I like to make you cum

I was single most of my adult life and been with a lot of women before I discovered my bisexual side. At a pretty young age 20s, I learned the tricks to making a woman cum and that has always been a huge turn on for me. When I started having sex with guys the same is true.
I figured out I was mostly a top, guys loved my cock and wanted me to fuck them, the first few guys I fucked would cum while I was fucking them and that turned me on so much I would cum myself right after.
I started hooking up with this young man and he would always cum when I fucked him. Some times I would jack him off while fucking him until he came in my hand and feed it to him. After awhile he told me that when he cums while I'm fucking him it turns from pleasure to pain. That really took some of the enjoyment out of it for me. Sometimes I would fuck him and send him on his way, sometimes I would suck him after I fucked him but right after I cum that's not a real big turn on for me.