I found a site that has data base of woman who like to peg men.
www.straponsingles.com
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I found a site that has data base of woman who like to peg men.
www.straponsingles.com
I love it when the girl i am with straps one on me. I like the control of her cock going in and out of me.. wish there were more
Well, Gear, lube would definitely help unless I was punishing you for something and then I'd withhold the lube :) Sorry, you don't get any pleasure from your prostrate, have you tried just normal massage rather than using toys? Yes, pegging a male with a strap CAN be very much like a dom male doing anal on a male. The key factor is the submission to the female dominant, it's a mind play for the sub that just can't be adequately expressed unless you are familiar with the scene. It's more mental sex than physical sex at times and there are various types of scenes that can be played that make it a pleasure for all involved.
There is a funny comedy- "Young people fucking":
http://video.soha.vn/watch/5/video/1...g-tanhthi.html
But the funnest is- men from Stimulation prostate and seminal vesigle- could have best orgasm- full body orgasm (like a women).
But 90% don't do it- it's a gay things.
Better orgasm is when they connect anal and penis stimulation at the same time, like:
http://www.bisexual.com/forum/showth...iddle-QUESTION
So when a man have waginal sex with one women, the other could peg him...
It probably is as Tenni said 'beyond someone who doesn't get the desire to be topped'. I was expecting everything to kick in and that would get me to want it.lol Haven't tried toys because the thought doesn't register. I can't associate it with sex. BUT I was fingered by surprise once, and that was nice.lol So like you say, it's more mental than physical. What I need is a dom woman who wouldn't take any crap off me.;)
Thanks Jobelorocks.
In my own particular case, I have no interest in receiving anal. I have no interest in being submissive and in particular that way. I was stage 3 pre cancer at one point and within months of full on colon cancer. I'm ok now and back to less frequent check ups but I'm not messing around down there. I might be curious enough to be rimmed one day but that is a different page.
I still am inclined to think that dominance plays a factor for some women who enjoy pegging. I enjoy taking the lead and pleasing my partners too whether they are female or male. They are not exclusive to each other. I don't mind a woman taking the lead at times but that is not connected to penetrating me.
Love it when a woman takes the dominant role but will always be the man.
Having being pegged I don't feel like I'm being submissive or anything. We do it cuz it excites us both. Now we have used her strap on but we have found a new way for us both to enjoy it. She uses a double headed dildo that is curved In a wide u shape she inserts one end into her, either hole, and the other end in me. She holds on to the toy and we each get the most pleasure out of it. That is what sex is all about.
Well, as a masculine male who enjoys being on the bottom, to me it's all about the moment, sometimes i like to be in charge, sometimes i like my partner to take charge, & sometimes i wanna be the meat in a sandwich. I have never been accused of being feminine or submissive...Just goes back to the old saying, If it feels good, DO IT !!! I've never felt feminized & never looked at the couple i was with as being dominant...just doing what feels good...end of story...lol...:2cents:
*Grins lecherously @ Gear* lol Ohhh Darlin, the things I'd show You...lol
Grinning Cat
I would add that sometimes a guy just likes the feeling of insertion because we all know that there is a lot of feeling back there. From experience, toys and other inanimate objects are definitely a turn on but it is difficult to concentrate on that feeling when you are the one doing the insertions. By having the female with the strapon however the guy can just lay back and enjoy and focus on the tremendous amount of pleasure she is giving him. Its not very often the guy is given opportunity to "just lay there". No pressure to "perform". i bet all men would enjoy it...they are just afraid to ask her to do it....
well call it pegging but i just call it what it is buttfucking and there is no debate on it you like it or you dont i enjoy it since my late wife done it to me over 30 years ago its no big deal either you like it or you dont
I think of myself as a Gay/Bi male
Although as a bi guy I love women and men
The truth about me is I'm Gay first, then Bi
I enjoy sex with women (or being top) but my all time turn on is being Bottom. I enjoy being plesured analy so most of my encounters are always with men.
If a woman is into Pegging then it makes it much more fulfilling for me.
I don't feel feminized by a female fucking me I just feel sexualy completed
From the ladies that have pegged me they seem to agree totally with Jobelrocks. Though I love it I am really as far away as you can get from Fem. One lady that I lived and played with for a couple of years, would always dress in her sexyest things when she wanted to peg me. The first time she did it she said that it gave her a feeling of power like she had never had.She got off several times doing me.Though it may sound contrary to that feeling, she said she never had the feeling of being the Dom. In fact everytime we did it she asked , can I fuck you, is this Ok with you, Is this good for you, is this the way that you like it? It was not she is the male I am the female. It was two sexually open minded people doing what thier partner likes.
As for me, I do not feel fem when I am being pegged. As far as I know none of the ladies I have played with in this manner were making me fem. I am a very masc guy that loves the feeling of a toy or a cock inside of me.
I do not care what they call it, or read into it. I believe that it is way too personal to make sweeping generalizations, about the guy being "Manly" vs. "Girly". It is highly based on a combination of factors. Fucking is fucking...............whatever you read into it is between those involved.
I like being taken with a strapon (don't like the term pegging) and I am bi, and I like being feminized. I feel very feminine when she fucks me and I like it. It makes me fee closer to her.
Thing is, she is not a true domme. She plays the role, but I have never been with a true domme. She and I would really like to have me be with one while she watches and/or participates and learns.
We also would like to find a regular bi boyfriend for both of us. Or a bi couple.
We have been doing this for a couple of years and both of us enjoy it very much. We're both a little submissive, but when she pulls out the strap on, she takes an entirely different role. We like the double strap on where we both get penetration, but really it's all about my pleasure. :) She really enjoys the occasional stint of really being in control and isn't afraid to get the belt out while bending me over. She calls it "pay back time" and I love being submissive for her.
My ex-wife really enjoyed strapping one on and riding me. It turned her on to see me getting it like how I'd give it to her. She was a mix of liking the femdom role a little bit, and pride in making me shoot like a fricking volcano. But like many women have said, she couldn't get any stimulation for her bits via the strapon. this was before the feeldoe.
My first gf after the divorce was so not into anything that was not plain vanilla. I found out when we went into an adult shop together, and we passed a mannequin with a harness and modest dildo on it. She stared, smirked, rolled her eyes and said, "how ridiculous is that?!" She was totally expecting me to agree with her. She had that look on her face, like, "..amirite?" Instead I deflected her and said, "oh yeah? wait til you see this," and pointed her at the Jenna Jameson vibrating pussy and ass torso thing, which she found hysterical and moved on from there. dodged that bullet.
We never went back to the strapon question thankfully. No matter, we were done in three months.
OT: It's so cool to be able to be in a conversation like this. I've only been a member for a few days now, but I feel at home....like I belong, and I finally can express openly this stuff I've been keeping secret for so fricking long :)
Don't go to sleep Guy's . It look like there are some women that are armed and dangerest !
Its all in fun and games , and the feeling of what you want !
lots and lots of comments and thoughts about this...always nice to come to the site and see all the various comments and experiences too.
I would have to agree with many who commented that it doesn't matter whether one feels more feminized or masculine, etc etc etc....that the pleasure one derives from the experience is the most important thing.
I will say though that I have felt very feminine when I'm being pegged by a woman or fucked by a man...and I LOVE it. Obviously not having a vagina, but based on the intensity of sensations from receiving anal and my prostate being stimulated, it's made me wonder what it might feel like to have a vagina too...
By feeling feminine when I receive anal, it doesn't mean that I am effeminate in my daily and social behavior. It's only in those moments of getting pegged by a woman or fucked by a guy....
my late wife used her strap-on on me several times. we both enjoyed it alot. however neither of us thought of me as a pussy or fem,nor thought of her as a butch. it was just an awesome part of our sex life.
I begin anal play on my husband because I knew it would feel good. The immense pleasure I receive from anal was something I wanted to share with him so I slowly introduced him to it. Over time he relaxed and went with it, now thanking me for not only the massive but also multi orgasms he has.
It has never been about anything but pleasing each other and watching each other do ourselves or getting done.
We do not over complicate, it is as simple as we do it because we enjoy it, we love to watch it because it gets us off. It’s Hot, it looks & feels AMAZing, and brings about Massive Multi-Orgasms!
What ever , to be pleased or to please ! What ever feel good ! ! ! ! ! ! The Norm or not ! ! ! ! ! !
Rhevan
I can not agree more with you.I( was looking for a way to say just want you have here.Thanks you gave my brain a rest.
I have had a "being pegged" fantasy for a long time and then last summer, I met a woman who also had that fantasy. We went to the toy store and bought a strap-on for her to use on me and more lube. It was an awesome experience for both of us, since the strap-on has a small dildo and an egg vibrator for her pleasure too! Now to find another girl like her that doesn't have a boyfriend...
I don't feel in any way feminized when being pegged. Every woman I have ever been pegged by did it cause its fun, kinky and most important because they wanted to please me.
I am a straight male that met a girl at a bar one night and she told me her fantasy was that she wanted to peg a guy and I am adventurous so I let her do me.She used a big 9" one and it hurt at first but after a while I got used to it and it started to feel so good, she fucked me for about an hour and afterwards let me fuck her ass. This was a first time for me and it was incredible on both counts. I have been seeking a girl since that would do me. I am not looking for guys, I am not attracted to them, I love women and hope to find a girl that would be interested in doing me in the Dallas Tx area if there are any of you interested in this, just contact me.
no submissive power play just enjoyable sex
Any girls in the chicago area that want to peg a guy ? Message me :)
You are so right. I love what it does to my P spot( prostate). I have never felt the least bit Fem and none of the ladies I have played with were into making me so. Hell I am riding one right now. Am I trying to feminize myself. I am an Alpha male that just happens too love the feel of a toy inside of me, when I lady has it strapped on, more than any other way. Right now I am just enjoying the feeling of fullness and the pressure against my P spot.
Cool thread.
To answer your first question, for me it's not a feminizing or submissive thing it's just for my pleasure and my partners. Just another way of enjoying sex.
To answer your second question, and this answer applies to a woman who I dated years ago. My current partner and I have not explored pegging (yet). She got very hot watching gay porn where one guy was f**king another. She also got very hot sliding a dildo into my ass. It was just something that really got her going. She also wanted to watch another guy f**king me.
One of the ladies that have pegged me did cum several times while pegging me the first time. She wanted to do it at least one time a week for the couple of years we were together. She said it gave her such a sense of power. None that I have played with seemed to think that I was submissive that I know of. All but one lady wanted to and did it more than one time. She also got off doing it but did not want to again.
I had a g/f who like to peg me. It was something we both wanted. She likes anal, cums from it. Wanted to share the experience with me. I loved it! I Came hard when she ‘fucked’ me. I didn’t feel feminine at all. Still a man, just exploring sexual experiences. An open mind is a good thing in bed ! More men should be open minded and try ITC, it’s amazig. Being taken that way is different and she and I both felt new things not to mention the best orgasms ever.
Think I would fall into this same sentiment. Know I've protested of not using toys in the past. Have seen a bit of pegging porn and even if it is a bit submissive, it's no more so than letting another guy f**k you in the ass. I think if you're with someone you enjoy being with then all the labels kind of fall away.
45, Bi M, westmont IL, would like to find a FWBs who enjoys clean fun. Enjoys, foreplay, 69, making out, Jo. And can help de-virinizing my ass. Is that you?