comfyme

I am in the same situation you are. I would love to find a bi married guy my age to play with. I am 67. I suppose we are far apart, though. Run a personal ad on here and craigslist to find another married guy our age, to have a friendship with benefits with.

Age 66 here, married, both retired. My wife is fantastic, but at sex a c- grade. 1-2 times month after begging is the best she can do. Real nice when we get to it, but I require more. She does not know I have bi interests either. I will keep it that way. It amazes me that I have moved into the bi realm, but is very uplifting as I find guys who enjoy open chat about it. I have limited experience, but hope to find opportunities. It's very difficult to find a buddy or make any plans. I stay away from gay and prefer only married guys mostly my age or older. Maybe we should consider forming a group for 60+ guys on here.

52 and in the same boat. One would have thought it would be easier to find a buddy out there then it actually is. A bit frustrating.

I'm 71 and it seems there are a lot of us in the same boat. While I have been able to find guys to have sex with, I have not found someone I can be friends with...yet. The ideal would be to have a buddy to go places and do things with; a guy my wife would just think of as a friend and have no inkling that he and I are sucking and fucking. So, until I find that guy I'll keep making up excuses to be off alone long enough to get together with someone who likes m2m sex, but isn't someone I would see socially as a couple. It is frustrating.

I'm 61, fit (5' 6", 145, 6.5" cut), educated, married a bisexual nudist longing for a bi married guy for mutual stroking and sucking Clearwater/Tampa area. There's gotta be a match near me!

Guys, Even at 52 it's an issue finding a M2M Sexual Partner

I don't know what the deal is!!! It seems like God sprinkled bisexual men so thinly throughout the world there aren't two within a 400 mile radius of each other!! I'm 46, in Norfolk, VA, and if you think it's tough finding a bi guy, try finding a Black bi guy! Seems to me you'd have better luck saddling a unicorn! Anyway, I know how you all feel. I try to find sites to meet other bi guys just to talk and hopefully one day hang out in person, but besides this one I haven't found another site with actual people on it, let alone another sane bi guy within 100 miles of me. It sux!!! (And not in a good way)

I am 70-yrs old, and have much the same problem. I full-time care-give my wife who is not aware of my bi-interests. It makes it very difficult to get out and hook up with someone, even for a chemistry check. I want more than a casual, NSO arrangement. I don't believe in anonymous sex with just anyone. I much prefer to get to know the person with whom I might be having a sexual relationship. Another issue is the randomness of timing when I can break away for an hour or two. I've been in contact with a guy in my area with whom I am trying to meet, but he has the same problems I do. Another problem for me is the fact I have a pretty small package, and am overweight. Add to that my issues with Diabetes and its attendant ED problems, and I am not very appealing to many people. I get pretty frustrated not being able to find a suitable partner for my extracurricular activities. There are any number of local ads on Craig's List, but many of them are size queens, or their ads are worded in such a way to turn me off right away. Maybe I'm being too picky, but it's my health that's at stake.

And so on, and so on. We all have the same problem. First it's actually finding and meeting someone and then the time to actually do it. I'm 72 and have called myself bi for the past 12 years since that's how long it's been that I sucked a guy off. Hooked ever since but have had that same problem ever since. I love my wife of over 50 years but our sex life is just okay. I have erection sustaining problems and she is not one to try and suck up a nice hard on. I start out okay with pill help but can't seem to hold it long enough. Funny thing is if I start licking her pussy again I'll get rock hard again but hard to keep it till I cum. With a guy, I don't really care. I just want to suck his cock and enjoy that. If he wants to fuck that's great but all I really want to do is suck his cock and swallow his cum. I guess I really am an oral type of guy but just don't get the chance often enough. Maybe we should all move close together and enjoy each other's friendship and other benefits.

I swear,i could have wrote that,i am 65 and wife has no interest in sex at all,cancer thing with her,but she is fine now,and I would never ever hurt her,i am bi,i love sucking cock and swallowing a nice big load of hot cum,but it is so hard to find someone,young guys don't like old guys,as for me,i like men my age,and I love uncut if it is clean,so if any of you are close to belfontaine ohio get with me and I'll suck your brains out.....oh and also need someone to host

Ok guys so what do we do now ?

Wow, all this sounds so familiar... My wife is not into sex, doesn't know I'm interested in trying out the bi thing. And retirement means I have trouble getting out away from home by myself.... I'm hoping this fascinating web site will turn up some local guys.
I still have to explore all the site offers.

wow good to know others in the same situation. Hard to find the one REAL buddy one is looking for and I am 42. To many people have the wrong idea of what a buddy means or so I have encountered.

seems like there a lot of people with the same story me included. im 48 and have never been able to have my first m2m.older chubby men are what I always fantasize about with so many in the same situation you would think it would be easier

I think that most guys really would like to try same sex sex. I also think that a lot of guys believe that doing so makes them gay,unless I am wrong and I do not believe I am, being gay is another demintion in the human mind. I believe a gay guy is seeking love and romance from /with another man. If this is not the case why is all the fuss being made about same sex "marrages" I certinally do not want any thing from another man but friend ship and sex when possable. It's just a darn shame why we all cannot be open to our wants and desires and find some way to recoginize those of us that wish to enjoy another guy sexually.

Yet another guy in the same boat here. I'm 64 and have recently come out. My wife knows and is accepting of me. She is still healing though. I live in Northwest PA which is a red necked conservative area. I've looked for gay/bi social events, etc. There are 2 bars in Erie which cater to younger immature guys. I am stuck and frustrated.

Well i'm 50 yrs old and I will tell you that finding a friend or friends to have a mutual sexual arrangement takes time and requires you to listen carefully to what other's are saying or how they say it. I think most men who have been married for along time are wanting something different as far as sex goes. My regular and I hooked up after we went hunting and shared a motel room, he and I had been friends for years before we played together. Long story short, I knew through conversation that some comments he made, had me thinking he wanted to suck cock. After a long day of hunting we headed back to the hotel to shower and he showered 1st then me, when I finished, the plan was to grab some dinner and some drinks. Well we never made it to dinner, I walked out of the shower only to see him naked in bed watching porn he bought on the hotel movie menu, his hard hairy cock was an instant turnon and I think he saw my cock get hard through the towel I had wrapped around me. I asked did he want some help and he smiled and said come on over. He grabbed my cock which was standing at full attention and started sucking it. It wasn't long before we were 69ing and having a great time. After some great sucking he is somewhat dominate and asked if I had ever been fucked, I said the last time was collage. Right then and there he turned me around and started spitting and trying to lube me up. After some time he was able to ease it in and slowly worked it letting me get used to it again. It didn't take long before I had a ton of cum leaking from my ass. That was 10 yrs ago and over the years we have grown our group by 3 more. So now we have 5 of us who play all the time. Things take time.

[QUOTE=comfyme;bt4217]Ok guys so what do we do now ?[/QUOTE]
hey guy i'd love to be a buddy to one if not all u guys. if your interested let me know

[QUOTE=stewart1;bt4248]hey guy i'd love to be a buddy to one if not all u guys. if your interested let me know[/QUOTE]
Well where are you located ? thats a good place to start lol

I'm in exactly the same boat as the first writer up top. I'm out of the country right now, but in early November, I'll be moving to Biloxi, Ms. My wife is 16 years my junior. We were one hot item when we were younger. but now, we have touched in months. She always makes me feel like she is doing me a favor. I hate that. She is also very self centered. So I'm thinking it's time for a change. It would sure be nice to find a guy to room with, and enjoy each others company in many ways. But most bi-guys can't manage that, so it would probably have to be with a gay guy. That's ok too, as long as he is not effeminate, super clean, doesn't smoke, or have an attitude about everything. I'm really not pursuing it at the moment, but when I get back home, I'm going to be looking more seriously. Since I'm retired, I would even move to the right guys town just to be with him. I need a loyal friend, who hates drama. I hate drama. Current marriage is full of drama. She just invents it, and then denies it. What are you to do? It is really stressful.