I am 49 and very bi curious, and to tell you the truth I am scared. I have come close several times but have never gone past oral with another guy. I am looking to see what happens and looking for the right person to take that next step with. I have actually thought about the bathhouses here in Vegas but have not gone that route as of yet. My girlfriend is patient and understands what I am looking at and has helped me with some play in the bed room but I am wanting to go further. I really am looking to expand my sexual activities.