NEW MEMBERS - Introduce Yourselves Here!

Whats going on :)? I figured I would introduce myself and my fiancee before bed and I would like to add how happy I am that I found this site!

I just recently came out to my long long long time girlfriend now fiancee and I was not expecting an ear to grin when I told her I'm bi which made me feel so comfortable and happy. She told me years ago she is bi but for some reason I couldnt tell her about me then.

She has had very little same sex encounters, unlike myself who had many back in high school, but nothing recently.

So now we are at a point in our relationship that we want to allow each other to have fun in all ways, she really loves the idea of watching me with a man and having all kinds of threesomes.

I think we are going to love this place and be very active....hopefully we can make friends and have alot of fun. We are in western mass. Feel free to drop us a line, we have a tumblr account that shows exactly what we are about, if you are interested please send us a message and we will give you the info.

Ok, gathered up the courage to say hello! We're a bi-curious married couple, considering fulfilling some very specific fantasies - namely he wants to suck cock, I want to eat pussy and we both want to watch each other do these things. We live in a small city in PA and are fairly well known, therefore making these things happen in our community is out of the question. So we're just starting to look into the non-sexy side: the logistics of making this happen. We're glad to have found this site, as we're looking to learn from your experiences and hopefully make some friends.

you would be surprised how many people around are bisexual,even people you may know,i was surprised myself when I found couple that are just like you and are friends......before I knew they were bi

I am 35 yo male from Virginia. Looking to meet other bi curious guys in Virginia to chat and get to know each other.

Hi everybody..!!
Just stumbled across the site and found it really interesting!

Hi all, Dave here, 44 yr old bi curious male who would like to learn from all you experts out there xx

Helo everyone

Hi everyone my name is Brad and I am a closet bi guy from Queensland, Australia. Glad I found this site and looking forward to getting know you all :)

Hi everyone.

I just joined last night. I'm in my 50's and have never been married. I've had some girlfriends here and there. And to be honest, I do like women very much.

But once in awhile, I've looked at both bicurious and gay videos on the web. And I really haven't had any sort of negative reaction to them. Well, maybe not to most of them.

I sometimes think about what it might feel like to get physical with a guy. Do I see guys here and there and wonder about them? I don't know for sure. Most of the guys that I know are married, and really wouldn't want to disrespect them in any way. (Most of the women I meet are married too. Its a casualty of being in your 50's.)

Plus, my upbringing was, how do you say, dysfunctional. Parents always felt that there was something wrong with me (It was never clear what they thought it was), and they kept sending me to therapy. After years in therapy of my own volition, I found out that I'm perfectly okay as I am. My major issue is that I learned from my parents useless and sometimes non-productive ways to deal with things. I've been working very hard for a long time to replace those with more positive ways of dealing with various things.

One of the non-productive things that they taught me was how to deal with sex. Not sexuality, per se. Just the issue of sex. So I kind of hid it away and felt like it was something to be ashamed of. I probably avoided a lot of opportunities for meaningful relationships both with women and men, because I was afraid that sex might come into it one way or another. I had a number of women who were probably interested in me, but I pushed them away. I also had a few men come out of the closet to me, and I handled those badly.

But the truth of the matter is, I should have at least explored both of those potential kinds of relationships, and should have been at least open to them.

I've recently had a final and serious falling out with parents and the family. And I'm thinking, IT'S FINALLY ABOUT TIME! They've held me back for too long - and to be honest, I've held myself back because I thought that I should work things out with them and be the son that they think that I should be.

Spending so much time on trying to fix something that can't be fixed meant that I missed out on all sorts of opportunities to be with people. I've let me fear (mostly instilled by them, and hung onto by myself) stand in the way.

I'm thinking that with the final break between me and my family, it's time for me to start learning to live life. One area that I need to come to grips with is sex. Not my sexuality, as I said above, just the issue of sex. I think that I'm fairly comfortable with my sexuality. There was a short test somewhere that asked about my sexual orientation. I think that iIsaid that I was heterosexual with an occasional thought or attraction toward men.

Personally, I hate labels. Years ago, I learned from a therapist that sexuality exists along a continuum. In other words, no one is 100% straight or 100% gay. We're all somewhere in between those labels. It's only society and, to be honest our own search for meaning in our lives that make us choose one or the other, like it's a true or false test. The reality is that its more like an essay question, where we each answer what each of us uniquely are. Sort of like what I'm doing right now.

So anyway, that's my story so far. I have a lot of unanswered questions, ranging from the emotional and relationship parts of sex, all the way to what do we do with the physical equipment that the universe has assigned to us.

My bottom line thinking and (sort of) feeling is that sex should be okay, and it's nothing to feel bad about. We should enjoy it, with whomever floats our boat. If we enjoy it with both genders, that's okay. If we enjoy it a certain percentage of the time with one gender, and a certain percentage of the time with another gender, that's okay too. If we enjoy it with both genders at the same time, that's also okay. If we enjoy it in a big room with a lot of folks all enjoying it together, then that's still okay.

But we should feel comfortable with it. Someone a long time ago decreed that sex should be an uncomfortable subject, and then passed that way of thinking on down the line. All I can say is I hope that person has their own special hell all to themselves.

What's most important though is that with sex, we need most of all to respect our partners, both potential and actual. All that I really want in life is respect and to feel safe.

And that's about it...for now.

Hello everyone, I did what I found to be the hardest thing in my entire life, I admitted to myself and to my wife of 12 years "I am 32" that I am bisexual. My wife has been extremely understanding and accepting. I have been with another man once before I met my wife and I really cared for him but I grew up in a very non-accepting area so I hid that part of me. I hid it so much that I eventually became depressed and my marraige suffered. Now that I am out to her and a few other select people I feel like a new person. I'm not particularly interested in being with anyone but my wife but being honest with her and myself was essential.

i really don't know much about what resources exist for bisexuals, literature/blogs/etc. but I found this site and thought it would be a good place to start. I'm a bit of an introverted person so in hoping that this site will help me explore my sexuality and identity more.

Hi everyone !! everyone can call me Bunny... I got that nickname from my boyfriend and I think everyone can guess as to why ~ giggles ~.. I am actually looking for a girlfriend who is also bisexual because after a heartfelt talk with my boyfriend even though he is a straight has given me the green light in seeking someone who would enjoy being a part of our relationship...Bless him. I just recently found this site and after just a few hours felt completely at home with talking to other bisexuals. and here I thought I was the only one... hahahaha well I knew I wasn't but after talking to others (male and female) found that others have experienced the same issues concerning our lifestyle as I have.. Now to begin my search hehe... or you can find me if you like Bunny

Hello everyone. I recently (last week) came out to my wife that I was bi. Since then she has been openly receptive to the idea of exploring our sexuality together. Prior to our marriage she had been in relationships with a few females. Now that it has been brought up that I had these feelings we have been talking and she will make little quirky comments as she walks by such as, I choked on something she replies "better work on that gag reflex" then giggles. I came across this site and joined so we could talk with others, read and learn from others experiences. I don't know what the future holds but I am really excited that my wife wants to go down this road.

Hello! Great site, it looks like I found a good place here.

I'm a 51 y/o bi guy from Western, MA. I've been with a wonderful woman for 26 years who, I'm pretty sure, knows I'm bi, but we don't talk about it. I think I've been bi since forever, I remember my very early years experimenting in certain ways before I even knew that I was "experimenting". I had my first "complete" hetero experience when I was 23, and my first "complete" gay experience when I was 30. I enjoyed them both. I've had only about a dozen gay experiences since then, and as I've gotten older, I've wanted to explore more same-sex encounters, but circumstances make that nearly impossible, and I really don't want to screw up those circumstances, so it remains something whereby I would just like to make some friends and hear of how others, possibly in similar life-circumstances, deal with the desire to explore in this way. I've found in a lot of places that "bi" doesn't really fit in. People seem to be uncomfortable if you don't fit neatly into that binary gay/straight thing. It's nice to find a group where we might all actually understand/accept each other a bit better.

hello to all! i'm max 22 yo from italy ^^ i like to have fun on cam, i'm a little exhibithionist xD ohhh.. i'm bi-curious! bye! ^^

Hello everyone. Found this site doing some searching about some things that I was kind of curious about. Been enjoying the site.

Hey everyone! :) This is a really cool website. I wish I'd found it years ago.

Hey everyone, look forward to meeting you all. I am 27/m/and bi. I'm coming more to terms with my sexuality in the last few years and am more comfortable being who I am. Shedding the guilt and shame that my religious upbringing once held over me. I hope to start posting right away, looks like a cool site from first glance =]

Hello--I'm glad to have found this site. I am a married bi-sexual man, I have been struggking with my feelings as long as I can remember. I was born and raised in a small southern town that still seems to discriminate against anything "different". My wife has known since befire we got married, and she loves to "top" me with toys but it doesn't seem to be helping the urges/feelings as much anymore. I'm hoping, by having the ability to talk with like minded people, I can stop feeling so alone in my sexuality. Small town life is good but in this instance--it sucks (not in a good way) LOL.

Greetings. I'm a 70 years young biwmm. I'm very closeted. Only one family member has a clue I'm bi, and he won't speak to me or have anything to do with me. One of the downers of being bi, is no one to talk to about it, or share experiences with. I like to write and I'm really open to corresponding with others about their relationship, and sharing my own. I'm on marriage #3, for 30+ years, but I don't expect it to last much longer. My wife is straight. She was pretty wild when we met, but has grown prudish and cold in her older age.
So I'm hoping this will be a place where I can really exchange some dialog with guys. Glad you're here. Glad I'm here too. :)

Hello, joined last week, and like many on here I have a girlfriend and she doesn't know. But I've had a few bi experiences and loved it. I'm a versatile top or bottom. I'll get some pics together soon.

Hi, I am Mike. Just recently found this site and so exciting. I am bi and very oral. I am a cocksucker and enjoy eating pussy too. Hope to meet some of you. In chat at tmes.

Hello everyone.

My handle is treble. I am 46, married to a lovely woman. But I am also a closeted bi guy, I've spent the past few years getting comfortable with that. I really have not had an outlet or any avenues for discussion of what that means. Long ago, I tried talking with it to my wife, when we first went out- that did not go well... These feelings have come and gone throughout my life. Though I identify romantically with women. A few years back m2m desires came roaring back.

Go figure.

Looking forward to meeting all of you!

Wanted so say hi to everyone, especially any boys I might meet in the San Diego area. I hope to hear from you all soon.

Hi, just joined, I'm a male in his mid thirties. I don't do labels but I guess "Bi" is as accurate as I can get. I've never had any problems been a guy who is into both men and women. I've decided to join because after female partner and a lot of casual sex with males and females I've got my first male boyfriend. He identifies himself with being "Gay" but has occassional girls and although he is really supportive I am looking for a way to make our relationship work, whilst valuing his identity and my own,

Hi all.

:bigrin: looking for some same/same/?? 54, happily married former swingers, wife in the dark...

Hello all, new to this site and looking to make friends so far I feel like I can just be me I'm mostly bi curious and married (she doesn't know) but would like to find some friends in my area too! Hope everyone is enjoying there weekends:) thx

Well, I've been lurking for a while, so I'll go ahead and put my oar in the water and introduce myself.
I'm 63, married, a chubby, hairy bear, and a Bi-Virgin. Even though I'm married, my wife knows all about my curiosity, and is okay with it. We've only been married 6 years, but we've known each other all our lives, having grown up in the same neighborhood, about 3 blocks away from each other, and going to the same church. She is very open-minded, but doesn't wish to participate or even watch. She says if there is any video or pics shot, she would like to see me having my first oral and/or anal experience.

So, I'm not looking for an LTR, just friendly sex, with a gentle, patient top, who is willing to take on the challenge of satisfying my curiosity, and maybe getting a few pics of us, or video. More than one guy is fine, husband/wife couples okay, and TG/TS is wonderful, as long as she is still fully functional.

Hello and greetings.

The Drunk Uncle has arrived, another middle aged bi male from the great state of Virginia. I am camped out near the VA/NC border.

As I mentioned, middle-aged, married to a sweet woman who knows about, understands and (thankfully!) supports my bisexuality.

Came across this site a while back and have been lurking and enjoying the rather spirited conversations esp. regarding what bisexuality is / what it means / can mean / etc.
At the end of the day, I'm just looking for that happy man and/or couple with a bi man that wants to have some fun and knows that the type of fun I'm talking about starts in your head - the greatest sex organ of all.

Hope to meet and talk with some people who have either been involved in the Lifestyle or have read enough (either in books - The Ethical Slut, anyone? - or online) to feel comfortable with the whole dynamic, whether it's having some late night fun in the hot tub or some early morning romping around with good coffee.

Leaving you with a warm spirited grope,

The Drunk Uncle

This is such a cool place where I feel I belong and obviously understand who is here and why they are here. I love what I love and I want to have more love! Thanks for the nice "hello" guys,Stewart