anal training

[johnh]

First time I was involved in anal i had a little hard time with sizes( to Big) I've since been playing with bigger dildo's to train myself to accept larger sizes. It works great with dildo's, but can I expect the same satisfaction when I get the real thing. anyone have any experience with this ?

[Indyguy]

Training as you call it, is a good way to stretch your muscles and work up to a size that brings you the most pleasure. Size isn't so much the issue as the person who is the top. If they get too eager and pound away before those muscles relax, it may not be your cup of tea. So talk with your partner and let them know to take it slow until you tell them to pick up the tempo. Enjoy!

[ErosUrge]

As I have elaborated in other posts, my first experiences with anal were horrible and because of that, I thought I would never indulge in it ever. But eventually I met someone who was average in size though this didn't nor does mean that it's easy sailing without that person being patient and understanding. Fortunately for me he was. And as I have pointed in a couple of other topics, the experiences after that returned to the same discomfort and guys who had no patience or willingness to understand. So I stopped completely for many years vowing that was it and thinking that somehow that one good experience must have been a fluke because of the wine I had drank that night or my imagination.

But eventually and out of curiosity, I thought to myself after seeing so much anal in porn; straight, gay, and bi....that there had to be a reason so many people were indulging and both male and female. I just couldn't imagine so many people enjoyed pain and discomfort to indulge in it. I learned from discussing why and how it was possible to receive pleasure from it. And it also helps to have a willingness which is of utmost importance. After this, my next experiences were not the greatest but I could tell there was more to it if I could remain patient and willing to go through with it.

So, like you Johnh, I decided that dildos might be a way for me to practice on my own at home at my own pace....and purchased some. Out of this experimentation, I learned what was best for me. And before long, I learned how to relax from using them and even now have a toy that is amazing....
After a lot of practice with toys, I eventually found myself in a situation with a guy where I was doing oral on him mostly and was incredibly turned on from our playing together. As I was servicing him orally, he kept reaching over my back rubbing it and then would reach down to my ass and kept playing in the area. This turned me on immensely. He would get his fingers wet by putting them in his mouth and inserted one into me while I continued to suck. By this time, I was completely relaxed and I was pretty certain that he was at some point going to want to be inside of me. I was so turned on that I wanted it very much. And so he finally came around behind me, I turned over on my back as he got between my legs and found his way to the hole....I was so ready and relaxed that he slid into me without the slightest difficulty. I remember gasping as the sensation of him sliding in felt so amazing. I had an erection and he slid in and out of me while jacking me off for awhile. Another guy that was there with us leaned over and sucked me as he continued moving in and out of me. I was so turned on, that it took only about 3 minutes for me to hit my orgasm. It was quite incredible; the best anal I had ever experienced. His size was a bit above average; perhaps 7 inches....but not a bit of discomfort at all.

So, training is a great idea as it gives the opportunity to be ready for when the real thing does happen.

[johnh]

Thanks for the story! Great.
I have been playing with dildo's now, differant sizes, sometimes just training to expand, other times taking something that was easy to penetrate. I am beginning to get more excited with my anal play that I forget about jerking off.
I once had a guy dildo me (with a small one, but long) while he was jerking me off. I had the best orgasam i ever experienced. I'm just wondering now, that I may have spoiled myself with the dildo's and regular dicks won't do it for me ?

[cornholejoe]

my late wife topped with a stapon for over 20 years so when she passed on i did a threesome with this married couple and let him top me and it felt better than any dildo i was ever topped with

[12voltman59]

I think that dildos have their place in anal sex--to me--mostly to get someone new to the pleasures of receiving anal sex "primed" for it.

That was how the guy who "broke me in" when it comes to anal did it--but I find--I much prefer "the real thing" (a nice hard cock) over a dildo anytime and would rather forego messing with them and just be able to experience a real, live, warm penis making its way inside.

It is really something how good it (mostly) feels to enjoy one.