Don't talk so fast... If I could attract the opposite sex, I might still be married.Quote:
Originally Posted by TorontoGuy2007
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Don't talk so fast... If I could attract the opposite sex, I might still be married.Quote:
Originally Posted by TorontoGuy2007
(Oh- I'm new here...)
I am in a relationship with a bi male to that I am very comfortable.
Have looked for bi males in the past for friends but seemed to be elusive as bi females are.
I don't know generally how bi-women phrase their ads, but on a personal basis I've probably talked with more women than men on this site. The women I've met here often want to talk about varied topics they are interested in, and are more apt to speak about personal subjects. The men I've met here pretty much want to trade pictures, cyber, or talk sex.
I can pretty much see why bi women/couples might specify: "Not looking for men." The whole emphasis on cock-shots and sex-talk is kinda rude and boring most times, and the underlying sense of fear around being discovered if he talks about anything personal makes getting to know a guy sort of a forlorn hope...
Of course this isn't meant as a condemnation of anonymous sex, nor am I saying it applies to 100% of the bi folks on this site. More often than not however it seems to apply. Look at the photos: Not a whole lot of straight-on vagina or tit-shots here, eh? But what do you see with most of the men? LOL. :frog:
Just felt like throwing my 2cents in on this one. I greatly prefer dating other bisexuals (male and female). Largely because I like to be with people who are very open sexually and these folks tend to be bi more often than not. There are of course exceptions to that.
I don't explicitly state in personal ads that I'm only looking for bi partners, becuase I don't want to rule anyone out based on a label. Bi, gay or straight you have to have a certain level of intelligence, humor, and compassion to attract and hold my attention. Sexual preferences are something I tend to address pretty directly if I'm interested in someone. While I prefer a partner that is bi, I'm not gonna turn away a lesbian or a straight guy if we're compatible in other important ways (intelligence, humor, etc).
As to the "who has it easier" point that folks have brought up...I agree that bi women seem to get more attention. We are hypersexualized by our society at this point in time. However, quantity does not equal quality. I get hit on a lot, but it means I have to filter through more crap to find people worth getting to know. People that are genuinely interested in me for me and not simply holding out the hope that if they are nice enough they'll get to take part in some sexual encounter straight out of porn.
It's just like that when it comes to bisexual men being hit on by gay men. I get hit on constantly online, and in bars/clubs, and I have to weed through the sex pigs, tweakers, and people who bareback.Quote:
Originally Posted by mistymockingbird
I have nothing against people who are poz and sero-sort and bareback with other poz guys, or use condoms to have sex with hiv- men; but there are people that lie about it.
that is my dream and how to find a bi woman looking for a bi guy. most women i felt i could come out to rejected me. i had one friend with benifits who accepted me and we had fun. but it wasn't lasting. looking for the ltr.
i hear and see ad's of bisexual females lookin 4 females and some lookin 4 males.if a female is married or in a relationship she would mostly want a female or a guy 4 nsa period i also think that some ppl feel intimated 4 bisexual males b/c of representation and i am a bisexual male searchin for a bisexual female ,as far as wanting a str8 girl i would not want a ltr b/c some str8 girls have a hard time understanding a bisexual male
I've read a number of posts, and seen more ask in chat as how to identify and / or meet someone of the same sex (bi) by both men and women. Logically it could be assumed folks readily know how to encounter and persue those of the opposite sex, thus I personally can understand a bi man or woman not looking for the opposite sex (bi or not).
Though I am not a profile reader I can also understand a woman 'asking' no men reply as the vast majority of IM's receieved either start out with 'are you horny' or ' u bi?
SOG, yes indeed I am fickle, I want to be treated like a person first and foremost.
Lisa
hugs n kisses
I'm a lot better at attracting men than I am women.
all women are bisexual... the more you buy them the more sexual they become. :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin:
Yeah FF eventually I decided that HBB actually stands for "hot bi bitch" :) Then I made some T-shirts:Quote:
Originally Posted by FerociousFeline
http://www.cafepress.com/hotbibabe
http://www.cafepress.com/hotbibitch
http://www.cafepress.com/hbbdog
Hope you like them.
I don't think they advertise due to the fact that there are so many Bi Guys putting out there own ads, All one has to do is cruise the personals in this or any "Bi" publication, and you will find a plethora or Bi Guys on their own.
JUst to verify this, we checked. In our local area, 6 (six)ads for single gals, vs 2 1/2 pages for single guys !!! LOL :three:
I think that a lot of it is supply and demand. Some of it is the pushy people on here that do not read ads. Yesterday in chat I had 6 guys at once Im me. All wanting to talk sex with me. Even though in my ad I state that I am looking for a lady that is Ok with a Bi man or a couple where he is BI. I have no interest in a guy by himself. Though I love the interaction when a lady is in the mix I am not into it when she is not. I do love a lady with a strap on!!!!
I have never really thought about someones orientation being an issue. My personal experience had been that I have been with biwomen, straight men, bimen, and never had much issue with any of it. I am more looking for someone who can laugh and play and can interact with me in a way that gets all my senses going. So straight, bi men or bi women or transgendered it doesnt matter to me. I love to laugh, play, and engage the people I am with. And as far as the strap on thing, thats just loads of fun.
Who say we arent? I personally Love Bi men, and Would love to find a man in my life that Is Bi. But then again..thats just the perv in me..lol
Silly Cat
You make perv sound like a bad thing Cat......:tongue:
I wish I could find that woman who was bi and was into me being bi. It is like the unicorn search, always looking but always in vain. I think it would be great if the woman I loved actually liked watching me get fucked and suck cock. Thats something I could share and have fun with, but she would also know its part of me and would not detract from her