First Kiss

[80guitarguy]

So I made out with a guy for the first time last week and it was great. But I'm confused because the second time, not so great. It could have been cause the beer and cigarette breath, could have been his lips, could have just been him....in any case, anyone have any advice???? I've never done anything sexually with a man before so this is all new to me. I think I've got a lot of mental blocks since all my past relationships have only been with women? Where can I go to experiment????

[adamjomith]

well, I think the rule of thumb is to make yourself comfortable with a person. Do not force your self to learn or experience something either with a guy or a gal. If you find the right person, you usually do not find reasons to like or dislike that person.

[citystyleguy]

So I made out with a guy for the first time last week and it was great. But I'm confused because the second time, not so great. It could have been cause the beer and cigarette breath, could have been his lips, could have just been him....in any case, anyone have any advice???? I've never done anything sexually with a man before so this is all new to me. I think I've got a lot of mental blocks since all my past relationships have only been with women? Where can I go to experiment????

hey,

gotta say that those road blocks are a thing of the past; you've kissed your first guy!!!,

...and from the way you write about it, pretty damn passionately! ...and then the second time, no where near the same; i would say you suffer from the initial thrill of the first time, and the next time will often suffer from the comparison.

i wouldn't put a lot into the disappointment; hell, there is bound to be some of that in any encounter. just don't focus on the let down, and give it a couple of more try's, or up the ante to the next step, as you and your partner are comfortable doing. if after several encounters, and pfft! well, maybe the guy just isn't what you want, so look out for another encounter, just don't try too hard!

keep us posted; you will get plenty of advice from this great group of people!

[eddy10]

Were both dates with the same guy?

[mikey3000]

Nothing beats your first gay kiss. Nothing! :bigrin:

[AsianDream]

Nothing beats your first gay kiss. Nothing! :bigrin:

I'd agree that the first mouth to mouth contact is Hot - but I'm fairly sure that the first mouth to anus experience beats this hands down - though both are amazing sensual experiences

[mikey3000]

Been on the giving and receiving end of more rim jobs than I can count, and yes very nice, but still not as magical as face to face contact for me.