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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
my-00-stang
HEY GUYS IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND HIDING YOUR BISEXUALITY FROM YOUR WIFE, HOW DO YOU DO IT AND ARE ANY OF YOU ACTUALLY SEEING ANYONE ON THE SIDE. I AM MARRIED AND BI BUT MY WIFE FOUND MY SECRET EMAIL ACCOUNT AND GOT THE PASSWORD SO I AM PAYING HELL RIGHT NOW.
My wife found my email too. She was upset. I told her i still loved her but had needs she wouldn't or couldn't fufil.
As long as I'm discreet and it doesn't interfere with our life
She is not concerned.
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Still safely in closet here. You have to plan ahead....my email is slip4296@gmail.com means nothing in case wife ever finds it...plus, I have a complex password she would never figure out. Every time I login to it I delete everything after I read it, so the account is usually pretty empty. Never do anything cell phone - no calls, text, or anything. To stay in closet you must carefully plan ahead for everything...was doing 4-5 guys a week and never suspected. I go to gym almost every day for 2-3 hours (wish she'll never go to) and I some days have missed it when slipping out to meet guys or guys...have even done blow jobs in parking lots early...again, you just have towatch and plan ahead.
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Robtiti
Wish I could find someone like him!
Amen to that
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
Sounds like you and I are in the exact same situation, my wife hasn't shown any interest in anything sexual in years and I've been too shy and too inexperienced to try the adult shop route but im very curious
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
oralswallow65
Still safely in closet here. You have to plan ahead....my email is
slip4296@gmail.com means nothing in case wife ever finds it...plus, I have a complex password she would never figure out. Every time I login to it I delete everything after I read it, so the account is usually pretty empty. Never do anything cell phone - no calls, text, or anything. To stay in closet you must carefully plan ahead for everything...was doing 4-5 guys a week and never suspected. I go to gym almost every day for 2-3 hours (wish she'll never go to) and I some days have missed it when slipping out to meet guys or guys...have even done blow jobs in parking lots early...again, you just have towatch and plan ahead.
Very good advice. Thanks for sharing.
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
oralswallow65
Still safely in closet here. You have to plan ahead....my email is
slip4296@gmail.com means nothing in case wife ever finds it...plus, I have a complex password she would never figure out. Every time I login to it I delete everything after I read it, so the account is usually pretty empty. Never do anything cell phone - no calls, text, or anything. To stay in closet you must carefully plan ahead for everything...was doing 4-5 guys a week and never suspected. I go to gym almost every day for 2-3 hours (wish she'll never go to) and I some days have missed it when slipping out to meet guys or guys...have even done blow jobs in parking lots early...again, you just have towatch and plan ahead.
Nicely said. And 4-5 per week? You're a stud! Though I've not made a connection... yet, I do the same things. Nothing on the phone except my mail.com account that is a web based and the history is always deleted automatically. I use skype but only on my personal PC which my wife never uses as it's in my home music studio. I think the "going to the gym" story will be the best. Wife does not go there and I can just ramp up my number per week if play time happens.
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That’s amazing that she encourages it. How long have you been married and when she first found out did she encourage it or did it take some warming up?
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Yes I am married and in the closet. I just love to suck cock and lucky to have a few cocks I can suck every week.
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Married, long time and bi here too but not out to her but a few years ago she mentioned that she thought I'd enjoy it. It was probably because I asked her to do my ass with a toy...lol Don't have a steady but hook up when I can.
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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newporter4u
Married, long time and bi here too but not out to her but a few years ago she mentioned that she thought I'd enjoy it. It was probably because I asked her to do my ass with a toy...lol Don't have a steady but hook up when I can.
It took me some time but I got my ex-fiance into pegging...she actually loved it and it turned her on to no end. After the 3rd or 4th time we did she asked if I was bi-sexual and I denied it. Might have been because I was giving her blow jobs before the pegging. It came up again 2 years later when she found some pictures on my computer of my cock. Had to admit I was sending them to another guy and that I was attracted to men as well as women so she asked again if I was bi...I said no. Started seeing a therapist last year and found out it's not the end of the world and I was finally able to admit I'm bi-sexual. Ended up breaking up with my fiance but not because of that. Funny thing is we started hooking up again recently and she admitted this last weekend that she misses pegging me. I think we're going to start up again this weekend...I'm excited!
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
my-00-stang
HEY GUYS IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND HIDING YOUR BISEXUALITY FROM YOUR WIFE, HOW DO YOU DO IT AND ARE ANY OF YOU ACTUALLY SEEING ANYONE ON THE SIDE. I AM MARRIED AND BI BUT MY WIFE FOUND MY SECRET EMAIL ACCOUNT AND GOT THE PASSWORD SO I AM PAYING HELL RIGHT NOW.
I’m married and love cock, I haven’t sucked cock since I’ve been married though. I stroke off to gay porn and have had phone sex multiple times, which I love doing. Wife doesn’t know and I will keep it that way. Every time I J/O I think about sucking cock. It turns me on so much.
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
my-00-stang
HEY GUYS IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND HIDING YOUR BISEXUALITY FROM YOUR WIFE, HOW DO YOU DO IT AND ARE ANY OF YOU ACTUALLY SEEING ANYONE ON THE SIDE. I AM MARRIED AND BI BUT MY WIFE FOUND MY SECRET EMAIL ACCOUNT AND GOT THE PASSWORD SO I AM PAYING HELL RIGHT NOW.
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Originally Posted by
cleves
Yes I am married and in the closet. I just love to suck cock and lucky to have a few cocks I can suck every week.
I’m from Ohio too and married. I have never sucked cock while married but I would love to suck someone sometime
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I came out to my wife in a therapy session (honestly I was hoping it would be the last straw, but it wasn’t). I’ve cheated on her with guys (mostly covered in latex) throughout our marriage. About 3 1/2 years ago I made the decision to not cheat anymore as long as I stayed married., I have to tell you it’s been hellish lately as the wife has virtually no sex drive and mine is off the hook. For me it’s gay porn that gets things going. I don’t know how long I can endure not having passion in my life, but that’s my story for now.
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Married and Bi but in the closet. Doubt I will ever come out. We have a great sex life as an older (65) couple, I prefer not to screw that up. I don't blame guys that go outside their marriage for sex if they no longer have sex with their wife. I would seek partners if we had little or no sex. I tend to be more straight than gay so that probably helps, less of an urge to stray. I ride bikes with a few platonic bi friends. This allows me to talk to folks 'like' me, but one does cheat on his spouse and the other does not.
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Mine knows but it surprisingly took me longer to tell her I was bi than a Crossdresser. She already had a somewhat hard time coming to terms with the dressing and then to add bisexuality on top of that, no thanks. But after s few years I did come clean and let her know. Would I go outside the marriage - no but at least the bisexuality has added some fun to our sex life with fantasy and porn.
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Originally Posted by
Cynthia_CD
Mine knows but it surprisingly took me longer to tell her I was bi than a Crossdresser. She already had a somewhat hard time coming to terms with the dressing and then to add bisexuality on top of that, no thanks. But after s few years I did come clean and let her know. Would I go outside the marriage - no but at least the bisexuality has added some fun to our sex life with fantasy and porn.
You are lucky to have a wife that supports your sexuality! Not all people do.
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My wife figured out that I was bi. She noticed that I enjoyed the bi three way videos. She asked me outright and I admitted the fact. Surprised me when she said that if I ever decided to try it for real not to sneak around but to bring the other home so she could watch. She is the one who researches videos we buy so we both enjoy the evening.
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
casio
My wife figured out that I was bi. She noticed that I enjoyed the bi three way videos. She asked me outright and I admitted the fact. Surprised me when she said that if I ever decided to try it for real not to sneak around but to bring the other home so she could watch. She is the one who researches videos we buy so we both enjoy the evening.
That sounds awesome, glad she is okay with it.
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As I know, all most males are married in this forum. They are seeking for another bisexual lifestyle.
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You are so lucky. My wife knows because I confessed it 5 or 6 years ago in a theropy session. (Honestly, I was hoping that telling her would result in some kind of final straw in our marriage, alas it did not. It only made her jealosy and acquisations men and women). I haven’t experienced any MM time outside of my marriage in over 3 years. Before that I had a rollercoaster of desires that bubbled over from time to time , all of it covered in latex. I made the decision to not cheat and so far so good. Lately, I’ve been spending a lot of fantasy time on the internet and I have to say that my frustration levels are off the charts. Ugh!
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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redw1ne4me
You are so lucky. My wife knows because I confessed it 5 or 6 years ago in a theropy session. (Honestly, I was hoping that telling her would result in some kind of final straw in our marriage, alas it did not. It only made her jealosy and acquisations men and women). I haven’t experienced any MM time outside of my marriage in over 3 years. Before that I had a rollercoaster of desires that bubbled over from time to time , all of it covered in latex. I made the decision to not cheat and so far so good. Lately, I’ve been spending a lot of fantasy time on the internet and I have to say that my frustration levels are off the charts. Ugh!
Take care of those fantasies! ;)
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
casio
My wife figured out that I was bi. She noticed that I enjoyed the bi three way videos. She asked me outright and I admitted the fact. Surprised me when she said that if I ever decided to try it for real not to sneak around but to bring the other home so she could watch. She is the one who researches videos we buy so we both enjoy the evening.
Psst, she really doesn't want to watch, she just whats another cock in her pussy, in addition to yours. Deep inside your wife is a closet Swinger, and you will enable her! :three:
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I am. And I love to play with guys as well.
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
redw1ne4me
You are so lucky. My wife knows because I confessed it 5 or 6 years ago in a theropy session. (Honestly, I was hoping that telling her would result in some kind of final straw in our marriage, alas it did not. It only made her jealosy and acquisations men and women). I haven’t experienced any MM time outside of my marriage in over 3 years. Before that I had a rollercoaster of desires that bubbled over from time to time , all of it covered in latex. I made the decision to not cheat and so far so good. Lately, I’ve been spending a lot of fantasy time on the internet and I have to say that my frustration levels are off the charts. Ugh!
I am curious why you punish yourself by staying with someone like her. Life is short and before you know it your's will be over. Live happily while you can!
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My wife is completely non-sexual of any kind...really part of her narcissistic control issues more than anything...I am secretly very bi, and really do not care....love to suck cock and swallow loads...will be sucking a regular who has a wonderful cock and shoots nice loads tomorrow early...looking forward to it.
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I couldn't sneak around on my wife. I'm so glad it's all out in the open. We communicate well and are very honest with each other. We've known about each other's bi-curiosity since were just dating years ago. She is yet to explore her desires for a woman, but I started to explore mine not long after we decided to become a cuckold couple. She's only had a handful of lovers, but a couple were okay with me sucking their cock.
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Re: HOW MANY GUYS HERE ARE MARRIED AND SECRETLY BI
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Originally Posted by
CuckoldHubby
I couldn't sneak around on my wife. I'm so glad it's all out in the open. We communicate well and are very honest with each other. We've known about each other's bi-curiosity since were just dating years ago. She is yet to explore her desires for a woman, but I started to explore mine not long after we decided to become a cuckold couple. She's only had a handful of lovers, but a couple were okay with me sucking their cock.
very hot .
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Hello, Married and secretly Bi, Have sucked cock or two. Enjoy sucking on nips as well ,his and hers. Spouse has 0 interest in sex anymore in any way. This is do to illness and meds. But I am committed to this wonderful woman sex or not. But I do not plan on going sexless . So I pay quietly on the side. Have meet and fucked a few woman on the side as well a having meet a few guys and sucked cock. Always play safe ,condoms for fucking an sucking. She did tell me I I needed it to go head, just keep it discreet and that she doesn't want to know about it.
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I am secretly bi and have been since forever and am totally comfortable with it. I love to get gurly and closet dress also. Have never been caught either, and love talking about it with other like-minded gurls, too.
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Bi, married and very deep in the closet. My wife would kill me if she ever found out, so that won't be happening if I can help it. I've longed to have a hard cock buried deep in my ass for years, but have never had the opportunity.