What makes for great oral sex??

[loveatl]

What makes for great oral sex?? Slow or Long?? Gentle or Rough??
Do you guide the giver on what to do?? How long is too long??
Do they have to achieve an organism while giving oral??
Does not like oral?? Can you recieve and not give??
Any other suggestions??

[just4mefc]

What makes for great oral sex?? Slow or Long?? Gentle or Rough??
Do you guide the giver on what to do?? How long is too long??
Do they have to achieve an organism while giving oral??
Does not like oral?? Can you recieve and not give??
Any other suggestions??

ENTHUSIASM! That is what makes it great. Long/fast hard soft all have been good for me. Tell them for sure until you get to know each other then you can read them and vice versa :tong:

[IndyBiFun]

Taking your time (giving) and enjoying it!

Don't rush. Try different techniques and listen to your partner. And as was mentioned before, have some enthusiasm.

If you are able to get to the goal that's all the better. But all-in-all, play, explore. have fun and enjoy it.

[Jessicaknight]

What makes for great oral sex??
Slow or Long??
Gentle or Rough??
Do you guide the giver on what to do??
Do they have to achieve an organism while giving oral??
Can you recieve and not give??


All of the above.

And an Oral expert like myself.
You have to be great at it and love doing it.

That's what I look for in a blow job.

[MrBisex]

When I get the juices in my mouth. :tongue:

[Realist]

Each person is different...........what one enjoys, may turn another person off.

Saying that communication is extremely important, in subjects of love and lust, may be a broken record, but some still can't get it right.

It is imperative, though, if you're interaction with a lover is going to provide the desired results.

[citystyleguy]

...doing it, with confidence, and most importantly, enthusiasm; other than that, let imagination run wild!

[Jessicaknight]

Each person is different...........what one enjoys, may turn another person off.

Saying that communication is extremely important, in subjects of love and lust, may be a broken record, but some still can't get it right.

It is imperative, though, if you're interaction with a lover is going to provide the desired results.

That's so true

I had a guy that gave me one of the most intense BJ i have ever had.
He bit my cock hard but knew just the right way. He made me soooo hard and I shot like a canon.

But sadly to say, I can not find another person who can arouse me like that.

It doesn't feel the same and I lose my hard on.

OH! How I wish I could find him again.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

For me its making love to that cock like I would want to have it done to me, if I had one. Slow, sweet, wet loving licks and mouthings. Diddling that tiny peehole with the tip of my talented tongue, pressing up and down on that big vein right there in the front with your tongue causing the maximun pleasure possible. Circling the head wetly, slowly. Capturing that head with just my lips, covering it semi-tightly, or pursing my lips and gently pushing them down tightly as if entering a nice tight cavern. Never failing to leave one spot of that cock and balls, untouched, unlicked, unloved.
Best way to go in my humble opinion. :}
Cat

[DuckiesDarling]

Basically just echoing what others have said...

Do it like you want it done to you. Communicate and figure out the body language that indicates when you are pleasing your lover. That moan as you lightly scrape the cock with your teeth, the way he sucks in his breath when you take his balls into your mouth, the way his whole body trembles as you slowly take him deep down your throat.

[ErosUrge]

For me its making love to that cock like I would want to have it done to me, if I had one. Slow, sweet, wet loving licks and mouthings. Diddling that tiny peehole with the tip of my talented tongue, pressing up and down on that big vein right there in the front with your tongue causing the maximun pleasure possible. Circling the head wetly, slowly. Capturing that head with just my lips, covering it semi-tightly, or pursing my lips and gently pushing them down tightly as if entering a nice tight cavern. Never failing to leave one spot of that cock and balls, untouched, unlicked, unloved.
Best way to go in my humble opinion. :}
Cat

And also as DuckiesDarling said:

Basically just echoing what others have said...

Do it like you want it done to you. Communicate and figure out the body language that indicates when you are pleasing your lover. That moan as you lightly scrape the cock with your teeth, the way he sucks in his breath when you take his balls into your mouth, the way his whole body trembles as you slowly take him deep down your throat.

It is obvious that Cat and DuckiesDarling both understand very well the art of giving orally to males.
There are already some great comments here and I have elaborated on this in other posts before so won't now.

And regardless of which sex I can only add that it's all about being in the moment and reading the signals of the one you're giving pleasure to. When all is in sync; passion with intent and completely absorbed in the moment.... there is no mistaking that the person receiving is enjoying. When this happens, it triggers my own passion and fulfills me too. It's a timeless quality where nothing else matters and you know the two of you have arrived both as giver and receiver...

[clovermoon]

Frequency

[ohbimale]

If you arw giving oral to either sex you should enjoy it and make it known you enjoy it. Eye contact while giving oral is one sexy way to let your partner know you are having fun, as well as making sounds that show your pleasure or just telling them how much you like what you are doing.

I know it sounds corney but just telling them how great they taste can be a big turn on.

It is also important for your partner to let you know how you are doing. My last boyfriend told me everytime how great I was at sucking cock and good what I was doing to his penis felt that I would cum almost everytime before him. But when he did cum he practically shook from head to toe as I licked every last drop of cum from his cock while his toes curled. For him eye contact was a big turn on while I sucked his cock. It varies from person to person and you should ask your partner.

[Mmonty]

For me its making love to that cock like I would want to have it done to me, if I had one. Slow, sweet, wet loving licks and mouthings. Diddling that tiny peehole with the tip of my talented tongue, pressing up and down on that big vein right there in the front with your tongue causing the maximun pleasure possible. Circling the head wetly, slowly. Capturing that head with just my lips, covering it semi-tightly, or pursing my lips and gently pushing them down tightly as if entering a nice tight cavern. Never failing to leave one spot of that cock and balls, untouched, unlicked, unloved.
Best way to go in my humble opinion. :}
Cat

I'm heading to Washington!!!!