NEW MEMBERS - Introduce Yourselves Here!

Hi All! It's time to re-introduce myself. I joined back in '08, hung around for a while then moved on for whatever reasons. I recently started reading BiSex again and really liked what I saw. I've experienced major changes in my orientation over the years too. Was Bi since adolescence and slowly lost interest in sex with women over the last several years. They're still great to look at but I'm now sexually attracted to men exclusively. I used to say I was a Kinsey 3, now I feel more like a 5. My wife is fine with that and encourages me, especially since she has totally lost interest in any sexual activity. Who knows, I may have been leaning gay all my life. I always did find sex with men more exciting. I don't dwell on it, I am what I am and have always been comfortable with my sexuality regardless of which team I was playing for at the time. It's nice to be back and I hope to enjoy making your acquaintance and partaking in the forums.

Hi there, 34 white male in the bay area. Mlooking for a teacher, guide me through. Few minor experiences but not anything I Really wanted. Help!!!

Hey I'm laylo. Mid thirties, male bi curious. Don't know where I am on the scale but I'm definitely attracted to cocks. I've never been with a man in any way and I'd like to be. Am enjoying this site so far

Married bi guy from NE Kansas. Retired, mid 60's, and would like to meet a friend to share my hobbies with. I enjoy music, movies, photography, nature & country living. I really enjoy taking photos of wild animals and birds. My favorite subject is the bald eagle. I have a large movie and music collection, plus some acreage to look after so I keep busy all the time. Nice to meet all of you.

Hello found this site joined and having great time, I am looking for people female, male what ever for hott jerk off while looking at pics and using mic or phone, its so much more fun then typing out a fantasy, hit me up soon, I am in southern illinois

Hi I'm Donny I'm 44 I'm bi. Been that way as long as I can remember... Looking to make some new friends and potentially more...

Hi everyone,I am Robert from Lakeview Ohio,I am a married and a bisexual,and my wife doesn't know or would understand that I love cock and cum,but anyways feel free to contact me to say hi........

hey I'm Mike I've never been with a guy before I love women but I also love cocksbut I've never had one

Hi All! I've been on the site off and on for a couple months but this is the first time I've posted to the forum. Just looking to explore a little and interact. Found a lot of great information on here and had some great conversations in the chat rooms. Looking forward to talking with more people on the site.

Hi, new guy here hope to get to know some of you. I'm 55 and love sex. I have a hard time meeting Bi men where I live, I know Bi's are out there I just don't know how to find them. Anyway have a nice day and hope to talk soon.

Hi,
i'm a bi woman looking to meet bi men in my area for some fun.

Hi, I just joined a few days ago. I've had fantasies of trying another guy since my teens but have never done it. A friend and I were very curious as teens but were both afraid to touch or have actual sex. This was in the 60's and being labeled gay was not something we could deal with. If my Dad would of found out he would have disowned me and threw me out of the house. I have often thought that if I was a teen today things might be different. I'm married and happy but I still sometimes have those feelings. Thanks for listening. Not sure that my thoughts are coherent but that's the way they came to me. Pink

Hi there! Where in NJ do you live? I'm north and work in central! shoot me a private message maybe we can talk!

Im Matt, 44. Found this site and it looked a place I belong. Hopefully some of you will prove me right.

New to site. Having problems navigating on I4 but getting better at it. Not computer savvy in the first place. But FINALLY found a site for my inclinations and desires. Looking forward to meeting members of like persuasions. Hit me up if u want chat.
Drew - i seem to get quite a few screens saying that I am not allowed in that one. Is that because I am not a premium member? Thanks

Actually been on a few months, but just now getting the courage up to say hi and post a few pics. :oh: Hi! :bigrin:

enjoy yourself and have fun:)

Hi Drew...I thought I would say hey and am glad there is a site for confused guys like myself. Never thought that I would love pleasuring a man with oral! I seperated from my wife of 12 years because of lack of sex! I actually got on Adult Friend Finder to find a woman for 6 months of back pressure! To no avail...so just for shits and giggles I looked up guys ....immediately got a response, then another and then 10 more. So I talked to a guy who...actually lived three blocks away....and wow, he had at least 11 inches of meat. He assured me my fixation was normal and we spoke thru email for five days straight. Anyway, glad this site is here.

tell us what happened when you 2 met

Married bi nudist, 61 a professor, near Clearwater, Florida terribly depressed by the wife's lack of interest in sex (and we used to be swingers!) longing to fine a married bi guy near me for arousing nude times.

Hi! I'm a 40yr. old married white male in Northern NJ.I REALLY LOVE to suck cock&I'm looking forward to meeting some new people, and hopefully hooking up with some horny guys that just want to blow their load &relieve some stress!

I am new but also not new. I joined this site originally over 2 years ago, but it was as me(Manhatten) as a bisexual male. Things have changed a bit since then. The short version is that now I spend my kinky adult time as Rachel, a Tgurl. I emptied my mailbox here recently, uploaded a new pic or 2 and am starting over and having a better time of my life now, for now it is so easy to go online and have some interesting as well as hot chats that were never possible before, and doing a live video session as a gurl? Whew, let me not say at this time how fun those have been.
Guys, don't be afraid of me because of what I am now. I still love your cocks, but I also still don't want to kiss you, so hang that one up for now, haha. I merely am exploring something that evidently was hidden in me that finally found it's way to the surface. Hope you all understand.
Thanks.
Rachel Michaels

hello hope to make many new friends here

Hi I am Mike from Madison Wisconsin - bi guy for fun for all - lets get at it....life is too short not to enjoy completely and to its fullest extent - contact if in my area

damn i am a bi man and would love to find a bi woman - so hot and naughty

Hi all! I've lurked here before but today I decided to register and become a member. I am a married, 62 year old very bi, Dom guy living in South central B.C. Canada. I succumbed to my desires to have sex with another man several years ago and have found my newly emerging sexual side to be great! My wife suspects that I am bi and in fact, I am pretty sure that she knows that I am so but that has not in any way affected our marriage. If anything, since I turned, we get along better because I no longer get frustrated when I want to make love and her diminished sex drive ruins her urges. I have found a safe outlet with two different guys who I see when they feel that they need what I can give them and as a matter of fact, the one guy just left after having what he said was one of the best orgasms of his life!

I keep this side of my life very private and to myself as I live in a small town and being bi is not cool here. I have learned a lot about myself since turning and find that I enjoy my times with my two guys more each time. Both were bi virgins when we met but both are now confirmed bisexuals and love their submissive role when we get together. It's a win win situation at this point as we are each having some very deep seated and real needs met and if anything, the two of us who are married have better marriages. The second guy who is in a divorce, gets huge stress relief from a scene and he is getting into it more and more each time which is HOT!! I am nota hard core 24/7 DOm but I give them what they need and want while respecting their limits and parameters and we are alll happy when things are done.

I am not seeking any other playmates as the two that I currently have satisfy my needs and both are safe, clean and we can enjoy everything in "a natural way" as both have only ever been with their respective wives. I am looking forward to making new friends here and maybe finding another Dominant natured bi guy who enjoys what I do to become friends and corresond with. :tongue:

hey everyone, stumbled upon this site and thought it would be fun to join up. im a 25 y/o guy in texas. i consider my self mostly straight, aside form my bicurious side. looking forward to seeing what this site has to offer!

Hi!

Bi-curious with tendencies to lingerie and silk. Québec area in Québec, Canada. Would love to meet couple or single guy to enjoy private moments!

Maude

Bi-married in Hamden, CT. The wife doesn't know. Been bi for a while and have had some good experiences, hoping to meet some local guys and have more. Haven't had sex with my wife in a long time, even the presence of a woman would be titillating. Oral can be fun, so can cuddling and enjoying being near someone.

Bi-married in Chattanooga, Tn. 5'9", 230# 4.5c and impotent due to vascular surgery. Therefore a total bottom. I heard about this site and forums from a friend, and thought I'd come visit here to see what happens. I've been on a couple of other sites with little luck, mainly "All hat and no cattle." Lots of talk with little to no action. The few times I was able to get someone to meet me, the result was somewhat underwhelming. I'm married, and my wife is aware of what I'm doing, since she is unable to have sex, she has no problem with my looking to another area, she knows it is just physical, not an LTR. She will not participate, not even to watch, so no hosting here. I hope I have better luck here as a total virgin looking to take care of my long-term curiosity.

Whats going on :)? I figured I would introduce myself and my fiancee before bed and I would like to add how happy I am that I found this site!

I just recently came out to my long long long time girlfriend now fiancee and I was not expecting an ear to grin when I told her I'm bi which made me feel so comfortable and happy. She told me years ago she is bi but for some reason I couldnt tell her about me then.

She has had very little same sex encounters, unlike myself who had many back in high school, but nothing recently.

So now we are at a point in our relationship that we want to allow each other to have fun in all ways, she really loves the idea of watching me with a man and having all kinds of threesomes.

I think we are going to love this place and be very active....hopefully we can make friends and have alot of fun. We are in western mass. Feel free to drop us a line, we have a tumblr account that shows exactly what we are about, if you are interested please send us a message and we will give you the info.

Ok, gathered up the courage to say hello! We're a bi-curious married couple, considering fulfilling some very specific fantasies - namely he wants to suck cock, I want to eat pussy and we both want to watch each other do these things. We live in a small city in PA and are fairly well known, therefore making these things happen in our community is out of the question. So we're just starting to look into the non-sexy side: the logistics of making this happen. We're glad to have found this site, as we're looking to learn from your experiences and hopefully make some friends.

you would be surprised how many people around are bisexual,even people you may know,i was surprised myself when I found couple that are just like you and are friends......before I knew they were bi

I am 35 yo male from Virginia. Looking to meet other bi curious guys in Virginia to chat and get to know each other.

Hi everybody..!!
Just stumbled across the site and found it really interesting!

Hi all, Dave here, 44 yr old bi curious male who would like to learn from all you experts out there xx

Helo everyone

Hi everyone my name is Brad and I am a closet bi guy from Queensland, Australia. Glad I found this site and looking forward to getting know you all :)

Hi everyone.

I just joined last night. I'm in my 50's and have never been married. I've had some girlfriends here and there. And to be honest, I do like women very much.

But once in awhile, I've looked at both bicurious and gay videos on the web. And I really haven't had any sort of negative reaction to them. Well, maybe not to most of them.

I sometimes think about what it might feel like to get physical with a guy. Do I see guys here and there and wonder about them? I don't know for sure. Most of the guys that I know are married, and really wouldn't want to disrespect them in any way. (Most of the women I meet are married too. Its a casualty of being in your 50's.)

Plus, my upbringing was, how do you say, dysfunctional. Parents always felt that there was something wrong with me (It was never clear what they thought it was), and they kept sending me to therapy. After years in therapy of my own volition, I found out that I'm perfectly okay as I am. My major issue is that I learned from my parents useless and sometimes non-productive ways to deal with things. I've been working very hard for a long time to replace those with more positive ways of dealing with various things.

One of the non-productive things that they taught me was how to deal with sex. Not sexuality, per se. Just the issue of sex. So I kind of hid it away and felt like it was something to be ashamed of. I probably avoided a lot of opportunities for meaningful relationships both with women and men, because I was afraid that sex might come into it one way or another. I had a number of women who were probably interested in me, but I pushed them away. I also had a few men come out of the closet to me, and I handled those badly.

But the truth of the matter is, I should have at least explored both of those potential kinds of relationships, and should have been at least open to them.

I've recently had a final and serious falling out with parents and the family. And I'm thinking, IT'S FINALLY ABOUT TIME! They've held me back for too long - and to be honest, I've held myself back because I thought that I should work things out with them and be the son that they think that I should be.

Spending so much time on trying to fix something that can't be fixed meant that I missed out on all sorts of opportunities to be with people. I've let me fear (mostly instilled by them, and hung onto by myself) stand in the way.

I'm thinking that with the final break between me and my family, it's time for me to start learning to live life. One area that I need to come to grips with is sex. Not my sexuality, as I said above, just the issue of sex. I think that I'm fairly comfortable with my sexuality. There was a short test somewhere that asked about my sexual orientation. I think that iIsaid that I was heterosexual with an occasional thought or attraction toward men.

Personally, I hate labels. Years ago, I learned from a therapist that sexuality exists along a continuum. In other words, no one is 100% straight or 100% gay. We're all somewhere in between those labels. It's only society and, to be honest our own search for meaning in our lives that make us choose one or the other, like it's a true or false test. The reality is that its more like an essay question, where we each answer what each of us uniquely are. Sort of like what I'm doing right now.

So anyway, that's my story so far. I have a lot of unanswered questions, ranging from the emotional and relationship parts of sex, all the way to what do we do with the physical equipment that the universe has assigned to us.

My bottom line thinking and (sort of) feeling is that sex should be okay, and it's nothing to feel bad about. We should enjoy it, with whomever floats our boat. If we enjoy it with both genders, that's okay. If we enjoy it a certain percentage of the time with one gender, and a certain percentage of the time with another gender, that's okay too. If we enjoy it with both genders at the same time, that's also okay. If we enjoy it in a big room with a lot of folks all enjoying it together, then that's still okay.

But we should feel comfortable with it. Someone a long time ago decreed that sex should be an uncomfortable subject, and then passed that way of thinking on down the line. All I can say is I hope that person has their own special hell all to themselves.

What's most important though is that with sex, we need most of all to respect our partners, both potential and actual. All that I really want in life is respect and to feel safe.

And that's about it...for now.

Hello everyone, I did what I found to be the hardest thing in my entire life, I admitted to myself and to my wife of 12 years "I am 32" that I am bisexual. My wife has been extremely understanding and accepting. I have been with another man once before I met my wife and I really cared for him but I grew up in a very non-accepting area so I hid that part of me. I hid it so much that I eventually became depressed and my marraige suffered. Now that I am out to her and a few other select people I feel like a new person. I'm not particularly interested in being with anyone but my wife but being honest with her and myself was essential.

i really don't know much about what resources exist for bisexuals, literature/blogs/etc. but I found this site and thought it would be a good place to start. I'm a bit of an introverted person so in hoping that this site will help me explore my sexuality and identity more.