Don't know any other bisexuals, i have only come out to my wife recently
this site does help me
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Don't know any other bisexuals, i have only come out to my wife recently
this site does help me
Hoping to meet other bisexuals. :flag3:
I have been bi curious since I was 17. I have been married and had girlfriends who never really understood my curiosity. Well, I now have met a woman who is also bi. At first I was still wanting to "hide" my bi curious side from her, but she has brought it to the surface. She is the one who found this site and put our profile on it. She's been surfing the net to find other sites where we might meet folks that have similar interests as she and I. I am somewhat shy until I get to know you, then look out! Hopefully one day my curiosity will become a reality. Thanks all for this great site! :) ;)
Well I came here by accident... I don't know what to expect, it's too early to say anything. Hope to find people to talk to. People like me. :bibounce:
Stubbled on to it by accident thank god, and feel like I found a home, support and finally the right place to be !!
Like many other posts I had been alone and frustrated for a long time. GREAT SITE, and despite my newness, from all appearances a Great Community.
Well, I came here by accident, looking for a place to chat. I checked it out and thought about joining and finally decided too. At first I was very excited to talk to people who feel like I do, but lately I've found that not many people want to talk to me, and I've found that some people that I've been talking to for months just stopped talking to me altogether after I put up my pictures. I mean, I know I'm not attractive (although my gf always tells me I am), but I think it's really mean to quit talking to someone just because you think they look bad, and none of them even just straight out told me, they just stopped. I'm losing my faith in this site and trying to make new friends is harder and harder.
I live in a small city, with only a couple of people on here from the city or around it and they're either not who I'm looking to talk to or aren't interested, and some won't even have to courtesy to respond. When I look outside my zone to talk to people from different states and areas they don't respond either, and I just feel even worse about my appearance or my profile or me.
Despite my lack of luck I am so glad that so many of you have found this place a wonderful place to meet and talk to people. I just wish I could say the same. It is a great community, definitely, but it's just not working for me I guess. I've met a few good people here and I know them to be good people, but slowly they've stopped talking, or they just started to get to know me and I'm afraid they'll stop talking to me.
Lol, enough of my sob story. Sorry to take up so much space, I wish you all luck and this is a great place to be!
-Roger :bigrin:
searching for something, but I don't know what. I'm married (long time) wife is a "good ol gal' but is straight-laced, and I'm all over the place sexually. I've had affairs with both female and male partners, and I find that I enjoy being with both (almost) equally. I've gone to gay sites and chatrooms and there's where i found my male 'fun', but i hate the 'horniness' (is that a word) of the gay guys that i come across in those rooms. I know that I can't ever tell my wife about my bisexuality, so it's nice to be able to have an outlet somewhere. maybe that's what I'm looking for...
Google. LOL!
Seriously, I woke up about a week and a half ago and couldn't move / eat / function. I had these "feelings" thru-out my life and finally something in me exploded. I immediately said "I'm gay" and told my wonderful girl that I've been with for about 7 years. It was so devistating that I couldn't handle it.
It was very scary b/c I KNEW I had a sexual attraction for men, but I didn't have the other feelings (and never had) that I deem more important than sex ... things I have with my gf. Holding hands, kissing, being there for one another, L-O-V-E; these things seemed foreign in my mind when I projected them unto a fictious man. I never found a guy "hot" or fell in love w/ my best friend, etc. I'm 28, and I thought I would have known by now if I wanted to be in a relationship with a man, but that thought never crossed my mind. I wasn't/am not even attracted by men, just things "south-of-the-border" ...
Ok, end tangent. To answer, I came here because I was CONFUSED and found this place is where (probably, still figuring that out) I really belong.
Awww dear Sweet Clairey, Ty hun for that. I finally found the post your were talking about btw. LOL.
What brought me here. I am bisexual. Have always been. Always will be.
I felt isolated, I live in an area that is supressed in a way. There are only two types of sexuals, homo and hetero, me being in the middle, didn't really belong, or have friends I could be open with. My husband has always known about my sexuality. But with him being male, he can support me but not substitute a female connection. My first attempt to reach out to other married bisexual females and bisexuals in general, was a myspace profile. After a few months I decided, that there had to be more options available. And low and behold, after a couple of stumbling across then joining some rather pathetic bisex sites, I found this Gem of a one. I lurked all of 10 minutes here, read through the forum, saw everything I needed to see. Laughter, support, caring, understanding, friendship, family and love. No judgements at all. I joined and then deleted my accounts with the other sites I had joined before finding this place. And ever since, it has been my 2nd home, my little mini vacations of the mind. Everyone here is so friendly and warm. This site has helped me gain more confidence and understanding. I am a brighter shinier version of myself. I luv this place and all my friends.
Hi All,
Probably a strange way of finding this site; a close relative said that he'd got bisexual feelings, and it awoke the urge in me to see if other people were involved in a bi site that wasn't all cyber and porn.
Did a google search for 'bisexual' and found this very interesting and entertaining site. :tong:
I can't live bisexual as i would like it, so i want to see and to talk about it! :female: :male:
Personally, I was a little bored one night and decided to see what was out there for bisexuals. Found the forums here and was very impressed at how incredible the site is, and how friendly and supportive everyone is, so I figured I'd join up and hang out for a while. :)
I am living in a desert known as NW Louisiana and need interaction with other LGBTs. The people here hate anyone different and that means me, since I'm a bi-femme and a pagan. Hope to make new friends with interests and hobbies they can talk coherently about and share with me. I've never before lived in such a closeted place with no culture. Feel I should be able to at least meet others online to talk with.
well basically i came here to meet others like me to meet up and fulfill each others fantasies.
Freedom. Peers. Intelligence. These are some of the things I seek and can have here.
What brings me to this site? Hmm.... I guess that I first stumbled across it by accident when trawling the internet for anything LGBT related, this was before I went to university and when I was still in the closet. I only got round to joining it a week or so ago after a disco by my university's LGBT society in which a (probably rather strongly gay) DJ started asking me if I was bisexual after I requested a tune by 'The Offspring' (probably quite 'straight' music). After getting back from the disco I couldn't get to sleep (too many caffeinated alcopops lol.... what? they were on special offer lol) and so I started reading this forum as well as several TV/CD ones (which I have not yet signed up for). Finally, I thought about the DJ's comments and thought 'sod it! I'm Bi and I should be proud of it' and I ended up signing up to the site at something like 3am lol.
Izzfan
kitten first got me to come here so I could understand bisexuals and now I'm looking to meet people and hopefully make more friends on here, I've found alot of very nice people here and like that this site gets people from all over the world.
I heard there were ez women and hung men here in dire need of reminding just how great sex can be, so out of a sense of obligation I stopped by. :cool:
Well I am here hopefully to meet some new friends and to be able to talk about what being bi is all about, it seems to be different for everyone, I mean as to each person liking different things.I am also hoping to meet some people on here from the Tampa Bay, St Pete area that I may actually get to meet in person.
Jim
I thought that it would be a great site to meet a lot of new people. Just like I imagine a lot of people are here for. I came across this site in the search engine and so far am really liking what I see.
As a bi curious female, I have a lot of questions and am hoping to have them answered. Hoping to also find a compatible female. Someone like myself.
We shall see
Curiosity
I was directed here by a friend, whom was bisexual himself. I never actually thought to look for anything like this, but I guess he was. It served a purpose then, and now I just tend to use it as a forum.
I am not looking for anyone, but there are certain members whos minds I think are unique and inspiring, I like to read anything by Long Duck Dong and there are a few others such as biwords, diamonddog ETC...
Myself, my bisexuality has come easy, I never had a problem with it, so I don't feel like I belong in this pool of outcasts.
I found this site after coming out to my wife. After talking about it she suggested I find a support group and look on line for information. Found this site and have learned a great deal about the what bisexuality means to me and other people, and learned so much about myself. A lot of wide and varying topics are discussed in the corner of cyberspace and I really appreciate everyones views. There are some really good people here who are willing to accept you for who you are!
to be more sociable among people that aren't hung up over societies perspective's on issues
Pure chance.
I was wondering if there were any resources or communities for bisexuals-- I knew about very few sites , and I wasn't doing well with running on my 15th year pretending to be straight or gay just to keep people around me happy. I REALLY needed an outlet.
I forgot exactly how I found it.. maybe after I searched Google for the 3rd time with my third search string.
All I know is that when I first got here, I was really surprised. But I also remember thinking that I wouldn't stay long because of the amount of sexual orientation communities that seem to focus wholly on sex. I thought this would be one of them, to tell the truth.
I was wrong, and happy to admit it. :bigrin:
what brought me to this site was my curiousity about being bisexual.I actually stumbled onto it,and am glad I did. I'm str8,wife's bi. Main goal was/is finding locals.I also enjoy reading and discussing the various topics,rated from "G" to "R". There's more locals in this area than I thought,and we have found one bi lady,who's about 4 hours away,and we're happy about that.It's fun to talk with ppl from all over the world, yep!Quote:
Originally Posted by wanderingrichard
we'd like to find more locals.
Anyway, we enjoy bisexual.com for those reasons. :)
mrc57107@aol.com
A lot of confusion, a lot of questions, feeling lost and a search engine. :tong:
And none of it sexual :cool:
i volunteer at my local lgbt center and there is a flier for bisexual.com on the bulletin board. i have been having a rather torrid affair on-line with a bisexual man at gay.com. there were a couple weeks where that site was down and we couldn't get to one another. it was DIFFICULT to say the least. soon after, we joined bisexual.com as an alternative chat from for gay.com and what a blessing. so many nice people here. to ice the cake a bit, my lover and i are able to leave each other discreet notes throughout the day. SWEEEEEEEET.
I came here last month by googling "bisexual". Bisexual.com was at the very top of the list. Quite frankly, I was looking for sex. I found much more.
I became aware that I was attracted to both sexes in my late teens. Since I'm in my early sixties now, you can imagine that admitting to those attractions back in those days was not something that one could discuss with anyone. There was no place like bisexual.com, so for many many years I lived the straight life and kept my real feeling bottled up. This place has allowed me to discuss my sexual preferences openly with other people like myself. What a releif. Thanks to Drew, and thanks to all of you. :)
Met a girl from Womanline.com (part of lavalife but for lesbians or female bisexuals seeking females) who told me about this site.
I was like "I don't think Im bisexual so why should I join?"
She said "Well your in question about your sexually... perfect reason."
lol
So I joined.... she no longer comes here tho (don't know why) but thanks to this site I have learned a lot about my sexually and other stuff too :) Great place to meet friends.