrong. I sucked one guy's cock for about 70 minutes, and actually started getting a sore jaw.
In my experience, around 10 minutes seems to be ideal, the perfect balance between to short and too laborious. There are, of course, times when I want the other fellow to cum quickly, and I can generally make that happen by varying my tempo and technique.
About 20 30 minutes would be great but no one last longer then 5 with me ,I am pretty good at what I do. I just use my mouth and tongue.
It depends, sometimes my boyfriend cums really quick, I know just what to do to him to make that happen. Sometimes I give him a “slow job”, which drives him wild as well, he enjoys it and I enjoy doing it. That usually happens when we’re watching something that I am not interested in, or have seen before.
I really enjoy the sucking, licking and stroking a nice cock so I want it to last awhile. Like someone else mentioned it depends on the situation and where you are playing. I'd prefer to have us both completely naked laying comfortably on the bed while I lay on the bed and worship his cock. Taking my time and edging him over and over. This seems to bring the more intense orgasms and more powerful loads. On the other hand I've met a couple guys off sniffles where I pull up next to their car in a busy parking lot at night. I get in the passenger seat and they already have their cock out stroking and I take over. My mouth is usually on it within a minute. One guy was super quick. The whole encounter was about 5 minutes from the time I parked until I got back in my car to leave..and that was one of the more fun times I've ever had .
Whether I'm going down on a cock or a pussy I tend not to be terribly "goal oriented". I enjoy the process of the pleasure giving and like to stretch it out a bit - anything under 15 minutes feels rushed. I want to savour what I'm pleasuring...
My attention span isn't long and neither is stamina at my age. Start approaching 30 minutes and I'm ready to move on to other things, plus my neck and shoulders are getting stiff. I'm on my knees to get your nut, not have a marathon session.
I am a cock sucker and love sucking taking my time. For me having a cock in my mouth I am in a euphoria feeling. Love licking from his balls to the tip of his cock. I love teasing his cock making him moan with pleasure. I have found that the longer you tease his cock you get more pre-cum and bigger loads. I love bring him to the edge of cumming then back off and start it again. Then when he finely erupts filling my mouth with his man juice, I suck harder and don?t stop till he tells me that?s enough because he is to sensitive but I still lick his cock lightly. I get off on making the guy shake and quiver with pleasure.
In the 5-7 minutes crowd. It?s amazing how long 10-15 minutes is when you?ve nothing else to do.
the first cock I ever sucked seem to take FOREVER. It probably wasn?t much longer than 10-15 and I varies between sucking and stroking while he just laid there. (Older guy, had trouble staying hard I think). I eventually started thinking about what I was going to do later that night and letting my mind wander to the most mundane things. I thought after ?is this what women feel like??
I got to find out why girls didn't like or want to suck our dick, from us not knowing how to act right to it takes too long for us to shoot to ew, that stuff tastes nasty. Even I began to notice that if it was taking longer than ten minutes, my mind would start to wander, and I might be thinking about finding another guy I could suck, and it wasn't going to take "all day" for him to shoot his stuff into my mouth. All of this before I became an adult and, yeah, the trend would continue into adulthood; I would be able to 'compare notes' with women about this and, yeah, we were pretty much on the same page about it sometimes taking way too long for a guy to bust a nut and by the time he does, whatever thrill we might have had to give a blowjob had long since gone away and now we're just finishing it on GP - except, many a woman said that if that motherfucker takes longer than ten minutes, they'd just stop and if he didn't like it, too goddamned bad!
I learned not to like those guys who'd jerk off before we met...
One of our fwb likes to stop by and get his dick sucked or even more. He's younger, 30's. A completely normal guy with a job and a hard on when the wind blows. We sit down, start some naughty talk, watch porn over a glass of wine. Not long and we're all naked. Sometimes we get the massage table out. He lays down and I start playing his cock. Porn is till running on our tv and my wife finds it so very exciting that she sucks my cock while I suck his cock. He does enjoy it! His dick is rock hard and his low hanging balls are gently massaged in my hands and pulled upwards till he moans. Time goes by. His excitement is building up and he fights to cum too early. It takes about +/-15 minutes when he can't resists anymore and blows his big and sticky load right into my mouth, on my face and all over his cock. Right that moment of orgasm I gently keep sucking him and clean up his cum. My wife is still watching with my dick in her hand. Some minutes later our fuck buddy is fully relaxed, happy and completely emptied with a smile on his face. Soon after he left, driving home and feeling good. I am turning on my wife putting her on our bed, spread her legs and stick my hard meat right into her wet and tight pussy. She starts moaning and massaging her clit while I fuck her good. Some dirty talk about what good whore she is does usually make her cum in minutes. I keep fucking and talking which makes her cum over and over again. My excitement is built up all the way and I can't hold it no more. Finishing a big load, a really big load all over her pussy. Yes I am a big cummer. Thinking back that moment of all the hot sex we all enjoyed together, I am cleaning up my wife's cum spattered pussy licking her till she cums again.
I do enjoy sucking his cock and I never get in a hurry. I enjoy the feeling of his cock in my hands and in my mouth. He gets so hard and starts to moan and I just ease up a bit to prolong my good time.
I love a quick cummer. The last guy I sucked, yesterday, came in about 2-3 minutes. It was a huge load that he’d been saving for the last 4 days. I’d say typically around 5-10 minutes is best for me but I have a couple regulars that cum within 1-2 minutes.
That amount of time works well for me, too. It's not that my jaw gets tired as much as that my lips start 'giving way' if you know what I mean. When my lips get tired it's very likely that my teeth will inadvertently come into play.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sundazzled
4-7 minutes of keeping my lips sealed around that hard dick and I'm ready to be fed warm cum.
Of course, if the guy wants to stop and rub that dick over my lips or around on my face while I lick his balls, then I might last a good bit longer, but I don't want the act to start becoming tedious. I like to be in a lusty state of arousal when he gets off.
Yes! Those quick cummers are not a disappointment for me, although I have had a few guys that shot off about the time I started sucking. That was a bit of a let down. I do want to have a few minutes to enjoy being a good sub slut.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shyguy1376
Damn, I had to check to make sure I didn't post these comments! "I really enjoy the feeling of cock swelling and hearing his moans just before I feel his sweet cum squirt in my mouth"Quote:
Originally Posted by chub-bi
I am certain I typed those very same words many, many times here and elsewhere.
Mmmmm. If he's going to give me a steady stream of precum, I won't be sucking as much. He'll be looking down at me licking the precum off the tip of his dick..,.and hopefully he'll be smearing it all around on my lips from time to time, also.Quote:
Originally Posted by hung4you
Mmmm, yes. I love sucking his cock and making it last. Taking turns and tasting each other's precum then having him shoot a warm thick load in my mouth.Quote:
Originally Posted by Biguyincolorado
I have sucked guys who were on coke they would never cum I spent hours pleasing them for hours just keep feeding them coke and loved it.
When I get really turned on I can play for hours but the biggest thrill for me is making him cum so it doesn't matter if it happens sooner or later. Most of the guys I hook up with are bottoms that I fuck and I will give them a nice BJ as a reward if they want it.
I love it when guys cum quickly, recover, cum again, and repeat a few more times. I'd say 2-4 minute range but I'm okay when it goes longer the next few times. I love doing hand jobs along with it, I love feeling of everything.
It also depends on the guy. If he's someone I just picked up on an app or in a cruising spot because I want to suck some dick, then 5 to 10 mins is what I want. If it's in a cramped space like a car or an ABS booth, and my jaws are getting tired, I'll want him to cum faster. I'm really there just for the experience of feeling a hard cock in my mouth, and the feeling of win I get when I suck the load out of a man.
However, some guys I'm really really into. Then I just want to feel his cock in my mouth and don't care how long it takes him to cum. I want to suck him slow, enjoy the contours and texture of his cock, have him rub his cock all over my face, run my hands all over his body, perhaps to encourage him to fuck my mouth and throat and really get wild, or of course to fuck my ass long and slow if he's into it. If my jaws get tired we can maybe take a break, and cuddle or kiss, or feel our bodies against each other and explore, or even take a little nap. Those are the special ones.