bi married

[obscuresage]

i wonder....how many bi-married men are really out there?????

[ZepZep]

Why Wonder? We do exist. Married and also like to play with same sex. No mystery at all. I just like it both ways, like so many here.

[mooon]

A great many.
Especially on this site.

We tend to be invisible... even those of us that are out to the wife.

[BareHunter45]

Wonder how many?

I'll start the count....

1

[NakedInSeattle]

2. Is this gonna get rediculous?

[married male]

3.,,,

[by~his~side]

4
ok...i'm answering for him.

[XYZ Man]

Wish I lived in kansas!:bigrin:

[IndyBiFun]

Here's another!

[HappyHedonic]

count me in. :flag4:

[herkemer230]

BI attached I am with you
Sex and marriage and social unions are not always confining. They are if you choose. And they can also be shared. You are an ADULT be one

[BonesPA]

You can connt me in as bi married and out to spouse

[nwmscurious]

You can count me in as well.

[coyotedude]

Same here.

[graniteman1953]

Ditto - Wife knows, she's good with it.

[Ken1947]

Wife knows and has turned out to be enjoyable for both of us. I wish I had told my wife years ago. Bi Married and getting more than I know what to do with.

[wm1809]

married bi and out to wife and to friends

[just4mefc]

I think I make 15 :three:

[jollyrover]

Me too

[Cinticursub]

Bi and out to my wife

[tnttogether]

same here

[nnjbicoupleforplay]

I'm married to one!!

[banditt37]

bi and out to wife. she is excepting but that is about it

[MrDeville]

I'm here as well. I'm 51, married and bi and yes, my wife knows about me as well, although I must say she's not happy about me being bi. I live in TX.

[goldenfinger]

Me too,, I think,,,wife bi too

[1tgtass]

I didnt try the bi thing till my wife cut me off. I love women eating pussy and fucking was a daily thing. Well she got tired of my "girl friends" and cut me off. trying to out smart her i figured i would try guys. After all why did so many women love oral. Figured i would try it. Took some getting us to but now would love to have a stiff to service. So i guess i b bi. She eventually found out....to much for her to handle,

[bisocialnudist]

Married and openly bi to anyone who cares and some who don't LOL. Trying to show the world that bisexuals are normal everyday people who can be happily married.

Mark

[Boats]

Me too, BUT not out to the wife

[berryhard]

Me too, BUT not out to the wife. i think it's sfe to say most all the men here are on the list.....

[Biboz49]

**raises hand** I'm bi and living with bi gf. We're out to some friends.

[void()]

Gee, not sure of my number ... wife is okay with it too.

You might want to consider a few links.

Bi men of N. America (http://www.bimen.org/northamerica.htm)

Married Male (http://www.bimarried.com/index.htm)

LMGTFY (http://tinyurl.com/34jndlv) - Let me Google that for you ...

I concur, most of us are fairly invisible. Seems an interesting side effect is that we tend to blend in or fade into the background, well.

[countrybim]

count me in I am bi married and wife knows

[Wifeobiguy]

Hubby is out only to me and guys he plays with. Very fun to watch!

[bikiniman]

I am happily married and Bi.

I have not told my wife that I am "bi" but I have told her about my same sex fantasies and that I enjoy gay porn.

[ErosUrge]

A lot more than most people can imagine....oh yes, it's true.

[willscox]

I am married and bi. I used to suck only to get my cock sucked but now I love to suck a good clean cock and please a man. :bigrin: In fact I probably enjoy it now more than pussy. My wife is a prude about sex and would take me to the cleaners if she knew. I wish that I could discuss this with her but every time the subject is brought up in casual conversation by someone she thinks it is disgusting. :disgust: She has some close female friends so I wonder sometimes if she isn't bi or gay. Any suggestions on how to get an honest discussion going?

[wrzwldo69]

ok
bi -sexual - Meaning you have sex with both genders or
bi-curious - Meaning you want to talk about it but not show up
??

[ohbimale]

Me too! I am out to wife and make no secret of my bisexuality to anyone except parents and sister as they are very unaccepting and closed minded.

Eventhough wife is bi she decided to go into denial and in an effort to prove her straightness had an affair which ended badly. She does not paeticipate in any extra curricular acrivities and does not want to know about anything.

Due to other circumstances, mainly financial and love, we are stuck together.

I started living openly years ago because living in secret only gives orhers power over you! And I wanted to retake my life, at least what was left of it.

We all are faced with choices and have to live with the results of those choices, just as I have.

I have probably digressed too much and should stop now.

[bigbadmax]

Me too! I am out to wife and make no secret of my bisexuality to anyone except parents and sister as they are very unaccepting and closed minded.

Eventhough wife is bi she decided to go into denial and in an effort to prove her straightness had an affair which ended badly. She does not paeticipate in any extra curricular acrivities and does not want to know about anything.

Due to other circumstances, mainly financial and love, we are stuck together.

I started living openly years ago because living in secret only gives orhers power over you! And I wanted to retake my life, at least what was left of it.

We all are faced with choices and have to live with the results of those choices, just as I have.

I have probably digressed too much and should stop now.

I am almost in same position as you......wife and I are both bi...she does not do the website type stuff,nor chatting etc...we are however sepperated but still enjoy a physical relationship.

in essence there are bi married males out there...but a think only a few bi/bi couples.

[flame&psyc]

got another one right here me and my wifey are bolth bi-sexual

[rutemptedalso]

I am bi married, out to wife and looking if there's anyone close by.

[prefer_6]

Yet another, wife knows, not over joyed about it, but aware.

[mr_mom]

Bi and out to my sweet wife, she just doesn't join the fun......so, guess I'm in the pack.
mr_mom

[ironwood]

I too am married.Came out to wife a couple of years ago.She knows and has no problem with my past but is not into playing and won't even talk about it.

[Axeman]

I tried to keep track there...I think I'm 31....married and secretly bi...

But what gets me, is I had a run in with a guy on this site who sent me his unsolicited opinion...apparently he has a low opinion of me b/c I"m in the closet and that I cheat on my wife with men...now the funny part is, for a guy out of the closet, this clown has NO info on his profile to identify him...in fact there is more info on my profile...

[rtmac]

count me in as well. Any others from Colorado? would love to meet up!

[dsuth69]

Me too came out to wife, trying take it in still

[bithebeachbud]

Yet another one here. Bi, married, out to wife and some friends.

[secret.bisexual]

Count me in. Married but not out, not even to wife. I know -- it's a bad situation. But right now, it's the only one I can live with.

[SlightlySalty]

married here too, only out to wife so far

[Eunic]

Older married Eunuch here, but I do give oral to both f & m. Wife understands.

[mrscurious]

I'm the female half of a bi marriage. I'm still working through wanting him to have what he wants and me not wanting to share what's mine.

[ninetythree]

I tried to keep track there...I think I'm 31....married and secretly bi...

But what gets me, is I had a run in with a guy on this site who sent me his unsolicited opinion...apparently he has a low opinion of me b/c I"m in the closet and that I cheat on my wife with men...

If your wife is monogamous and thinks you are the same, you are setting her up for a lot of pain in the future when she finds out you've been seeing people behind her back. Speaking from experience, it makes you feel worthless when your partner does that. It also makes you feel stupid for being monogamous with a partner who wasn't.

My unsolicited opinion is that you should consider telling, preferably sooner rather than later. Let her make the decision about whether non-monogamy -- for both of you -- can be part of her happy marriage, while she's still pretty young.

Also, if you bring home an STD, it could be something she has to live with forever as a reminder of infidelity.

[marriedmidmo]

Bi and recently out to wife she is still digesting it for now it's don't ask don't tell.

[LitEandEz4U]

me too..

[billy ball]

I am bi and a cross dresser.

[Twowheelfun]

count me in as well. Any others from Colorado? would love to meet up!
whats up ! I'd love to meet up with other Bi guys in Colorado .

[Kysquire]

I too am married.Came out to wife a couple of years ago.She knows and has no problem with my past but is not into playing and won't even talk about it.

I am bi and wife knows. She wants no details. There's a lot of us out there!

[buds50]

both bi swingers for 25 years lots of fun together and alone

[NeilThomas]

Yet another, wife knows, not over joyed about it, but aware. Ditto

[Biappeal]

Married, bi and wife knows. She set up a mmf experience to let me know she was cool with my sexual desires.

[BareHunter45]

Axeman...sorry to hear about the negative comment guy...but I will bet you dollars to donuts that we ALL know who it is...LOL

[NakedInSeattle]

And yet another and wife enjoys and plays with sometimes...I bet there are millions of us bi married out there!

[kinkylittledick]

I told my wife when we started dating that I was bi because my ex was threatning to tell. Lucky for me the ex only knew the very few experiences I shared with her about playing with my male cousins. When she made the threat I went straight to my present wife and told her every thing the ex knew about me. I'm glad it was very little. For all the 35 years we've been togher wife has always been ok and at times she set me up with a few of her male friends she thought may be bi.

[cuttin2dachase]

I was a married swinger when my ex-hotwife got me to try sucking cock and getting my cock sucked by men with her watching or helping. Her ulterior motive was having two hard cocks to fuck. I absolutely loved watching her suck and fuck other men and she got off watching me having fun with our male 3some partners. It wasn't long after I fell in love with cock that I began to fantasize about being alone with men without her being there and imagining how erotic it would be to have just man-on sex. I didn't act on those desires until after she and split up over non-sexual issues. We were separated 3 years before divorcing, but even though I didn't consider myself married anymore, I was a bisexual married man. I immediately began seeking other bi married men. I did meet gay men and single bi men too, but I always felt more comfortable with married men who had walked a mile in my shoes, so to speak. I met a few of them that had played with my wife and me in 3somes or 4somes with their wives...and discovered she had also played with some of the same ones alone or had fmf 3somes with them and their wife LOL. I could not believe the number of bi married men that were looking for mm sex....and when I started, it was before the age of the internet and mobile phones. Back then most larger newspapers had a personal ad section and there were hundreds of men finding sex through those ads. I was one of them LOL. Gay magazine personal ads were also used by many many bi married men. I truly believe that there's always been a subculture of literally millions of bi married men looking for other men. The internet and mobile phones made it easier for many curious married men to find who and what they were looking for. Now I'd dare say 3 to 5 married men out of every 10 are secretly bi and active in the bi married subculture....and probably another 2 out of the 10 are curious about it. Like ol ZZ Top said...we bad and we nationwide ! LOL

[Versdoc26]

For those of you whose wives know, how do you balance your sexual attraction to men? Are you in an open relationship? Or you monogamous? If you are, how do you just shut down your want to have sex with men? Hiding my sexuality cost me one marriage and I don't want to repeat the same mistake again.

[SilkyHoseLover]

Bi married cross-dresser here. My wife knows of, and approves of, all aspects of my sexuality. She's not crazy about my desire for cock or my cross-dressing, but she is wonderfully understanding and lets me be me...

Like cuttin2dachase, we were swingers for a short time, and seeing her with another man is what eventually led me to wanting to suck cock. She didn't 'encourage' it, though. (Wish she had -- if it were a turn-on for her, I'd be sucking cock as often as humanly-possible! :oh:)

[billblueeyes]

Bi, married, and wife knows.

[Oztrich]

I am VERY bisexual, and VERY married! She knows and also knows when I am seeing my sex partner.

[Oztrich]

For those of you whose wives know, how do you balance your sexual attraction to men? Are you in an open relationship? Or you monogamous? If you are, how do you just shut down your want to have sex with men? Hiding my sexuality cost me one marriage and I don't want to repeat the same mistake again.

My wife knows, and I have a regular male partner. I do not hide it at all. When my guy and I are seeing each other she knows, and is often in the next room, or somewhere else in the house. My wife has a male partner as well. She, likewise, does not hide it when she is seeing him.

[two2play]

Count me in

[rrunnz]

Me too

[fresh6869]

Me too!

[Shefford]

No , wife has no idea . Just turned 60 have been into it for a year. We had a very good sex life but she has totally lost the desire . So I hit the ABS and have discovered I love sucking cock .

[curiousonfire]

I am married and wife has no clue. Still haven't had my first experience yet, but have been fantasizing about it for decades. Hoping to change that very soon

[InkDoc]

Since stepping back into the bi scene after a long hiatus -- a typical, late-middle-age pattern, I've found -- I've been surprised at the number of bi guys out there, married, otherwise attached or single. Great big ol' world of bi guys. And, this is just a personal preference, but I like playing with married guys because they're usually safe, sane and discrete. Don't like a lot of drama. Scheduling can be difficult, but it's worth it to avoid drama.

[two2tango]

Bi married here wife was there first time i sucked, her idea actually. Only one ive sucked so far hoping to try again soon.

[oldoralman]

I'm Bi and my wife knows and accepts it. She doesn't even seem to mind if I tell her I need some cock. She will not participate or watch but we have a good relationship.

[stonebow]

Both my lady and I are bi. Have had many wonderful experiences with threesomes, foursomes and one on one.

[Cuiriousmark]

We are here in Portland OR :-) Let me know who else is

[iwantmore]

Count me as a married bi with wife approval. I've had one mild mmf play with another couple who we are friends with also play bi with wife and toys.

[PabloPicasso]

Count me in. Wife doesnt know. Had an experience when about 16. Loved sucking that cock.Then heterosexual marriage until the bi part has come out again. Looking for a friend in South Florida (Fort Lauderdale) message me!!

[Eastrenbi]

Bi and married. Wife knows I've had some experiences with guys before we met but not that I still want to and still do sometimes.

A few times during extremely drunk sex she's really got off on the idea of me sucking and being fucked while another guy (or guys) are fucking her. It's been hot as hell but then 'forgotten' or off limits to talk about when sober.

I love the idea of her watching me suck & fuck while she does likewise...here's hoping it happens one day

[bicuck3some]

hi, live a bi couple in slovakia or cz...looking for sucking

[BiGuyCO]

Another right here �� and the wife is bi as well

[Hornychimp67]

Another right here �� and the wife is bi as well

Bi married here

[Hornychimp67]

Bi and Married . Not out to my wife, but im pretty sure she has her suspicions. She doesn't know about my FWB

[Coconut-Joe]

Me too , wife knows .

[NJwood]

I am married and out to my wife. She knew before we married and loved it.

[mr bill]

i am another.

[williamg]

Bi-curious married. Wife does not know. I say bi-curious because I've not played with another guy yet. My wife does fuck me with our strapons pretty often so I want to feel a real cock in me.

[Leo Rabbit]

(Raises hand) Yes!

[NJwood]

Yup. Told my wife when were dating, that’s why she’s my wife��

[phoenix65]

Wife knows...won’t fuck me with a strap-on. Need a friend.

[BrokenQuill]

You can count me in as married. I mentioned it to the wife as part of pillow talks and got shot down in flames! She is definitely not on board.

[ben6969]

Married and wife knows and likes it!

[twilde1952]

Married Yes! Bisexual? or just horny. Ever fantasize kneeling behind a beautiful ass and imagine penetrating his or her anus very slowly and then fucking like a porn star. Is that bisexual or just horny?

[Curious20902]

Married but wife doesn't know.

[wifekinky4husband]

Aha! Saved a friend and her husband - here is a good reason for good quality pictures. She recently found out he was into bisexual porn and wanting to reach out to couples about bisex. They have been swingers for a short while but very cautious. With covid it all but stopped them. She of course freaked when she found out what he was fantasizing about. I spoke with her about it reasoning all the benefits of it and of course talking her through all her down side. She finally did say having more cock would be a huge benefit and that she never enjoyed him doing other women. Then I let her in on our situation. She was stunned. After thinking about it she didn't believe me, not us, not my husband, no way. So I showed her picture perfect proof. I saw her nipples get so hard her shirt was unable to hide them. So I invited her over to watch us with one of our couples. She wound up having to tend to herself. And that was just the oral portion. When me and the other wife spread my husband for her's and his penis begin entering my man, our friend was so close up my husband could feel her panting on his backside. She wanted to touch and help out but we told her that could only happen with us if her husband was there. We don't cheat or hide anything. So far she is open to the idea, still not sure how she will react when it becomes the real deal but she is trying RP with him to see how it might all work. So far so good. Oh and BTW she has been over two more times to watch.

So now she knows, she is married and her husband is bi interested.

[NWMichCPL]

Married and bi, yes my wife knows, ex-wife knew also. We (current wife) have had bi threesomes (she is str8), both wives knew before we were married.
My ex and I had swinging friends (hubby wasn’t bi) but his wife was curious and the ex and her did have fun in a foursome setting, but apparently the ex couldn’t make up her mind about her own bisexuality and was extremely jealous and fluctuated between yes she wants to and no it goes against her upbringing. After coming home from a tour of duty overseas she shut down all sex between us (we hadn’t done any swinging after her last melt down) and soon divorced, which turned in a life lesson, never stick your cock in crazy.
My current wife loves watching bi and gay porn with me and as I said we have had threesomes were she is the center of attention and enjoys watching two men having sex. Rule is we play together or no play and that’s fine. Communication is key for us to enjoy our retired lifestyle.

[oldoralman]

Me too and my wife knows too, though she won't join in the fun she seems ok with it.

[querty]

Married 30 years and Bi. Wife is straight. She knows I am Bi, and has known about my activities and my level of "bi" (i.e., not into kissing or cuddling). She is not interested in participating or knowing any details. This is not to be interpreted in any way as homophobic or intolerent of LGBTetc sexuaities. Quite the opposite in both her words and actions.

When I sorta came out to her several years into our happy marriage, she was not happy about it. I have since learned it caused her a great deal of emotional turmoil that took her a few years to work through. I suspect it was not that she was put off by my being Bi as much as feeling deceived. "I thought I married and straight man". I tried to explain that my bi-sexuality was wholly 'inactive' when we met. Truly not on my mind and not an interest. Just...not there.

As a teenager I was very curious and got close to acting on it but chickened out. When I was a teen, it was not uncommon for a non-straight person to be found beat up half dead in an alley just for their sexuality. It was certainly a fast path to ostracization. And at the time most people believed you could catch AIDS just by being in the same room as a gay man.

Then in my late thirties, early forties, my bi-sexuality came began to resurface. This seems to be a common experience for middle aged people, which has fascinated me always. That's when I hinted to the wife that I had an interest, and led to the above.

I am not out to most people that know me, not even my swinger friends, nor some of my LGBT friends. And no way my family. I still feel the stigma, and dont want to deal with anyone's judgements. For '21, a goal of mine is to me more authentic (I don't do resolutions, they are too binary and doomed to be abandoned on the first misstep). We will see where that leads me as far as being "out".

Sorta a rambling response, but there you have it

[MAcpl69]

Married 30 years and Bi. Wife is straight. She knows I am Bi, and has known about my activities and my level of "bi" (i.e., not into kissing or cuddling). She is not interested in participating or knowing any details. This is not to be interpreted in any way as homophobic or intolerent of LGBTetc sexuaities. Quite the opposite in both her words and actions.

When I sorta came out to her several years into our happy marriage, she was not happy about it. I have since learned it caused her a great deal of emotional turmoil that took her a few years to work through. I suspect it was not that she was put off by my being Bi as much as feeling deceived. "I thought I married and straight man". I tried to explain that my bi-sexuality was wholly 'inactive' when we met. Truly not on my mind and not an interest. Just...not there.

As a teenager I was very curious and got close to acting on it but chickened out. When I was a teen, it was not uncommon for a non-straight person to be found beat up half dead in an alley just for their sexuality. It was certainly a fast path to ostracization. And at the time most people believed you could catch AIDS just by being in the same room as a gay man.

Then in my late thirties, early forties, my bi-sexuality came began to resurface. This seems to be a common experience for middle aged people, which has fascinated me always. That's when I hinted to the wife that I had an interest, and led to the above.

I am not out to most people that know me, not even my swinger friends, nor some of my LGBT friends. And no way my family. I still feel the stigma, and dont want to deal with anyone's judgements. For '21, a goal of mine is to me more authentic (I don't do resolutions, they are too binary and doomed to be abandoned on the first misstep). We will see where that leads me as far as being "out".

Sorta a rambling response, but there you have it
Somewhat similar situation for me but she has accepted the idea and even started to consider the idea of recreational sex. She has gotten into anal sex, both giving and receiving, and has discussed playing with another woman. Can wait till this virus shit is done so we can play.

[Tristate275]

Raise my hand !!

[missn3njerry]

bi, married and she knows.....sometimes she teases me about being a cocksucker - she is accepting of my sexuality tho she is straight

[Geoff Gregg]

Bi married here as well. She knows of my interest and has hinted she would maybe like to watch. Being hopeful it will happen one day and she will enjoy watching me suck some cock and then fuck me good as a reward.

[Jozyxt]

Bi married here as well. She knows of my interest and has hinted she would maybe like to watch. Being hopeful it will happen one day and she will enjoy watching me suck some cock and then fuck me good as a reward.

Bi and married here too. It would be so hot to have my wife watch. Either with me sucking or being sucked. I'd be happy if she jumped in too. I'd also like to have another man's wife watch as well.

Either way, it would be even better if she talked about us while we were having fun. Or asked us to do things for her amusement.

[JeffT]

Bisexual and married but haven't come out to my wife. She knows I love being pegged with one of her vibrators and is intrigued by the intensity of prostate orgasms.

[Rest85]

I'm orally bi. It's the only thing I am interested in with another guy, for me to serve him, no recip. I was married and my wife didn't know but I think she suspected, having found some gay porn history that I forgot to clear on our shared computer years ago.
My present gf doesn't know and I am totally in the closet about my secret side. None of my friends or family knows. I am very straight acting.

I, too, would like to know how many of us are out there. I suppose the reason I want to know is that would feel comforted to know it's more 'normal' than I expect, though I actually like the idea that we are in the minority. I like to serve straight married men and would like to think there is an abundance of opportunity out there for my type.

[Rest85]

Married and wife knows and likes it!

Lucky you!!

[The Chunkly]

Yep that's me.
Wife says no sex now ever as she has gone off it.

I enjoy sucking dick a lot.
She knows.
She is ok with that.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I know that I replied to this a long time ago, but my situation has been a bit updated...

- I am married, 50 years
- wife still enjoys sex, and has kinks of her own
- I have evolved over the years and embraced bisexuality in the past dozen or so years (haven't had a lot of experience, though...)
- wife knows that I enjoy sucking cock, and allows me to occasionally play with other men (& gurls!)
- wife has accepted my desire to crossdress, and even buys me gurly things at Christmas & my birthday

I am a lucky, lucky person...

[lostinqueens]

I'm happily married but have been growing more curious over the years. I've done anything about it other that a sensual massage but hope to do more someday.

[tryinbi]

Yep, married but don't act on it anymore, sure do miss it though, I know one thing, if I ever find myself single again, which I doubt, I'm not even bothering with women anymore unless she is good with a bi guy, if not oh well, there's plenty of fun to be had with out a woman lol

[Riderinthestorm]

Add me to the count.

[ClassicPaCpl]

I am!!! But I guess thats why I am here... Because Im BI.... Wife knows and loves it
Friends and family dont know and thats fine

[Cum1st]

I'm Bi and she knows it, but it doesn't come up,

Sex for me is self serve, but I am Bi.

[Bottomhubby]

Married bi and out to my bi wife. We date exclusively same sex. No three somes hettosex is just for us.

[knightnstlouis]

Here married not out

[Bi_paolo]

I have recently ‘come out’ to my best friend, a bisexual girl.
I haven’t even told my wife. She knows I have experimented in the past but I am finally comfortable enough to say I am bisexual.
would love to chat to some others about your experiences